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If she said she is 2 young 4 me

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    MadsL wrote: »
    Well, that escalated quickly!

    In fairness, it's about his fourth thread about sex/women, in as many days. :pac:


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    OP you can't just go on those words alone. Objectively, she's not too young. You might not have many things in common to talk about (unless you're very immature), but there's nothing necessarily wrong with an 18-year old and a 24-year old going out, especially not morally speaking.

    But her saying that might be genuine concern about your age gap, or it might just be an excuse for her wanting to end your relationship. Are you getting any other signs that she might want to end things?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,996 ✭✭✭✭nacho libre


    Dave0301 wrote: »
    Reading the thread tittle reminded me of:

    She Sells Seashells,

    By the seashore.

    The shells she sells,

    Are surely seashells.

    Mary Anning . What a great woman she was. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    OP you can't just go on those words alone. Objectively, she's not too young. You might not have many things in common to talk about (unless you're very immature), but there's nothing necessarily wrong with an 18-year old and a 24-year old going out, especially not morally speaking.

    But her saying that might be genuine concern about your age gap, or it might just be an excuse for her wanting to end your relationship. Are you getting any other signs that she might want to end things?


    I'd say the restraining order might be a good indicator! :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭ynul31f47k6b59


    I'm curious. If I said she wasn't too young, what difference would that make? Are you going to send her a load of messages telling her she's wrong? Because that's BOUND to make her want to go out with you.

    Jesus. People are weird.


  • Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    OP you can't just go on those words alone. Objectively, she's not too young. You might not have many things in common to talk about (unless you're very immature), but there's nothing necessarily wrong with an 18-year old and a 24-year old going out, especially not morally speaking.

    But her saying that might be genuine concern about your age gap, or it might just be an excuse for her wanting to end your relationship. Are you getting any other signs that she might want to end things?

    Well, I'm not in a relationship with her, I knew her through a friend wen I was in college and we got on pretty well, so I asked out 4 a date n maybe I initiated it to quickly coz she seemed surprised wen I asked her out it was a bit out of the blue but I liked her and she seemed, like sorta taken aback, a bit shocked and she turned really red ,hesitated for four or five seconds and said Shes too young 4 me, and I was like cool, but it kinda hurt but I tried not to show it, and I said I'll talk to u soon but I haven't talked to her since and it was during the week, and I was thinkin maybe she just doesn't like me and that's an excuse, and now it's too awkward for me too see her again, but I still can't get her out of my mind


  • Site Banned Posts: 280 ✭✭Dr_Brian_Cocks


    nails1 wrote: »
    Well, I'm not in a relationship with her, I knew her through a friend wen I was in college and we got on pretty well, so I asked out 4 a date n maybe I initiated it to quickly coz she seemed surprised wen I asked her out it was a bit out of the blue but I liked her and she seemed, like sorta taken aback, a bit shocked and she turned really red ,hesitated for four or five seconds and said Shes too young 4 me, and I was like cool, but it kinda hurt but I tried not to show it, and I said I'll talk to u soon but I haven't talked to her since and it was during the week, and I was thinkin maybe she just doesn't like me and that's an excuse, and now it's too awkward for me too see her again, but I still can't get her out of my mind

    It's obvious she wants your D.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 988 ✭✭✭deadeye187


    Whats this I stumbled into, is this a f*cking riddle?


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    nails1 wrote: »
    Well, I'm not in a relationship with her, I knew her through a friend wen I was in college and we got on pretty well, so I asked out 4 a date n maybe I initiated it to quickly coz she seemed surprised wen I asked her out it was a bit out of the blue but I liked her and she seemed, like sorta taken aback, a bit shocked and she turned really red ,hesitated for four or five seconds and said Shes too young 4 me, and I was like cool, but it kinda hurt but I tried not to show it, and I said I'll talk to u soon but I haven't talked to her since and it was during the week, and I was thinkin maybe she just doesn't like me and that's an excuse, and now it's too awkward for me too see her again, but I still can't get her out of my mind

    That's some sentence!

    Unfortunately it sounds like she's not that interested in seeing you. But if you're still in the same social circles play it cool round her and see if something can't develop more slowly.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    Yeah I haven't really been thinking about her 2 much for the past hour or 2. I have someone else in my brain now as well so I might ask her out soon and hopefully I get her, but just play it kool and calm and collected and ask her out at a more appropriate occasion This may enable me to recover from previous incident, and perhaps even forget about it. and diminish the obsessive thoughts that I'm currently experiencing when I think too much over stuff like replays in my mind of small incidents that are probably just minor or irrelevant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭mad turnip


    nails1 wrote: »
    Yeah I haven't really been thinking about her 2 much for the past hour or 2. I have someone else in my brain now as well so I might ask her out soon and hopefully I get her, but just play it kool and calm and collected and ask her out at a more appropriate occasion This may enable me to recover from previous incident, and perhaps even forget about it. and diminish the obsessive thoughts that I'm currently experiencing when I think too much over stuff like replays in my mind of small incidents that are probably just minor or irrelevant.

    how old are you so we all get an idea because it sounds like your 15.


  • Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    mad turnip wrote: »
    how old are you so we all get an idea because it sounds like your 15.

    I'm 24 and she's 18 but the other one I was thinking of approaching is 25


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 341 ✭✭Hownowcow


    nails1 wrote: »
    Yeah I haven't really been thinking about her 2 much for the past hour or 2. I have someone else in my brain now as well so I might ask her out soon and hopefully I get her, but just play it kool and calm and collected and ask her out at a more appropriate occasion This may enable me to recover from previous incident, and perhaps even forget about it. and diminish the obsessive thoughts that I'm currently experiencing when I think too much over stuff like replays in my mind of small incidents that are probably just minor or irrelevant.
    nails1 wrote: »
    I'm 24 and she's 18 but the other one I was thinking of approaching is 25


    I have a bad feeling about this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,082 ✭✭✭Feathers


    Maybe she's a stickler for the 'half your age plus 7' thing - just wait til she turns 19 & you're all sorted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    She is 2 yng 4 u.


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