Skipping/Jumping/Cutting Queues in Public

NuckingFacker

Op, you need to buy a taser. Next time someone skips you in a queue, zap the fecker. That'll learn em.















this may or may not be bad advice/legal/wise/humane.

userofbuses

So I think most people agree that it's good to call people on queues. It's really annoying though if nobody else in the queue helps out.

For 99% of people if it's pointed out that they were skipping a queue, they are shamed or embarrassed and would apologise or give an "oops, sorry" but what to do about that 1% who go absolutely crazy like this woman did?
APart from "have a nice day" , I couldn't think of anything else to say that wouldn't have been stooping to her level.

- just to be clear, people had started to queue to get off the bus while we were stuck in traffic, she just wanted to be the first person off the bus, and push past us to be that person - which is why she asked the driver to leave her off immediately while still in traffic, something the bus drivers were told years ago to stop doing. When she did get off, she absolutely legged it down Dawson St.

Myself and the bus driver shared a knowing laugh together.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Was in a que one night in abrakebabra after a hefty night out in college, got up near the front and these asshole guys pushed their way in in front of me. I said loudly, "the back of the que is actually back there" but they ignored me. A few mins later this bitch pushed in in front of me, behind them just as it was my turn to order. I was like sorry get out of my way, this is the front not the back. I could tell she didn't want to make a scene so she said she was with the boys and they held her place for her while she was in the bathroom, which was bull**** since they skipped the queue as well she turned her back on me and I was raging, so I tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around, and I said "here I thought it was only pretty girls that got to skip queues." OH LORD! Even the guy behind the counter laughed, and the girl just left.

Funk It

userofbuses wrote: »

I lived in the UK for six years and I noticed that queuing is much more respected there and that people were much quicker to call people out for littering, making noise in the cinema, skipping queues, etc and that it wouldn't be just one person complaining

Have to agree with you, it does get called out a lot more elsewhere. As much as I dearly love Ireland, it seems to be built into a lot of folks heads that they are all the exception, then they detail this in a range of ignorant ways such as jumping queues. Not saying that queue jumpers are a breed solely to be found in Ireland, but lets just say it was seemingly more widespread/apparent in my eyes.

In my younger years I did get chucked out of a nightclub due to the fact that I wasn't going let a fella skip me in the queue for the jackets at the end of the night. It worked out for the best though as the bouncer had to go fetch my jacket for me after leading me out of the building, the would-be skipper apologised to me outside afterwards strangely enough.

beks101

Oh Jesus.

I'm in Toronto, where strangers smile at you on the subway, hold doors open for you, and apologize for everything, including if YOU bump into THEM.

Just this evening on a packed subway a guy tapped me on the shoulder and asked me if it was ok for him to hold onto the same rail as me.

These stories of absolute arseholery in public spaces make me not want to come home, ever.

az2wp0sye65487

Ah, we love a good queue here! Was at the cinema last night and the screen we were going into was still closed for cleaning. This massive queue formed outside the door waiting for it to open. It was assigned seating, so it's not as if there was any advantage to getting in first!

Then, after the film was over everyone jumps up at the same time and tries to get to the door as quick as possible, causing another queue. Where have you got to be at 11.30pm that's so important??

Just queuing for the sake of it!

Another one is the self service tills in some supermarkets (depending on the layout). If there are tills on 2 sides, and only 1 queue you'll sometimes get peoe tryin to form a second que for one set of tills. They have to be put back in their place fairly quickly.

Anyway OP, best bet is just to be firm and say "excuse me, there's a queue here. You'll have to go to the back" - but I wouldn't consider waiting to get off the bus a queue as such. She just sounds like an ignorant bitch!

seb65

beks101 wrote: »

Oh Jesus.

I'm in Toronto, where strangers smile at you on the subway, hold doors open for you, and apologize for everything, including if YOU bump into THEM.

Just this evening on a packed subway a guy tapped me on the shoulder and asked me if it was ok for him to hold onto the same rail as me.

These stories of absolute arseholery in public spaces make me not want to come home, ever.

I agree. As a Torontonian living in Ireland there is a bit of irritation. People will practically knock you over here without so much as an acknowledgment. That would be considered rude in Canada. Women with these giant, mini-suv prams just expect you to jump out of their way - never saying, excuse me or thank you when you give them the right of way in teeny tiny shop aisles.

I remind myself that it's a cultural thing and that people don't mean to offend. I don't get the pram obsession though.

I do find Irish people are generally more friendly and nicer than Torontonians - and quick to help out a stranger in difficulty. If someone fell on the street here people would help, in Toronto they'd just step over you.

I don't find there's more incidents of line-butting here than at home. There's idiots everywhere.

userofbuses

The thing with the prams along pavements is very true. It also really annoys me when pedestrians make very risky decisions to cross the road in really unsafe situations by shoving their pram out onto the road. Taking a risk with their own safety is one thing but to do the same with their children is really bad.

