Personality vs Looks

girl in the striped socks

Bad Panda wrote: »

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

I'm curvy.
But I'm not fat.
Whoops made a great reference to Kelly brook.

A lot women describe themselves as curvy when they're actually fat/obese.

Post some pictures for clarification.

I'd rather not. And I don't know how.
I'm not fat or obese. But if I wear certain clothes I can look fat or pregnant.
The joys of big knockers.





No, no pics. And I really don't know how to post them anyway.

Where To

Bad Panda wrote: »

I'm so gorgeous they put me under arrest!

You spelted dirty old man wrong.

marshbaboon

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

I'd rather not. And I don't know how.
I'm not fat or obese. But if I wear certain clothes I can look fat or pregnant.
The joys of big knockers.





No, no pics. And I really don't know how to post them anyway.

There's an album on your profile where you can put em.

Gwan I had the guts to do it, and I look like a foot.

B.A._Baracus

Festy wrote: »

Every hole is a goal :cool:

So i should have sex with someones ear? :pac:

Larianne

B.A._Baracus wrote: »

So i should have sex with someones ear? :pac:

No, go for the nostril.

girl in the striped socks

marshbaboon wrote: »

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

I'd rather not. And I don't know how.
I'm not fat or obese. But if I wear certain clothes I can look fat or pregnant.
The joys of big knockers.





No, no pics. And I really don't know how to post them anyway.

There's an album on your profile where you can put em.

Gwan I had the guts to do it, and I look like a foot.

Not a hope.
I spend most of my time hoping people avoid noticing my tits. I'm not going to post a pic of myself.

Bad Panda

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

I'd rather not. And I don't know how.
I'm not fat or obese. But if I wear certain clothes I can look fat or pregnant.
The joys of big knockers.





No, no pics. And I really don't know how to post them anyway.

I wasn't being serious!

marshbaboon

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

Not a hope.
I spend most of my time hoping people avoid noticing my tits. I'm not going to post a pic of myself.

Photoshop them out. Y:pac:

Festy

B.A._Baracus wrote: »

So i should have sex with someones ear? :pac:

Why not.:)

girl in the striped socks

marshbaboon wrote: »

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

Not a hope.
I spend most of my time hoping people avoid noticing my tits. I'm not going to post a pic of myself.

Photoshop them out. Y:pac:

I don't know how to upload photos, I'm on a phone & you want photoshop too????
Boards has gotten very demanding

saa

You can't have sex with someone's personality but you sure can ride an ugly person.

marshbaboon

girl in the striped socks wrote: »

I don't know how to upload photos, I'm on a phone & you want photoshop too????
Boards has gotten very demanding

Don't worry, I have amazingly low standards. You can use ms paint if you wish.

Mr Keek

Give me Cameron Diaz, she's is both very cute, and always comes across as a real down to earth lady who would be great craic to spend a weekend with!

Eathrin

Mr Keek wrote: »

Give me Cameron Diaz, she's is both very cute, and always comes across as a real down to earth lady who would be great craic to spend a weekend with!

Does this have anything to do with the thread topic at all?

Bad Panda

Mr Keek wrote: »

Give me Cameron Diaz, she's is both very cute, and always comes across as a real down to earth lady who would be great craic to spend a weekend with!

I'd like a Lamborghini.

Mr Keek

Eathrin wrote: »

Does this have anything to do with the thread topic at all?

Personality Vs Looks

Why settle, She's a great example of both??


EDIT***** Whoops, I got the wrong impression from the thread. If I had to choose for myself, i'll take half and half so!

Jellicoe

Mr Keek wrote: »

she always comes across as a real down to earth lady

Cripes I wouldn't like to see your version of not down to earth. That passive aggressive act thing doesn't do anything for me.

starlit

I'm in between on this, yes attraction is a first instant for me but personality by a long shot, I need to be able to click and get on with the said person for a mutual interest and mutual attraction to happen and of course some kind of spark.

Corkfeen

Riddle101 wrote: »

Really good looking with no personality. I don't mind her having no personality, makes it easier for me tbh. However if it was a good looking woman with a b!tchy personality, i'd only do her the once and then kick her out:D.

I'd only be with a woman who was ugly with a great personality to make me look good when I stand beside her. Also if I just wanted to chat.

I couldn't help but judge you as I read that.... :P

marshbaboon

doovdela wrote: »

I'm in between on this, yes attraction is a first instant for me but personality by a long shot, I need to be able to click and get on with the said person for a mutual interest and mutual attraction to happen and of course some kind of spark.

You're right. You need both or it doesn't work. Personality adds a huge amount to someone being attractive though.

Vicar in a tutu

There has to be some attraction obviously, but when it boils down to it theres nothing worse than someone good looking that's as dull as dishwater:cool:

Larianne

Larianne wrote: »

No, go for the nostril.

Yummy. http://mercadotv.com.au/uploaded_images/westbrook-786704.jpg

Daveysil15

syndeyfife wrote: »

Yes definitely. Tall and funny, and he could be a munter for all I care!!
Cannot be with a man thats smaller than me, makes him seem less manly. Im 5'10'' so anything around 6' is good! Taller the better

Maybe you should move to Holland.

1ZRed

Ideally I'd like both.
I'm attracted to good looking people like everyone but personality really seals the deal with me. I couldn't get with someone purely based on how good looking they were and ignore their lack of personality. Long term anyway.

Although if their personality is too over the top nice then no, I'd sooner take the hot arrogant asshole over them if only for the night. Overly nice people are just shit in bed.

SusieBlue

It depends really. In general, I'd be won over by a nice guy that isn't so great looking over a gorgeous guy that acted like a dickhead.

