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In a gay relationship and commenting on others

  • 03-10-2013 12:38pm
    #1
    rider
    Registered Users Posts: 8 ✭


    Sorry couldn't think of a more appropriate tittle.

    I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for some time now and was wondering if we do what everyone else does? He knows my 'taste' in guys and I know his. We often joke to each other when we see someone "Oh, you'd love him" or "You'd think hes gorgeous".

    Is the something unique to same sex couples or do mixed sex couples do this also do you think?

    Do you ever get 'caught' looking and if so how does your partner take it?

    Just curious!
    r


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  • #2
    SpaceTime
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    Not unique, although you might cause WWIII and mostly you don't want to recommend potential competitors...

    It would also depend on how your partner would be likely to react. This could vary from being fine with it to divorce ...


  • #3
    Vinz Mesrine
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,833 ✭✭✭Vinz Mesrine


    You're gay, not unique.

    Every couple i have ever met does this, myself included.(Straight M here BTW)


  • #4
    bikeman1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,331 ✭✭✭bikeman1


    Yeah we do it all the time. Can be quite funny at times! All harmless fun! Plenty of hot guys around Dublin, so its nearly everytime we are out and about the place.

    What we say is you can look but not touch!!


  • #5
    unfortunately
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 214 ✭✭unfortunately


    I'd say it depends on the couple and how comfortable they are in their relationship more so that if they are a gay couple, bi couple or straight couple. The one difference is in a gay/bi couple both members can "enjoy" checking out the hot gay/gal.


  • #6
    Antianara
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭Antianara


    I don't particularly understand the point of the post this is not a gay phenomenon. discussing matters relating to the ego or id are universal.


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  • #7
    2Shae
    Registered Users Posts: 224 ✭✭2Shae


    Every damn day this happens. If were are around each other we both tend to point someone out every few minutes or so. Lots of good stroller meat around lately!


  • #8
    Annasopra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,104 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    2Shae wrote: »
    Every damn day this happens. If were are around each other we both tend to point someone out every few minutes or so. Lots of good stroller meat around lately!
    what? stroller meat? wtf?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • #9
    2Shae
    Registered Users Posts: 224 ✭✭2Shae


    Stroller meat - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stroller%20meat

    Basily hot dads / guys.


  • #10
    Annasopra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,104 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    2Shae wrote: »
    Stroller meat - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stroller%20meat

    Basily hot dads / guys.

    I dunno but I personally think thats horrible to refer to people as "meat"

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • #11
    Aard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,905 ✭✭✭Aard


    Relax the cacks. It's meant to be tongue in cheek I imagine. Like "yummy mummy".


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  • #12
    2Shae
    Registered Users Posts: 224 ✭✭2Shae


    Exactly!


  • #13
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    I'm clearly out of touch, I thought they were called DILFs...


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