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Unsavoury accents in business. Offputting?

  • 29-05-2013 2:15pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    Whilst shopping for some new trainer in a busy well established shop at the weekend I approached an assistant to ask if she had a certain size to which she replied in a rather unpleasant accent.


    “I don’t think theres nathin der dat size, Ill takes a look for ya” and off she went.


    This caught me by surprise and her rough accent actually put me off buying.
    I was edging towards the door when an attractive well-presented young lady approached and enquired in a well-mannered tongue “Good day sir, do you need any assistance?
    I replied that I wanted xyz size in the trainer and she replied she had one in the back and off she went.
    She was very prompt and came back with the exact size and I needed and popped them on my feet and they were very comfortable indeed.
    She boxed them up and although a large queue of irate customers had gathered she ushered me to the front explaining that her colleague must have disappeared!
    The other one came back and was scorned rightfully by the other customers.


    Do accents decide who you do business with or would a bad accent put you off?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    No.


  • Registered Users Posts: 453 ✭✭earlytobed


    No, not snobby about accents. More concerned about costomer service


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,136 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Its just an accent ??

    If someone in a shop is nice and actually does there job the right way and shows they actually seem interested i couldnt give a ****e what way they talk !.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,829 ✭✭✭TommyKnocker


    No, neither would their skin color, race religion, age etc etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,207 ✭✭✭maximoose


    I find any sort of uninitiated contact off putting in a shop, regardless of their accent. If I don't come looking for help, leave me alone.

    Shoe shops are the worst for it too, I know they are forced to do it by their employers but I feel like face-kicking the "greeters" in the doorway of Schuh/Office whose sole job is to say hello and goodbye. How f*cking pointless is that?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    No, because I'm not a gobshíte.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    If the person is professional and courteous that's good enough for me. Their accent would mean nothing to me


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    maximoose wrote: »
    but I feel like face-kicking the "greeters" in the doorway of Schuh/Office whose sole job is to say hello and goodbye. How f*cking pointless is that?

    If it were pointless, they wouldn't be made to do it in the first place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,012 ✭✭✭Plazaman


    “I don’t think theres nathin der dat size, Ill takes a look for ya” and off she went.

    Unless it's the receptionist at a high class escort service, then no.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,362 ✭✭✭Sergeant


    I wouldn't buy a car off someone with a strong Dooblin accent. Or a house for that matter. Wouldn't have much problem with buying a pair of runners off that same person though. They'd tend to know a lot about them.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    I do think less of people who affect rough accents.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    OP my husband and I experienced the same type of thing last month in a menswear shop while suit shopping for him. There seemed to be 2 types of suit available, 1 with very narrow lapels and 1 with intentionally obvious stitching on the lapels, both of which we hated. When my husband described what he was looking for the assistant said 'Ah sure that'd be for older gentlemen'. Dafuq, you don't have what he wants so you'll try to embarrass him into buying some overpriced cheap looking suit?

    We went for a browse in Brown Thomas after that and sure as sh*t there was none of that cheap looking crap in their mens dept and plenty of the suits my husband wanted(sadly out of our price range).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Ahoy there; snobs ahead!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,039 ✭✭✭MJ23


    Loike, what soize Dubes? They're totes comfortable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    OP my husband and I experienced the same type of thing last month in a menswear shop while suit shopping for him. There seemed to be 2 types of suit available, 1 with very narrow lapels and 1 with intentionally obvious stitching on the lapels, both of which we hated. When my husband described what he was looking for the assistant said 'Ah sure that'd be for older gentlemen'. Dafuq, you don't have what he wants so you'll try to embarrass him into buying some overpriced cheap looking suit?

    We went for a browse in Brown Thomas after that and sure as sh*t there was none of that cheap looking crap in their mens dept and plenty of the suits my husband wanted(sadly out of our price range).

    So it was nothing to do with the persons accent but the suits which the store stocked....

    A sales person trying to sell you something... the horror


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    Judging people by their accents is very unfair, hows that any better than judging people based on skin colour,religion ,social class etc.


  • Registered Users Posts: 761 ✭✭✭youreadthat


    Not really. A person's view on an accent is almost entirely down to their own prejudices and says more about them than the person or accent they are judging.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,362 ✭✭✭Sergeant


    Not really. A person's view on an accent is almost entirely down to their own prejudices and says more about them than the person or accent they are judging.

    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    Sergeant wrote: »
    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?

