Describe yourself as you are right now.

x Purple Pawprints x

All alone (as usual).. All this loneliness better be bloody worth it if Mr. Right ever decides to show up..
Determined to get to my goal weight this year
Pensive.. As you can see above

greenfrogs

Starving
Sore
Worried

Autosport

Feeling better
Happy it's the start of the weekend
Delighted no alarm in the morning

Georgie.Girl

wanna go home

...problem is, there's no such place...

stop animal cruelty

Bored off my titties at work.

oseia

Confused. Sad. Drained.

lennyloulou

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

PaperWeight_88

Hopeful. Lonely. Unfocused

PaperWeight_88

Hopeful. Lonely. Unfocused

Hopeful that I will find a person to give my love to and he will be crazy about me in return.

Lonely because I have so much love to give. But he decided he didn't want or need it.

Unfocused on my work because he is all up in my thoughts!

Georgie.Girl

wish to be a hermit today...on a tropical island, where no phones can reach me.

Redhenrun

Surfing but bored.

loubian

Can I have more than 3 words just this once?

Dejected. Ugly. Fat. Exhausted. Lonely. Drained. Broke. Paranoid.

I know I am not ugly but I am so self conscious.

PaperWeight_88

loubian wrote: »

I know I am not ugly but I am so self conscious.

Why do we do this to ourselves? We feel something about ourselves even when we know it is not completely true. We magnify it and it consumes us. I do it myself all the time.
Its a constant preoccupation with how other people may see you.

fistfights

Stressed.
Tired.
Depressed.

LegacyUser

really lonely
questioning myself
can't sleep

break ups suck

banie01

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

LennyLouLou, 1st off my sincere condolences on your loss.
Its a horrible scary place to be and it will get a worse before it gets any better...
But, and I know this sounds patronizing, It really will get better.
You are mourning a lost future aswell as your lost husband. the hopes and dreams ye both shared for the future are gone.
It will take you time to cope with this, to learn how live without him.
It will take even more time to not feel anger, rage and resentment at the world, at God, at whatever higher power dealt you this sh!tty hand....
It will surprise yourself at how angry seeing other people happily getting on with their lives can make you(Why are they happy and together? When you and your husband were wrenched apart?)
But you will come through it, you will be changed by it.

Theres nothing anyone can say to you now to help you cope that won't sound like plain old BS....
How can anyone else understand? How can they even appreciate whats happened to you, what you've lost and more importantly who?
There's something I learned when I lost my wife....they don't need to understand our loss...
They love us and want to help us cope, we have to understand that and try not to shut out those that care and want to help us.
Don't shut yourself away, accept the help and support of friends and family.
Don't be afraid to talk about your husband, to talk about your feelings and above all don't think you need to grieve to a timetable.

There are some fantastic supports out there, from the bereavement forum here on boards.ie to a fantastic site @ www.widow.ie where people in similar situations share and support each other.

Zanablue

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

Oh I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you.xx

LadyAthame

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

So sorry. Beanie has some of the greatest advice I have read. Reach out to your family and friends. xx

Autosport

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

Sorry for your loss xxxxxx

Georgie.Girl

ta old friend

Georgie.Girl

take care lenny

Wobbly_Legs

Sad
Angry
Heartbroken

larrymickdick

GET OUT THERE!
(do it, do it, do it...)

Mallagio

Ready to be me again.

loubian

75 minutes left

x Purple Pawprints x

Relaxed
Proud
Determined

I'm getting to my goal weight once and for all this time. 17lbs to go as of this morning.

Zanablue

x Purple Pawprints x wrote: »

Relaxed
Proud
Determined

I'm getting to my goal weight once and for all this time. 17lbs to go as of this morning.

Well done! I am hoping to get to my goal soon too.

Determined and hanging onto the wagon:)

x Purple Pawprints x

Zanablue wrote: »

Well done! I am hoping to get to my goal soon too.

Determined and hanging onto the wagon:)

I'm setting a time - 17lbs before Electric Picnic. I'm hoping that's doable in 19 weeks!

Best of luck!

Mozzeltoff

Seething with anger :mad:

Georgie.Girl

envious
forlorn
...tired

Redhenrun

Wide awake,damn!

whats_my_name

Same as above!

Zanablue

Trying to get motivated to go for a walk:)

Georgie.Girl

insomniac needs sleeeeeeep

pinkstars

Happy that I am mananing to stay in work despite my anxiety!!!

Georgie.Girl

can't think...anymore

LynnGrace

Calm.
Relaxed.

Georgie.Girl

much too drowsy


wake up guuurl, ya have work to do!

johnny osbourne

searching...

Georgie.Girl

can't stop smiling

sullivlo

Oh so full

Mozzeltoff

Bloody well delighted!

x Purple Pawprints x

Not
Really
Sure

johnny osbourne

blood-thirsty, (to murder my evil auntie),

acuriouscat

Betrayed,shattered and broken

Georgie.Girl

^ aw no, cat (hugs!)

I am feeling insomnical-headachy-brainfogified

SparkySpitfire

Watching Hornblower hehe

x Purple Pawprints x

Never felt so lonely in my life

stop animal cruelty

too tired to go to work

larrymickdick

hurry up Thursday!