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The most self entitled thing you've ever seen....

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  • Registered Users Posts: 458 ✭✭grundie


    My 2 1/2 yo daughter is princess obsessed, I don't mind as she'll grow out of it one day. Every day, she goes to a summer fun camp thing that has play rooms, dancing and arts/crafts. It's run by her creche, but for the summer children up to 6 can attend.

    I was asked by another child's mother if I could get my daughter to stop saying she is a princess so much as it was bothering her 5 year old daughter who doesn't like it when there are other princesses around. After a moment of confusion I just said "No, I can't do that". The mother did try to keep the discussion going, but I said sorry and left.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    ArtyM wrote: »
    How did 1 person manage to cover that much ground?
    Was he Taylor Swifting?

    I may regret this but, go on I have to know. WTF is Taylor Swifting?


  • Registered Users Posts: 432 ✭✭TGJD


    I may regret this but, go on I have to know. WTF is Taylor Swifting?

    Taking off your pants and dragging your bare arse across the ground likd a dog.


    You're welcome. :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 655 ✭✭✭minotour


    grundie wrote: »
    My 2 1/2 yo daughter is princess obsessed, I don't mind as she'll grow out of it one day. Every day, she goes to a summer fun camp thing that has play rooms, dancing and arts/crafts. It's run by her creche, but for the summer children up to 6 can attend.

    I was asked by another child's mother if I could get my daughter to stop saying she is a princess so much as it was bothering her 5 year old daughter who doesn't like it when there are other princesses around. After a moment of confusion I just said "No, I can't do that". The mother did try to keep the discussion going, but I said sorry and left.

    Jaysus, tell me where and ill drop my two over as well, they can lay on the princess muck pretty thick!

    What a wagon!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    grundie wrote: »
    My 2 1/2 yo daughter is princess obsessed, I don't mind as she'll grow out of it one day. Every day, she goes to a summer fun camp thing that has play rooms, dancing and arts/crafts. It's run by her creche, but for the summer children up to 6 can attend.

    I was asked by another child's mother if I could get my daughter to stop saying she is a princess so much as it was bothering her 5 year old daughter who doesn't like it when there are other princesses around. After a moment of confusion I just said "No, I can't do that". The mother did try to keep the discussion going, but I said sorry and left.

    It seems like there are two princesses in that girls house!


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  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Andy Mushy Tux


    grundie wrote: »
    My 2 1/2 yo daughter is princess obsessed, I don't mind as she'll grow out of it one day. Every day, she goes to a summer fun camp thing that has play rooms, dancing and arts/crafts. It's run by her creche, but for the summer children up to 6 can attend.

    I was asked by another child's mother if I could get my daughter to stop saying she is a princess so much as it was bothering her 5 year old daughter who doesn't like it when there are other princesses around. After a moment of confusion I just said "No, I can't do that". The mother did try to keep the discussion going, but I said sorry and left.

    I read the bolded bit and went "yeah, maybe okay"
    then the next part ...?? lol
    :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse


    grundie wrote: »
    My 2 1/2 yo daughter is princess obsessed, I don't mind as she'll grow out of it one day. Every day, she goes to a summer fun camp thing that has play rooms, dancing and arts/crafts. It's run by her creche, but for the summer children up to 6 can attend.

    I was asked by another child's mother if I could get my daughter to stop saying she is a princess so much as it was bothering her 5 year old daughter who doesn't like it when there are other princesses around. After a moment of confusion I just said "No, I can't do that". The mother did try to keep the discussion going, but I said sorry and left.


    Is this what happens when you have kids? :(

    I wonder if the mothers of the ten million children who die from hunger each year ever worried about princess overload :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    OldNotWIse wrote: »
    Is this what happens when you have kids? :(
    :

    Only if you grow up thinking that you are the centre of the universe, and consequently so are your progeny.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 194 ✭✭Anonymou


    I dunno would you consider this self-entitled or just plain d!ckheadish behaviour but was at a hurling qualifier a few years ago in Limerick, Galway had just beaten Cork. Anyway during the match I had noticed a woman in front of me playing on her iPhone, clearly enthralled by the match. The match ended and most people scattered onto the pitch, just about to leave when I noticed the phone on the ground. My dad suggested handing it to the stewards, I said we'd wait on and see did this woman return. Sure enough around 25 mins later she returns, she looks under her seat and I say 'does this belong to you'? She kind of just looks at me and mutters 'oh yeah', grabs the phone and walks off with her friend again. Before ye think it was someone pulling a fast one it was definitely the same woman. Just the lack of a 'thank you' that really galls me, not sure how many 15 year olds would have waited around in that situation :mad:

    I might have been raised differently but some people in this country do not appreciate anything!


