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cancer Support Buncrana

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  • 20-10-2012 10:54pm
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    cappichino
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭


    My mother has been diagnosed with cancer and is finding it very hard to come to terms with.Does anyone know if there is a support group in the Buncrana area where she could go and talk to people who have been through it? Sometimes it can be easier to confide in strangers rather than upset close family. Thanks


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    muffler
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    Im sorry to hear that cappichino. There are support groups out there but I wouldn't be familiar with the Buncrana/Inishowen area. Some of the regulars here may know of one but failing that the local GP or nurse would definitely know.


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    okiss
    Registered Users Posts: 698 ✭✭✭okiss


    If your mother or you contact the free phone number for the Irish Cancer Society which is 1800 200 700 she or you can talk to a specialist nurse Mon to Thur 9 am to 7 pm and on Friday form 9 am to 5 pm. They will be able answer any questions you may have and can put you in contact with local support.
    If you look up cancer.ie ( Irish cancer society) website you will get information in regards to tests, treatments ect for the cancer your mother has.

    I would also let you mother know about the LARCC (Lakelands Area Retreat & Cancer Centre) which is a Cancer Support Centre based in Co. Westmeath.
    They offer a five day residential programme for cancer patients from all over Ireland.
    If you look up larcc.ie you can get more information on this.

    I hope the above is of help to you both at the moment. I have a friend who works in this area. They have told me that if a cancer patient has a positive outlook it can help them a lot during treatment and recovery.


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    cappichino
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭cappichino


    okiss wrote: »
    If your mother or you contact the free phone number for the Irish Cancer Society which is 1800 200 700 she or you can talk to a specialist nurse Mon to Thur 9 am to 7 pm and on Friday form 9 am to 5 pm. They will be able answer any questions you may have and can put you in contact with local support.
    If you look up cancer.ie ( Irish cancer society) website you will get information in regards to tests, treatments ect for the cancer your mother has.

    I would also let you mother know about the LARCC (Lakelands Area Retreat & Cancer Centre) which is a Cancer Support Centre based in Co. Westmeath.
    They offer a five day residential programme for cancer patients from all over Ireland.
    If you look up larcc.ie you can get more information on this.

    I hope the above is of help to you both at the moment. I have a friend who works in this area. They have told me that if a cancer patient has a positive outlook it can help them a lot during treatment and recovery.

    Thank you both for the reply. the LARCC center is a great spot. Never heard of it till now. I will ask in the local health center for any contacts.


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    echo beach
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    okiss wrote: »
    I have a friend who works in this area. They have told me that if a cancer patient has a positive outlook it can help them a lot during treatment and recovery.

    That is true but it is important not to unintentionally put pressure on the cancer sufferer to 'be positive' all the time. It is natural to feel low and down at times and everybody has their own way of dealing with things. There will be times when they may need to moan or rant or have a good cry to themselves and those around need to understand this as well.

    It is a difficult time for everybody involved so grab all the support you can.


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    icescreamqueen
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    So sorry to hear of your news. Unfortunately I have been through it all myself and I know hearing that news will feel like a complete shock to your system, like your whole world has been turned upside down. Your Mum is going to feel frightened and frustrated, like everything is out of her control. Be there for her as much as you can, spend as much time as you can with her. Don't let her feel like she is fighting it on her own. She is going to get a lot of strength and energy from the people around her. My most important piece of advice is, do not let her see you upset in front of her. You need to be the strong one. I know it's so hard because your roles are reversed now and now you have to be her pillar of strength.
    I know what was already suggested are on offer from the Irish Cancer Society for both you and your mother. Sorry can't link it on my phone but they have counselling on offer and provide an excellent service. I didn't use that service myself but I have heard great things.
    Not sure if I can do this but if you need anything or just want to talk PM me. Take care of you and your Mum as best you can x


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    cappichino
    Registered Users Posts: 31 ✭cappichino


    Thanks for the kind advice. It's early days and I have tried to show a positive side to her.I think she does not want to upset me which is why I thought she would appreciate a stranger who understands. What is shocking is that she never smoked or drank in her life and has never had any health issues, but got lung cancer of all things. thank you again


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