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BDSM pornography

  • 24-07-2012 12:39am
    #1
    cloud493
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,835 ✭✭✭✭


    This is something i've been thinking about for ages now, thought I'd come here for a bit of discussion.

    The art of bondage, BDSM, whatever you call it, its great, if your into it. You let your girlfriend/boyfriend/other half, tie you up, for sexual pleasure. Super. There's presumably a level of trust between the two parties, otherwise you wouldn't let them make you helpless, in such a way. Its almost a test of a relationship, regardless of whether you'd do it regularly, letting your partner make you helpless shows trust. Great stuff so far.

    But what about Bondage pornography? That's just something I don't quite get the dynamics of. In a relationship between two people, like I said, the trust creates the right atmosphere for the two parties to, you know, engage in such activities. In pornography, clearly, unless you happen to know your friendly neighborhood porn producer, you won;t. What's to stop these porn producers from keeping you forever? Selling you into the sex trade? The level of trust obviously won't be there.

    Mental stuff.


Comments

  • #2
    CodyJarrett
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 307 ✭✭CodyJarrett


    Chains and walnut whips excite me.


  • #3
    Tigger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    The passives would probably like that

    Bdsm is a little kinky for some but its life for others


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Bit like getting in a taxi, ya never know if you're gonna get home or wake up in a bathtub of ice with a kidney gone.


  • #5
    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    There's a brand of protein called BSN that I awkwardly confused and asked for BDSM about a year ago. One of the most embarrassing slip ups I've made.


    And that's all I have to say, about that.


  • #6
    Sar_Bear
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,555 ✭✭✭Sar_Bear


    You've thought about this way too much..


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  • #7
    Super-Rush
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Tbf that could happen in any form of porn.


  • #8
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    nothing like a whip and a can of oil to spice things up in the bedroom


  • #9
    Tombi!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    Oh we just gag them, just incase they try screaming for help.


  • #10
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    nothing like a whip and a can of oil to spice things up in the bedroom

    I prefer paprika for spicing things up myself.


  • #11
    CodyJarrett
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 307 ✭✭CodyJarrett


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I prefer paprika for spicing things up myself.

    That stuff's a killer on the ole jap's eye though.

    Which is why I've been barred from my local Japanese take-away.


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  • #12
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I prefer paprika for spicing things up myself.

    I dont want paprika anywhere near my bollocks


  • #13
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    CodyJarrett wrote: »
    That stuff's a killer on the ole jap's eye though.

    Which is why I've been barred from my local Japanese take-away.

    Japrika


  • #14
    MaxSteele
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,109 ✭✭✭MaxSteele


    I'll take a bit of ankle teasing from a woman in a head to toe depression era dress any day. *shivers* :)


  • #15
    Samich
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭Samich


    I blame Rihanna, the sluh!


  • #16
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    CodyJarrett wrote: »
    That stuff's a killer on the ole jap's eye though.
    Well I dunno what kind of BDSM doesn't involve agonising pain but it ain't what I'm into.


  • #17
    Samich
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭Samich


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Well I dunno what kind of BDSM doesn't involve agonising pain but it ain't what I'm into.

    What else are you "into" then? ;) Pics please :D


  • #18
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Samich wrote: »
    What else are you "into" then? ;) Pics please :D

    I'm fat and bald, just draw a couple of circles and use your imagination.


  • #19
    Samich
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭Samich


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I'm fat and bald, just draw a couple of circles and use your imagination.

    Hard to do BDSM with that alright :P


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