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piercing a babys ears

  • 16-10-2012 2:17pm
    #1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,355 ✭✭✭


    Is this mostly an Irish/catholic thing? I see it a lot up here in Belfast but only in catholic areas. I am a lowly cabby so get to see the differences in community's every day and this is something I always see and wonder about.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    I've never seen it done here, though it's very common in Spain from what I've seen.

    I'd say it's definitely not an Irish/religious thing. Just a cultural or popular thing to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭Conall Cernach


    No I think it's more of a scumbag thing.


  • Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've never seen it done here

    In Ireland? Really?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    In Ireland? Really?

    Routinely to babies? No.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,400 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    Common here among the travelling community.

    Common in Spain and black people also. I brought my daughter for her 4 month jabs and a black man said about her 'he didn't like those injections', I said 'she' didn't no. And he replied with 'oh it's a girl, why are her ears not pierced'?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,733 ✭✭✭Duckworth_Luas


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've never seen it done here, though it's very common in Spain from what I've seen.
    I heard the maternity hospitals in Spain provide an ear piercing service for new born girls to ensure it's carried out under medical supervision. Not sure if it's true though!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,799 ✭✭✭FortuneChip


    lukesmom wrote: »
    Common here among the travelling community.

    Common in Spain and black people also. I brought my daughter for her 4 month jabs and a black man said about her 'he didn't like those injections', I said 'she' didn't no. And he replied with 'oh it's a girl, why are her ears not pierced'?

    In his defence, you're "Luke's" mom!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,269 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    I always think it's a real scummy thing to do.

    Then it reminds me of baby circumcision and suddenly piercing seems like the lesser of two evils.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,400 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    Why would anybody bother? So sore for an infant and it looks awful in my opinion. Why would you inflict unnecessary pain on a tiny baby?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,736 ✭✭✭Irish Guitarist


    It's something that's done by people who are more concerned with using their child as a fashion accessory than they are about her welfare. In my opinion it's child abuse.

    It happens in other countries too. Look at the baby on this Texas ear piercing salon page. http://www.lalobe.com/
    Dr. Recommended
    We've been piercing baby's for over 23 years. We give parents a place to bring their babies and feel comfortable and safe knowing that their baby would be in the best of hands.
    We recommend having babies ears pierced early! 3 weeks to 3 months is ideal.We use Only 14kt gold earrings without screw-backs.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,992 ✭✭✭DavyD_83


    o1s1n wrote: »
    I always think it's a real scummy thing to do.

    Then it reminds me of baby circumcision and suddenly piercing seems like the lesser of two evils.

    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).
    Speaking as somebody who hasn't been through either procedure, they both seem uncalled for.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    o1s1n wrote: »
    I always think it's a real scummy thing to do.

    Then it reminds me of baby circumcision and suddenly piercing seems like the lesser of two evils.

    Even as a guy I'd had rather my ears pierced than be circumcised!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    I think it looks awful. Why adorn your already beautiful baby in jewellery? I think it looks tacky and unnecessary.

    It should also be the decision of the child to get it done, I don't think this particular choice should be made for them. They should be able to choose themselves at a reasonable age when they're responsible enough to look after them.

    I would never put my child through unnecessary pain just for the sake of sparkly ears. If they want it when they're older, so be it.

    Just not on babies and toddlers, imo.


  • Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Routinely to babies? No.

    We move in different circles so.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    lukesmom wrote: »
    Why would anybody bother? So sore for an infant and it looks awful in my opinion. Why would you inflict unnecessary pain on a tiny baby?

    For fun?


  • Posts: 25,611 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    DavyD_83 wrote: »
    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).

    Same health reasons as if you removed another body part for no reason. Maybe remove toes to prevent in-grown toenails for example.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,000 ✭✭✭andreac


    My friend who is married to a spaniard and lives in Spain has had both her daughters ears pierced. Its just something they do in Spain, its done in the hospital shortly after they are born.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    DavyD_83 wrote: »
    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).
    Speaking as somebody who hasn't been through either procedure, they both seem uncalled for.
    Nope.
    Absolutely scientifically proven 100% to have sweet fuck all health reasons/benefits for doing so to a baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,549 ✭✭✭✭cowzerp


    Morons do it alright.

    Rush Boxing club and Rush Martial Arts head coach.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,579 ✭✭✭charlietheminxx


    I am a piercing enthusiast but I think it's horrible looking on a baby. It should be up to the child to decide when they're old enough to vocalise an opinion.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,069 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    It's abuse.. plain and simple. Is it even legal to have a baby's ears pierced?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,269 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    DavyD_83 wrote: »
    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).
    Speaking as somebody who hasn't been through either procedure, they both seem uncalled for.

