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January 2014 Babies Club

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    You'd know it was that time of the year! :D At least we don't have to worry about New Years fitness resolutions for another few weeks/months!

    Anyone doing the Genesis study in Holles St? I've my scan for it today, 39 weeks. Doubt I'll be able to see much at this stage, he'll be so squished up!



    I actually was only talking about it with the OH yesterday!
    I was always all for it but at this stage I don't think I could face going into Holles street (it is such a hassle!) I got the PEAR one and it was very good so detailed and she spent a good 30 minutes with us. I am happy enough all is well My next appointment is 6th January so I will see what the domino midwives say!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Mine was in a really awkward position for the PEARS one, and the 20 week one, so we couldn't see much ... I'm sure this one will be no different. :rolleyes: He's an awkward little fecker already!! :D

    Yeah I'm kind of regretting signing up, I'm sooo not arsed driving into town on a Saturday ... but it's booked now, so I'll go through with it. Had a mini-scan only yesterday and all was grand!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Mine was in a really awkward position for the PEARS one, and the 20 week one, so we couldn't see much ... I'm sure this one will be no different. :rolleyes: He's an awkward little fecker already!! :D

    Yeah I'm kind of regretting signing up, I'm sooo not arsed driving into town on a Saturday ... but it's booked now, so I'll go through with it. Had a mini-scan only yesterday and all was grand!



    I never have a clue what I am looking at the scans! It all seems to be organs! I love getting the print off of measurements and then you can see the growth! It gives me piece of mind as my bump is still so small I am sick of people telling me how neat I am so much so I was actually sent for a growth scan and the joke is he is so big and will be a good 9lbs. The plus side is I still fit into my normal clothes :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    I'm the same, people are constantly on about how small my bump is, his size is perfect though!

    I'm so glad I went for that scan today - got some unbelievably clear pics, including some great 3D ones of his face! Cannot believe how clearly you can see every little detail, he's a cutie! :D

    She checked all the organs etc again too and everything looks great. :) The head's not engaged yet, so I'm guessing I could be waiting another while before anything starts happening.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    I'm the same, people are constantly on about how small my bump is, his size is perfect though!

    I'm so glad I went for that scan today - got some unbelievably clear pics, including some great 3D ones of his face! Cannot believe how clearly you can see every little detail, he's a cutie! :D

    She checked all the organs etc again too and everything looks great. :) The head's not engaged yet, so I'm guessing I could be waiting another while before anything starts happening.

    That is brill! I am not 39 for another 2 weeks I think! Would love some 3d ones so maybe closer to the time I may ring and book. I actually took the leaflet when I was in the hospital for 12 week appointment. You just ring the fetal assessment place don't you? I can't wait for this baby to come anytime after 1st January and I will be happy :) don't know how much longer I can handle the vomiting everyday :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    You can ring them, or there's an email address on the information leaflet (or I can PM it to you if you need it.) They just ask if the baby is head down and if it's been a normal straightforward pregnancy.

    They take your own head circumference as well as the baby's, and then just a few questions about family medical history etc.

    The nurse doing it was just lovely. Spent ages with us, and I really didn't expect the 3D pics etc! Oh and he got 8/8 in the well-being test. :cool: Very reassuring!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Any New Year babies from this group??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 194 ✭✭jucko


    Twin girls!
    31st at 1710 and 1720
    All well
    Just thrilled.
    Happy New Year!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    jucko wrote: »
    Twin girls!
    31st at 1710 and 1720
    All well
    Just thrilled.
    Happy New Year!

    Wow, congrats! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 668 ✭✭✭Coopaloop


    jucko wrote: »
    Twin girls!
    31st at 1710 and 1720
    All well
    Just thrilled.
    Happy New Year!

    Great news! Congratulations!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,730 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    Baby boy on Monday. Sharing a room with the nations first 2014 baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Congrats ladies. What a way to start the new year.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭bean14


    congratulations. enjoy every minute of it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,139 ✭✭✭Always number 1


    Hi All, Happy New Year :)
    Joining this group from the December 2013 group as Bubs hasn't arrived yet.
    I'm back in the hospital tomorrow (40w + 6d) for a normal check up but hopefully something will happen before then.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    Congrats to those of you who have had your babies. Lovely way to ring in the new year :)


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Aww congrats girls:))
    The rest of you are nearly there now:)
    My eldest was 5 today(9 days early) and my baby (8 or more days late,I slightly forget) will be one on Saturday. Time flies!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Back in hospital today. 37 weeks baby is no longer breech. Seems to have gained around one lb since 34 weeks they now reckon baby is 8lb


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    jucko wrote: »
    Twin girls!
    31st at 1710 and 1720
    All well
    Just thrilled.
    Happy New Year!

