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The Paedophile Next Door

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    What you will find it that almost all research has been limited to criminal paedophiles only. That is like studying male sexuality by only studying male rapists.

    Criminal paedophiles ............ is there another kind?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    An adult being attracted to a small child is acceptable in your warped twisted opinion???

    I'm afraid you have nothing more to add to this conversation ..........

    I find your own irrational dogma about what people should be allowed think inside their heads and what attracts them or repulses them rather twisted myself, and your contribution to the conversation hardly merits you having any say over whether floggg has more to add of value or not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Criminal paedophiles ............ is there another kind?

    So you think that every person attracted to children acts on that attraction ? Really ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    I randomly selected your second link here as I have not the time this evening to do all 4 so I went with a random selection.

    The paper confirms exactly the very words I used a few posts ago namely that "Also hampering any firm conclusions is that,
    should a correlation between pedophilia and poorer general brain
    function be verified, causality cannot be easily inferred." and it goes on to give reasons why.

    One of the reasons given is one I had not even thought of myself which is that given the majority of our data set are convicted offenders.... rather than people who volunteer themselves..... the IQ issues are just as likely to be correlative to their inability to get away with it, rather than to their predilection to children in the first place.

    Another issue less referenced in the paper of course is that IQ can relate to ability to control ones urges too, rather than to the urges themselves. Another conclusion equally valid but impossible to ascertain without a better data set and study group. It would be mere assumption to declare a link between low IQ and paedophilia for this reason without valid research on a control group of higher IQ pedophiles normalizing for their ability towards self control.

    But like me, the paper warns against falling for correlation. It tells us "The causal association between cognitive capacity and pedophilic interest is only indirect, making correlations between them inherently small".

    The paper also repeats another point I made in the thread which is that our main issue here is sample size and because of this it points out that conclusions remains tentative due to sample sizes.

    So really this paper really does just support what I have been saying already. We need more paedophiles under the microscope, and we need them to be volunteers not apprehended offenders, and we need to be hyper aware of correlation-causation errors.

    In fact the paper makes this quite explicit, agreeing AGAIN with things I already said in posts in this thread already. Such as how we can not assume a causal link between them, but "more plausible" is a root cause to both independantly. "More plausible is the third-variable model (lower diagram of Figure 1), where a perturbation occurs in early brain development and causes each of the characteristics measured here: lower cognitive capacity, decreased rates of right-handedness, and pedophilic interest"

    I made a similar (identical) point about substance abuse which suggested you can not merely assume one X causes the other Y, but as with many correlation errors it is often much more plausible that X and Y have a common cause.

    Good link, and a nice support for everything I have been saying thus far, so cheers for that. Though given how closely it matches my own views and statements so far on the thread, and supports them, I rather suspect I might have read this exact paper when it first came out, assimilated much of it, and then forgot I have read it.

    Eh .......... you must have read a different paper to the one I did so!! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Really??
    What is the ratio between female paedophiles and male paedophiles percentage-wise so??

    There seems to be no real evidence available that this is known. Not even close. Mainly because of how society treats them and thinks about them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    I find your own irrational dogma about what people should be allowed think inside their heads and what attracts them or repulses them rather twisted myself, and your contribution to the conversation hardly merits you having any say over whether floggg has more to add of value or not.

    My apologies ......... I meant to say in my opinion he has nothing more substantial to add to this conversation .......... he may (and probably will :rolleyes:) post some more on this thread but it will be nothing of any value.

    He believes adults being attracted to small children is acceptable ffs!!! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    So you think that every person attracted to children acts on that attraction ? Really ?

    In some form or another yes ............


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    Evidence that females are rare is highly dubious and seriously doubtful.
    Piliger wrote: »
    There seems to be no real evidence available that this is known. Not even close. Mainly because of how society treats them and thinks about them.

    So what evidence were you referring to earlier when you stated that paedophiles are commonly female???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    So what evidence were you referring to earlier when you stated that paedophiles are commonly female???

    Where ?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    My apologies ......... I meant to say in my opinion he has nothing more substantial to add to this conversation .......... he may (and probably will :rolleyes:) post some more on this thread but it will be nothing of any value.

    He believes adults being attracted to small children is acceptable ffs!!! :D

    I have read no such claim by him. But then your idea of what 'acceptable' means is very very confusing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    Evidence that females are rare is highly dubious and seriously doubtful.
    Piliger wrote: »
    Where ?

    :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    floggg wrote: »
    It is not, and cannot be, a question of acceptable or unacceptable, right or wrong etc.

    That would imply that having this attractions was something we could judge by moral standards of some sort.

