Honestly...Do you ever feel like you will be alone forever?

PaurGasm

I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

So will you be alone forever?

cherryghost

Don't you mean Forever Alone?

PaurGasm

cherryghost wrote: »

Don't you mean Forever Alone?

I tried to keep my 4chan antics out of boards.ie but yeah...

foreveralone.jpeg

haha

Pottler

Get married and have kids, you will then long to be alone, if only for twenty minutes of bleedin peace.

keith16

PaurGasm wrote: »

I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

So will you be alone forever?

How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it

TeddyTedson

keith16 wrote: »

How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it

But, but...this is AH. And you being so nice. Teddy confuseballs

keith16

TeddyTedson wrote: »

But, but...this is AH. And you being so nice. Teddy confuseballs

*Hugs Teddy

Where To

I love being alone. I'll eat when I'm hungry. I'll drink when I'm dry.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Du8Naz_iAg4

Possibly.

1ZRed

Depends. Are you Hans Moleman?

admiralofthefleet

PaurGasm wrote: »

I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

So will you be alone forever?

im married with a 1 year old. trust me, you like your alone tine in the evening when you can just be yourself and relax for a while

keith16

1ZRed wrote: »

Depends. Are you Hans Moleman?

Because if so, also watch out for stray footballs to the groin.

Hurts in a more meaningful, immediate kind of way than loneliness.

TeddyTedson

keith16 wrote: »

*Hugs Teddy

***** Keith16 off :eek:


*I'll get my your pants

keith16

TeddyTedson wrote: »

***** Keith16 off :eek:


*I'll get my your pants

Do you see what you have done OP? The mere mention of your insufferable loneliness is enough drive strangers into eachothers pants!

Sucks to be you!

*I'll get that Teddy (honestly that's enough now)

PaurGasm

keith16 wrote: »

How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it

Ah I am only 21 and Im sure Ill meet someone but seeing couples sicken me haha

I probably should have named this thread "Seeing couples annoys me" haha

hatrickpatrick

Yeah, in more ways than just in terms of having / not having a girlfriend.

But I subscribe to the multiverse theory, that is that our universe is one bubble of an infinite number, and that somewhere in each of them, everything that could be possible, has happened.

Therefore, there is no doubt another "version" of Paddy out there somewhere - exactly like me, except he made all the right decisions.

Really makes it easier to enjoy life I find. Follow your instincts and if everything gets f*cked up it doesn't matter. You did everything right and you got everything you ever wanted out of life - just not necessarily in this particular universe. And honestly who says ours is the most important one? Don't be afraid of making horrible mistakes sometimes, because somewhere out there, you didn't.

1ZRed

keith16 wrote: »

Because if so, also watch out for stray footballs to the groin.

Hurts in a more meaningful, immediate kind of way than loneliness.

Are you sure?

TeddyTedson

keith16 wrote: »

Do you see what you have done OP? The mere mention of your insufferable loneliness is enough drive strangers into eachothers pants!

Sucks to be you!

*I'll get that Teddy (honestly that's enough now)

Yea true

Back to the OP though,
Hmmm, not no at all actually. Never thought it as far as I can recall.
I'm lucky to have lots of friends and family and all of that rubbish:p
And as far as relationships go, I perhaps wrongly think I have no problems dating someone if I feel like it. That sounds awfully big headed and I'm no male model (I wish:p) or anything close but that's how I feel, there's someone out there for everyone, if you choose to find them

Anyway don't sweat it, if you're actually worrying about it.
If you want to find someone, you will.

hatrickpatrick

One of the most incredible people I've ever met sent me this song to cheer me up one day. If you're feeling lonely, have a listen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY

risteard7

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=w6Q3mHyzn78#t=41s

woodoo

Listen aul wooden Enda kenny even got himself a wife at 45. Don't write yourself off just yet.

pappyodaniel

People are cunts anyway.

