Access to children

mari1002

Hi,
I am divorced with two kids. Access arrangement is in place but one of my children, after two years of the arrangement being in place, refuses to go. For a while he said after he came back from his father's that he would never go again. He had until last time. He refused point blank, he said his dad is mean, he does not love him anymore. Apparently often he asked his dad to take him home, as he preferred to stay overnight at home. His dad refused without any explanation.

I would like to say here, i not looking for a legal advice. Just thought someone was in a similar situation before.

I contacted my ex about it, he blames me for all this. I suggested that he brings him home for the night, and gradully builds his trust again unyil he s ready to go overnight again. My son started to wet his bed recently. He is always feverish whrn tine with his dad is approaching. I realise that i am supposed to send the kids by law. But at what cost?

Your views will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

January

Your other thread was locked, you need to seek legal advice and we cannot give it here. Please do not start another thread on this issue again.