I think it depends on the situation, really. If your in a nightclub, its impossible not to be shallow. If a munter comes up to trying to dance with you, you aren't going to be thinking "Well he might be a really nice guy!".

I wasn't initially attracted to my boyfriend at all, but the more I got to know him, and realised how genuinely nice and caring he was, the more attracted to him I became.

A bit of both is nice but I'd probably go for personality over looks.

Daveysil15

1ZRed wrote: »

Overly nice people are just shit in bed.

I don't see how there's a correlation bewteen one's personality and their sexual prowess. Sometimes the nice or quite ones are the ones to look out for. If anything its the people who brag about their ability that are useless.

Whatsernamex33

Once a persons true personality begins to shine through to you, you'll see very little faults in them. Looks and everything. they just become beautiful to you...
I don't know, that's how I've always saw it. So I guess the first one, looks don't compare to a brilliant personality, they all come together in the end I've always felt.

1ZRed

Daveysil15 wrote: »

I don't see how there's a correlation bewteen one's personality and their sexual prowess. Sometimes the nice or quite ones are the ones to look out for. If anything its the people who brag about their ability that are useless.

I mean the really nice, like never a bad thing about them nice types that are bad in bed. Actually bad is the wrong word. Boring usually. I like someone who has an edge that carries on into bed. It's way better and more adventurous I've found plus it's way hotter to me.
I'm not bragging at all. That's just what I like.

Why do you need to be on the look for the nice quiet ones?

cantdecide

1ZRed wrote: »

I mean the really nice, like never a bad thing about them nice types that are bad in bed. Actually bad is the wrong word. Boring usually. I like someone who has an edge that carries on into bed. It's way better and more adventurous I've found plus it's way hotter to me.
I'm not bragging at all. That's just what I like.

Why do you need to be on the look for the nice quiet ones?

So how many really really really nice people have you been to bed with? How did you overcome your fondness for nice ones and make the great leap to bedding the edgy/ adventurous types?

Daveysil15

1ZRed wrote: »

I mean the really nice, like never a bad thing about them nice types that are bad in bed. Actually bad is the wrong word. Boring usually. I like someone who has an edge that carries on into bed. It's way better and more adventurous I've found plus it's way hotter to me.
I'm not bragging at all. That's just what I like.

Why do you need to be on the look for the nice quiet ones?

I'm not saying anyone needs to be on the look out for the nice quite ones, but someone could be very nice or even shy, and still be an animal in bed. A man could be an edgy good looking adventurous bad boy, but still be a pre-mature ejaculator. A good shag for one person may be a terrible shag for another.

BunShopVoyeur

A little from column A, a little from column B.

1ZRed

cantdecide wrote: »

So how many really really really nice people have you been to bed with? How did you overcome your fondness for nice ones and make the great leap to bedding the edgy/ adventurous types?

The odd few and they were in between people I would be more compatible with (on a personality level) so I didn't overcome them or make a leap anywhere. They were more or less ons or casual.

Daveysil15 wrote: »

I'm not saying anyone needs to be on the look out for the nice quite ones, but someone could be very nice or even shy, and still be an animal in bed. A man could be an edgy good looking adventurous bad boy, but still be a pre-mature ejaculator. A good shag for one person may be a terrible shag for another.

But by nature I've found the quiet and shy people are more reserved and not as confident in bed, initially. If they were confident, they wouldn't be shy. Of course I don't get pissed off or anything and take it easier to make them feel more comfortable but with people more outgoing, I never had to and they give me a good challenge, which I like.
That's true about some guys but you could say that about any guy in whatever circumstance to make this sort of argument more valid.
For me, sex is good with good compatibility and if the pair are slightly miss matched then yeah, a good shag for me could be terrible for another but that's a bit of a stupid statement tbh with you man.

Daveysil15

1ZRed wrote: »

For me, sex is good with good compatibility.

Exactly, you have to be compatible. A reserved woman could have a fling with a confident adventurous man, and the sex could still be disappointing for her. Saying that the nice ones are crap is bed is kind of a pointless statement, because as you said, "sex is good with good compatibility."

Scanlas The 2nd

I'd choose good looking for sex and find friends of both gender with good personalities if they were my only two options.

tan11ie

You can't have one without the other....just doesn't work imo.

Scanlas The 2nd

tan11ie wrote: »

You can't have one without the other....just doesn't work imo.

So what would your advice be to ugly people?

Scanlas The 2nd

tan11ie wrote: »

You can't have one without the other....just doesn't work imo.

So what would your advice be to ugly people?

Madam_X

The question was would you be ugly, not just plain/average, or good-looking. I'd go for good-looking for sure if my choice was that limited. But if it was a choice of good-looking and thick, or average-looking and good personality, I'd be the latter every time.

The mens height thing has popped up again - what's the problem with a person having a preference they can't control?

flyswatter

"I can't have sex with your personality and I can't put my penis in your college degree" Jon Lajoie

Ficheall

It's much easier to convince yourself that you have a good personality than to convince yourself that you are good-looking.

kowloon

You can look in a mirror and know you don't look the best, but I'm not sure you can know you have a bad personality. I'm confused now.

Kirby

I'd rather be attractive and stupid.

But then I'm ugly and smart so that would stand to reason. I'm sure the tragically dumb but gorgeous people wish they were smarter. We always want what we don't have.

Everyone has a personality so thats a bit of a nonsense question. When people say a person has "no personality" it really just means they don't like them.

tan11ie

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

So what would your advice be to ugly people?

What one might find ugly another could find beautiful..

Snowie

I like a bit of booth tho any woman can be attractive with a half decent sense of style...

So this thread is some what flawed