Couples who hold hands & are intimate in public

FatherLen

davet82 wrote: »

the only way i can explain it, its sort of like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=

:rolleyes:

i seeeeee?

hatrickpatrick

I met a girl at the UCD ball one year when I was still a fairly shy fellow, was quite hesitant with her and she eventually said to me "Look, your job is to make me feel embarrassed that we're doing this in public" and shoved my hand into her bra

Eye opening advice. Have far more fun with girls ever since.

Dravokivich

Shivers26 wrote: »

I am on a train right now and the 2 girls sitting opposite me have been snogging the face off each other last hour and a half..... how do you feel about that?

Are they hot? :P

davet82

FatherLen wrote: »

i seeeeee?

why does that never work for me

FatherLen

davet82 wrote: »

why does that never work for me

because you dont put the entire url in the tags just the string at the end.


so in your case nJf8iqBSEmE

gets you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJf8iqBSEmE

I would find arse groping pathetic, but not holding hands.
That just makes me go awwwwww, wonder how long that will last.:D

ejmaztec

Pumpkinseeds wrote: »

My husband and I have been together for 15 years, we always hold hands in public. Not sure what your point is. Are you embarrassed to be seen with your wife or are you emotionally damaged in some way?

His arms might not be long enough to hold hands, due to his missus having to walk twenty yards behind him.:(







:pac:

ShadowHearth

Shivers26 wrote: »

My husband holds my hand all the time in public and I like it. Anything more affectionate than that is for when we are alone (besides maybe a quick kiss goodbye or something).

Just for all the 'I hate PDA's' people - I am on a train right now and the 2 girls sitting opposite me have been snogging the face off each other last hour and a half..... how do you feel about that?

I wonder how long it will take before someone says pics or GTFO :rolleyes:

Nice!

davet82

FatherLen wrote: »

because you dont put the entire url in the tags just the string at the end.

if only i had of talked to you months ago the amount of fails i could have avoided! :pac:

thanks

antodeco

Ive been with my OH nearly 10 years. Still hold hands in public. Still kiss in public (not mill each other out of it or anything, just quick peck on the lips). If you love someone, you are with them the same for life, not just for the 3 months champagne period. You really should hold hands. Bitches love holding hands.

Biggins

ShadowHearth wrote: »

Should I turn off lights when I make "sweet love" to her too?

Hell no, just turn on the webcam and pass us the I.P. address for the video feed! :cool:

copeyhagen

people holding hands in public warrents a thread?!

fook off!!!

nbar12

SEPT 23 1989 wrote: »

Exactly,leave that type of carry on to the Italians

yeah on a serious note, I was in Starbucks on Westmoreland st on the morning of the final day of the tall ships, so there were families with young kids in the place. I'm not messing, I nearly lost my nut with this Italian couple, they were ahead of me and placed their order, they moved over to the side where your man just starting eating her neck, giving her a dirty hickey in front of everyone in the place! If I had to witness this carry on for much longer I would have erupted. I'm actually kind of annoyed with myself for not asking them to tone down their porno because there was young children there. Next time, I won't be so patient!

davet82

nbar12 wrote: »

yeah on a serious note, I was in Starbucks on Westmoreland st on the morning of the final day of the tall ships, so there were families with young kids in the place. I'm not messing, I nearly lost my nut with this Italian couple, they were ahead of me and placed their order, they moved over to the side where your man just starting eating her neck, giving her a dirty hickey in front of everyone in the place! If I had to witness this carry on for much longer I would have erupted. I'm actually kind of annoyed with myself for not asking them to tone down their porno because there was young children there. Next time, I won't be so patient!

i would have stuck the kids in a taxi and asked for a threesome :cool:

mackg

kfallon wrote: »

Holding hands walking down the road is fine (or linking arms I suppose) Was never keen on couples sitting in pubs/restaurants/public areas kissing tho, save it for the privacy of your own home/sex den!

Are you seriously complaining about people kissing in pubs in Ireland? If people stopped kissing in pubs there would be very little kissing done at all. I really don't give a crap about people kissing when they are out together in any other public place either.

The only time I think people should keep a lid on it is if they are in other peoples company, like if four people went to dinner together and two of the four were a couple. Then I think it's just good manners to restrain yourselves.

cynder

My fella isn't into the PDA until his had 6-7 pints, then I can't get him off me. I would love to walk down the street hand in hand. We do walk hand in hand in the beach though. Im not into the whole groping and tonsil hockey but a bit of attention is nice, hand on knee sort of thing.


15 years and counting...

I think 2 oldies walking down the street hand in hand is sweet....

3ndahalfof6

Go the hand holders, down with the foot touching though.

kfallon

mackg wrote: »

Are you seriously complaining about people kissing in pubs in Ireland? If people stopped kissing in pubs there would be very little kissing done at all. I really don't give a crap about people kissing when they are out together in any other public place either.