    Congrats jucko! How are you finding things so far? Did Mammy have a c section? I have to say my recovery from my c has been flying. Once the first day or two went by and I could get up and about I started to feel much better. 2 weeks on now and I am grand, other than the odd twinge or stiffness.

    Are you home yet? That's when the fun begins! We have had some BAD nights thanks to colic and constipation. But using colief and infacol and brown sugar and water and touch wood it seems to be working - we even got a run of 5 hours sleep last night!
    Before the colic appeared though it wasn't too bad - bit of a conveyor belt of change, feed, wind, change, feed, wind but despite the exhaustion we are loving every minute.

    Hope your missis is doing well. Enjoy your girls. Ours are the most wonderful things we ever did!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,139 ✭✭✭Always number 1


    After waking with regular Braxton Hicks from 6 a.m, I started the day hopeful that something was happening then nothing happened. Went in for my usual antenatal appointment and was told that all is as it should be with the baby and that if I hadn't gone by next Wednesday, I have to go back to the hospital (Holles st) for a full scan.
    I didn't get a chance to ask the midwife if that was the norm but I'm hoping that when nothing out of the ordinary came up on mini scan today that next week is just a scan to decide on the next steps. Can anyone advise? Thanks x


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Just routine to check fluid around baby and if placenta is ok because it can start to lose function once you go overdue. It's usually after 42 weeks it stops functioning though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,139 ✭✭✭Always number 1


    Thanks January, when she did mini scan today she said all was fine and I assumed if there had been a problem they'd scan me sooner than next week. It just took me by surprise when she said it and she had left the room before I could ask her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    Hello again lads and ladies..
    Had hospital yesterday at 39+1 and first time to see doc since week 16 as I've been attending midwives until now.Anyway been told baby wasn't engaged last few weeks and that hasn't changed but lovely young female doctor wasn't worried in the slightest.Only new thing is she reckons I'm having a BIG baby.!!!She was chatting about how women are designed to be able to naturally deliver a baby they have grown but sometimes it's just not to be.And as this is my first we haven't tested my pelvis before.Really nice to have a doctor talk normally.
    Has put me in for a scan to check the size and now have that next Thursday just before I'm due back at hospital.Im attending Sligo by the way and scans aren't done except around week 20 if all is well.Its funny because over dinner New Year's Day we were guessing size of baby and I said 7lb7oz...DReAMLAND...haha..

    Anyway just thought I'd share my scary news.:o...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Hello again lads and ladies..
    Had hospital yesterday at 39+1 and first time to see doc since week 16 as I've been attending midwives until now.Anyway been told baby wasn't engaged last few weeks and that hasn't changed but lovely young female doctor wasn't worried in the slightest.Only new thing is she reckons I'm having a BIG baby.!!!She was chatting about how women are designed to be able to naturally deliver a baby they have grown but sometimes it's just not to be.And as this is my first we haven't tested my pelvis before.Really nice to have a doctor talk normally.
    Has put me in for a scan to check the size and now have that next Thursday just before I'm due back at hospital.Im attending Sligo by the way and scans aren't done except around week 20 if all is well.Its funny because over dinner New Year's Day we were guessing size of baby and I said 7lb7oz...DReAMLAND...haha..

    Anyway just thought I'd share my scary news.:o...

    I had a scan at 34 weeks and he was 6lbs 6oz so they reckon he will between 9 and 10lbs I nearly fell out the bed! They keep telling me your body wouldn't make a baby you can't push out!!!! Blah blah blah! But gp asked me the other day if they were going to let me go for the full 40 because of babies size. He is more than 95th percentile on basically everything! So who knows. I am not exactly big myself! On another note, could someone please explain Braxton hicks? I never had them before until today I think!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    If it makes you feel any better I was told the same. Doctor asked me yesterday what size previous babies had been. First was 6lb12oz and second was 8lb and she said "oh this baby will be more than that" so i was shocked. They told me at 34 weeks baby was 7lb so i guess i should have expected it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    rsl1976 wrote: »
    If it makes you feel any better I was told the same. Doctor asked me yesterday what size previous babies had been. First was 6lb12oz and second was 8lb and she said "oh this baby will be more than that" so i was shocked. They told me at 34 weeks baby was 7lb so i guess i should have expected it.

    I am just hoping they were wrong! My Midwives don't seem bothered! They say those scans can be wrong!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Braxton Hicks is the stomach contracting just to prepare you for the real thing. It would be more uncomfortable whereas real contractions will be painful. You should feel your tummy tighten every so often


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Millem wrote: »
    I am just hoping they were wrong! My Midwives don't seem bothered! They say those scans can be wrong!