    If he has the qualifications and experience what does it matter??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    I wouldn't change my accent for anybody, I try to be as clear and talk as slowly as I can without the local slang, but if you want me to hide where I come from you can sling your hook.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,039 ✭✭✭MJ23


    Would you buy furniture from a lad in a van, wearing a striped shirt, slacks, black loafers, and who has a fat red face and blazing copper topper?


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional East Moderators, Regional North West Moderators Posts: 12,340 Mod ✭✭✭✭miamee


    Sergeant wrote: »
    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?

    If the surgeon is qualified to perform the surgery, what does it matter? Really?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,362 ✭✭✭Sergeant


    miamee wrote: »
    If the surgeon is qualified to perform the surgery, what does it matter? Really?

    It wouldn't fill me with comfort. It may be a prejudice, but I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone like that operating on my spinal cord. Nor would I like someone with a Limerick accent to call to my door offering to carry out a home security assessment. It's just the way it is.

    It would take the most insufferable type of self-professed egalitarian to fool themselves into thinking they don't make judgement calls based on accent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,641 ✭✭✭bgrizzley


    Sergeant wrote: »
    It wouldn't fill me with comfort. It may be a prejudice, but I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone like that operating on my spinal cord. Nor would I like someone with a Limerick accent to call to my door offering to carry out a home security assessment. It's just the way it is.

    It would take the most insufferable type of self-professed egalitarian to fool themselves into thinking they don't make judgement calls based on accent.

    you do realise that not all people in Limerick are criminals?




  • Sergeant wrote: »
    It wouldn't fill me with comfort. It may be a prejudice, but I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone like that operating on my spinal cord. Nor would I like someone with a Limerick accent to call to my door offering to carry out a home security assessment. It's just the way it is.

    It would take the most insufferable type of self-professed egalitarian to fool themselves into thinking they don't make judgement calls based on accent.

    'Someone like that'? Someone with a Dublin accent? Jesus. Yes, we all notice accents and have preconceived ideas about them, but I'd hope most of us realise how silly it is to take it seriously? If I had a surgeon with a strong working class Dublin accent, I'd think it unusual, but I wouldn't worry about his skills.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,362 ✭✭✭Sergeant


    bgrizzley wrote: »
    you do realise that not all people in Limerick are criminals?

    I do realise that. It doesn't mean I don't develop an inherent prejudice when I hear a strong example of the accent.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,109 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    Unfortunately I have to admit that a thick Dublin accent is very offputting for me when I am a consumer. It just sounds like you can't trust the person.

    Also a Kerry accent makes someone sound simple and I find it hard to take their opinions with any authority.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    I don't see how somebody's accent could affect their work ethic, so no, I judge them on their customer service skills. Sorry, OP, I'm not enough of a snob for you, although I come from north Dublin, so that may make my point invalid in your eyes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,028 ✭✭✭H3llR4iser


    Regardless of what most claim, I would say the way people working in retail (and generally in contact with the public) present themselves, including the way they speak, is absolutely fundamental - especially when said retail person is the one initiating contact with the customer.

    I would not be put off buying something because I'd be ultimately interested in the product, which in most cases is not made by the clerk, however speaking in a clear voice, pronouncing words well and well separated, without the use of abbreviations, slang and local terminology, is the most basic form of courtesy.

    Besides, approaching customers trying to sell something is kinda pointless if they cannot understand you...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008


    Sergeant wrote: »
    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?
    I'd be surprised because it's quite unusual for people from the socio-economic background with which the accent is associated to rise to that level in the medical profession. And it's even more unusual to go through so many years at the relevant universities within having the edge taken off a stronger accent. But you don't fluke your way into a job as a neurosurgeon so, no, I wouldn't care what his accent was like if he had attained the relevant qualifications and was deemed fit by the hospital board to carry out complex surgery.

    We all have our prejudices. For example, if I were calling up a seller on adverts.ie looking to buy an ipod, and were greeted with a thick inner-city accent, I would not go through with the purchase if there were no feedback on the account in question. If, however, there were numerous reports of positive dealings with the the vendor then I'd have no reason to assume that their inner scumbag (inherent in all people who possess a particular accent) was going to manifest itself and fleece me. They've proved their worth and I have no reason to judge them based on their accent rather than their actions.