  • Registered Users Posts: 458 ✭✭grundie


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I read the bolded bit and went "yeah, maybe okay"
    then the next part ...?? lol
    :D

    I mentioned it to the staff of the creche and they told me that the girl in question is just difficult in general. She keeps going in to the toddlers room and hoards the toys even though it isn't allowed and just generally acting like a spoiled diva. They are going to have words with her parents.


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  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    grundie wrote: »
    I mentioned it to the staff of the creche and they told me that the girl in question is just difficult in general. She keeps going in to the toddlers room and hoards the toys even though it isn't allowed and just generally acting like a spoiled diva. They are going to have words with her parents.
    And it isnt even the kids fault. I pity her. She is being turned into a diva by indulgent parenting.


  • Registered Users Posts: 718 ✭✭✭stmol32


    _Redzer_ wrote: »
    I've an older sister who is one and it's infuriating.

    Does that mean you're only 9 months old?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,056 ✭✭✭_Redzer_


    stmol32 wrote: »
    Does that mean you're only 9 months old?

    I actually didn't even notice that :p At the time I was calling her a mooch in my head and meant "she's one of them" instead of actually typing out the former.

    Anger and tiredness aren't great


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    Anonymou wrote: »
    I dunno would you consider this self-entitled or just plain d!ckheadish behaviour but was at a hurling qualifier a few years ago in Limerick, Galway had just beaten Cork. Anyway during the match I had noticed a woman in front of me playing on her iPhone, clearly enthralled by the match. The match ended and most people scattered onto the pitch, just about to leave when I noticed the phone on the ground. My dad suggested handing it to the stewards, I said we'd wait on and see did this woman return. Sure enough around 25 mins later she returns, she looks under her seat and I say 'does this belong to you'? She kind of just looks at me and mutters 'oh yeah', grabs the phone and walks off with her friend again. Before ye think it was someone pulling a fast one it was definitely the same woman. Just the lack of a 'thank you' that really galls me, not sure how many 15 year olds would have waited around in that situation :mad:

    I might have been raised differently but some people in this country do not appreciate anything!

    I get that and just today handed someone money they'd dropped but got nice appreciation for the deed. Personally I would have probably thanked you for about 5 minutes and offered to buy you a pint or something, maybe a few cans of cider seeing as you were 15:P
    But some people are so inherently shy in such situation I imagine they come across as rude but are actually extremely grateful. I have no idea if this was the case in this instance but I think it's something people should be aware of.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,647 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    Personally I would have probably thanked you for about 5 minutes and offered to buy you a pint or something, maybe a few cans of cider seeing as you were 15:P
    I thought you were warned about grooming, Teddy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    Joe prim wrote: »
    Her ma should have saved up, (in all senses of the word), gone to the wedding, and shat all over the place, seems to be socially acceptable , I'm going to try it the next time I'm dragged along as a plus-one to one of these boreathons.

    True to your word Mr Prim.

    http://manchester.tab.co.uk/2014/05/08/kung-poo-manc-nan-in-the-****-for-pooing-in-the-middle-of-chinese-buffet/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 429 ✭✭Afroshack


    I used to work in a large clothing retail store mostly frequented by women with their very small children. Nearly every time I was on the fitting rooms, I'd get a woman with a buggy/couple of kids arguing with me over why she wasn't allowed to use the designated wheelchair fitting room. It normally went like this

    Woman: Can I go in there? *points at room*
    Me: I'm afraid not, that room is only for wheelchair people. Our fitting rooms are usually wide enough to fit the buggy though.
    Woman: Yes, but there is way more space for me and the buggy in the wheelchair room. I feel cramped bringing the buggy into a normal fitting room.
    Me: No, I'm very sorry but that room is only for wheelchair customers.
    Woman: But I have a buggy! I demand to see the manager!

    The odd time when someone did let a buggy in, the kids would climb out, run around and pull the emergency cord, setting off the assistance alarms from the wheelchair room, or we'd get an elderly lady in a chair forced to wait 10/15 minutes. The entitlement of some people is unreal!

    Another favourite: Can I park in the wheelchair space?
    Me: No, that's for wheelchair users only.
    customer: but it's sunday, aren't there different rules on a sunday?
    Me: *smacks head off wall*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 655 ✭✭✭HurtLocker


    Someone bought a laptop in Missouri last week. They also tried buying a taco bell afterwards to celebrate but the card was cancelled. My card :o

    (well a copy of my card Ive never been to Missouri)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    A few years back I was driving my Skoda Fabia down a narrow country road when an Audi A6 came towards me.
    We both pulled in as far as we could but the passanger mirrors on both cars got smashed.
    We stopped and got out and agreed that nothing could have been done and it was 50 -50.
    He then pipes up " you'll still be paying for mine though"
    I asked him how he came to that conclusion as it was 50-50 and he replied "Cos mine is an Audi and yours is only a Skoda"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    ^^ Interesting theory.

