Ever fallen in love..

HOS 1997

With someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

MaxSteele

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyQca1cwe54

:cool:

cocoshovel

What is this "love" emotion you speak of?

kfallon

Merged with "Debs" thread :pac:

Sunnyisland

HOS 1997 wrote: »

Ever fallen in love..With someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

Everytime

mauzo

Lust YES, Love...no!

HowAreWe

OP 1st cousins are okay , just not 2nd cousins.

Sauve

Love is silly carry on :cool:

Oranage2

Love that tune

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bif2q_Zo3-4

Chuck Stone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGPyUSVtpZM

johnayo

Love is a terrible thing,
It makes a man a fool,
It takes away his appetite,
And wears away his tool.:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Hardonraging

Yes it was quite pleasant also, for a while ... until the inevitable happened ... i still miss her to this day, but i know she's not far away from me, and if i ever dig up the patio we'll be together again ...

Biggins

HOS 1997 wrote: »

Ever fallen in love.. With someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

My first wife. Ended in divorce.
Second wife I struck gold. Consider myself very lucky second time around.

DEFTLEFTHAND

Sometimes it happens with the person you least expect. My girlfriend and I were friends for a long period before hooking up.

charlemont

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hcJNdMT7nbc

Sums it all up really.

Where To

A stripper.

Washington Irving

cocoshovel wrote: »

What is this "love" emotion you speak of?

If you don't know what it is, how did you know it was an emotion?

yizorselves

Saul-Goode9 wrote: »

If you don't know what it is, how did you know it was an emotion?

Probably googled it Duh!

This is the internet we're on here!

Mcfly Hello!!!

Just rustled your Jimmies

Overheal

Yes OP and I was thinking about that recently in fact. She was manipulative about it too, and attention seeking. Brought out the worst parts of me. But you can't help too much who you fall in love with. I can at least acknowledge I got to see one of the worst sides of it and thats something I can hopefully take to my advantage when I do in fact meet someone whose actually worth my time.

Eve_Dublin

Sure did! Although it was great at the time and it ended on good terms. It just wasn't meant to be!

Shryke

Sure I have. Nothing but misery. Teaches you a hell of a lot though so it was worth it for the life experience. Something everyone probably goes through.

Napper Hawkins

It's worth giving it a shot whenever you get the chance. If it lasts, fair play and good luck. If it fails, you learn something. Win/win imo. Getting over it the first time is a tough one though.

God...

How could one ever forget... was 19 and it took me at least 5 years to actually get over it fully looking back now!!
Worst feeling ever.

RumDrinker

Yes.

Ms.M

Weirdly, nope. Never got my heart-broken, never got dumped, never dumped anyone either. I think I'm very lucky!

biko

There is a connection between the title and this video.

bfocusd

Where To wrote: »

A stripper.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNvio92xvck&feature=youtube_gdata_player

RumDrinker

Ms.M wrote: »

Weirdly, nope. Never got my heart-broken, never got dumped, never dumped anyone either. I think I'm very lucky!

I think it's boring.

anewme

I lost my heart to a starship trooper.

Ms.M

RumDrinker wrote: »

I think it's boring.

Well you're not there when I'm acting out unrequited love scenarios with a hair-dryer and mirror to the tune of Total Eclipse of The Heart. And then sobbing into my pillow; "Don't leave me!"
Yea, now! Compete with that!


p.s And how is heart-break exciting or dynamic? It seems pretty miserable and tragic.

cruais

Ms.M wrote: »

Weirdly, nope. Never got my heart-broken, never got dumped, never dumped anyone either. I think I'm very lucky!

Are you a virgin or did you strike it lucky with the first guy you met and still goin strong?

RumDrinker

Ms.M wrote: »

It seems pretty miserable and tragic.

Some people prefer to spend their lives like a goldfish in a glass ball - safe and boring, while others enjoy variety of experiences.

Ms.M

cruais wrote: »

Are you a virgin or did you strike it lucky with the first guy you met and still goin strong?

Oh no, I feel I've misrepresented myself. I get why the other poster might of thought it was boring now ...

So it went like this...

Slutty... slutty ... slutty ... fell in love... married

I actively avoided commitment because I thought I was too young and also as a young one I was very distrustful of men-folk under the age of about 25. So waited until I got to an age where I could date the older men without thinking they were durt burds for wanting to date me.

And I struck gold!

Ms.M

RumDrinker wrote: »

Some people prefer to spend their lives like a goldfish in a glass ball - safe and boring, while others enjoy variety of experiences.

Judgmental much?
You sound like a barrel of laughs yourself...

CodyJarrett

Yup, the girl who works in the local sex shop.

Was so obsessed that I bought a rubber penis from her one day and the next day brought it back and told her I couldn't get it out of the box. So she tried to but also couldn't remove it either but the game was up when I shot my load all over her and she realised that it was my own cock now in the box she'd been pulling.

RumDrinker

Ms.M wrote: »

Judgmental much?
You sound like a barrel of laughs yourself...

No need to get personal.

I am entitled to my opinion and I'm gonna say what I think whether you like it or not, get over it.

Ms.M

RumDrinker wrote: »

No need to get personal.

I am entitled to my opinion and I'm gonna say what I think whether you like it or not, get over it.