    What you are saying is that no matter what someone does with their life, you will always think lesser of them because of their background. That is straight-up bigotry.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,628 ✭✭✭darkdubh


    Sergeant wrote: »
    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?
    As long as he knew his stuff I woulden't mind how he spoke.Are you snob by any chance?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,127 ✭✭✭yore


    Sergeant wrote: »
    How would you feel if you were about to get complex spinal cord surgery carried out and the surgeon who was discussing the procedure with you in advance sounded like Damien 'Damo' Dempsey?


    DAMO. DAMO DAMO


    I'd be delighted. Sure it's all good



    Jesus, he doesn't even have a "bad" accent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    H3llR4iser wrote: »
    Regardless of what most claim, I would say the way people working in retail (and generally in contact with the public) present themselves, including the way they speak, is absolutely fundamental - especially when said retail person is the one initiating contact with the customer.

    I would not be put off buying something because I'd be ultimately interested in the product, which in most cases is not made by the clerk, however speaking in a clear voice, pronouncing words well and well separated, without the use of abbreviations, slang and local terminology, is the most basic form of courtesy.

    Besides, approaching customers trying to sell something is kinda pointless if they cannot understand you...
    Nobody is a harsher critic of customer service levels in retail (believe me, you don't want to get me started:pac:), but I would never consider someone's accent as a factor in their ability to do their jobs. It stinks of bigotry, pure and simple.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,812 ✭✭✭lertsnim


    Whilst shopping for some new trainer in a busy well established shop at the weekend I approached an assistant to ask if she had a certain size to which she replied in a rather unpleasant accent.


    “I don’t think theres nathin der dat size, Ill takes a look for ya” and off she went.


    This caught me by surprise and her rough accent actually put me off buying.
    I was edging towards the door when an attractive well-presented young lady approached and enquired in a well-mannered tongue “Good day sir, do you need any assistance?
    I replied that I wanted xyz size in the trainer and she replied she had one in the back and off she went.
    She was very prompt and came back with the exact size and I needed and popped them on my feet and they were very comfortable indeed.
    She boxed them up and although a large queue of irate customers had gathered she ushered me to the front explaining that her colleague must have disappeared!
    The other one came back and was scorned rightfully by the other customers.


    Do accents decide who you do business with or would a bad accent put you off?

    You're a bit shallow aren't you.


  • Registered Users Posts: 451 ✭✭Rocket19


    maximoose wrote: »
    I find any sort of uninitiated contact off putting in a shop, regardless of their accent. If I don't come looking for help, leave me alone.

    Shoe shops are the worst for it too, I know they are forced to do it by their employers but I feel like face-kicking the "greeters" in the doorway of Schuh/Office whose sole job is to say hello and goodbye. How f*cking pointless is that?

    It works though. You might find it annoying (many people do), but a lot of people DO respond well to the overbearing approach.

    I used to work in a shoe shop, and we'd circle the customers like sharks when they came in. Before I worked in retail, I thought everyone hated this (I don't like it myself), but they don't! Some people (especially middle aged and older women) actually seem to come into the shop solely to have a chat, and tell you their woes (seriously).
    These people are far, far more likely to make a purchase if you use the pushy, friendly-friendly approach.

    I think younger people (my age) tend to dislike making conversation with the shop assistant, but fail to realise that many older people do appreciate and respond well to the smiling, greeting and the chit chat.
    Though it does put certain people off, and is a bit vomit inducing in general :P, it undoubtedly drives up the sales targets.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 954 ✭✭✭lahalane


    Sergeant wrote: »
    It may be a prejudice

    It IS a prejudice.

    The accent means nothing to me, the attitude is what counts.

    H3llr4iser
    I would not be put off buying something because I'd be ultimately interested in the product, which in most cases is not made by the clerk, however speaking in a clear voice, pronouncing words well and well separated, without the use of abbreviations, slang and local terminology, is the most basic form of courtesy.

    Sometimes these credentials together with a snobby attitude can be very offputting. Eloquent speech is nice but it's not essential, for me anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    Incredible amount of snobs in here.the so called rough accent is the actual dublin accent...why complain?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,965 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    oisindoyle wrote: »
    Incredible amount of snobs in here.the so called rough accent is the actual dublin accent...why complain?
    No, it's not. It's a Dublin accent, but not the Dublin accent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008


    oisindoyle wrote: »
    Incredible amount of snobs in here.the so called rough accent is the actual dublin accent...why complain?
    What is "the actual Dublin accent?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,028 ✭✭✭H3llR4iser


    Nobody is a harsher critic of customer service levels in retail (believe me, you don't want to get me started:pac:), but I would never consider someone's accent as a factor in their ability to do their jobs. It stinks of bigotry, pure and simple.