    So what happened after??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    I asked him how he came to that conclusion as it was 50-50 and he replied "Cos mine is an Audi and yours is only a Skoda"

    He was kinda right. 50/50 means that you pay half of eachother's damage, not look after your own


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    oldyouth wrote: »
    He was kinda right. 50/50 means that you pay half of eachother's damage, not look after your own

    Aahhh! Good point.

    Although in that situation I'd take 50-50 to mean that we each look after our own damage. It's not Lando's fault someone else drives a car that is expensive to repair.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    Aahhh! Good point.

    Although in that situation I'd take 50-50 to mean that we each look after our own damage. It's not Lando's fault someone else drives a car that is expensive to repair.

    It is though. If a person is 50% to blame, it doesn't matter if the other person's car is worth €1 or €500,000, you are responsible for 50% of the damage

    Not wanting to derail the thread, so I'll leave it there :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    oldyouth wrote: »
    It is though. If a person is 50% to blame, it doesn't matter if the other person's car is worth €1 or €500,000, you are responsible for 50% of the damage

    Not wanting to derail the thread, so I'll leave it there :p

    Disagree (as the two lads with the cars clearly did).

    If you are both 50% responsible, then you are each equally responsible. Since you have no say (or benefit) in the type of car your crashee is driving, it is fair that you look after your own cars damage and he look after his.

    It's 50:50 blame, but it's not your problem if some geezer has a gold-plated car.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,889 ✭✭✭✭The Moldy Gowl


    Its really self entitled to be this pedantic just because you are allowed an opinion


  • Registered Users Posts: 655 ✭✭✭minotour


    A few years back I was driving my Skoda Fabia down a narrow country road when an Audi A6 came towards me.
    We both pulled in as far as we could but the passanger mirrors on both cars got smashed.
    We stopped and got out and agreed that nothing could have been done and it was 50 -50.
    He then pipes up " you'll still be paying for mine though"
    I asked him how he came to that conclusion as it was 50-50 and he replied "Cos mine is an Audi and yours is only a Skoda"

    Im confused........

    (and im not talkin about the spelling, grammar nazi I aint)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    According to his Garda friend who he rang, I pay for my mirror and he pays for his.
    Thats the way it ended, him cursing his luck in having to shell out a couple of hundred for a mirror and me only a fraction of that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,982 ✭✭✭Caliden


    minotour wrote: »
    Im confused........

    (and im not talkin about the spelling, grammar nazi I aint)

    His location is the clue. He's in the Netherlands.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,706 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    Caliden wrote: »
    His location is the clue. He's in the Netherlands.

    It doesn't make a difference! The driver's side is still near the middle of the road, and the passenger's side near the edge.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 655 ✭✭✭minotour


    Caliden wrote: »
    His location is the clue. He's in the Netherlands.

    you reckon he's stoned? I know i would be.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    According to his Garda friend who he rang, I pay for my mirror and he pays for his.
    Thats the way it ended, him cursing his luck in having to shell out a couple of hundred for a mirror and me only a fraction of that.

    As it should be.

    Nobody forced him to buy a car that is expensive to maintain. The 50:50 blame has no bearing on this.

    Well done Lando.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,837 ✭✭✭intellectual dosser


    I'd also suspect that two Skoda Fabia's could have passed without hitting each other.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    Some examples of what is meant by 50/50 settlement. If you agreed to settle your own damages, then it wasn't a 50/50 settlement

    https://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071031074811AAvMcrU

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=297711


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    I have decided to draw a line under this argument.

    As I am entitled to do.

    Myself.

    I have spoken.


  • Registered Users Posts: 655 ✭✭✭minotour


    but we'll never know how both cars lost their passenger mirrors??? Was one reversing? Was one parked in the other direction??? Was it a typo?

    dont leave it hanging.....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    osarusan wrote: »
    It doesn't make a difference! The driver's side is still near the middle of the road, and the passenger's side near the edge.

    You're forgetting the time difference


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭Fred Swanson


    This post has been deleted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    Right, I've read all 43 pages and mauzo's s**t story has to win the Gold.

    However, I don't believe this was answered yet - mauzo, have you told this disgusting guy that he cost you €1,000 in cleaning costs? If not, why not? Has anybody confronted him about it? I just cannot fathom not saying anything to him.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,736 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    My brother (lets call him X) moved back to Ireland shortly after I was made redundant and borrowed €500 for a rent deposit from me. I gave him the cash because I'd gotten my redundancy pay out and wrote the money off because I know he never pays anything back. He was back a week later to ask for €2000 to buy a car.