Cinema's are funny. Most are too cheap to have an usher checking tickets in the actual theatre. Then you get people sitting in other people's seats, who aren't challenged by the people who had tickets for those seats, who in turn end up sitting in someone else's seats and then .... the whole thing turns into a mess. THis wouldn't happen as much in the UK especially in England. I think we Irish people have problems following and enforcing rules.

It also really annoys me in shops and other public places when counter staff allow people to skip queues.

I guess all of these rude and ignorant people make me appreciate the 99% of people who are nice, respectful and polite.

Anyway thanks for all of the replies.

beks101

seb65 wrote: »

I do find Irish people are generally more friendly and nicer than Torontonians - and quick to help out a stranger in difficulty. If someone fell on the street here people would help, in Toronto they'd just step over you.

I find Torontonians pretty helpful and generous as a whole actually. I've had a huge amount of pleasant subway interactions.

When I first got here and couldn't make head or tail of the TTC system, I remember stopping a few people for directions and they went out of their way to walk me to the right entry or help me to figure out which stop I needed to get to. Once a woman stopped me to tell me my lace was open and about to trip me up; a few people have handed me free subway passes that they no longer had use for; one random guy who was doodling on some paper mindlessly ripped it out of his notebook and handed it to me once, just because I happened to be standing beside him (it was a pic of a flower )

I find too that if you happen to make eye contact with someone, they'll generally smile, which is lovely. I like your people

I get what you're saying about friendliness though in a way, IME Torontonians will be less likely to banter with randomers at a bus stop than Irish people will.

April O Neill

beks101 wrote: »

hold doors open for you, and apologize for everything, including if YOU bump into THEM.

This happens in Ireland ALL the time, and I HATE it!

April O Neill

beks101 wrote: »

Once a woman stopped me to tell me my lace was open and about to trip me up;

This has also happened to me in Ireland.

PizzamanIRL

I can just imagine OP with cue cards or something, waiting for someone to skip ahead of her and she whips them out and proudly says 'I'm queuing too, is there some reason why you need to skip the queue?'

Just say 'Hey, ho, whoa, there's a queue'

Ruudi_Mentari

When you mention cutting how do you mean.

listen don't, be losing the head in a queue you'll only draw attention to yourselves..... we'd all like to just break out a machete, and start clearing a path but those people are in the same predicament too.

LizT

I've called people out on it before. I was queueing for tickets for a match in Dublin a few months ago and a middle aged couple came up to me and stood in front of me and the woman said
"You don't mind us standing here, do you, the queue is too long and I don't want to have to stand there for ages, we want to go have lunch"
and I just replied "Yes, I do mind, I've been queueing for 15 minutes" so they left and repeated that all down the queue until someone was stupid enough to let them skip in front of them.

The thing is, if she was maybe a bit more polite about it, I would have felt sorry for her but she was just rude and her sense of entitlement pissed me off.

JD DABA

Pumpkinseeds wrote: »

... to that I just nudge my way back in front and say I don't frigging think so.

And you assume she knew she had skipped the queue why?

Ive almost got into an altercation cause one fktard halfwit who believed physical assault was fine and dandy for him, thought I had skipped a queue and rather than simply say something, which would be the first port of call for anyone with half a fcking brain, he proceeded to shove me, which led to all manners of fun.

In centra's especially, theres usually a couple of tills or even three, with no established rules. People lined left and right and in front of tills, tills opening and closing...absolutely no way to tell whos next.
Which is when shtheads decide 'hey ive been wronged by the world, this man appears to have blatently violated my rights, rather than simply ask, ill resort to chimpanzee mode'. Because I perceive everything correctly always.

EazyD

People who skip queue's are generally entitled, moronic and fairly dense. Anything you do say will have practically zero effect. If you are paying for a beverage or liquid of some sort, it is very possible that it could unexplainably combust on said person(hotter the better). Do apologise and if challenged explain how it's such a pity given that they could have been at the back of the queue, away from harms way.

I accidentally skipped one before because nobody was queuing at the till, they were all queueing perpendicular to it at some distance away. I still don't get that. Lady at the counter told me there was a queue, pointed, I apologised to everyone and went at the back
Some person skipped the whole queue of a bus one morning, we'd been queueing forever because the last one hadn't shown up, so we weren't inclined to let it pass. Told him there's a queue, we've all been queueing since whatever time, and put our arms up "casually" to block him getting on

DubGF

Next time someone is cheeky enough to skip a queue ask them what letter comes after P in the alphabet, worked for me a few times

Caliden

userofbuses wrote: »

I lived in the UK for six years and I noticed that queuing is much more respected there and that people were much quicker to call people out for littering, making noise in the cinema, skipping queues, etc and that it wouldn't be just one person complaining

Case in point, try standing on the left on an escalator. You will find out quite quickly what side you should be standing on.

hardCopy

Try queuing for a ski lift on the continent. Absolute bedlam.