    Certainly...but we are talking about a job that essentially IS talking, and the person in question has some kind of "peculiarity" exactly with what is one of the major aspects of the job.

    A capable engineer with a peculiar accent will no doubt do absolutely fine in his/her job, as well as, say, a doctor (although I would be wondering why, with all the study and preparation they went through, they never bothered learning to speak their own native language).

    However, a salesperson with poor language skills is to me the same as an engineer with poor technical knowledge or a surgeon with a shaky hand...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,180 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Sergeant wrote: »
    It wouldn't fill me with comfort. It may be a prejudice, but I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone like that operating on my spinal cord. Nor would I like someone with a Limerick accent to call to my door offering to carry out a home security assessment...

    <Harrumph>. I have a Limerick accent. In fact, I sound exactly like this:



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    H3llR4iser wrote: »
    Certainly...but we are talking about a job that essentially IS talking, and the person in question has some kind of "peculiarity" exactly with what is one of the major aspects of the job.

    A capable engineer with a peculiar accent will no doubt do absolutely fine in his/her job, as well as, say, a doctor (although I would be wondering why, with all the study and preparation they went through, they never bothered learning to speak their own native language).

    However, a salesperson with poor language skills is to me the same as an engineer with poor technical knowledge or a surgeon with a shaky hand...
    But as long as they are articulate and able to make themselves understood, what does it matter what accent they have?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,103 ✭✭✭Tiddlypeeps


    If it were pointless, they wouldn't be made to do it in the first place.

    Logical fallacy. Just because something is done by many does not mean it is right/best.

    I'm not saying that it is pointless (I have no idea) just that the logic you used to reach your conclusion does not follow.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭Cody Pomeray


    an attractive well-presented young lady approached and enquired in a well-mannered tongue “Good day sir, do you need any assistance?
    Good day Sir?

    Was she not Irish? I'd probably be wondering why someone was speaking to me in such a strange manner.

    You should have told her to take a leaf out of her colleague's book and relax. It's just runners. I'd rather people didn't speak to me in affected voices when they're selling me things. I'd tend not to trust them.




  • Pace2008 wrote: »
    What is "the actual Dublin accent?"

    "Hoiiii! Hayw are yooooou? What toipe of shewz wush you loike to look ash?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,180 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    "Hoiiii! Hayw are yooooou? What toipe of shewz wush you loike to look ash?"

    I wouldn't buy anything off her either. The Rossmeister General told me - Sorcha's a focking cont!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,298 ✭✭✭Duggys Housemate


    The OP is possibly being more honest than the people answering. Businesses do tend to employ customer facing employees who are well spoken, for a reason I suppose.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    Esoteric_ wrote: »
    I don't see how somebody's accent could affect their work ethic, so no, I judge them on their customer service skills. Sorry, OP, I'm not enough of a snob for you, although I come from north Dublin, so that may make my point invalid in your eyes.

    Not at all, Malahide is a fantastic place.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭Cody Pomeray


    The OP is possibly being more honest than the people answering.
    Really? I'm not sure I believe his exact version of events.

    Aside from the predictable character constructions; one girl with a lower socially ranked accent was a rough and ready shop girl, the other ("Good day Sir", in apparently American vernacular) spoke with a higher socially ranked accent, was exceedingly polite, attractive, let him skip the queue and brought him some trainers which "were very comfortable indeed".

    The entire narrative clearly revolves around a provocative bias that the OP is seeking to legitimize, aka troll.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    Really? I'm not sure I believe his exact version of events.

    Aside from the predictable character constructions; one girl with a lower socially ranked accent was a rough and ready shop girl, the other ("Good day Sir", in apparently American vernacular) spoke with a higher socially ranked accent, was exceedingly polite, attractive, let him skip the queue and brought him some trainers which "were very comfortable indeed".

    The entire narrative clearly revolves around a provocative bias that the OP is seeking to legitimize, aka troll.

    What the?
    I do protest, just because some of us actually venture away from our keyboards and support the high street and meet real people with real problems, and not buy everything on line, never meeting or comunicating with a person face to face.
    I would rather the way I do business and meet attractive sales assistance to woo me into spending my hard earned cash in the place of their ( sometimes struggling ) business.


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