Julien Blanc gets destroyed in CNN interview

Chancer3001

That video doesn't work for me.

Also a video of him doing great things or being lovely won't really sway anybody now.

Were all in agreement he's said some stupid things.

But pua itself is a hugely positive thing

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

"Too many" has a negative connotations.


One person's "two many" is another person's "not enough". People are different. A fact PUA fails to recognise.

Ahhh come off it you're just spouting complete ring now just for the sake of it

Chancer3001

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

"Too many" has a negative connotations.


One person's "two many" is another person's "not enough". People are different. A fact PUA fails to recognise.

Of course pua recognises that.

You can still gauge what too many is. Person by person.

The pua lesson would be , gauge what's too many and don't exceed it.

That could be 2 texts with one girl. 22 with another.

TheBeardedLady

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Ahhh come off it you're just spouting complete ring now just for the sake of it

What's "complete ring"?

Chancer3001

Nonsense

tomwaterford

Chancer3001 wrote: »

Then again, if you ring too often you seem needy. Or too eager.

Women are tricky!!

Surly all yours plans etc can bemade in one phonecall...would you really want to be with someone who you end up wreaking you head over weather or not toget in ttouch with them??

I would rather straight talkers/none of that bull...kinda always have

TheBeardedLady

Ah fellers! I'll leave yous to it! Best of luck with it all! Don't forget to keep your tricks a secret though! VERY important.

Chancer3001

Lol, there's about 1000 videos on YouTube and about 10,000 websites. And a pretty famous book.

Hardly a secret.

But do indeed, leave the discussion to people who know the subject.

TheBeardedLady

Chancer3001 wrote: »

Lol, there's about 1000 videos on YouTube and about 10,000 websites. And a pretty famous book.

Hardly a secret.

But do indeed, leave the discussion to people who know the subject.

If a woman ever knew you were using PUA tecniques, I'd bet my life savings (20 Euro) she'd run a mile. Essential it's kept a secret. I doubt very much you tell, am I right?

DoYouEvenLift

Corrales67 wrote: »

It'seems quite scary the power the media had to spin whatever suits their agenda.


This is Julien Blanc.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS360836BGc

Pua teaches you how to build genuine authentic confidence, some people alluded to them teaching "fake" confidence. Pua teaches you to build your empathy with women and all people and to treat people as unique individuals contrary to what some people want to think.

Damn. Actually an eye opening video, not gonna lie.

TheBeardedLady

Haha! Suuuurrrre.

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

If a woman ever knew you were using PUA tecniques, I'd bet my life savings (20 Euro) she'd run a mile. Essential it's kept a secret. I doubt very much you tell, am I right?

A friend of mine couldn't pull for sh*t then ended up reading a few books about PUA and began to pull all round him. He got so proud of his conquests that he even told a few girls that he used "material" on them and fr the most part they just laughed at it saying it hardly made a difference because he seemed so naturally attractive anyway.

TheBeardedLady

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

A friend of mine couldn't pull for sh*t then ended up reading a few books about PUA and began to pull all round him. He got so proud of his conquests that he even told a few girls that he used "material" on them and fr the most part they just laughed at it saying it hardly made a difference because he seemed so naturally attractive anyway.

That's a lovely story. Doesn't exactly prove me wrong though, does it?

TheBeardedLady

An anecdote about what some friend of a friend said and an obsessive re-reg posting on a weekend night about how chicks really dig PUA doesn't prove me wrong. Sorry!

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

An anecdote about what some friend of a friend said and an obsessive re-reg posting on a weekend night about how chicks really dig PUA doesn't prove me wrong. Sorry!

Never said they dig it just that they aren't completely turned off by it and why would they? Is that too much of a shock to your system? In all honesty most women will never know if a guy reads this stuff or not and frankly any decent woman wouldn't and shouldn't care.

TheBeardedLady

Chicks dig PUA 4 eva.

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

Chicks dig PUA 4 eva.

Being wrong sometimes hurts doesn't it? xoxox

TheBeardedLady

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Never said they dig it just that they aren't completely turned off by it and why would they? Is that too much of a shock to your system? In all honesty most women will never know if a guy reads this stuff or not and frankly any decent woman wouldn't and shouldn't care.

So all the women who've posted on this thread expressing their dislike for it aren't decent in your eyes? Can't they have a preference for what they find attractive?

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

So all the women who've posted on this thread expressing their dislike for it aren't decent in your eyes? Can't they have a preference for what they find attractive?

Yeah but that's tarring all PUA guys with the same brush based on this Julien guy which is completely flawed. It's like claiming all black people are scum just because a black guy murdered a white woman.

