I want to ask the bar man out

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:18am

gowley wrote: »

not for the op.

Why not? He doesn't cheat. That's good, surely?

Unless he's seeing the bartender guy with tattoos and shorts:eek:

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:19am

Chucken wrote: »

Christ Im not up to speed at all
Seeing someone doesnt mean you have a girl/boyfriend?
Im glad all this is behind me :pac:

It just means they've gone on a few dates and it could progress into a relationship...

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:19am

gowley · 02-06-2013 1:20am

rockbeast wrote: »

Why not? He doesn't cheat. That's good, surely?

Unless he's seeing the bartender guy with tattoos and shorts:eek:

its very admirable but no good for the op.

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:21am

gowley wrote: »

its very admirable but no good for the op.

It's all about the looooong game. Lose the battle, win the war

Itwasntme. · 02-06-2013 1:21am

Chucken wrote: »

Aw no

Yeah. I am actually quite sad about it. I've been gathering up the courage to ask him out for a while now. Months to be exact. I didn't bother before because my friend liked him too. But then she moved to Palestine so I thought, well, no more conflict of interest...oh well. At least now I know. I can move on to the other gingers of the world.

PS: His colleague said he gets asked out a lot. Maybe he was just letting me down gently. He looked really apologetic. Now I am just consoling myself... I know. Let me be.

dark crystal · 02-06-2013 1:22am

Chucken wrote: »

Christ Im not up to speed at all
Seeing someone doesnt mean you have a girl/boyfriend?
Im glad all this is behind me :pac:

Well in all honesty, it's a while since I've been on the dating scene myself, but "I'm seeing someone" implies a more casual relationship, whereas if he had said "Sorry, I have a girlfriend" it would imply a more long term thing.*

*This could be complete bullshit, but I'm taking the optimistic route here....

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:22am

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

It just means they've gone on a few dates and it could progress into a relationship...

I see

God ye have it all sussed. If I can say "back in my day" we wouldnt have been brave enough to do that.

Well done

user2011 · 02-06-2013 1:23am

Well done OP and Barman. < Not too many like that!

OP you took the chance and found a good one but he was taken, confidence a bit higher move on too the next one. All experience in this game.

gowley · 02-06-2013 1:24am

Itwasntme. wrote: »

Yeah. I am actually quite sad about it. I've been gathering up the courage to ask him out for a while now. Months to be exact. I didn't bother before because my friend liked him too. But then she moved to Palestine so I thought, well, no more conflict of interest...oh well. At least now I know. I can move on to the other gingers of the world.

PS: His colleague said he gets asked out a lot. Maybe he was just letting me down gently. He looked really apologetic. Now I am just consoling myself... I know. Let me be.

well fair play to you for keeping us interested all night. im sure there are plenty of gingers out there for you

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:26am

All the Gin(ger) joints, in all the towns, in all the world, and she walks in to mine...

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:28am

rockbeast wrote: »

All the Gin(ger) joints, in all the towns, in all the world, and she walks in to mine...

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/6793717248/h54548C5F/

dark crystal · 02-06-2013 1:28am

Itwasntme. wrote: »

But then she moved to Palestine so I thought, well, no more conflict of interest....

Probably one of the worst places to move to if a lack of conflict is what she's after...

BrianG23 · 02-06-2013 1:30am

Itwasntme. wrote: »

Yeah. I am actually quite sad about it. I've been gathering up the courage to ask him out for a while now. Months to be exact. I didn't bother before because my friend liked him too. But then she moved to Palestine so I thought, well, no more conflict of interest...oh well. At least now I know. I can move on to the other gingers of the world.

PS: His colleague said he gets asked out a lot. Maybe he was just letting me down gently. He looked really apologetic. Now I am just consoling myself... I know. Let me be.

Good on you for going for it. Don't worry, you'll find someone else you like, and now you know you have the balls to go for it

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:30am

dark crystal wrote: »

Probably one of the worst places to move to if a lack of conflict is what she's after...

I was being too polite to say that :pac:

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:31am

Chucken wrote: »

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/6793717248/h54548C5F/

I'll take that as a compliment:)

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:33am

Chucken wrote: »

I see
God ye have it all sussed. If I can say "back in my day" we wouldnt have been brave enough to do that.

Well done

After our third date I asked my boyfriend were we still seeing other people etc...he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, together 2 months today.

He only told me recently that he didn't want to ask me out so soon, but thought I was fishing for him to ask me

I was mortified.

dark crystal · 02-06-2013 1:34am

Itwasntme. wrote: »

At least now I know. I can move on to the other gingers of the world.

BrianG23 wrote: »

Good on you for going for it. Don't worry, you'll find someone else you like, and now you know you have the balls to go for it

Itwasntme, meet BrianG23 (ginger). BrianG23, meet Itwasntme (fan of gingers).

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:36am

dark crystal wrote: »

Itwasntme, meet BrianG23 (ginger). BrianG23, meet Itwasntme (fan of gingers).

Very subtle...I like it

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:37am

dark crystal wrote: »

Itwasntme, meet BrianG23 (ginger). BrianG23, meet Itwasntme (fan of gingers).

Good woman

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:37am

dark crystal wrote: »

Itwasntme, meet BrianG23 (ginger). BrianG23, meet Itwasntme (fan of gingers).

Why didn't I think of that???

You're a genius. Let's get them together:)

He's sound, she's sound.

Winning.