    He also likes to stay with me when he's in Dublin in an "I'm staying in your house tonight" kind of way, then he wanted to rent my spare room - first I heard of this was from another sibling who told me 'X says he's going to rent your spare room'. I had to put a stop to that pretty sharpish.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    kylith wrote: »
    My brother (lets call him X) moved back to Ireland shortly after I was made redundant and borrowed €500 for a rent deposit from me. I gave him the cash because I'd gotten my redundancy pay out and wrote the money off because I know he never pays anything back. He was back a week later to ask for €2000 to buy a car.

    He also likes to stay with me when he's in Dublin in an "I'm staying in your house tonight" kind of way, then he wanted to rent my spare room - first I heard of this was from another sibling who told me 'X says he's going to rent your spare room'. I had to put a stop to that pretty sharpish.

    Straight talking is what's needed there.

    I would have no problem (in principle) giving a sibling money that we agree I'll never see again, but I'd be upset if it was a "loan" that just went unpaid.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,229 ✭✭✭Sadderday


    ....... people that say ............

    'End Of'

    ........................... nope, you do not get to end this conversation biatch


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,736 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Straight talking is what's needed there.

    I would have no problem (in principle) giving a sibling money that we agree I'll never see again, but I'd be upset if it was a "loan" that just went unpaid.

    It was a straightforward 'no' that he got from me. His last stunt was asking to stay in my house one night then, after I'd had a couple of beers, asking if he could stay there for a month. I gave him the number of someone who had a room to rent. He seems to have taken the hint so far.

    I won't give him any more money, and I wouldn't even if I had it. He's borrowed a ton of money off of other family members and has only paid back as little as he can get away with when they have actively gone looking for it from him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,229 ✭✭✭Sadderday


    Straight talking is what's needed there.

    I would have no problem (in principle) giving a sibling money that we agree I'll never see again, but I'd be upset if it was a "loan" that just went unpaid.


    Well, not as bad.... but my brother, his OH and my nephew were in the US. They were due to return earlier than anticipated because of work.
    There house wouldn't be ready in time (they were renting it out when they were away and wanted to give tenant time to find a new property in the area).

    MY other brother has a gaff five mins from the one coming home. with 3 spare rooms. My brother decides though that he wants to stay with mammy, meaning I have to move out for six weeks, over xmas.

    I was never asked and there was millions of arguments, had to leave tv, electric blanket and empty my wardrobes into suitcases in order to move into my other brothers spare room.

    My mother was just happy to have the family home, as was I... but extremely put out tbh. it was just a few mins away but it wasn't home.

    Everytime since it's come up... my brothers roars laughing about it but it gets to me that he just decided he would take over my space and never asked or even mentioned it directly to me.

    I moved out shortly afterwards, it was 'my room' but really.... it was the 'spare room' that I was sleeping in and had to move out anytime anyone came to stay.

    Never again!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 655 ✭✭✭HurtLocker


    Went to get diesel yesterday at a busy station. Luckily get a free one. But as I fill I notice the two pumps on the other side aren't being used. Why? A stupidly parked car. A women decided as she wasn't getting fuel to park in between the two pumps. Blocking them both. This petrol station had a car park right outside the door :mad: not sheltered like the pumps but it wasn't raining and so what if it had.

    She only bought a pack of cigs and took forever(I'd pumped and was one behind her in the queue)... Some people think of no one else. I personally couldn't do that without feeling like a total scumbag. There was about 7 cars waiting. Another bloke was eating his lunch in his car taking up another pump. 6 pumps in total. 3 effectively out of use.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,035 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    I was working in an African prison and got a severe case of travellers diarrhoea and heat stroke. I ended up having to run into the prison/showers with loads of naked Kenyans and expunging from both ends in front of them. The last thing they expected was a white man to run into the showers strip off and do an exorcist impression :(


    Bust my arse laughing in work with this. Why were you working in an African prison?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,930 ✭✭✭Greyfox


    J Mysterio wrote: »
    Bust my arse laughing in work with this. Why were you working in an African prison?

    It didn't take you long to see the funny side of it :D:D:D


  • Posts: 11,614 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kylith wrote: »
    It was a straightforward 'no' that he got from me. His last stunt was asking to stay in my house one night then, after I'd had a couple of beers, asking if he could stay there for a month. I gave him the number of someone who had a room to rent. He seems to have taken the hint so far.

    I won't give him any more money, and I wouldn't even if I had it. He's borrowed a ton of money off of other family members and has only paid back as little as he can get away with when they have actively gone looking for it from him.

    He sounds like my cousin.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,542 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    mikemac1 wrote: »
    The time a wheelchair user was left at the bus stop as the lazy cow already onboard Dublin bus refused to fold up her child's buggy.

    Drivers have rules to follow and can't have both in the wheelchair space. If something goes wrong and an accident claim goes in it's his job on the line.

    It's not uncommon, it's been discussed on Joe Duffy and in commuting forum but I never believed anyone would do it until I saw it myself

    Should have stopped up the bus and refused to leave until the lazy bitch got off and had some manners. That’s what I would have done


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