Where To

hatrickpatrick wrote: »

One of the most incredible people I've ever met sent me this song to cheer me up one day. If you're feeling lonely, have a listen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY

Too cheer you up you say?

It's not exactly La Bamba is it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jp6j5HJ-Cok

nbar12

PaurGasm wrote: »

Ah I am only 21 and Im sure Ill meet someone but seeing couples sicken me haha

I probably should have named this thread "Seeing couples annoys me" haha

21!?!?

Jesus Christ man, you have your whole life ahead of you to worry about being alone!

Jhcx

I shall not be alone if i hold on to this person *grabs said person beside me* Now sorted. wheres the tea? feck that wheres the party for the whatcha call ems, singles or young people all this relationship stuff making me thirsty.

bbm1

I'm 23 and single, it seems like most of my friends are going steady now! 1 of my friends got married this year! 1 of my friends counted that out of our year at school 12 out the 98 in our year are now engaged with 2 married and something like 8 have children! Seems crazy!

Where To

bbm1 wrote: »

I'm 23 and single, it seems like most of my friends are going steady now! 1 of my friends got married this year! 1 of my friends counted that out of our year at school 12 out the 98 in our year are now engaged with 2 married and something like 8 have children! Seems crazy!

I'm not reading past the bolded underlined part until you tell us your sex.

Sauve

Being alone and happy is so much better than being with someone and unhappy, just for the sake of 'having someone'.
Be content with your own company, you're your own best friend.

I can see myself being single for a very long time, and that's not a bad thing. If I settle with someone long-term, it'll only be because they're so amazingly wonderful that I'll have no choice but to be with them, and want to have them around.
That may sound very conceited, but it'll take a very special person to make me happier than I am now...

Rigol

You only fear being alone cause you were biologically preprogrammed to pair-bond/couple.

its the basis of most of your social fears/behaviors.

Over-ride your programming. (access via your hidden usb)

hooradiation

PaurGasm wrote: »

So will you be alone forever?

With any luck.

It wasn't me!

23 and single. It used to bother me more, and yes, the majority of my own friends have their own (at this stage) relatively long term relationships now, and once in a while, that seems like something I'm missing, but I've got a lot of stuff on, I'm pretty active and happy and such. It'd be nice to meet someone, really would, but if you spend all your time stressing about it, you'll be a miserable prick, and nobody's interested in a miserable prick in the first place. Be busy, do your own stuff and be passionate about it. Maybe you'll meet someone who likes that, or who's into the same stuff, but sitting around being miserable will quite definitely get you nowhere, and meanwhile, you've got some cool stuff to occupy your mind. If you don't have any now, go find some!

Where To

Where To wrote: »

Moonshiner video

Terrible audience!

ArtSmart

PaurGasm wrote: »

Ah I am only 21 and Im sure Ill meet someone but seeing couples sicken me haha

I probably should have named this thread "Seeing couples annoys me" haha

have you tried wearing an eye patch?

Princess Peach

No because someday great loves me

*gushes* :pac:

1ZRed

Princess Peach wrote: »

No because someday great loves me

*gushes* :pac:

Your herd of cats doesn't count as a person

starviewadams

Yeah pretty much.I'm useless at chatting up women in bars and shítty nightclubs which seems to be the way most people I know met their partners.I've even resorted to online dating which was soul destroying.I've basically given up on ever finding someone.

I just get drunk and sleep in my spare time now,and try not to pay much attention whenever I see loved up couples on the street/bus/bars etc and I lie or change the subject when my family ask if I'm seeing someone or whatever.

msg11

I have often though the same I am 22 by the way the last relationship I was in was February and I don't do sex outside relationships so the lack of sex is what get's to me, cause I here about all the riding that dose go on.

It dose get me down big time that I can't find someone on a night-out or find someone in general, but recently I have decided to give the whole dating thing a rest for a while, jumping between people the last few years and not having much me time.

