Annoying housemates

blacklilly

Ok I live with 3 other women. Ranging in age from 25 to 45 and they do my head in most of the time.
The 25 year old has absolutely no social skills, id incredibly rude alot of the time and also as boring as hell.
The 30 yr old never cleans up and throws a giddy fit when I tell her its her turn.
The 45 year old has dumps all her personal crap on me.
As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.
Would move but house is lovely and great location.
Anyone else have annoying house mates?

miller50841

Spike there drinks might cheer them up :D:D JOKE

Sounds like you defo need to leave get somewhere on your own you won't change them and I would say they love you been there cleaning up after them

Sauve

blacklilly wrote: »

As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.

That's why you come onto a public forum to slate your housemates? What if somebody on here knows you?

Jesus Shaves

Maybe you're the one who annoys them?

kfallon

You're living with too many people, time to move imo

huey1975

Yeah I live with my wife and our two year old son. He's normally sound enough but she is liable to piss me off sometimes.

mauzo

Wonder what they say about you? :P

DerekDGoldfish

I now live alone when I previously lived in shared accomodation I shared with an individual who had a few "quirks"

-I found his mouldy bread in the bread bin and through it out, he was anoyed as "You can make alcohol from mouldy bread"
-He lived on the scraps of what other people in the house ate and on occasion took food I had put in the bin and ate it
-He came down the stairs one morning with a large swastica(sp) drawn on his hand when I asked him what the hell he was doing he said "The Zionists had ruined his country (he was greek) "

crazy cabbage

Sounds like ye all need to have a cuple of pints

3ndahalfof6

while reading it I thought this line was going to finish,

The 45 year old has dumps all over the place,


at least you got to fit crap into that one also.

woof im a dog

one of my flatmates leaves clipped toe nails everywhere its rotten

shedweller

Rent a house they said. It'll be great they said!

kfallon

huey1975 wrote: »

Yeah I live with my wife and our two year old son. He's normally sound enough but she is liable to piss me off sometimes.

That's what your son said about her too

blacklilly

Sauve wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.

That's why you come onto a public forum to slate your housemates? What if somebody on here knows you?

My real name isn't blacklilly, so I'm safe

blacklilly

syndeyfife wrote: »

Wonder what they say about you? :P

I'd imagine its only nice things

hondasam

Rent a one bed apartment no one to bother you then. I don't understand people who share and then expect everyone to live by their rules.

Knex*

blacklilly wrote: »

My real name isn't blacklilly, so I'm safe

Being so specific with their ages may not have been the smartest idea

blacklilly

blacklilly wrote: »

Would move but house is lovely and great location.

Oh really? Where is it, thinking of moving myself.

blacklilly

Knex. wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

My real name isn't blacklilly, so I'm safe

Being so specific with their ages may not have been the smartest idea

I think I'll be ok, anyway the 25 year old probably doesn't know they lack social skills, the 45 year old probably thinks I love listening to her. As for the 30 year old, she knows her lack of cleaning annoys me.

We don't argue or anything but we're just all very different.

blacklilly

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

Would move but house is lovely and great location.

Oh really? Where is it, thinking of moving myself.

It's a lovely house on the yellow brick road

kfallon

blacklilly wrote: »

We don't argue or anything but we're just all very different.

No you just cut the back off them on the internet instead

biko

blacklilly wrote: »

As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.

Since you come on a public forum to bitch about your house mates I will take that with a pinch of salt

blacklilly

kfallon wrote: »

No you just cut the back off them on the internet instead

Ah come on cut me some slack, I'm not saying they're bad people or anything just they tend to get on my nerves.
For instance last Thursday I didn't get in from work until 11pm and I was shattered, the eldest house mate starts going on and on about her personal stuff. I honestly don't mind listening to people etc but surely she should have had some sense to realise it wasn't a great time.

hondasam

blacklilly wrote: »

I think I'll be ok, anyway the 25 year old probably doesn't know they lack social skills, the 45 year old probably thinks I love listening to her. As for the 30 year old, she knows her lack of cleaning annoys me.

We don't argue or anything but we're just all very different.

Have you thought it might be you that's wrong here?

Do they get on with each other?

blacklilly

biko wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.

Since you come on a public forum to bitch about your house mates I will take that with a pinch of salt

No really, I'm very normal and sound:P

blacklilly

blacklilly wrote: »

Ah come on cut me some slack, I'm not saying they're bad people or anything just they tend to get on my nerves.
For instance last Thursday I didn't get in from work until 11pm and I was shattered, the eldest house mate starts going on and on about her personal stuff. I honestly don't mind listening to people etc but surely she should have had some sense to realise it wasn't a great time.

She obviously considers you enough of a friend to confide in you. Pretty wrong really isn't she!

hondasam

blacklilly wrote: »

No really, I'm very normal and sound:P

Ya so now we are all wrong and you are right. Do you see a pattern here? You sure it's not you?