Frankly the vast majority of the population, including the members on boards.ie do not have a clue about what PUA actually is.

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

Isn't negging done with the intention of pulling? Do you think I'm trying to pull here?

Yeah you should watch some more videos and sh*t, I'm not impressed so far :pac:

TheBeardedLady

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Yeah but that's tarring all PUA guys with the same brush based on this Julien guy which is completely flawed. It's like claiming all black people are scum just because a black guy murdered a white woman.

Frankly the vast majority of the population, including the members on boards.ie do not have a clue about what PUA actually is.

I never once equated users of PUA to Julien. I understand what attracts some men to it and I imagine they're decent guys for the most part as most people are decent.

I just wouldn't find it attractive and wouldn't find a man who used it attractive.

TheBeardedLady

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Yeah you should watch some more videos and sh*t, I'm not impressed so far :pac:

I've watched some videos. Pure ****e. The gurus are gob****es.

One eyed Jack

Chancer3001 wrote: »

Of course pua recognises that.

You can still gauge what too many is. Person by person.

The pua lesson would be , gauge what's too many and don't exceed it.

That could be 2 texts with one girl. 22 with another.

How in all honesty is a person who doesn't know this already, supposed to be able to gauge what's too much or not enough, without being told that too?

Seriously like, you think this stuff comes naturally to people because it looks that way, to you. What you don't see is that these people have learned from their own experiences, the same thing you're trying to learn from some PUA 'guru'.

Can you see why explaining that to someone would make them laugh? Because it's corny and infantile as fcuk! It could only work on someone of the same or lesser mentality as yourself, and when you reflect on what that says about you, it's hardly going to do much for your self-esteem now, is it?

tomwaterford

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Yeah you should watch some more videos and sh*t, I'm not impressed so far :pac:

So would you say it's not working :P


*it may be time for bed....though any of ye have advice for awkward silences when two supposedly introverts are meant to be having a date ...for a friend like!!!

Talib Fiasco

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

I never once equated users of PUA to Julien. I understand what attracts some men to it and I imagine they're decent guys for the most part as most people are decent.

I just wouldn't find it attractive and wouldn't find a man who used it attractive.

Perfectly acceptable comment to make. That differs greatly from what you said earlier though:

TheBeardedLady wrote: »

If a woman ever knew you were using PUA tecniques, I'd bet my life savings (20 Euro) she'd run a mile.

You see we can all have our own personal opinions but frankly we don't have a clue about what others like... My point is, and like I said earlier, I know from my friend that the women he has got with don't mind so is it feasible to say that some women do not mind it, and may in fact, God forbid, approve of it?

Chancer3001

It's like if a guy gels his hair to make himself look better.

Oh the girls know he's doing it just to look better.

What a swine!!

TheBeardedLady

Perfectly acceptable comment to make. That differs greatly from what you said earlier though:

Nah, it doesn't. Nothing in that quote mentioned the women would equate users of PUA with Julien Blanc, I simply said they'd run a mile if they knew.

You see we can all have our own personal opinions but frankly we don't have a clue about what others like... My point is, and like I said earlier, I know from my friend that the women he has got with don't mind so is it feasible to say that some women do not mind it, and may in fact, God forbid, approve of it?

Some women don't mind but I doubt most. I'm open to being proven wrong though. A man learning how to interact with me off some gob****e on Youtube is not attractive no matter what way you try to dress it up.

Talib Fiasco

tomwaterford wrote: »

So would you say it's not working :P


*it may be time for bed....though any of ye have advice for awkward silences when two supposedly introverts are meant to be having a date ...for a friend like!!!

Personally I have looked into PUA stuff out of curiosity as I know a few lads who're into it, and from them and from my own viewing, the "gurus" you see that are relatively popular are complete frauds who're just there to sell you an attractive looking expensive product but will not help you much or at all.

I have read some stuff by "underground" guys that makes sense to me, a guy who has never really struggled with women, and what I have found correlates across that board and is pretty simple and makes a lot of sense: Make yourself as handsome as possible, have the balls to go talk to people, men and women. Get some hobbies and get involved in things that mean a lot to you and not just to look cool. Learn to love women's company. And do not be afraid to be sexual....this is known as "natural game". Now to the average guy this is all common sense and we all do this anyway. But that's how PUA started...for the geeks and socially shy scholars of the world who needed algebra to unlock her pants, literally.

Chancer3001

The average guy is not hugely successful with the opposite sex. I disagree with you.

The average guy needs a lot of help.

Chancer3001

Also, most of the gurus give away hours and hours of tutorials online. YouTube especially.

And if they do seminars, why wouldn't they? Why shouldn't they?

If you're good at something, try to make money from it!