Picking up women on a night out , tips?

SoundFella

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tmc86

Make sure your back is straight and knees are bent

castletownman

Rule #1: If you can't lift her, don't shift her.

Myrddin

SoundFella wrote: »

before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

I doubt that

L.Jenkins

Rophynol, works everytime.

kfallon

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

That's not enough, no?

CardBordWindow

Drink til you vomit.

Dravokivich

Use a cart myself. They're easier to push than to lug her around over yer shoulder like.

mikom

SoundFella wrote: »

Picking up women on a night out , tips?

Just the tip............. that's what I always tell 'em

Gee Bag

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

I'd suggest not talking,

that way they won't find out about your childish need to boast until its too late.

Vicar in a tutu

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

SoundFella

EnterNow wrote: »

SoundFella wrote: »

before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

I doubt that

Haha was a joke tbh , point is I was better with women a few years ago than I use to be .

Hardonraging

Be you're self ... ahh i'm just kidding,



Be a complete ****, the cockier the better, show no interest in who she is or where she's from.. just basically tell her out right, you wanna tap it...


Guaranteed winner or your money back

PCPhoto

what exactly do you mean by "pull" ... normally its the woman doing the pulling !!

Akrasia

Maybe after getting to know a woman as a person and not just something to dip parts of your body into, you're finding it psychologically more difficult to treat them as objects

Don't worry, this will pass.

My prescription, 2 copies of Nuts magazine (after meals) and a 'weekly sport' before bed. You'll soon be back to your meaningless casual degradation of other human beings (with real feelings)

SoundFella

Vicar in a tutu wrote: »

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

Does dancing hard not scream "CREEP" ? Lol

PCPhoto

Seriously though if you are talking about just kissing - you need to seriously learn about life as an adult - if you are talking about getting a roide (Yes I spelled it like that for effect) then I doubt you are getting one or two in a night out !!

Gran Hermano

By the ears if they are considerably shorter than you.

Hardonraging

mikom wrote: »

Just the tip............. that's what I always tell 'em

I get you're ref chief !!

SoundFella

PCPhoto wrote: »

Seriously though if you are talking about just kissing - you need to seriously learn about life as an adult - if you are talking about getting a roide (Yes I spelled it like that for effect) then I doubt you are getting one or two in a night out !!

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

Vicar in a tutu

SoundFella wrote: »

Vicar in a tutu wrote: »

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

Does dancing hard not scream "CREEP" ? Lol

Na not at all... Make sure you have a very intense look in the eye and have beads of sweat on your forehead too!

PCPhoto

SoundFella wrote: »

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

so you lied to us !!! ...first the lie about being better than heff ..and now this !!

liar liar pants on fire !! :rolleyes:

Timothy Bryce

Be a cnut. *All* women love cnuts.

davet82

smell her bum, it works for dogs

SoundFella

PCPhoto wrote: »

SoundFella wrote: »

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

so you lied to us !!! ...first the lie about being better than heff ..and now this !!

liar liar pants on fire !! :rolleyes:

No no you assume I meant getting the ride , who's to say I'm not a 12 year old (I'm not btw)

SoundFella

Timothy Bryce wrote: »

Be a cnut. *All* women love cnuts.

That is actually true :P

SoundFella

And I think a lot of you are picking me up wrong , my last relationship ended badly and my confidence with women is rock bottom as well as on a personal level so I'm actually asking for some genuine advice on women (and not cocky responses)

SunnyDub1

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

summerskin

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

EdenHazard, is that you?

Timothy Bryce

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple and best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

That may work in whatever 'Sex & the City' world you live in, however, that approach usually ends in something like the following.

Man: Hi there, nice to meet you etc.
Woman: ENGAGE PEPPERSPRAY
Woman: "WHAT A CREEP!"

You'd be better off being a complete cock.

Rachelmhr

I dont mean to be rude but...


Saying things like: I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

That is just so cocky and self centered... So coming from a 26 yr old woman: DROP THAT ATTITUDE!!


It's just a little tip because I dont know any women that would be attracted to a man who comes out with a statement like that!!

Good luck on your quest anyways

Edit: Just saw that you were joking PHEW!!! Haha!



Honestly? Dont use chat up lines, dont be jittery and nervous women can smell fear a mile away!
Even if you're not a good listener PRETEND you are

I notice you said your confidence is shot to pieces as a result of a previous relationship... stop thinking like that! Get you mojo back even if you have to do a few practice runs first!!

Hardonraging

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

Infairness i'd want a Hj at least before i bough her a drink ... just personal pref of course !!

SoundFella

SoundFella wrote: »

And I think a lot of you are picking me up wrong , my last relationship ended badly and my confidence with women is rock bottom as well as on a personal level so I'm actually asking for some genuine advice on women (and not cocky responses)

Eh, you do know this is After Hours right...??

SoundFella

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

This is the advice so far and very true , with drink does come confidence and I think that's the problem lol , I'm not a strong drinker so the confidence has to come from somewhere else , thanks for that piece enjoyed it

SunnyDub1

Timothy Bryce wrote: »

That may work in whatever 'Sex & the City' world you live in, however, that approach usually ends in something like the following.

Man: Hi there, nice to meet you etc.
Woman: ENGAGE PEPPERSPRAY
Woman: "WHAT A CREEP!"