    Mine didn't seem bothered either. But then again she is not the one that has to push it out:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    Blah blah blah...I'm with you there sister...
    Am thinking that if nothing happens before Thursday after the scan they might see about getting me to either stay or return later to get things going.Id be 40+1 at that stage.Have always said I'd love to go natural but if a c-section was best then it was best.
    Just hate the thoughts of a longer recovery especially as himself heading away for work a few weeks after baba arrives.Needs must!
    Im 6ft myself so it's probably not really a surprise to the doctors.Big surprise to me and my bits though..:P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    rsl1976 wrote: »
    Braxton Hicks is the stomach contracting just to prepare you for the real thing. It would be more uncomfortable whereas real contractions will be painful. You should feel your tummy tighten every so often

    I have started going for big walks and it's like I get "a stitch". Haven't gone yesterday or today because of weather but got "a stitch" today lasted for maybe 5 mins but then nothing. Are these "stitches" Braxton hicks?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    Millem wrote: »
    I have started going for big walks and it's like I get "a stitch". Haven't gone yesterday or today because of weather but got "a stitch" today lasted for maybe 5 mins but then nothing. Are these "stitches" Braxton hicks?


    Doesn't sound like it but i could be wrong. How far along are you. I'm 37+2 and only really feeling them now. The stitch could be just baby sitting somewhere. I am finding when I walk now that it's very painful down below and there was a lot of (sorry tmi alert) discharge today and i'm getting little pains every now and then since last night so i'm hoping something is happening even though yesterday they said baby was not engaged:(


    Sorry just saw you are 39+1


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    rsl1976 wrote: »
    Doesn't sound like it but i could be wrong. How far along are you. I'm 37+2 and only really feeling them now. The stitch could be just baby sitting somewhere. I am finding when I walk now that it's very painful down below and there was a lot of (sorry tmi alert) discharge today and i'm getting little pains every now and then since last night so i'm hoping something is happening even though yesterday they said baby was not engaged:(


    Sorry just saw you are 39+1
    I am around 38 weeks :) I am hearing you on the pain down below and discharge. I feel like a cripple even getting out of bed! braxton hicks are still a mystery to me so :) I just push myself walking cos I am literally traumatised if I go overdue. Gp seems to think I will have baby before my next appointment with him. I wish! Can't handle the vomiting and heartburn anymore, actually have a tear in oesophagus :(


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Don't worry too much girls.
    I was told my 1st was going to be big,she was 7lb 4 ,my friend was told hers was about 8lb and was 11lb 3 and 60cm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    11lb3!!!!
    Sure that's half raised....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    Don't worry too much girls.
    I was told my 1st was going to be big,she was 7lb 4 ,my friend was told hers was about 8lb and was 11lb 3 and 60cm.

    This is what I am hoping for :) just want him out at this stage am really struggling.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    Suppose we can all talk and talk until the cows come home but sooner or later(sooner preferably though!) we'll learn our fate.....and just roll with the punches


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    I was told at a scan a week ago (39 weeks) that he was about 6 pounds 13 ... so I'm not expecting a massive baby. I think his head circumference was quite big in the scans though ... ouch! :eek:

    Re. the Braxton Hicks contractions, I've been getting them a lot the past few nights. For me it's just my tummy going really hard to touch, but they're not at all painful. I'm hoping that the fact they're coming more often means that something's going to happen soon! No pains or pressure or anything yet, though.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    He was huge!!
    The size that 2 of mine were at 6 weeks!!
    Thinking of you all again ,this time last year I was 8 days over due and just wanted it over!!!
    My not so small baby is 1 tomorrow,I can not believe he will not be a baby anymore.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    I was told at a scan a week ago (39 weeks) that he was about 6 pounds 13 ... so I'm not expecting a massive baby. I think his head circumference was quite big in the scans though ... ouch! :eek:

    Re. the Braxton Hicks contractions, I've been getting them a lot the past few nights. For me it's just my tummy going really hard to touch, but they're not at all painful. I'm hoping that the fact they're coming more often means that something's going to happen soon! No pains or pressure or anything yet, though.

    I would worry more about a huge head then a heavy baby!!!
    I have never had Braxton Hicks,dunno if that is good or bad:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    I was told at a scan a week ago (39 weeks) that he was about 6 pounds 13 ... so I'm not expecting a massive baby. I think his head circumference was quite big in the scans though ... ouch! :eek:

    Re. the Braxton Hicks contractions, I've been getting them a lot the past few nights. For me it's just my tummy going really hard to touch, but they're not at all painful. I'm hoping that the fact they're coming more often means that something's going to happen soon! No pains or pressure or anything yet, though.

    Ok I never got Braxton hicks. I wonder do you have to get them? I have lots of pressure and felt rotten all day like I was getting my period. I am just worried that I could be in labour and not realise. Although everyone tells me this is not possible!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    He was huge!! .

