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cyberwolf77 wrote: »

The birth control thread is gone, so let us speak of it no more

Speak of this instead:

http://happyplace.someecards.com/op-ed/the-potato-salad-guy-should-do-something-about-israelpalestine/

Didn't know we had one:p

cyberwolf77

Thread was deleted for a reason.

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cyberwolf77 wrote: »

Thread was deleted for a reason.

Over me head- I just picked a comment and made a joke; didn't think there was a whole story behind it- sorry:o

Reference was from Black Adder:o

cyberwolf77

Ah, no worries. Was an odd little thread started in here last night. had to be deleted as it was in no way suited for this forum

Angron

I may be a bit drunk.

Gremlinertia

I may be a little bit stuck in work.. :-(

Also that contraception thread was a real curveball for me.. Being new here I wondered but decided not to question.. Funny though..

x Purple Pawprints x

I survived, yay!

Aforementioned idiots missed the bus on the way home so I had a little nap. Really glad I went, I really didn't want my brother to miss out. He had a ball. Arctic Monkeys are quite good I must say. Much better than Electric Picnic too, and they were good that night. Miles Kane and Jake Bugg were the support acts, we missed the first band, no clue who they were. Both Miles Kane and Alex Turner were born to be front men. Jake Bugg is more unassuming but very talented.

Hope you guys are all well

Angron

Hallo PP.

x Purple Pawprints x

Hey, how's things?

Angron

Ah it's OK, just listening to some music now.

Gremlinertia

Tunes here too. Essential to keep going for the night. Dance sessions on radio not bad at all.

writer_lady170

glad you had fun pp:D

I also wear a lot of black, most of my wardrobe is dark coloured things

I get the feeling tonight will be an all nighter, can't seem to sleep at all!

Howdy to anyone still awake:)

Gremlinertia

Hiya Smiler, I'm still bouncing away here.. :-D How are ya doing besides the insomnia?.

writer_lady170

not doing to bad here aside from the insomnia, glad to be back to my own bed and surroundings:) Just writing up a blog post here and relaxing

How's things with you?

Gremlinertia

I used to blog, may ponder it again. Was not any use at writing anything substantial for some time..

I'm doin ok now, four hours left at work.. Kept going which is good..

writer_lady170

cool, blog's are great for getting random thoughts out and stuff. What did you blog about, if you don't mind me asking?

good to hear you're ok:) nice that you're been kept going..nothing worse than being bored!

Gremlinertia

Blog was just my take on things that were happening in the world or me personally, little rants to get stuff off my chest. Sometimes my battles with my health too.
Yeah job is cool like that, I'll always find stuff to do that was left behind by others..

writer_lady170

ah that's cool, pretty much the same here

that's good:) how do you find working nights?

Gremlinertia

I prefer nights - I can be a bit blunt so it's safer for me not to be working with too many people.. Sounds harsh but it's the way I've become, I just do my job and then I finish and I leave the place. I used to get too consumed with what I was doing so that it became everything I was about.

writer_lady170

that's ok:) totally understand that, I'm not very social with people around:o

Gremlinertia

I just stopped being social in work because then I brought work with me everywhere - I need more me time.. I never gave myself any for most of my adult life and it's affected me quite a bit. I consider myself something of a project now. Bit late but feck it..

writer_lady170

good attitude to have:) I'd say the bringing work everywhere is quite common, haven't worked myself but i'd say it would be hard to 'switch off'. It's great to get me time:)

I'm not very social cos I have an anxiety disorder and something called 'asperger's so it's quite hard to socialise with people. I'm ok with one to one but groups i can do but find them stressful at times

Gremlinertia

Have a couple of issues myself hence the work taking a back seat.. Psychologist said something along a personality disorder, as yet to be determined exactly what.. Also medicated for depression and anxiety. I don't really make plans to meet people because I instantly feel pressure, I just kind of turn up in places and if they are there so be it.. Odd I guess but it works.

If you don't mind me asking, did it take you a long time to get the aspergers diagnosis?

writer_lady170

ahh ok, I hope they find out exactly what it is:) That's good it works for you with meeting people


no problem:) I don't mind at all, it took a while before my diagnosis was made, I was 15 when I got it eventually. Back them little was known about asperger's so my mom was frequently told I would grow out of it or blame it on parenting so there was many a doctors trip over the years. Having said that though, once I accepted it, I haven't looked back since:)

Gremlinertia

It was good to find out I wasn't getting locked up as I was very paranoid about that happening. The staff in the hospital are pretty good but the administration of my care is poor at best.. However I won't go into a rant about that here!.

It's good you got the diagnosis early. I can think of a couple of people I've met over the years that would have an issue but doctors wouldn't have known or experienced enough to see it.. The mind is both marvellous and endlessly frustrating.

writer_lady170

that's good you aren't:) phew! I'm glad that that the hospital staff are good, some that i met were terribly rude! I get ya there on the administration, I hope things improve.

Did it take long to get your diagnosis, if you don't mind me asking?

yeah it's good I was diagnosed early, I know of a few people who got diagnosed a lot later than myself, a lady was on the radio talking about it a few days ago who was diagnosed with it at 35 ( i think). I totally agree about the mind, find it all fascinating:)

Gremlinertia

Years. Mainly because initially I didn't see it, too wrapped in working my ass off and helping others.. Basically ignoring myself.. Not believing mental health was a thing since I came from a very rural background.. I'm only working on it the last about four years I think.

Gremlinertia

Right nearly bedtime, night/morning nocs..

Ted_YNWA

Sweet dreams Grem.

Morning to anyone else lurking.

x Purple Pawprints x

Morning all