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TTC and friends pregnancy

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  • 16-04-2014 5:18pm
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    LegacyUser
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    I am anon for this post to avoid detection.

    Myself and my best friend have been TTC since December.

    I found out today over lunch that she is pregnant 12weeks.

    I am devastated and cried. She was so lovely to me and I am embarrassed I responded this way. I am thrilled for her.

    I just feel so upset and disappointed for me and my husband, I have cried most of today. We had hoped to be pregnant together, be on maternity leave together etc now I just feel she has at least three months ahead of me-if I am even pregnant this month.

    I just feel so down and self focused which I hate. How do other people deal with the monthly heartache, yet support friends who you love?


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