    But any rational standard of morality would require the person make some sort of choice or exercise a reasonable degree of control over matters before their actions or circumstances can be judged on moral grounds.

    Involuntary actions should never really be considered immoral though as you have no control over them.


    Whether we like it or not, these attractions are involuntary and I'm sure many people with them would prefer not to have it. They can't help it though.

    So we can't really say having these attractions are unacceptable - since they will remain whether we "accept" it or not.

    What is however completely unacceptable is acting on these attractions. That, people do have control over and anybody who chooses to act on it as abhorrent and should be punished to the full extent of the law.

    But unless and until they do (or attempt to), they do nothing wrong whatsoever.
    Piliger wrote: »
    I have read no such claim by him. But then your idea of what 'acceptable' means is very very confusing.

    I'm starting to doubt your ability to read .......... *sigh* ......... see above


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    :rolleyes:

    Thanks for admitting that I never said it. No worries.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    I'm starting to doubt your ability to read .......... *sigh* ......... see above

    Firstly, please note that some of us have other things in our lives and cannot read every single post every time.

    While saying that I find it 'interesting' to read the very first line in the quote that you posted.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    If it wouldn't change your opinion of them, your priorities are not fine, not even close.

    Never said I wouldn't. If a data set changes I always change my conclusions related to that data set. Many opinions would change. I would re-evaluate the safety of me and mine. And for 2 people in particular, If they expressed an attraction (rather than a desire to rape or hurt), my overall evaluation of the safety of me and mine would remain functionally similar.

    However this thread is not about me as a mod made clear we should be on topic, so I mention the above to make the on topic point that if we are to decide how to treat these people, the first thing we have to do is separate attraction and action, desire and intent, because they are entirely different things and the treatment of such people will entirely depend on which they are.
    I can honestly say I have never fantasised about anything that I categorically would not do.

    I have. Many people have. Finding slow and painful ways to off your boss tends to be a favourite.There is about three people in my work place I have thought about hitting square on the nose too. I never intend to do it, nor would I. Everything about what makes me ME simply precludes me ever even remotely actually acting on such thoughts.

    And this too is an avenue into answering the question that is on topic, and not about me. I already mentioned the preliminary positive results we have had from non-real porn with these people. Separating thought and intent, and curbing intent by working with thought, is a promising area of progress here which I hope they find ethical ways to explore.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Criminal paedophiles ............ is there another kind?

    Clearly there is. The ones that never have committed a crime against anyone are no criminals. The ones who have are.

    And to treat pedophilia and understand it, what we need is a data set not solely based on convicts. We need open discourse and evaluation and study of ALL pedophile types. Without this I hold little hope of ever creating useful treatment plans.

    Convicting them of thought crime is a move which is never going to allow us to treat them or find a way to treat them which is what the thread is about.
    MadDog76 wrote: »
    you must have read a different paper to the one I did so!!

    Did I quote something that was not in the paper? Did I interpret something in particular wrong? Given you replied to not one shred of my response to the paper, I can do little to nothing with your blanket dismissal here.
    MadDog76 wrote: »
    He believes adults being attracted to small children is acceptable ffs!!! :D

    More accurately my position is that I think that whatever goes on in the privacy of ones brain is entirely their business and no one elses, and is simply irrelevant to me in any way unless they come to us seeking help, in which case I feel we should offer it. And that is what the thread is about. How to treat them.

    So my position is not that it is acceptable OR unacceptable. My position is that what goes on in peoples heads is _irrelevant_ unless they seek help, perpetuate a crime, or their thoughts are useful data to us in formulating a cure or treatment for them.... which is what the thread is about.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    Piliger wrote: »
    Evidence that females are rare is highly dubious and seriously doubtful.

    I think the papers in question were implying RELATIVELY rare rather than simply RARE. And that is not dubious at all I fear. Compared to the number of male pedophiles I would say that female ones are indeed comparatively rare.

    But really as you point out yourself the kinds of figures we have to go on with this are poor as most of our knowledge comes from convicted abusers. And there is not only the issue that females are rarer in this, but convictions of them likely are too. Especially given many of the types of abuse from females might not be.... for want of a prettier way of putting it.... as forensically detectable as that from males.
    Piliger wrote: »
    What you will find it that almost all research has been limited to criminal paedophiles only. That is like studying male sexuality by only studying male rapists.

    Very true. And the studies linked to so far here mention this too. And I have mentioned it numerous times. Until we foster an environment where non-abusing pedophiles come forward and we add them to the data set, our data set is painfully incomplete.

    We see around us innumerable non-abusing males with attractions to females. So that is the "norm" or that attraction we know. We do not judge male sexual interest in females solely by judgement of convicted rapists and abusers. If we did we would never leave ANY male alone with a woman.

