Anyone else fed up with being single right now?

Temptamperu

you should get 7 cats.

guitarzero

deise08 wrote: »

it's more a case of. as soon as they get it, that's it. the texts stop. No more interest

Then is it a case of they only want one thing or maybe there's a personality clash? These guys could genuinely be looking for a relationship but they probably didnt see any potential.

czechlin

cindrella wrote: »

Its hard to meet someone decent honest good sense of humour, possibly bald (have a thing for bald men) where are all these men ?

Ha! I went for a few dates with a guy like that last year! Pity I would have passed on the details

Deco99

guitarzero wrote: »

Then is it a case of they only want one thing or maybe there's a personality clash? These guys could genuinely be looking for a relationship but they probably didnt see any potential.

... they prob said theyd give her a chance to redeem herself in the boudoir but alas....

c_man

Was up home the last day, Mam says "Oh I think it's the bachelors life for you. Wouldn't it be nice if you found a good woman. But sure I suppose in the modern world, you'll be fine on your own?"

I said nothing to prompt this. Thanks Mam

guitarzero

c_man wrote: »

Was up home the last day, Mam says "Oh I think it's the bachelors life for you. Wouldn't it be nice if you found a good woman. But sure I suppose in the modern world, you'll be fine on your own?"

I said nothing to prompt this. Thanks Mam

Hahaha, this sounds like something straight from 1800's rural Ireland. I can literally see you with your head down, clenching your hat in the dance hall, desperately waiting...

Renegade Mechanic

c_man wrote: »

Was up home the last day, Mam says "Oh I think it's the bachelors life for you. Wouldn't it be nice if you found a good woman. But sure I suppose in the modern world, you'll be fine on your own?"

I said nothing to prompt this. Thanks Mam

Only an Irish mother can be that lovingly blunt.:D

AlwaysAnyTime

Temptamperu wrote: »

you should get 7 cats.

True story, an old lady on my road who lives alone did something like this. But she forgot to take into consideration the fact that cats have kittens. Now there is about 50 cats. They regularly try to enter our open windows (upstairs and downstairs). They lie sprawled across the footpath on sunny days, forcing people to walk on the road. They stare you down as you walk past their house. They attack small dogs (and their owners) as they walk past the house. It's getting out of hand. Please don't become a "cat" lady.

Hotale.com

I hate when a good thread starts going quiet...

Pissy Missy

Well I just finished watching date movie with my single sister, so funny Hey single people, where ye at!?

The Backwards Man

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Well I just finished watching date movie with my single sister, so funny Hey single people, where ye at!?

Watched Tremors, had coffee, went to bed.

It's a death defying life I lead.

Pissy Missy

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Watched Tremors, had coffee, went to bed.

It's a death defying life I lead.

I may watch it sometime, never seen it

Sir Arthur Daley

My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.

The Backwards Man

Pissy Missy wrote: »

I may watch it sometime, never seen it

Yeah, it's good.




*advantage of being single, no need to make small talk on dates.

Pissy Missy

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Yeah, it's good.




*advantage of being single, no need to make small talk on dates.

Yes:pac: cough cough. I agree

The Backwards Man

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.

I could be so good for you
Only if you want me to

It's always the same

Right people right time just the wrong location

Pissy Missy

The Backwards Man wrote: »

I could be so good for you
Only if you want me to

It's always the same

Right people right time just the wrong location

Makes me think of Rihanna 'we fell in love in a hopeless place"

guitarzero

http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/44736.Henry_Rollins

http://jgoin.wordpress.com/2010/01/24/no-shore/

No one names solitude like this guy. Not for chicks.

Sir Arthur Daley

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Makes me think of Rihanna 'we fell in love in a hopeless place"

Sums up every night club in the country.

The Backwards Man

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Makes me think of Rihanna 'we fell in love in a hopeless place"

Er my gawd Terry, 'er indoors would have a art attack if she saw Rihanna

LizzieJones

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Anyone ever get a bit peed off with being single? Maybe I'm just bored but when it seems impossible to meet someone nice or someone that wants more than an easy ride over three years, it does kind of get to you a little.

I have tried dating sites and I'm not saying all guys are the same, but the guys I met were just looking for the one thing. I socialize and put myself out there but in vain it seems. I have lovely friends and family so I'm grateful for that. Before you say anything, I am focusing on myself, trying to keep myself busy but can't help feeling a bit lonely sometimes. Anyone in the same boat?

I don't mind being single but I find it tough to find men my own age who are NOT married when I'm looking for an occasional ride.

Robson Lobson

LizzieJones wrote: »

I don't mind being single but I find it tough to find men my own age who are NOT married when I'm looking for an occasional ride.

Then just ride the married men, they probably aren't getting any anyway.

a very cool kid

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Makes me think of Rihanna 'we fell in love in a hopeless place"

You mean you found some Dove in a soapless place?

deise08

Lads not feeling so annoyed this morning now I know I have ye

herisson

My mam is convinced I'm a lesbian. She hasn't met any of my boyfriends at all.

I don't mind being single, its when people make you feel bad for being single that gets me. And couples being overly touchy feely in public. I'm not a PDA person at all.

ColeTrain

deise08 wrote: »

Lads not feeling so annoyed this morning now I know I have ye

Maybe your problem is that you're being too 'clingy' ?

RoboRat

No, just would like a cuddle or some fun every now and again,

Join a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu club, its fun (tick) you get to cuddle with lots of men (well maybe not cuddle but its close contact) and they are not looking for sex... just your arm, leg or neck :-)

guitarzero

RoboRat wrote: »

Join a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu club, its fun (tick) you get to cuddle with lots of men (well maybe not cuddle but its close contact) and they are not looking for sex... just your arm, leg or neck :-)

:rolleyes:

Renegade Mechanic

a very cool kid wrote: »

You mean you found some Dove in a soapless place?