Karl Stein · 02-06-2013 1:38am

I wanted a happily-ever-after.

I am dissapoint.

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:38am

PS itwasntme Can you settle a discussion and tell us which city/town you were out in tonight, please?

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:39am

rockbeast wrote: »

Why didn't I think of that???

You're a genius. Let's get them together:)

He's sound, she's sound.

Winning.

And what about Munster guy who was probably in the same pub?

..watching ginger barman with smite in his eyes ><

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:39am

rockbeast wrote: »

PS itwasntme Can you settle a discussion and tell us which city/town you were out in tonight, please?

She lives in Dublin so I'm going with Dublin...

BrianG23 · 02-06-2013 1:42am

Oh lovely, i'm in Dublin already :pac:

dark crystal · 02-06-2013 1:43am

BrianG23 wrote: »

Oh lovely, i'm in Dublin already :pac:

Woo hoo, this thread just got wings!

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:45am

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

She lives in Dublin so I'm going with Dublin...

I said Dublin earlier and got "attacked(:D)" for my assumption!

I'm not looking at anyone in particular...

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:45am

BrianG23 wrote: »

Oh lovely, i'm in Dublin already :pac:

How old are you?

Itwasntme. · 02-06-2013 1:45am

rockbeast wrote: »

PS itwasntme Can you settle a discussion and tell us which city/town you were out in tonight, please?

Oh, sorry about that - I am in Dublin. The bar is in the city centre.

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:46am

Itwasntme. wrote: »

Oh, sorry about that - I am in Dublin. The bar is in the city centre.

I was right, you all owe me a shot at the beers!

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:46am

rockbeast wrote: »

I said Dublin earlier and got "attacked(:D)" for my assumption!

I'm not looking at anyone in particular...

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/3761965568/hB1D4B2E8/

AndyMc · 02-06-2013 1:47am

23 pages Op. Since I started after 12. A captivating story. Shame it didnt work out how you wanted.

Now to find some red dye and learn to dye my hair.

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:48am

Chucken wrote: »

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/3761965568/hB1D4B2E8/

Are you flirting with me?;)...or do you just like kittens?

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:49am

I dyed my hair red, can I be in the running? its deep red though, not firecrotch red.

Do people with ginger hair have ginger pubes?

Sofiztikated · 02-06-2013 1:50am

If it's any concillation, a girl asked me for the shift once, when I was a bar man.

12 years later, we're married.

But yeah, at least you asked. Now you won't kill yourself with what if's.

BrianG23 · 02-06-2013 1:51am

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

How old are you?

I'm 21, just finished 1st year in college and work somewhere in the city within the next few days

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:51am

rockbeast wrote: »

Are you flirting with me?;)...or do you just like kittens?

Will you ever... :pac:

I like kittens!

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:52am

redwig.jpg

AndyMc wrote: »

23 pages Op. Since I started after 12. A captivating story. Shame it didnt work out how you wanted.

Now to find some red dye and learn to dye my hair.

Invest in these, man:D

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:52am

BrianG23 wrote: »

I'm 21, just finished 1st year in college and work somewhere in the city within the next few days

Your username suggests you're 23. you lied to us Brian. Is your name really Brian??

I don't know what to believe anymore.

BrianG23 · 02-06-2013 1:52am

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

I dyed my hair red, can I be in the running? its deep red though, not firecrotch red.

Do people with ginger hair have ginger pubes?

coughYescough, that is why we get rid of them...or at least keep them tidy, they don't look so..well...whatever it is they are

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:53am

Chucken wrote: »

Will you ever... :pac:

I like kittens!

I'm really hoping you're a woman right now:D

Mr.Prodston · 02-06-2013 1:53am

Look my beard is beginning to turn ginger so I believe that I win :cool:

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:55am

BrianG23 wrote: »

coughYescough, that is why we get rid of them...or at least keep them tidy, they don't look so..well...whatever it is they are

This isn't the OP!

We're trying to set you up with itwasntme

This is shameless opportunism on ilikecuddles part:eek:

AndyMc · 02-06-2013 1:55am

rockbeast wrote: »

redwig.jpg

Invest in these, man:D

Best I can do is a bucket of old red paint. Ready to hit the tow next chance I get.

BrianG23 · 02-06-2013 1:55am

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

Your username suggests you're 23. you lied to us Brian. Is your name really Brian??

I don't know what to believe anymore.

Curse you cuddles!

Chucken · 02-06-2013 1:56am

rockbeast wrote: »

I'm really hoping you're a woman right now:D

Im a woman right now and always have been :pac:

Im also probably old enough to be your mother so less of the guff :pac:

Ihatecuddles-old · 02-06-2013 1:57am

rockbeast wrote: »

This isn't the OP!

We're trying to set you up with itwasntme

This is shameless opportunism on ilikecuddles part:eek:

It's clearly past your bedtime. My question was directed at the OP, his coughyescough response was to my ginger pubes question.

Jeez, keep up.

rockbeast · 02-06-2013 1:58am

Chucken wrote: »

Im a woman right now and always have been :pac:

Im also probably old enough to be your mother so less of the guff :pac:

What can I say? This thread has brought out the romantic in me:)

Go on, PM me your age:o

gowley · 02-06-2013 1:59am

rockbeast wrote: »

What can I say? This thread has brought out the romantic in me:)

Go on, PM me your age:o

lol. the beast has a thing for older women.

I want to ask the bar man out

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