    The same is not true for pedophiles. The entire sample set people have to draw their impressions from IS the convicted rapists and abusers. The over all public impression of such people is therefore going to be sculpted by this.

    But for every rapist and abuser of children, how many people have the attraction but do not act and never would? 1:1? 1:100? 1:10,000? We simply do not know. We simply do not have the data.

    But given the estimates from the linked studies on how many people are pedophiles (one name mentioned by MadDog has even estimated upwards of 400million in the world) compared to the number of convictions we have for it, I do not think the ratio likely to be small.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    Two excellent posts nozzferrahhtoo, though your last statement begs the comment to be made yet again that the community of studies across the world in this area are widely accepted to be both limited, biased and inadequate. Either they are limited, as we agree, to the criminal and the caught kind, or are carried out by groups with an agenda that makes their reports almost worthless. This especially applies to female paedophiles. I wish I could remember where I saw it but about two years ago I saw a report from some survey (And YES all surveys should be taken with a shovel of salt !) where abuse my mothers of their children and children in their care came out higher than child abuse my men. But this is politically incorrect poison these days and is ignored thoroughly by the media.

    We are going through a period when the media are exploiting paedophilia for all it is worth and every red cent they can screw out of it, and the resulting hysteria has created an atmosphere where the public has little patience with people wanting to study this phenomena.

    Until that changes, I cannot see much progress being made in the area. Meanwhile we have a thought police ranting and raving with their own brand of hysteria.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    I would genuinely like to read the results and the study if you ever remember it and find it again!

    That second point is a point I have not made on the thread myself but is one I probably should have indeed. The current media frenzy about paedophilia in general, fueled by everything from the crimes of Christian churches coming to light, to the outing of Television personalities and celebrities, means constructive discourse on the subject of study or treatment is likely not going to be good for some time.

    Though I would add that someone who works a good angle on it might be able to get funding for study in such an atmosphere too. Depends how they play it and sell it I guess.

    I have mentioned a few times that there has been inferences that allowing pedophiles access to erotic material that is not of actual people (cartoons, drawings and so forth) has shown positive results. Can you imagine the media reaction however if it was shown to be true and someone suggested implementing it???? I would expect a blood bath.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    Firstly, please note that some of us have other things in our lives and cannot read every single post every time.

    While saying that I find it 'interesting' to read the very first line in the quote that you posted.

    Well if you're going to take the time to post on a thread maybe take the time to read the thread first.......... if you're going to take the time to support another poster at the very least take the time to read his posts first so that we don't end up going around in circles or have a one-sided conversation.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    floggg wrote: »
    It is not, and cannot be, a question of acceptable or unacceptable, right or wrong etc.

    That would imply that having this attractions was something we could judge by moral standards of some sort.

    But any rational standard of morality would require the person make some sort of choice or exercise a reasonable degree of control over matters before their actions or circumstances can be judged on moral grounds.

    Involuntary actions should never really be considered immoral though as you have no control over them.


    Whether we like it or not, these attractions are involuntary and I'm sure many people with them would prefer not to have it. They can't help it though.

    So we can't really say having these attractions are unacceptable - since they will remain whether we "accept" it or not.

    What is however completely unacceptable is acting on these attractions. That, people do have control over and anybody who chooses to act on it as abhorrent and should be punished to the full extent of the law.

    But unless and until they do (or attempt to), they do nothing wrong whatsoever.
    MadDog76 wrote: »
    My apologies ......... I meant to say in my opinion he has nothing more substantial to add to this conversation .......... he may (and probably will :rolleyes:) post some more on this thread but it will be nothing of any value.

    He believes adults being attracted to small children is acceptable ffs!!! :D
    Piliger wrote: »
    I have read no such claim by him. But then your idea of what 'acceptable' means is very very confusing.
    Clearly there is. The ones that never have committed a crime against anyone are no criminals. The ones who have are.

    And to treat pedophilia and understand it, what we need is a data set not solely based on convicts. We need open discourse and evaluation and study of ALL pedophile types. Without this I hold little hope of ever creating useful treatment plans.

    Convicting them of thought crime is a move which is never going to allow us to treat them or find a way to treat them which is what the thread is about.



    Did I quote something that was not in the paper? Did I interpret something in particular wrong? Given you replied to not one shred of my response to the paper, I can do little to nothing with your blanket dismissal here.



    More accurately my position is that I think that whatever goes on in the privacy of ones brain is entirely their business and no one elses, and is simply irrelevant to me in any way unless they come to us seeking help, in which case I feel we should offer it. And that is what the thread is about. How to treat them.