Me, get personal? :eek:
You quoted me saying I was lucky I've never dumped someone or been dumped and stated it was "boring", then you quoted me and went on to say some people chose to live in a glass bowl and be safe and boring. How mean!
"My opinion is that you're boring" is fine, not personal at all while "your being judgmental", "you sound like a barrel of laughs yourself" is? (The latter is because you were a meanie and didn't seem impressed by my time spent singing Total Eclipse of The Heart to imagined dramatic Home and Away-esque scenarios)

Ok so. My opinion is that you're being judgmental. Will that do?

Let's hug it out dude.
Just hug it out!

YouTookMyName

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zlViU5PBPY

RumDrinker

Ms.M wrote: »

"My opinion is that you're boring"

I think you are overreacting. I also think you are twisting my words.

Let me re-iterate:

All I said was that "I think it's boring" which means that IN MY OPINION living without going through good as well as bad things is boring.


That's all.

Whether you take the above statement personally (as referring to your lifestyle directly) or not - is not really my problem. If you don't like reading opinions that differ to your vision of the perfect world - is also not my problem.

Let me end this ridiculous "conversation" and if you have anything else to add you can PM me.

Elmer Blooker

the difference between men and women.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kUH34iqK7cI

Ms.M

I think you are overreacting.

No, you're overreacting, my posts are quite calm and banterful...
I haven't taken anything you've said personally at all. I'm pretty sure it was the other way around. Sorry if I caused offence. It's a pity we couldn't hug it out. I don't PM strangers.
Bye!

Hardonraging

Cant we all just get to there and appreciate the diversity of people for a change , without the use of lables, like slut, manwhore, and douchebag ???

Ms.M

Hardonraging wrote: »

Cant we all just get to there and apprciate the diversity of people for a change , without he use of lables, like slut, manwhore, and douchebag ???

I know what a slut and a manwhore is... but is there a widely held definition for douchebag? Because I'm worried I've been using it wrong

Hardonraging

Ms.M wrote: »

I know what a slut and a manwhore is... but is there a widely held definition for douchebag? Because I'm worried I've been using it wrong

Dont you worry your pretty head about it Ms. M ... ( you should prob change your name to Mrs.M )

Now ill sing the robbie bit of you sing the Nicole parts ... and put a bit of feeling in it ..

Ms.M

Hardonraging wrote: »

Dont you worry your pretty head about it Ms. M ... ( you should prob change your name to Mrs.M )

Now ill sing the robbie bit of you sing the Nicole parts ... and put a bit of feeling in it ..

Ok.

Then can we sing Total Eclipse of The Heart together? And can you pretend you're the love of my life but you've had relations with my sister and I find out on the same day I discover I'm catwoman?
Can ya?
CAN YA?

Hardonraging

Ms.M wrote: »

Ok.

Then can we sing Total Eclipse of The Heart together? And can you pretend you're the love of my life but you've had relations with my sister and I find out on the same day I discover I'm catwoman?
Can ya?
CAN YA?

I cant guarentee i'll be able to hit the high notes...

You're reply is very 50 shades ..... but you can dress up as catwoman any time ..

mauzo

Hardonraging wrote: »

Ms.M wrote: »

Ok.

Then can we sing Total Eclipse of The Heart together? And can you pretend you're the love of my life but you've had relations with my sister and I find out on the same day I discover I'm catwoman?
Can ya?
CAN YA?

I cant guarentee i'll be able to hit the high notes...

You're reply is very 50 shades ..... but you can dress up as catwoman any time ..

Keep it in your pants brah...

And you could definitely hit the high notes lol

Mr Benevolent

cocoshovel wrote: »

What is this "love" emotion you speak of?

This explains a lot.

amacca

Shryke wrote: »

Sure I have. Nothing but misery. Teaches you a hell of a lot though so it was worth it for the life experience. Something everyone probably goes through.

Try three times...some people have a hard time learning their lesson

Fell in love in Secondary..............never even said anything to her I was so shy...that was painful

Fell in Love in college....that was ten years of abject misery and torture....the girl at one point tried to set me up with her cousin (I was speechless and said something weird I'm sure I was so hurt)...watching a series of boyfriends come in and out of the frame felt like it crushed my very soul............used to look forward to just being around her............................I was and still am an incredibly pathetic fool in some regards....you would think I'd have learned my lesson, but no there was no one else for me except her for years afterwards!

Then thought I would grow some stones and got angry and decided myself and relationships and women just weren't going to work out so I gave up and actively avoided any opportunities so painful had living in hope only to have it constantly crushed been................only for a nice girl in work to start flirting with me (or so I thought...genuinely I wasn't imagining it)....so after a long period of hmmming and hawing finally came out of my protective cocoon and asked her out only for her to tell me she had a boyfriend....wtf?.......now I have a thing for her and it seemingly hurts just as bad as it did.................I tried to avoid the whole thing this time and I still ended up getting fcuked up.....what next......if its immaturity then why cant I grow up and be like everyone else?

Now I dont know if I'm sad or angry but I do know definitively that its possible to be hurt much worse than the first time for some but its also possible to fall in love with more than just one too and tbh I'm not sure if thats a good thing.....................tbh at this stage I'm wondering if love is just a complete illusion and you could go out onto the street and pick someone at random who looks fairly acceptable, is mentally fairly stable and make yourself fall in love with them

The human condition eh?.......................gotta hate it!