Irish people are very good queuers (sp?) in my experience.

LizT

hardCopy wrote: »

Try queuing for a ski lift on the continent. Absolute bedlam.

Irish people are very good queuers (sp?) in my experience.

I've never found it to be a problem in France or Austria to be honest. Italians tend to be a bit pushy though.

Arpa

Jewel Blue Potato wrote: »

Where have you got to be at 11.30pm that's so important??

Last orders.

I do agree with you though.
I think actually it's that Irish people are generally too polite to say anything about it and therefore people think they can get away with it.

I've made a point of piping up when I see this kind of crap being done to me or anyone else, except of course if they are total knackers and doing so would cause more trouble.

If that b*tch tried to push past me on the bus OP, I would have stood my ground. Youd on't need any clever retort. Not even looked at her, just used my body strength to block her. If she pushed again I would turn around and push her back. Especially since you explained that you were getting off at the next stop too OP. Nobody has a right to touch off you intentionally or push past you. Next instance like that just turn into an evil pri*ck and stare her down, scream at her, make her sh*t herself, she won't be doing it anytime soon again.

ILikeFriday

I think the worst is when whoever is providing the service that is being queued for entertains it and sort of "ok's" it or even thinks of it in the first place.

I used to work for a guy who lets just say took a very different attitude to his friends/regulars than one-off customers. If an "important" person walked in, he would happily abandon serving someone else to give them priority. I think it looks terrible and makes everybody feel awkward.

Pumpkinseeds

ILikeFriday wrote: »

I think the worst is when whoever is providing the service that is being queued for entertains it and sort of "ok's" it or even thinks of it in the first place.

I used to work for a guy who lets just say took a very different attitude to his friends/regulars than one-off customers. If an "important" person walked in, he would happily abandon serving someone else to give them priority. I think it looks terrible and makes everybody feel awkward.

Funny you should say that. My Mum has to have a pint of blood taken for medical reasons every few months and today was one of those days. She has it done as a private patient as well. Anyway as she was sitting waiting for the proceedure to be done a different consultant who'd been passing the room recognised another patient who'd arrived after her. The consultant asked him what he was in for and he was instantly skipped ahead of my mother

Thwip!

The ones for the bus are the worst. Arrive there just as the bus is arriving and proceed to try and skip an entire queue of people. Konbheads

LowKeyReturn

Slightly OT but I've noticed the arrival of the foreign students. Fun and games as they walk six-a-breast and expect you to walk in the road. Head for the small ones and laugh as they bounce off.

skimpydoo

Last year I was flying back from Spain with Aer Lingus and we had a few problems. Our plane was delayed by 30+ minutes and we had to move to another gate. When it came to queue to board, 4 queues formed resulting in people jumping the queues. People in wheelchairs etc should have been allowed on first but this was not the case. The Spanish boarding staff had to call the police and said nobody would be boarding the plane until one queue was formed. Whilst this was been done people were still trying to jump the queue. What's the rush to get on board you already have your seat assigned.

I also hate when you are trying to get of the dart and people are pushing past you to get on. Once I was getting of the dart and someone tried to push past me. I said out loud excuse me for trying to get of the dart and I proceeded to push them back. I just had enough that day and I had to take a stand.

I can remember years ago somebody in a cab pulled up outside an ATM which I was queuing at and asked me is it ok to go ahead of me as they were in a rush and the taxi was on the meter. I replied it's fine with me as long as the rest in the queue don't mind. He did not bother asking anyone else and went to the back of the queue with a not so happy face. He probably thought I was a soft touch.

Two Tone from Limehouse

Here's a question. If you go to get car wash and go into to shop to pay, then come out and see somebody has 'baggsed' the car wash by parking up and then going in to get the ticket, thus getting ahead if you do you have a right to complain?? Thus happened to me twice in last two weeks, and second time very nearly ended up violently

Two Tone from Limehouse

Is it ok to 'bags ' a car wash by parking up and then going in to get ticket? Twice somebody has done this to me in last month and second time I list the head. Who's right? I think it's well taking a liberty

Dubl07

Two Tone from Limehouse wrote: »

Is it ok to 'bags ' a car wash by parking up and then going in to get ticket? Twice somebody has done this to me in last month and second time I list the head. Who's right? I think it's well taking a liberty

Yes. Of course it's okay. Your other options in my locals are to park at a pump or blare on the horn. Neither is to be advised. If you want to get your car washed and have to pay inside the shop, put your car in the queue, pay, return to the vehicle and proceed.

Do not tell the attendant you'll be inside and go to have coffee for 20 minutes. That really pisses off the person behind you when your car is next.