    So my position is not that it is acceptable OR unacceptable. My position is that what goes on in peoples heads is _irrelevant_ unless they seek help, perpetuate a crime, or their thoughts are useful data to us in formulating a cure or treatment for them.... which is what the thread is about.

    The HE being floggg .......... this thread is not all about you :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    I think the papers in question were implying RELATIVELY rare rather than simply RARE. And that is not dubious at all I fear. Compared to the number of male pedophiles I would say that female ones are indeed comparatively rare.

    But really as you point out yourself the kinds of figures we have to go on with this are poor as most of our knowledge comes from convicted abusers. And there is not only the issue that females are rarer in this, but convictions of them likely are too. Especially given many of the types of abuse from females might not be.... for want of a prettier way of putting it.... as forensically detectable as that from males.



    Very true. And the studies linked to so far here mention this too. And I have mentioned it numerous times. Until we foster an environment where non-abusing pedophiles come forward and we add them to the data set, our data set is painfully incomplete.

    We see around us innumerable non-abusing males with attractions to females. So that is the "norm" or that attraction we know. We do not judge male sexual interest in females solely by judgement of convicted rapists and abusers. If we did we would never leave ANY male alone with a woman.

    The same is not true for pedophiles. The entire sample set people have to draw their impressions from IS the convicted rapists and abusers. The over all public impression of such people is therefore going to be sculpted by this.

    But for every rapist and abuser of children, how many people have the attraction but do not act and never would? 1:1? 1:100? 1:10,000? We simply do not know. We simply do not have the data.

    But given the estimates from the linked studies on how many people are pedophiles (one name mentioned by MadDog has even estimated upwards of 400million in the world) compared to the number of convictions we have for it, I do not think the ratio likely to be small.

    But surely it is more important to study the Abusing paedophile as opposed to studying the Non-Abusing self-controlled paedophile ........ after all we don't need to worry about your "safe" paedophiles now do we?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    Two excellent posts nozzferrahhtoo, though your last statement begs the comment to be made yet again that the community of studies across the world in this area are widely accepted to be both limited, biased and inadequate. Either they are limited, as we agree, to the criminal and the caught kind, or are carried out by groups with an agenda that makes their reports almost worthless. This especially applies to female paedophiles. I wish I could remember where I saw it but about two years ago I saw a report from some survey (And YES all surveys should be taken with a shovel of salt !) where abuse my mothers of their children and children in their care came out higher than child abuse my men. But this is politically incorrect poison these days and is ignored thoroughly by the media.

    We are going through a period when the media are exploiting paedophilia for all it is worth and every red cent they can screw out of it, and the resulting hysteria has created an atmosphere where the public has little patience with people wanting to study this phenomena.

    Until that changes, I cannot see much progress being made in the area. Meanwhile we have a thought police ranting and raving with their own brand of hysteria.

    So you (and others) seem to be separating paedophiles into two distinct categories ......... those who have the urges and attractions but have not and would not act upon these urges .......... they would have to be considered, by your logic, as not dangerous to children.

    Then there are the paedophiles who do act on these urges and hurt small children ........... the, as you and others have called them, Criminal and Caught paedophiles ............ they would have to be considered, and indeed are, dangerous to children.

    So while the study and treatment of "safe" paedophiles may be interesting it surely cannot be considered a priority right???
    Surely it's the study of the dangerous paedophiles that are a priority ........... the same studies that you, and others, have criticised as not being as valid as the potential studies of "safe" paedophiles ............ I don't see the logic in that argument at all :confused:

    Unless of course you consider "safe" paedophiles to be potentially dangerous to small children maybe ......... ???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,824 ✭✭✭floggg


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    I'm starting to doubt your ability to read .......... *sigh* ......... see above

    And what of your own comprehension skills?

    It seems in your eagerness to jump on a soap box, you missed my point entirely (and not for the first time).

    Which of course makes your silly attempts at personal put downs rather ironic.

    Since i think i made the point reasonably clearly (as others have clearly gotten it), I won't bother repeating myself.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    The HE being floggg

    And I think, though he can correct me, that the position I describe matches his own too.
    MadDog76 wrote: »
    But surely it is more important to study the Abusing paedophile as opposed to studying the Non-Abusing self-controlled paedophile ........ after all we don't need to worry about your "safe" paedophiles now do we?

    If "worry" is your only motivator then you might almost have a point, but recall the thread is about how to treat these people. And understanding all types and all angles on it is important to THAT agenda.

    However as I pointed out before we do need to "worry" about them. We might not need to "worry" about them engaging in crimes against children.... but we need to worry about THEM and THEIR well being too.