The only time I think people should keep a lid on it is if they are in other peoples company, like if four people went to dinner together and two of the four were a couple. Then I think it's just good manners to restrain yourselves.

I'm talking quiet pubs on a Saturday afternoon, not pubs/clubs at 2am when everyone is plastered and trying to get their hole and a sticky finger!

ejmaztec

cynder wrote: »

My fella isn't into the PDA until his had 6-7 pints, then I can't get him off me. I would love to walk down the street hand in hand. We do walk hand in hand in the beach though. Im not into the whole groping and tonsil hockey but a bit of attention is nice, hand on knee sort of thing.


15 years and counting...

I think 2 oldies walking down the street hand in hand is sweet....

It usually signifies a rat-arsed couple who would probably fall over in the gutter if they weren't holding each other up.

nbar12

davet82 wrote: »

i would have stuck the kids in a taxi and asked for a threesome :cool:

haha he was one of these slick Italian fcukers and his missus was a cracker! So yeahhhh I'll have to agree with you on that one

Rabidlamb

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Non-veiled your threads are weak post more like.

I'm going through a slump, I promise to make weird sh1t up again on the next one for general hilarity.
My real life problems don't seem to have the same appeal.

1ZRed

This is a non issue. If you're so afraid of showing a small bit of affection in public I can only imagine how that translates into the bedroom

mossy95

Somebodys a little jealous.

1ZRed

1ZRed wrote: »

This is a non issue. If you're so afraid of showing a small bit of affection in public I can only imagine how that translates into the bedroom

"Howiye!


get your knickers off."

BunShopVoyeur

Rabidlamb wrote: »

I find the this activity pathetic, I'm a happily married man but I'd be having the missus checked out if she started getting all lovey lovey in public.
That sort of stuff is only allowed during private sexytime or maybe on a foreign holiday.

We all know that these madly in love couples don't last 3 months anyway.
Once that initial flame dies away they realise they've got nothing
Nothing

Someone just found out their wife's been taking a shot in the meat purse on the sly.

cynder

Bam Bam Mickey wrote: »

1ZRed wrote: »

This is a non issue. If you're so afraid of showing a small bit of affection in public I can only imagine how that translates into the bedroom

"Howiye!


get your knickers off."

So that's how you got your user name..

woodoo

mauzo wrote: »

Arse groping is a bit OTT

You mean like this beautiful romantic embrace:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2200493/Andrew-Marr-caught-kissing-groping-mystery-woman-outside-Soho-nightclub.html

3rd photo down

cynder

cynder wrote: »

So that's how you got your user name..

No the action after that.;)
Build up is important.

patrickbrophy18

There's nothing wrong with couples holding hands in public as it symbolizes their love for one another. Nevertheless, I do think that some acts of intimacy and affection should be kept behind closed doors.:D

3ndahalfof6

woodoo wrote: »

You mean like this beautiful romantic embrace:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2200493/Andrew-Marr-caught-kissing-groping-mystery-woman-outside-Soho-nightclub.html

3rd photo down

Awww that was sweet, a different type of embrace but an embrace none the less.

Links234

Rabidlamb wrote: »

We all know that these madly in love couples don't last 3 months anyway.
Once that initial flame dies away they realise they've got nothing
Nothing

Rubbish!

me and my girlfriend having been together over a year and we're still crazy about each other and hold hands all the time. so there!

we're also a same sex couple and have no problems showing our affection in public, because **** you to anyone who says anything :pac:

eviltwin

Hubby and I together 16 years, still hold hand in public. Nothing wrong with it at all, its hardly a PDA. Just a nice thing to do with the person you love.

3ndahalfof6

Links234 wrote: »

Rubbish!

me and my girlfriend having been together over a year and we're still crazy about each other and hold hands all the time. so there!

we're also a same sex couple and have no problems showing our affection in public, because **** you to anyone who says anything :pac:

I'm telling mammy.

toshsat

FANTAPANTS wrote: »

my auld pair are hitting their 60`s and still hold hands when out walking dont see anything wrong with it but i wouldnt be in to it

I think ur right,Holding hands with ur mum and dad would only make u look like
a window licking special child lmao

midlandsmissus

castletownman wrote: »

Holding hands with, and kissing, a girl in public is so ghey.

You and your girlfriend...that's so gay.

Rented Mule

Rabidlamb wrote: »

Now you have it & you'll find I'm in the silent majority here.

Apparently, not silent enough.

Mr Benevolent

Rabidlamb wrote: »

Maybe she wants something

She just laughed at you.

steddyeddy

It doesnt bother me in the slightest unless its in an inapropriate place. A couple in my local gym were basically dry humping in the jacuzzi. There was kids not less than ten feet away. Getting your thrills by dry humping in front of kids is where I would cross the line regarding public affection to be honest. Thats a long way away from holding hands and having a snog in public though.

steddyeddy

eviltwin wrote: »

Hubby and I together 16 years, still hold hand in public. Nothing wrong with it at all, its hardly a PDA. Just a nice thing to do with the person you love.