You'd be better off being a complete cock.

Maybe for what ever lovely pleasant woman you do be
approaching on nights out

SoundFella

Rachelmhr wrote: »

I dont mean to be rude but...


Saying things like: I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

That is just so cocky and self centered... So coming from a 26 yr old woman: DROP THAT ATTITUDE!!


It's just a little tip because I dont know any women that would be attracted to a man who comes out with a statement like that!!

Good luck on your quest anyways

OMG for the last time it was to add humour to the post .....

kiddums

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

The last time I tried that approach with a woman I didn't even get a polite hi. I just got a look like I imagine she heard me ask if I could just get the roide right there.

TheBoss!

Just smugly smile and whisper: "Do you like Huey Lewis and the news?".

deandean

Fill out your wallet with padding so it's about 2 inches thick and is easily seen in your pocket.

That's how Hugh Hefner pulled so much, he had a fat wallet, 'cept it was stuffed with $100 notes. And he was (is) verrryyyy generous to the right people. Like, more than a can of bud and a bag of chips.

Andrewf20

Back in the single days I always adopted this attitude - aim to go out to have a bit of craic & look like you are out having fun (women do seem to pick up on this). Dont be looking shifty and serious and out for the sole purpose of picking someone up. Get up and dance (if others are dancing!) and appear chatty and good humoured.

If you see someone you like, drop in a random observation that is funny or interesting you see in the bar etc. Or you could drop a line in about the song playing in the background. Make a quick fire statement instead of trying to think of a question to ask as its way less scary I found. If shes interested, the conversation should get going. But look confident. Easier said than done but confidence is key.

If the conversation does get going, ask them questions, yak about light hearted stuff, dream holidays, parachutes jumps, worst birthday present you ever got, funny stories etc etc (keep them fairly brief). Try not too appear to clingy. Dont just drop you mates completely, bounce off them as the night goes on and include her mates also if possible.

Remember we all get shot down, ive been there a 1000 times. Just gotta roll the sleeves up and plough on.

SoundFella

kiddums wrote: »

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

The last time I tried that approach with a woman I didn't even get a polite hi. I just got a look like I imagine she heard me ask if I could just get the roide right there.

Irish women are very rude on nights out , I've been blanked hundreds of time with just going Over and saying hey..

SoundFella

Andrewf20 wrote: »

Back in the single days I always adopted this attitude - aim to go out to have a bit of craic & look like you are out having fun (women do seem to pick up on this). Dont be looking shifty and serious and out for the sole purpose of picking someone up.

If you see someone you like, drop in a random interesting or funny observation of something you see in the bar etc. Or you could drop a line in about the song playing in the background. Make a quick fire statemen instead of trying to think of a question to ask as its way less scary I found. If shes interested, the conversation should get going. But look confident. Easier said than done but confidence is key.

True words

SoundFella

Rachelmhr wrote: »

I dont mean to be rude but...


Saying things like: I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

That is just so cocky and self centered... So coming from a 26 yr old woman: DROP THAT ATTITUDE!!


It's just a little tip because I dont know any women that would be attracted to a man who comes out with a statement like that!!

Good luck on your quest anyways

Edit: Just saw that you were joking PHEW!!! Haha!



Honestly? Dont use chat up lines, dont be jittery and nervous women can smell fear a mile away!
Even if you're not a good listener PRETEND you are

I notice you said your confidence is shot to pieces as a result of a previous relationship... stop thinking like that! Get you mojo back even if you have to do a few practice runs first!!

Haha like this post a lot more , thanks dude

SunnyDub1

SoundFella wrote: »

Irish women are very rude on nights out , I've been blanked hundreds of time with just going Over and saying hey..

Irish woman are not ALL very rude...

Maybe the few that are "rude" are just so use to drunken messy idiots approaching them with ****ty chat up lines and when they refuse to entertain them they get abuse hurled at them :rolleyes:
That's my experience of the lovely Irish men

Doodoo

SoundFella wrote: »

Irish women are very rude on nights out , I've been blanked hundreds of time with just going Over and saying hey..

Are you ginger?

Phat Cat

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up

I stopped reading after that...

Hardonraging

SoundFella wrote: »

OMG for the last time it was to add humour to the post .....

If this is the standard of humour you are using while approaching women of any nationality.. you sir need to go back to clown college !

SoundFella wrote: »

Irish women are very rude on nights out , I've been blanked hundreds of time with just going Over and saying hey..

Irish women are not rude, a little guarded in some cases, but you should be thrilled they even talk to you

Doodoo wrote: »

Are you ginger?

He sure sounds like one

crazygeryy

yo bitch hows about you and me going back to my place and getting busy.

i hear they love that kind of talk these days. in my day it was courting for 9 months and a peck on the cheek if you were lucky.

talla10

Sex Panther...

68% of the time it works every time...

Go make that little kitty purr...

SoundFella

Doodoo wrote: »

Are you ginger?

no im not hahaha nothing wrong with a ginger tho

SoundFella

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

SoundFella wrote: »

And I think a lot of you are picking me up wrong , my last relationship ended badly and my confidence with women is rock bottom as well as on a personal level so I'm actually asking for some genuine advice on women (and not cocky responses)

crippling lack of self esteem there yea