In that I am trying to be happy with myself first in my own company. But I must say, all this single business makes your wardrobe go old fashioned very quick! I have no problem talking to women or striking up a conversation, but I do hang around with a lot of blokes so I wouldn't really no what to talk about? My interests are computers , cars and a bitta bant with the lads.. Not many topics in there.

But I have not given up on finding someone, I will find someone just it feels like forever.

SharpshooterTom

*waits for ThomasFlynn to post*

Oh here he is!

OP, I'm 26 and have never had girlfriend, never kissed a girl or anything. I think I beat you on the loser stakes! :pac:

On a serious note the situation had caused me to feel extremely depressed, and I attempted suicide over it back in april because I felt I would always be lonely, felt the world would always shun me, felt I was an utterly useless human being. Bare in mind also I haven't had any friends since I was 13, so naturally thats f*cked up my social development a little which I'm only trying to now recover!

The loneliness factor hurt me so much though, and felt I was too disgusting as a person to have friends and didn't want to live myself in misery for the rest of it so thats I wanted to kill myself. Since then though I've had a counselling and now proper CBT therapy (along with anti depressants) to help restructure my thought process, not only to stop me from committing suicide, but my thought processes on how the world viewed me.

I didn't want to die, but I didn't think I had a choice, so recently in the past 6 weeks I've become more positive and have begun to focus on the small things to improve my self esteem. Like, learning to cook, cleaning, learning to iron, driving lessons, going to the gym, eating healthier, getting a day structure and taking up some hobbies as well to improve my self worth.

Still to this day OP I don't know whether I'll be on my own for the rest of my life or not. I'm 26 now and there are some very embarresing issues which I'm ashamed of obviously and feel it may be too off putting for most women. I really have no idea tbh. I really don't.

All I can do is improve my self worth and improve my social activities. If that doesn't work, then so be it, I don't want to kill myself over it anymore.

Sorry for the rather serious post OP, but its a topic I've tortured myself about for the past 6 months or so as some here may well know. But I'm trying to move on and attempting to build a more happier and forfulling life and seeing where that takes me. Its all you can do as OP, do put yourself in the situations, but don't get stressed over it if it doesn't happen, there's other things in life to enjoy.

msg11

ThomasFlynn wrote: »

*waits for ThomasFlynn to post*

Oh here he is!

OP, I'm 26 and have never had girlfriend, never kissed a girl or anything. I think I beat you on the loser stakes! :pac:

On a serious note the situation had caused me to feel extremely depressed, and I attempted suicide over it back in april because I felt I would always be lonely, felt the world would always shun me, felt I was an utterly useless human being. Bare in mind also I haven't had any friends since I was 13, so naturally thats f*cked up my social development a little which I'm only trying to now recover!

The loneliness factor hurt me so much though, and felt I was too disgusting as a person to have friends and didn't want to live myself in misery for the rest of it so thats I wanted to kill myself. Since then though I've had a counselling and now proper CBT therapy (along with anti depressants) to help restructure my thought process, not only to stop me from committing suicide, but my thought processes on how the world viewed me.

I didn't want to die, but I didn't think I had a choice, so recently in the past 6 weeks I've become more positive and have begun to focus on the small things to improve my self esteem. Like, learning to cook, cleaning, learning to iron, driving lessons, going to the gym, eating healthier, getting a day structure and taking up some hobbies as well to improve my self worth.

Still to this day OP I don't know whether I'll be on my own for the rest of my life or not. I'm 26 now and there are some very embarresing issues which I'm ashamed of obviously and feel it may be too off putting for most women. I really have no idea tbh. I really don't.

All I can do is improve my self worth and improve my social activities. If that doesn't work, then so be it, I don't want to kill myself over it anymore.

Sorry for the rather serious post OP, but its a topic I've tortured myself about for the past 6 months or so as some here may well know. But I'm trying to move on and attempting to build a more happier and forfulling life and seeing where that takes me. Its all you can do as OP, do put yourself in the situations, but don't get stressed over it if it doesn't happen, there's other things in life to enjoy.