You rosemantic sods .

Brendog

Rabidlamb wrote: »

I find the this activity pathetic, I'm a happily married man but I'd be having the missus checked out if she started getting all lovey lovey in public.
That sort of stuff is only allowed during private sexytime or maybe on a foreign holiday.

We all know that these madly in love couples don't last 3 months anyway.
Once that initial flame dies away they realise they've got nothing
Nothing

Sorry to break it to you mate but my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and are always like this. If people are in love its up to themselves how they want to express it. Being totally honest, If I'm mad about some girl I'm not going to give a **** what some randomer on the street thinks about how I act with her.

old_aussie

Rabidlamb wrote: »

I find the this activity pathetic, I'm a happily married man but I'd be having the missus checked out if she started getting all lovey lovey in public.
That sort of stuff is only allowed during private sexytime or maybe on a foreign holiday.

We all know that these madly in love couples don't last 3 months anyway.
Once that initial flame dies away they realise they've got nothing
Nothing

You poor sole, obviously you have Nothing

M cebee

speaking objectively(i'm 49 and never had a girlfriend!)

i think the whole luvey-duvey malarkey in public is pathetic

especially that nonsense with couples touching noses and staring into each other's eyes for half an hour:mad:

what's that all about

nbar12

M cebee wrote: »

speaking objectively(i'm 49 and never had a girlfriend!)

i think the whole luvey-duvey malarkey in public is pathetic

especially that nonsense with couples touching noses and staring into each other's eyes for half an hour:mad:

what's that all about

get a girlfriend and find out

Wibbs

M cebee wrote: »

speaking objectively(i'm 49 and never had a girlfriend!)

Well then you can't really be objective to be fair.

i think the whole luvey-duvey malarkey in public is pathetic

especially that nonsense with couples touching noses and staring into each other's eyes for half an hour:mad:

what's that all about

It's called being young(and not so young) being in love/pair bonding/public announcement of same. Now so long as a couple aren't fiddling about in each others underwear and making sounds like a horse munching oats I don't see the issue. We can be incredibly prudish about this stuff here. Loath though I am to go to the lazy catholic church meme but that seems to be a lot of it this fear of public displays of anything. Though CofI people can be just as prudish. Must be something in the water*.

I've held hands with girlfriends and had blokes in vans beeping and all that stuff. I mean WTF? I could understand if we were giving a live performance of the Kama Sutra to music, but holding hands? Sheesh.




*even on the church front. An Irish church procession looks like a funeral even when it's not one, a Spanish or Italian church procession contains more bawdyness and just good social fun than yer average night in Coppers Yep must be the water.

trodsky

Holding hands with women is so gay.

floggg

trodsky wrote: »

Holding hands with women is so gay.

It's actually more of a lesbian thing.

OP, pardon me if I'm being too forward but when was the last time you got some?

It seems to me that you badly need to get laid.

Mardy Bum

Wibbs wrote: »

Well then you can't really be objective to be fair.

It's called being young(and not so young) being in love/pair bonding/public announcement of same. Now so long as a couple aren't fiddling about in each others underwear and making sounds like a horse munching oats I don't see the issue. We can be incredibly prudish about this stuff here. Loath though I am to go to the lazy catholic church meme but that seems to be a lot of it this fear of public displays of anything. Though CofI people can be just as prudish. Must be something in the water*.

I've held hands with girlfriends and had blokes in vans beeping and all that stuff. I mean WTF? I could understand if we were giving a live performance of the Kama Sutra to music, but holding hands? Sheesh.




*even on the church front. An Irish church procession looks like a funeral even when it's not one, a Spanish or Italian church procession contains more bawdyness and just good social fun than yer average night in Coppers Yep must be the water.

John Montague has an excellent short story "An Occasion of Sin" and it goes some way into exploring the Irish affliction of prudishness and its quite an ironic critique of catholic Ireland.

Iwasfrozen

Brendog wrote: »

Sorry to break it to you mate but my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and are always like this. If people are in love its up to themselves how they want to express it. Being totally honest, If I'm mad about some girl I'm not going to give a **** what some randomer on the street thinks about how I act with her.

I disagree. What people do in privacy is their own business true. But when you are in a public place your actions affect other people and part of being a responsible adult is to recognise this and adjust your behaviour accordingly.

Helix

Iwasfrozen wrote: »

I disagree. What people do in privacy is their own business true. But when you are in a public place your actions affect other people and part of being a responsible adult is to recognise this and adjust your behaviour accordingly.

but the OP mentioned nothing that would be deemed as questionable behaviour. just holding hands really. he did mention "being intimate" but im assuming he doesnt mean riding, i assume he means kissing, which there's nothing wrong with so long as it's not the whole teenage disco tongue half way down the throat while you drop the hand schtyle

McChubbin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTq66KIag9Y