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Should I tell my girlfriend I was a virgin

  • 13-07-2014 3:06pm
    #1
    SeanFxx
    Registered Users Posts: 34 ✭


    Hi,

    So Im 20 years old and only recently lost my virginity. I had the opportunity to loose it a few times before but just never did, I didn't want to just lose it at a one night stand.

    The problem is that when I met my girlfriend 5 months ago I kinda insinuated that I was a bit more experienced. I never told her I was a virgin, she told me she lost hers at 15. I didnt tell her because I was embarrassed.

    I think that she might find it weird, is it okay to keep this a secret or should I tell her that I lost it to her?


Comments

  • #2
    Silent Runner
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 180 ✭✭Silent Runner


    Is there anything in particular that is prompting you to tell her?

    I don't know what you mean exactly by insinuated, I take it you made a few off the cuff remarks, maybe not making a big elaborated story?

    If you decide to tell her I can't really see any negative consequences coming from it, I think if anything she will be flattered if you're honest about it.

    Just my two cents


  • #3
    Matteroffact
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 457 ✭✭Matteroffact


    You don't have to tell her if you would prefer not to. Your sex life before you met her is none of her business.


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    She doesn't need to know and you're not in any way morally compelled to tell. Keeping quiet isn't a lie, it's the essence of discretion in sexual matters. :)


  • #5
    Lou.m
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,532 ✭✭✭Lou.m


    SeanFxx wrote: »
    Hi,

    So Im 20 years old and only recently lost my virginity. I had the opportunity to loose it a few times before but just never did, I didn't want to just lose it at a one night stand.

    The problem is that when I met my girlfriend 5 months ago I kinda insinuated that I was a bit more experienced. I never told her I was a virgin, she told me she lost hers at 15. I didnt tell her because I was embarrassed.

    I think that she might find it weird, is it okay to keep this a secret or should I tell her that I lost it to her?


    There should be no issue about you being a virgin it makes no difference. Tell her if you want to. It is not weird at all. :)

    Don't worry about it.

    If you don't feel comfortable with it thats ok. But I think it is nice to let her know about you. But its up to you. She is not gonna think anything of it. :)


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