    You're right! We better remove babies teeth to prevent them getting cavities.

    Might as well whip out tonsils and the appendix too while we're at it.

    Actually, lets go the whole way and replace all its limbs with bionic ones. Be totally future proofed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,125 ✭✭✭westendgirlie


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    I think it looks awful. Why adorn your already beautiful baby in jewellery? I think it looks tacky and unnecessary.

    It should also be the decision of the child to get it done, I don't think this particular choice should be made for them. They should be able to choose themselves at a reasonable age when they're responsible enough to look after them.

    I would never put my child through unnecessary pain just for the sake of sparkly ears. If they want it when they're older, so be it.

    Just not on babies and toddlers, imo.

    +1

    When they start asking can they have them pierced, that's when you start thinking if it is the right time or not to pierce them.


  • Registered Users Posts: 15 JessicaClare


    It's abuse.. plain and simple. Is it even legal to have a baby's ears pierced?

    Yes, well it was, my nana got my ears pierced when I was only 6 weeks old. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    I think it's disgusting practice and should not be allowed. And it's so so tacky, not to mention needless mutilation of an infant.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    Piercing a babies ears just sounds wrong.

    I do however understand that its a custom in south america, but this is Ireland.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 661 ✭✭✭Intensive Care Bear


    I think they look cooler with tattoos.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,078 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    ha ha


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,153 ✭✭✭Rented Mule


    It happens in other countries too. Look at the baby on this Texas ear piercing salon page. http://www.lalobe.com/

    20% off at the State Fair of Texas ??

    YEEEEEEEEEE-HAW !!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 445 ✭✭yammycat


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Nope.
    Absolutely scientifically proven 100% to have sweet fuck all health reasons/benefits for doing so to a baby.

    I heard it stops teens going blind


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,669 ✭✭✭who_me


    Sheesh.. waiting until they're born is a cheapskate option. Any mother who truly loves their daughter-to-be will give her a full makeover as an ante-natal, keyhole operation. Any mother who doesn't obviously doesn't deserve children, frankly..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,930 ✭✭✭Jimoslimos


    gallag wrote: »
    Is this mostly an Irish/catholic thing? I see it a lot up here in Belfast but only in catholic areas. I am a lowly cabby so get to see the differences in community's every day and this is something I always see and wonder about.
    Seriously Keith? Granted you've at least tried to make this account seem a little different from your previous re-regs.

    2/10


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,869 ✭✭✭asherbassad


    DavyD_83 wrote: »
    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).
    Speaking as somebody who hasn't been through either procedure, they both seem uncalled for.

    Like what?

    It's a total myth. The only reason circumcision is necessary is if during puberty the penis grows to a size that the existing foreskin cannot accomodate.
    It's a completely unecessary procedure.
    Saying it's for hygiene purposes is akin to recommending that everyone's teeth be removed in order to eradicate gum disease and dental decay


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    Childs ears pierced? - check
    Pyjamas on? - check
    Sovereign rings on - check


    Scuzzy is ready for a day on d'town


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    As atrocious as it is on baby girls its just so much tackier on baby boys.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,355 ✭✭✭gallag


    Jimoslimos wrote: »
    Seriously Keith? Granted you've at least tried to make this account seem a little different from your previous re-regs.

    2/10
    Keith? Explaine your self sir.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,082 ✭✭✭Feathers


    DavyD_83 wrote: »
    Hmm, at least there's health reasons for baby circumcision (even if they are a little outdated).

    That's right, just because a practice is outdated, you shouldn't just dismiss its health benefits out of hand. Leeches still do close wounds for instance & who's to say that boring a small hole through your skull won't be as good as Anadin for getting rid of a persist headache.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've never seen it done here, though it's very common in Spain from what I've seen.

    It'd be standard here and I have to say I love it. Their norms are becoming my own, I think. The Spanish are great parents generally but I suppose they do it for aesthetic reasons. I know it's putting your kids through unnecessary pain but the pain is over in a sec. I think it looks very cute but yeah, I can see why many people would be against it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    Indians are quite fond of it. It's not as bad as male genital mutilation though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Boombastic wrote: »
    Childs ears pierced? - check
    Pyjamas on? - check
    Sovereign rings on - check


    Scuzzy is ready for a day on d'town
    Don't forget huge hoop earrings and Penney's ugg boots.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Don't forget huge hoop earrings and Penney's ugg boots.
    Got them, don't worry!

    sorted ;)


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