Inspiring words and fair play getting yourself going in the right direction, I think you sum it up at the end. If it doesn't happen it, there are other things in life, it's so true.

Walking the dog the other day, I was think about how much though and work I put into finding/getting/attracting a girl and it must be about 60/70 of my life/brain power. It's was getting a ridiculous amount of my attention. It's like it got out of control, with each girl I would add an extra 10% and all this thinking etc is making the situation worse, over the last few weeks I would say it's getting about 20/30 and other hobbies and interest I have totally forgotten about have started to get back in there. Put basically I figured that there is more to life than finding a girl and if you don't watch how much you give it you can find yourself not in the right mind.

Cybercubed

I hope not. My past history says I shouldn't be. Being single's not all that bad though. The remote is definitely MINE!

D-FENS

Where To wrote: »

I love being alone. I'll eat when I'm hungry.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Du8Naz_iAg4

Be careful with that, loneliness and cheese burgers are a dangerous mix

Madam_X

Yeh, being single in your 20s definitely means you'll always be single - makes perfect sense: logically, mathematically and statistically. Being single eight months? Oh god, an eternity! :pac:

There are good things about being single, good things about being in a relationship; being happy either way should be your main focus.

AnonoBoy

Can't relate.

I've had sex with up to an including one woman at least.

ArtyC

21 is an age to enjoy being single!!! I didnt kiss someone until I went to college, then kissed plenty after!! I'm in my first relationship at 24, mOstly because he was persistant!! I wasn't looking for one- I'd resigned myself to single life really.... I'm glad now I was single for that period. I travelled a lot- alone, got my degree and made friends for life. Although some people were not happy to see me settle down a bit- I've been told!!! Two years in now and engaged. RELAX and just worry about yourself for a whole. I do miss the selfish decisions I could make before!!

saiint

as long as you have
pam and her 5 friends you'll never be alone

D-FENS

saiint wrote: »

as long as you have
pam and her 5 friends you'll never be alone

Pam is some loser, even my Da has 26 friends on facebook and he's 70

TheBoss!

I think it depends on how lucky you are in other areas of your life.

If you have very little money worries, health worries etc etc and you find someone who also has very little similar worries, then finding someone to love and who loves you is relatively easy.

Otherwise though, if have worries and stresses in your life, then it will drastically effect any relationship you have and most likely ruin it and ultimately you will come to resent each other for making one another miserable and sleep with each other's relatives, just to get even with the other.

Sorry, I've been listening to country and western music all day.

Hardonraging

Princess Peach wrote: »

No because someday great loves me

*gushes* :pac:

I was going to reply with some scathing comment about being a man whore, and not missing being in a relationship, and how when i want somebody to talk to i simply lift my fone and text somebody ..

[NSFW] But PP's post of me threw the mind set... [/NSFW]

ilovesleep

How much of those couples you see are happy? I'd say many put on a show.

I grew up with parents in a miserable marriage. Getting married was the done thing back then. I came across so much couples through the years that just fcuking bickered. Many couples are just not compatible but they stick with each other.

Read the relationship forum here on boards. Relationships bring problems, issues and heartache.

You give a piece of yourself to someone, and they turn around and it fcuk it back in your face, by perhaps cheating, lieing, breaking trust, etc akin to sticking their foot in your face after stepping in sh1t. People are selfish and ****ed up.

I rather be alone and happy.

Idle Passerby

bbm1 wrote: »

I'm 23 and single, it seems like most of my friends are going steady now! 1 of my friends got married this year! 1 of my friends counted that out of our year at school 12 out the 98 in our year are now engaged with 2 married and something like 8 have children! Seems crazy!

But sure they'll all be divorced by the time their 30

snausages

Stay off 4chan for a start. Those bitter assholes can have a poisonous influence if you stick around them too long.