Sooooo ive just spotted pics of my mates gf with her kit off

tomthetank

Packrat wrote: »

Ok, if nobody is going to say it, I will: Yes, yes it is, and rightly so unless said woman is 5'10 or over.

Size 12 is not fat. Size 12 is everything from curvy to chubby depending on height.

Size 22 is fat.

pol12

Text him..you seen the pics and are on for fun..tell him you can bring a few buddies if more are required..

Spike Witwicky

Jeez some boardsies have no sense of humour

--LOS--

replicate the photo yourself and make a subtle swap

Packrat

tomthetank wrote: »

Size 12 is not fat. Size 12 is everything from curvy to chubby depending on height.

Size 22 is fat.

Yes, of course you're right. Btw, that isnt what i said anyway.

So feel free to munch away, and tell yourself that until you're a size 22 you're ok....;)

Oh, and ftr, curves have nothing to do with size. Some size 6s have curves.

AndonHandon

AndonHandon wrote: »

Don't tell him. No harm has been done but it could be very awkward if he knew that you saw them. What he doesn't know doesn't hurt him in this situation.

It might, if he's given the link to anyone else who might be less circumspect. And if thats the case its not him that's the injured party, it's the girlfriend.

With that in mind he should alert the friend, damage limitation.

Packrat

Packrat wrote: »

Yes, of course you're right. Btw, that isnt what i said anyway.

So feel free to munch away, and tell yourself that until you're a size 22 you're ok....;

Oh, and ftr, curves have nothing to do with size. Some size 6s have curves.

I'm a size six and I'm tiny, I promise you I'm all bones and edges. I can't see how anyone can be curvy at a six unless they're even smaller and I'm under 5ft.

That curvy girl who told you she was a six was probably an 8-10.

weemcd

Only honorable thing to do, while saving any difficult interactions explaining to your friend how you came across (;)) the pictures is this.

Create an anonymous facebook/twitter and post the pictures to it. Invite your friend and plenty of mutual friends. The story will eventually get out.

Meanwhile you won't have to deal with telling the friend and dealing with them becoming upset, angry, throwing accusations at you about how you had the pictures in the first place etc. etc.

Let's face it, bitches lie, she'd probably find out some way to make it your fault if you told the mate!

Sand

I'd warn him subtly. Like drop into conversation that you were interested in watching those movies he setup for you, and if his password for the account was still XYZ and if those movies were still on the account.

Hopefully the lightbulb flashes on and he makes up some bull**** reason about the password being changed or the movies being crap and rushes off to change the password thinking he is still ahead of the game. Meanwhile you're being a mate - in terms of the girlfriend, what has been seen cannot be unseen, but unless she has a penis you've probably not seen anything you didn't expect.

If he doesn't cop on you may have to be less subtle. Like talking about that recent movie Sex Tape, or the Fappening. Or the dangers of storing photos online.

Sand

Sand wrote: »

I'd warn him subtly. Like drop into conversation that you were interested in watching those movies he setup for you, and if his password for the account was still XYZ and if those movies were still on the account.

Hopefully the lightbulb flashes on and he makes up some bull**** reason about the password being changed or the movies being crap and rushes off to change the password thinking he is still ahead of the game. Meanwhile you're being a mate - in terms of the girlfriend, what has been seen cannot be unseen, but unless she has a penis you've probably not seen anything you didn't expect.

If he doesn't you may have to be less subtle. Like talking about that recent movie Sex Tape, or the Fappening.

Or just tell him he might have put up a few pics he shouldn't have.

lm01

He gave you access to the account easy enough. Who knows if you were the only one?

Tell him before someone else decides to be a loudmouth about the whole thing and the pics end up leaked and his girl leaves him for being such an idiot.

Gummy Panda

Has she got pretty feet?

oldyouth

tomthetank wrote: »

Size 12 is not fat. Size 12 is everything from curvy to chubby depending on height.

Size 22 is fat.

Well 12 is not fat but it does get there long before 22

Gummy Panda

oldyouth wrote: »

Well 12 is not fat but it does get there long before 22

I prefer size 14. Cuddley

Sand

Candie wrote: »

Or just tell him he might have put up a few pics he shouldn't have.

Nah, that is a little too crude and direct. Male social etiquette is complex, with a multitude of subtle signals and indicators. Barging on in there without circumspection and careful misdirection would be a major faux pas, leading to embarrassment and discomfort for all men concerned.

