The One

nyarlothothep

I was expecting this to be about a real life Neo come to save us all. Dissapointed.

Temptamperu

I dont believe in "the one" but I have met a few people I just wanted to spend time with. Like in 2004 I met a girl on holiday in amsterdam, fell for her in all sorts of ways and so I left my job as a contracts manager and moved to amsterdam to be with her. Sure I lost loads of money but I will always have those five years.

herisson

I dont believe in this idea that there is only one person out there for you. Its utter bullshit tbh. You aren't destined to be stuck with one person for the rest of your life, that they are the only "perfect" person out there for you.

You could fall in love with anyone, and they may not be completely flawless in your eyes but you still love them. Things may fall apart but you will get over it, you will find someone else, its not the end of the world. You are not confined to this one person for the rest of your life, wherever they may be. To me, if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't then its not big deal!

Wacker The Attacker

Human relationships have a natural shelf life.

Once this expires there is little or no point extending the relationship

The_Thing

You humans have such strange ways.

starlit

I really don't know at the moment. I used to believe there was just the 'one' for everyone but that isn't always the case. Some never meet 'the one' some have many 'the one's'. So anything is possible. If it happens it happens, if its meant to be it happen for you at the right time.

You cannot control who you fall for and who fall for you so its not something you can control it just happens? If you love them for who they are and who you are faults and all that is both of you being the true people that ye are. If you are yourself and believe in yourself and that person anything can last a lifetime!

Its no different to having more than one soulmate in a lifetime!? Sometimes you have to have a couple of 'ones' before meeting the 'one' and having and idea that person is in fact your real 'the one'!? Some people never had the one until they meet them! The one for you might not be some other person's one or another person's one might not be for you?

All goes with like for like and level of attraction and how personalities click and how ye get on, common interests, similar views and compatibility and all that but having different interests too to keep things interesting and spicing things up like ying and yang but not total opposites could be a recipe for disaster! We have a type or not but as you get older things changes and you want something different from a relationship.

Try to not to feel hard done by, the one is probably out there just have to find her and she pop up when you least expect it and when life is at its best and busy!

gara

Colmustard wrote: »

Ahhhh is that a heart I hear breaking, you sap. Plenty of fish in the sea

Aww don't be so mean. Who wants to go out with a fish?

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gara wrote: »

Aww don't be so mean. Who wants to go out with a fish?

Other fish.

Winston Payne

Let's give the people who've successfully climbed this particular hill a little sugar eh?*

* = I am not one of those people.