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Sexy Mens Underwear :o

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    #62
    Atticus Jung
    Registered Users Posts: 194 ✭✭Atticus Jung


    As someone said, stop thinking like a man. Underwear isn't going to do much, unless it makes her laugh, although if it makes her laugh, go for it.

    This wont be popular, but if you want to get out of the rut, read a bit. If your the least bit open minded I highly recommend David Deida, ya its a bit wierd, but no one understands women and relationships better. The guys a f'in genius at this sort of thing.


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    #63
    howamidifferent
    Registered Users Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    Have you suggested a threesome with her mother?


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    #64
    blueb
    Registered Users Posts: 279 ✭✭blueb


    i was chatting to her yeaterday and i told her i want to try to sort some tings out... it has gotten so bad that now when the baby is asleep we sit in separate rooms on our tablets/smartphone/TV

    I told her once the baby is in bed there will be no smartphone games ect... we need to have a cuddle on sofa or play some games/watch tv together.

    I have been flirting with a girl i shouldnt be via txt/online but as of tonight im breaking contact with her. there was no txt sex or actual sex.. just flirting and daydreams from me... out of total sexual frustration. im tempted to tell my gf about it.. just to show her how badly its affecting me, i have told here 100 times im not happy with our intimacy but she doesnt seem to understand :/


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    #65
    carraig2
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭carraig2


    blueb wrote: »
    i was chatting to her yeaterday and i told her i want to try to sort some tings out... it has gotten so bad that now when the baby is asleep we sit in separate rooms on our tablets/smartphone/TV

    I told her once the baby is in bed there will be no smartphone games ect... we need to have a cuddle on sofa or play some games/watch tv together.

    I have been flirting with a girl i shouldnt be via txt/online but as of tonight im breaking contact with her. there was no txt sex or actual sex.. just flirting and daydreams from me... out of total sexual frustration. im tempted to tell my gf about it.. just to show her how badly its affecting me, i have told here 100 times im not happy with our intimacy but she doesnt seem to understand :/

    There is something wrong if you both sit in separate rooms. Something more wrong here than libido.


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    #66
    blueb
    Registered Users Posts: 279 ✭✭blueb


    to be honest the lack of intimacy has pulled us apart.. its been going on for about a year and a half


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    #67
    Colser
    Registered Users Posts: 5,572 ✭✭✭Colser


    How long are you together? I definitely wouldnt mention the other girl..:eek:


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    #68
    carraig2
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭carraig2


    blueb wrote: »
    to be honest the lack of intimacy has pulled us apart.. its been going on for about a year and a half

    You have been more than patient in my opinion. I will say one other thing to you, not saying this is the case with your lady but was with my wife. She stopped wanting sex and I thought it was babies, work, stress, depression etc. Turned out it wasn't that she didn't want sex, she just didn't want it with me.


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    #69
    blueb
    Registered Users Posts: 279 ✭✭blueb


    been together 5 years... ya probly right about the other girl !


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    #70
    Tiddlypeeps
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,103 ✭✭✭Tiddlypeeps


    blueb wrote: »
    I told her once the baby is in bed there will be no smartphone games ect... we need to have a cuddle on sofa or play some games/watch tv together.

    How did she respond to this?

    I really wouldn't tell her you were considering cheating on her, I doubt that will have the effect you think it will. You could tell her that if she isn't willing to work on the issue that it will likely lead to the relationship ending.


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    #71
    blueb
    Registered Users Posts: 279 ✭✭blueb


    she was positive about it to be honest! we will see how it goes. im not going to initiate sex.. will be super happy with a cuddle and kiss... and im gona get some kinky boxers anyway for when the time is right... she will get a laugh outa that


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    #72
    thegreatgonzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭thegreatgonzo


    Deleted User wrote: »

    Anyway, do the whole rose petals strewn about the bedroom thing. Even have them going up the stairs if you'd like.QUOTE]

    I don't get the whole rose petal thing. If I saw them I'd think great, I'm going to have to clean this **** up later.


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    #73
    blueb
    Registered Users Posts: 279 ✭✭blueb


    she wouldnt go for rose petals.. she loves the massage..but im like hey... wheres my massage :P


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    #74
    Gran Hermano
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,330 ✭✭✭Gran Hermano


    OP, have you tried doggy style?

    You sit, stay, beg and drool?


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    #75
    snausages
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,225 ✭✭✭snausages


    Maybe talk to your GP about the whole med lowered libido thing. I've experienced that effect and it's not nice. You feel sort of deadened inside, and sex is one of nature's greatest anti-depressants. Unless it's ****e.


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    #76
    howamidifferent
    Registered Users Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    snausages wrote: »
    sex is one of nature's greatest anti-depressants. Unless it's ****e.

    Must be using wrong entrance.


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    #77
    McChubbin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,080 ✭✭✭McChubbin


    danniemcq wrote: »
    Do a Barney Stinson and suit up.
    I second this! Nothing sexier than a sharply dress man. A well tailored suit and a little bit of scruff on the chin...UNNF.
    Personally, on the underwear front, I think you should keep it simple- Calvin Klein do some excellent stuff, though they do have a tendency to resemble "budgie-smugglers" on some men. Shop around. If in doubt, ask a tailor for their recommendations.
    And lastly, avoid the novelty elephant thongs AT ALL COST.


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    #78
    kiffer
    Registered Users Posts: 2,097 ✭✭✭kiffer


    More time together in general... romance from scratch.
    Also the baby is plotting against you...
    https://www.sciencenews.org/blog/growth-curve/babies-cry-night-prevent-siblings-scientist-suggests

    Also use the excess frustration energy to exercise more...


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