DARK-KNIGHT

Show us her titbits

Sand

Sand wrote: »

Nah, that is a little too crude and direct. Male social etiquette is complex, with a multitude of subtle signals and indicators. Barging on in there without circumspection and careful misdirection would be a major faux pas, leading to embarrassment and discomfort for all men concerned.

You're right, we should spare the men the embarrassment. That's the main thing.:D

Sand

lm01 wrote: »

He gave you access to the account easy enough. Who knows if you were the only one?

Tell him before someone else decides to be a loudmouth about the whole thing and the pics end up leaked and his girl leaves him for being such an idiot.

In fairness, while I don't blame the victim, if someone prioritises their privacy, they don't upload pictures of themselves nude onto any device with an internet connection. Unless the GF was oblivious, they would both equally to blame. Though in fairness, the BF is a fecking eejit handing his password out to people.

Sand

Sand wrote: »

In fairness, while I don't blame the victim, if someone prioritises their privacy, they don't upload pictures of themselves nude onto any device with an internet connection. Unless the GF was oblivious, they would both equally to blame. Though in fairness, the BF is a fecking eejit handing his password out to people.

She sent private pics, she didn't put them out in public. He's done that, albeit inadvertently. She didn't do anything wrong, he made a boo-boo.

It's not a risk I'd ever take myself, but he has to bear the responsibility for putting the pics in his Dropbox and giving his friend the link. No equality of blame there.

TheSheriff

Just seeing this thread now,

Why have the photos not been posted yet :O

BorneTobyWilde

Fine here is a pic
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-OjM5dBzjR-M/T7jNTWN3-XI/AAAAAAAAArI/uyY4ZmeYEek/s1600/100_2207.JPG

UCDVet

Tigger wrote: »

he clearly wants you to see them
text him and say thankyou

In all seriousness - it's not *that* uncommon for either the guy, girl, or both, to want someone else to see them. This might be their safe way of gauging your response.

2 to 1 says they invite you over for a threesome.

Specialun

Summer wind wrote: »

Get the pics printed onto a t-shirt and some mugs and coasters and maybe even some keyrings. Give them out to them and all their friends as Christmas presents:D

Good thinking..xmas jumpers are all the rage..and so are titties

Combine the two...$$$$$$$$

tastyt

Tell him you didn't get a chance to look at what you sent him and forget it

Sand

Candie wrote: »

She sent private pics, she didn't put them out in public. He's done that, albeit inadvertently. She didn't do anything wrong, he made a boo-boo.

It's not a risk I'd ever take myself, but he has to bear the responsibility for putting the pics in his Dropbox and giving his friend the link. No equality of blame there.

I agree, the BF is primarily to blame. But the GF isn't blameless. If shes posing for photos taken on her BF's phone...then her absolute priority was not her own privacy. I don't think any adult human being, male or female, is unaware of the reality that if they put photos onto a device with an internet connection their ownership of those images, realistically, ends right there.

Maybe it shouldn't end, but it does end. It is sent to someone else's computer, to store on someone else's hard-drive. It is their image then. They might choose to promise your privacy, but that is all it is - a promise. Even on Boards, your anonymity is limited - if Boards receive a request for your IP they will provide it. If the BF wants to carry around an image of his GF nude, he should rely on memory and/or anticipation.

dmc17

Sand wrote: »

I agree, the BF is primarily to blame. But the GF isn't blameless. If shes posing for photos taken on her BF's phone...then her absolute priority was not her own privacy. I don't think any adult human being, male or female, is unaware of the reality that if they put photos onto a device with an internet connection their ownership of those images ends right there.

Maybe it shouldn't end, but it does end. If the BF wants to carry around an image of his GF nude, he should rely on memory and/or anticipation.

He did! It just so happened that it was cloud memory...

ChippingSodbury

dmc17 wrote: »

He did! It just so happened that it was cloud memory...

Sounds more like "cloudy" memory..

poeticjustice

One solution...blackmail

tell him next time you want a video and a lot more baby oil

kryogen

Without trawling through the thread, has he posted the pics yet or is he just being a prick tease?

Sand

If there was pics by now, there would be more than 6 pages.

Defiler Of The Coffin

I think him walking into an impromptu Powerpoint presentation down in the local with his missus plastered all over the screen in her nakedness would go down very well and would generate anecdotes that would be told in years to come. All very friendly and good natured.