    Think we're gonna have to ask you to stop posting here...;)
    Never thought Id had those Braxton Hicks due to no pain but if they can be when your tummy hardens and the likes I've definitely had them this last week.It gets quite pointy at times too.Probably just a big BUM!Taking after a family member there..haha!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    I would worry more about a huge head then a heavy baby!!!
    I have never had Braxton Hicks,dunno if that is good or bad:)

    Haha it's not totally huge, think it was about 65th percentile ... nothing crazy!

    Still seems crazy that we have to squeeze something so big out of such a small space, though. :/ But I'm sure it's doable ... or else no one would ever have more than one baby!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    . or else no one would ever have more than one baby!

    That's what I keep telling myself.In the last year I've had a good few female friends have babies.It ranges from 5lb5oz to 9lb 7oz and 3 hours from waters breaking to birth to 14 hours with failed forceps and emergency c-section....I've heard it all...Just unsure what my story will be yet.:o


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Everyones story is different and even with each baby it is different.My 1st labour from 1st pain to holding baby was 7 hours with about 2 in actual labour and my last was about an hour from 1st pain and 32 minutes in labour.
    What I will say is have your mind made up about what you want when you go in and be prepared to stand up for yourself and make sure who ever is with you is well briefed too.
    2 of mine had huge heads!!and the 3rd one was the hardest labour.
    Soon enough it will be over and the little babies are so worth the 9/10 months of suffering that come before.

    This is most definitely my last baby though!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    What I will say is have your mind made up about what you want when you go in and be prepared to stand up for yourself and make sure who ever is with you is well briefed too..

    I really have no decision made about this. :o I'd like to have a go at doing it without any pain relief, but I'm not going to be a martyr about it at the same time, if I need an epidural or whatever I'll take it.

    It's hard to know when I've never been through it before and don't know what to expect ... I'll probably be a lot more decisive on my next one, when I've had some experience!

    Really hope I get a nice midwife on the day who might be able to help me with the decisions. My boyfriend's no help, he'll just tell me to take aaaaall the drugs. :rolleyes:


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Talk to your midwife or consultant about it on your next visit and discuss the options.
    There will always be other deciding factors too,I had 2 births that even if I wanted pain relief I could not have had it as they were 2 quick,and I told them in an emergency to do anything to keep me and baby safe which luckily has not happened to me.
    Make sure they know who has power of attorney to make decisions in an emergency too (if you are not married).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    I really have no decision made about this. :o I'd like to have a go at doing it without any pain relief, but I'm not going to be a martyr about it at the same time, if I need an epidural or whatever I'll take it.

    It's hard to know when I've never been through it before and don't know what to expect ... I'll probably be a lot more decisive on my next one, when I've had some experience!

    Really hope I get a nice midwife on the day who might be able to help me with the decisions. My boyfriend's no help, he'll just tell me to take aaaaall the drugs. :rolleyes:

    I had to laugh in ante natal classes as someone asked about writing their birth plan, the midwife basically told her they do whatever is best for baby so you can't be refusing the suction things or forceps etc. they told us the epidural delays it as you can't move around and then you are more likely to need interventions. Now this could be a big massive lie from domino midwives as they want natural births! Lol lol My OH gives me no sympathy whatsoever and tells me I should take some tips from one of our dogs who never complained when she had 8 pups!!:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭rsl1976


    I had epidural on first and nothing on the second and if im honest i would prefer nothing this time as well only because i felt much better afterwards. It was also a very quick labour so i had no choice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    rsl1976 wrote: »
    I had epidural on first and nothing on the second and if im honest i would prefer nothing this time as well only because i felt much better afterwards. It was also a very quick labour so i had no choice.

    I am aiming for no epidural as I couldn't cope with side effects if they put it in wrong. I know it is extremely rare but it happened to my sister and it was actually scary. I just keep saying to myself 24 hours of torture (hopefully less!). The midwives told us that everyone toilets during labour from all the pushing which disturbed me as I thought if you didn't have epidural that wouldn't happen! But I am over it now I am sure they are well used to it !


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Millem wrote: »
    I am aiming for no epidural as I couldn't cope with side effects if they put it in wrong. I know it is extremely rare but it happened to my sister and it was actually scary. I just keep saying to myself 24 hours of torture (hopefully less!). The midwives told us that everyone toilets during labour from all the pushing which disturbed me as I thought if you didn't have epidural that wouldn't happen! But I am over it now I am sure they are well used to it !

    I am more afraid of an epidural then childbirth.

    Not everyone does but it happens and that is just part of it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    I am more afraid of an epidural then childbirth.

    Not everyone does but it happens and that is just part of it.

    That's it I am sure they don't even bat an eyelid! The thoughts of an epidural scare me too! As do tears I asked at antenatal class why don't they just give one of those episiotomies? Midwife said she would prefer episiotomy over 2nd or 3rd degree tear! I have not done that massage thing down below to stretch area so I am hoping I don't tear!


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