Washing off at a break neck pace!

pundy

whats worse is not being single with the amount of absolute creeps that are out there. usually found interrupting couples in hipster sh!tholes. they literally dont care if you are in a relationship, they're drunk, they fancy you and they want the ride no matter what.

scenes that wouldnt surprise you why the thread about punching a woman in the nightclub existed... CREEEEEEPS.

Muise...

pundy wrote: »

whats worse is not being single with the amount of absolute creeps that are out there. usually found interrupting couples in hipster sh!tholes. they literally dont care if you are in a relationship, they're drunk, they fancy you and they want the ride no matter what.

scenes that wouldnt surprise you why the thread about punching a woman in the nightclub existed... CREEEEEEPS.

That's your problem right there.

Gannicus

Pissy Missy wrote: »

Anyone ever get a bit peed off with being single?

I know the feeling. I got out of a relationship last September and sometimes I like I'm alone even though I'm in a crowded room. Now with the summer swinging around I'd dreading it even more.

Some of my friends are in relationships and I feel like a 3rd wheel when around a couple or couples especially when they kick off with their P.D.A's.

For the most part but, I do hate being single.

Renegade Mechanic

Excessive PDAs are for arseholes anyway. Nobody needs to see two people loudly devouring each other.

Gannicus

Renegade Mechanic wrote: »

Excessive PDAs are for arseholes anyway. Nobody needs to see two people loudly devouring each other.

My last girlfriend used to moan that I didn't care about her because I don't take part in PDAs..

czechlin

What the hell are PDAs? :eek:

Muise...

czechlin wrote: »

What the hell are PDAs? :eek:

Public Displays of Affection.

Unlike Big Steve's, my coupled-up friends don't do this, but some of them devour me with pleas for attention when I'm the third wheel, their eyes big and grateful for Someone Else To Talk To!

Gannicus

czechlin wrote: »

What the hell are PDAs? :eek:

Public
Displays of
Affection

czechlin

Muise... wrote: »

Public Displays of Affection.

Unlike Big Steve's, my coupled-up friends don't do this, but some of them devour me with pleas for attention when I'm the third wheel, their eyes big and grateful for Someone Else To Talk To!

Big Steve wrote: »

Public
Displays of
Affection

Thanks, I just couldn't figure out what have Personal Digital Assistants to do with relationships...:pac:

deise08

ColeTrain wrote: »

Maybe your problem is that you're being too 'clingy' ?

Ha ha ha
Quite the opposite :-)

Penny Tration

Renegade Mechanic wrote: »

Excessiyve PDAs are for arseholes anyway. Nobody needs to see two people loudly devouring each other.

I hate this. When I'm over in my bf's house with his mates for a session, one of the other girlfriends comes along, too. Now, my bf does the PDA thing, but it's mild, it's like he'll stroke my arm once in a while. The other gf eats face. Bloody horrible to hear/watch.

LizzieJones

Big Steve wrote: »

My last girlfriend used to moan that I didn't care about her because I don't take part in PDAs..

Was she nuts? I hate PDAs.

LizzieJones

Renegade Mechanic wrote: »

Excessive PDAs are for arseholes anyway. Nobody needs to see two people loudly devouring each other.

The worst is being stuck in a queue directly behind a couple sucking each other's faces off and you've got to wait there another hour. Happened to me once. Ugh.

kowloon

I think I like not having anyone around to discover how unhinged I am. I can't keep the mask on 24/7.

Renegade Mechanic

czechlin wrote: »

Thanks, I just couldn't figure out what have Personal Digital Assistants to do with relationships...:pac:

I wanted to make a joke alright but couldn't think of anything witty..

Renegade Mechanic

green_screen wrote: »

I hate this. When I'm over in my bf's house with his mates for a session, one of the other girlfriends comes along, too. Now, my bf does the PDA thing, but it's mild, it's like he'll stroke my arm once in a while. The other gf eats face. Bloody horrible to hear/watch.

Ah yeah, theres nothing wrong with the odd cuddle or peck but Christ some yokes do be like the flip top head on the toothpaste add with each other..

Sauve

kowloon wrote: »

I think I like not having anyone around to discover how unhinged I am. I can't keep the mask on 24/7.

Yeah but the aim is to find someone that you can leave the mask off around.
That's the theory anyway :pac:

Robson Lobson

pundy wrote: »

whats worse is not being single with the amount of absolute creeps that are out there. usually found interrupting couples in hipster sh!tholes. they literally dont care if you are in a relationship, they're drunk, they fancy you and they want the ride no matter what.

scenes that wouldnt surprise you why the thread about punching a woman in the nightclub existed... CREEEEEEPS.

They probably don't even fancy, they're so desperate for a ride they would ride anyone.

thegreatgonzo

I'm ok with being single. It would be hard for me to have a relationship because I'm not settled in any one area or job and I won't be for a while either. I get fed up going to weddings on my own though. Apart from that I don't think about it much, I've plenty other worries at the moment.

Daveysil15

I've never been comfortable with PDA's. My last gf was big into them. After a while she thought I was losing interest in her because I wouldn't always reciprocate. Ever have someone try to kiss you while you're eating? What the fcuk is that all about? It's a mighty bucket for one, FOR ONE, DAMN YOU!!! :mad:

singledad80

I am not at the moment have try to date but did not enjoy it, I guess my x has put me off dating for a while lol, I am happy just me and my son at the moment I hate to get involved so fast with some one else especially if we rush it and move in to fast it be hard to get rid of them So I will take time get to know my self and relax and when I do start it be nice all slow as every other girlfriend has been rushed and I don't need that now.