Flaw Finding

astonaidan

Ok strange question or maybe not,
I kinda want to do some self improving and Im wondering would it be weird to ask my friends on facebook what they consider my major flaws.

Would ye be weirded out by this?

Rayne Wooney

It's a bit weird if you do it through Facebook
Talk to them about it..

Eve_Dublin

I think if anyone is honest with themselves, they can figure them out without being told. I certainly know mine.

Remmy

Would it not be easier to ask a few of your closer friends in person? If done on facebook it would bring more lulz but you would probably get less benefit from it.

squod

PM me some nude pics of yourself.

mattjack

astonaidan wrote: »

Ok strange question or maybe not,
I kinda want to do some self improving and Im wondering would it be weird to ask my friends on facebook what they consider my major flaws.

Would ye be weirded out by this?

When you say self improving , do you mean your own DIY plastic surgery ?

Chuck Stone

Forget Facebuke.

Why don't you go on TV to do it like they do on Dr. cunt Phil?

kowloon

Huge chance of this backfiring. Let us know how you get on and how many of your friends you're still talking to at the end of it all.

Tonyandthewhale

You'll look like an insincere gob****e who's fishing for compliments/validation if you go asking everyone on facebook what your flaws are.

Don't you know yourself anyway? Have you not met yourself?

9959

The first flaw in anyone is not knowing what their flaws are.
What's mine again?

ArtyM

Do you have friends with kids?
If so, go and visit them because if you have any flaws, the kids will point them out.
Kids, particularly those between the ages of 3 and 10, seem to lack the social graces that prevent the rest of us from drawing attention to such things.
So, if you want to know if you smell, are overweight, have big ears/nose/teeth, just ask a kid.
But be warned. The f**kers pull no punches.
God Bless em, the little s**ts.

astonaidan

Tonyandthewhale wrote: »

You'll look like an insincere gob****e who's fishing for compliments/validation if you go asking everyone on facebook what your flaws are.

Don't you know yourself anyway? Have you not met yourself?

Im not fishing for compliments at all, it is something genuine I would like to find out, I have a a few flaws but Id like to see would they be the ones my friends would agree on, I wasnt going putting it on my wall more like asking 20 of my most honest friends

Real Life

Eve_Dublin wrote: »

I think if anyone is honest with themselves, they can figure them out without being told. I certainly know mine.

same here. i think my bluntness is the biggest problem, people who are easily offended dont do well around me.

Sauve

Ah I think you should have a pretty good idea of your own flaws OP, just work on those and don't worry about doing a survey of your friends.

fasttalkerchat

If its work related you should critique others then apply the same standards to yourself and see how you match up.