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Terrible Secret

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    #32
    Pride Fighter
    Registered Users Posts: 5,729 ✭✭✭Pride Fighter


    This will only end in tears.

    The OP may be sacked if they get wind he knows, which will be totally unfair IMO. Perhaps the OP should join a trade union, if he is sacked unfairly they have good labour relations lawyers that will ensure his rights are protected. Most unions have a monthly subscription, not a lot of money, but will give you some peace of mind.


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    #33
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    That won't be worth a lot if the business implodes as a result of the wife finding out. Which in a worst case scenario could happen. For the OP's sake she needs to get another job and get out of there ASAP.


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    #34
    Merkin
    Registered Users Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    I would proactively start looking for a job and going for interviews as a matter of urgency. Not by thought, word or deed would I let on that you know anything about the affair and I'd stop going for after work drinks as well. Don't engage in any way with K outside the bare minimum and be as polite and friendly as ever to your boss (who is paying your wages).

    Once you've got a new job and are settled then you can look at this situation again and decide what to do (if anything) but until then, keep the head down and look for another job.


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    #35
    Wonkagirl
    Registered Users Posts: 828 ✭✭✭Wonkagirl


    They clearly want to get caught, and clearly know you know.
    They may even WANT you to be the whistleblower. Do not oblige, keep your dignity and rise above it. Try and find another job and get the hell out of this Eastenders workforce. For all you know they could be having a 3some in the family home at this rate, and if not, I'm quite sure the wife knows and must be turning a blind eye.

    Given Ks record, I'd say all 3 of them are RIDDLED at this stage, chlamydia coming through the concrete in that gaff


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    #36
    MadMardegan
    Registered Users Posts: 461 ✭✭MadMardegan


    I'd go to my boss, tell him I know what he's doing with K and then demand more money otherwise I'm telling his wife everything.


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    #37
    ABajaninCork
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    MadMardegan wrote: »
    I'd go to my boss, tell him I know what he's doing with K and then demand more money otherwise I'm telling his wife everything.

    That's not a good idea. That is blackmail. Illegal. And likely to backfire.


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    #38
    MadMardegan
    Registered Users Posts: 461 ✭✭MadMardegan


    ABajaninCork wrote: »
    That's not a good idea. That is blackmail. Illegal. And likely to backfire.

    I never said it was a good idea! Ha


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    #39
    Taltos
    Registered Users Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    MadMardegan

    please take some time to read our charter, the site faq and recall the Terms and Conditions you agreed to when you signed up here.
    PI is a strictly moderated forum and we take all of the above very seriously. Suggesting to someone to break the law is not permitted here and if repeated may result in an immediate ban - that is how seriously we view this.

    Regards
    Taltos


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    #40
    NotInventedHere
    Registered Users Posts: 409 ✭✭NotInventedHere


    This exact situation happened to me. I would advise you to say nothing. They are big boys and girls. In fact i wouldn't give it another thought just go about your business. The situation will resolve itself.


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