Gummy Panda

blacklilly wrote: »

Ok I live with 3 other women. Ranging in age from 25 to 45 and they do my head in most of the time.
The 25 year old has absolutely no social skills, id incredibly rude alot of the time and also as boring as hell.
The 30 yr old never cleans up and throws a giddy fit when I tell her its her turn.
The 45 year old has dumps all her personal crap on me.
As for me I'm very normal and totally sound.
Would move but house is lovely and great location.
Anyone else have annoying house mates?

Have you tried sexual wrestling as problem resolution tool?

blacklilly

hondasam wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

I think I'll be ok, anyway the 25 year old probably doesn't know they lack social skills, the 45 year old probably thinks I love listening to her. As for the 30 year old, she knows her lack of cleaning annoys me.

We don't argue or anything but we're just all very different.

Have you thought it might be you that's wrong here?

Do they get on with each other?

It's not that we don't get along but none of us would be friends as such.

Dangerous Man

Stop with all the talky-talk OP and just have sex with them. Come back with pics / video.

hondasam

blacklilly wrote: »

It's not that we don't get along but none of us would be friends as such.

In that case why not just do your own thing and let them do theirs.
Coming on here bitching about them only serves to make you look bad and them look like saints to put up with you. Sorry.

kfallon

This thread isn't going as well as you hoped OP, eh?

blacklilly

hondasam wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

It's not that we don't get along but none of us would be friends as such.

In that case why not just do your own thing and let them do theirs.
Coming on here bitching about them only serves to make you look bad and them look like saints to put up with you. Sorry.

Haha I think you're taking this all a bit too seriously.
They just get on my nerves sometimes and I'm having a little rant, is that not allowed?

hondasam

kfallon wrote: »

This thread isn't going as well as you hoped OP, eh?

why do people assume they can come on here post crap about housemates or what ever and we will all think it's funny.
It usually makes them look bad not the other way round.

blacklilly

kfallon wrote: »

This thread isn't going as well as you hoped OP, eh?

No not at all:( I am a nice person, I swear

kfallon

blacklilly wrote: »

No not at all:( I am a nice person, I swear

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, I'll put it down to a bad day!

hondasam

blacklilly wrote: »

Haha I think you're taking this all a bit too seriously.
They just get on my nerves sometimes and I'm having a little rant, is that not allowed?

Sorry next time maybe include in your op that you are not perfect either and don't make everyone else out to be bitches.

Dangerous Man

Where's Duggy?

Gummy Panda

Deleted User wrote: »

She obviously considers you enough of a friend to confide in you. Pretty wrong really isn't she!

In all fairness, some people can be emotionally draining by constantly going on about their personal issues.

kfallon

Gummy Panda wrote: »

In all fairness, some people can be emotionally draining by constantly going on about their personal issues.

It's just the menopause, she'll be grand

Gummy Panda

Gummy Panda wrote: »

In all fairness, some people can be emotionally draining by constantly going on about their personal issues.

I fully agree. But I tend not to bitch about them behind their backs!

Sauve

hondasam wrote: »

why do people assume they can come on here post crap about housemates or what ever and we will all think it's funny.
It usually makes them look bad not the other way round.

Jaysis - chill will ya.

blacklilly

hondasam wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

Haha I think you're taking this all a bit too seriously.
They just get on my nerves sometimes and I'm having a little rant, is that not allowed?

Sorry next time maybe include in your op that you are not perfect either and don't make everyone else out to be bitches.

Does anyone consider themselves to be perfect?
I take it no one ever annoys you?
These people are not friends btw, I just happen to share a house with them that's all.

blacklilly

blacklilly wrote: »

Does anyone consider themselves to be perfect?
I take it no one ever annoys you?
These people are not friends btw, I just happen to share a house with them that's all.

Ah in fairness, I think it was just because you were so specific with their ages that people think they'll see it and get upset. We know you were only having a bit of fun really.

blacklilly

kfallon wrote: »

It's just the menopause, she'll be grand

At least someone has a sense of humor

mackg

+1 on sexual wrestling

gara

blacklilly wrote: »

I am a nice person, I swear

I've never once in my life heard a truly nice person say that

hondasam

blacklilly wrote: »

At least someone has a sense of humor

If you stated in your OP you were going through the menopause I would have cut you some slack. Sorry are you taking anything to help with the symptoms?

Sinfonia

hondasam wrote: »

If you stated in your OP you were going through the menopause I would have cut you some slack. Sorry are you taking anything to help with the symptoms?

You are such a downer.

blacklilly

hondasam wrote: »

blacklilly wrote: »

At least someone has a sense of humor

If you stated in your OP you were going through the menopause I would have cut you some slack. Sorry are you taking anything to help with the symptoms?

My doctor told me to rant about my housemates on boards, said that would help....he was wrong

kfallon

blacklilly wrote: »

At least someone has a sense of humor

Not sure anyone wants my sense of humour tho