    The self loathing and depression many of them feel at finding attractions within themselves that are abhorrent to them... is worthy of our concern. They do not magically cease to be Human when they have such attractions. They are still human, and they are still worthy of our effort to find a way to treat them. And that is the point of this thread. HOW can we treat them? What would treatment plans be? How do we find them and test them? How would we implement them.
    MadDog76 wrote: »
    So while the study and treatment of "safe" paedophiles may be interesting it surely cannot be considered a priority right???

    Wrong.

    For example we do not actually know that the attractions are in any way leading to the abuse. It might be something else that causes people to abuse. And the pedophilia merely influences WHO they abuse. People with the "abuse defect" but without the "pedophilia defect" are the ones that rape and abuse adult women for example.

    So if we limit our study only to the group you suggest, then this is data we can not get. If we attempt to study ALL groups as I suggest then we can start to unravel the mystery of whether X leads to Y, Y leads to X, X and Y are independent entirely, or X and Y both have a root cause Z.

    This is pretty much science 101 though it might not be naturally obvious to the scientific lay person such as yourself. But when attempting to diagnose causes or explanations in science, the first step is to isolate variables as much as possible. So the interest in studying non-offending pedophiles would be to isolate further the "pedophilia" trait from the "abuse" trait to study it in a modular fashion. This is how science works..... we isolate the variable to be studied as much as we can. Ideally to "one" where at all possible.

    And if and when we get THAT data, then we can have constructive discourse and research on actual treatments.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,824 ✭✭✭floggg


    And I think, though he can correct me, that the position I describe matches his own too.

    While I would largely agree with you, my point is slightly different.

    To call it unacceptable infers there is some choice in the matter. There isn't though

    Nobody chooses to have these attractions. So we can't say it's unacceptable from a moral view point because they aren't doing anything wrong by having these unwanted attractions. They can't help it, and I assume most don't want them.

    They would obviously be extremely wrong to act on them though.

    Even ignoring the moral angle, calling the state of affairs "unacceptable" is a bit absurd because we can't really refuse to accept it as a factual state of being. We may not like it, but we can't do anything about it.

    To call it unacceptable would be akin to calling earthquakes unacceptable. Earthquakes are horrible, undesired and cause great harm and suffering, but they occur whether we describe them as "acceptable" or not.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    Indeed. Perhaps much of it comes from the human penchant to have opposites. "If it is not unacceptable then you must think it is acceptable". It has to be black or white.

    What you present above, and what I would entirely agree with, is that there is a more neutral approach. It simply is the state of affairs it is, and "acceptable and unacceptable" simply does not come into it.... until such time as the individual attempts to implement his desires in the real world.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,824 ✭✭✭floggg


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    So you (and others) seem to be separating paedophiles into two distinct categories ......... those who have the urges and attractions but have not and would not act upon these urges .......... they would have to be considered, by your logic, as not dangerous to children.

    Then there are the paedophiles who do act on these urges and hurt small children ........... the, as you and others have called them, Criminal and Caught paedophiles ............ they would have to be considered, and indeed are, dangerous to children.

    So while the study and treatment of "safe" paedophiles may be interesting it surely cannot be considered a priority right???
    Surely it's the study of the dangerous paedophiles that are a priority ........... the same studies that you, and others, have criticised as not being as valid as the potential studies of "safe" paedophiles ............ I don't see the logic in that argument at all :confused:

    Unless of course you consider "safe" paedophiles to be potentially dangerous to small children maybe ......... ???

    You seems to think the world to be very black and white.

    Firstly, I imagine their is no clear divide between "dangerous" and "non-dangerous" pedophiles. There are going to be many people who fall into one side or the other, but others will be somewhere in the middle.

    If you only study one extreme, you won't ever have a complete understanding of the picture, or what might choices or circumstances might result in those in the middle committing abuse.

    You likely won't ever got an accurate understanding of causation from studying only offenders - as they may be more likely to also have other personality traits or issues which might lead them to be more prone to abuse or violence than others.

    So to isolate the cause of the attractions, you will to be able to separate attraction from other issues.

    If you can't understand the cause, formulating a treatment will be much more difficult.

    And obviously as nozzferhatoo has said, the fact that non-offenders themselves would also benefit from more research on this is reason enough itself.

    We already study and treat a whole range of mental, sexual and emotional issues which affect people's quality of life but which don't pose a risk to other people. Why should this be any different?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Well if you're going to take the time to post on a thread maybe take the time to read the thread first
    No thanks.
    if you're going to take the time to support another poster at the very least take the time to read his posts first so that we don't end up going around in circles or have a one-sided conversation.
    My posts are completely coherent with their topic thank you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    But surely it is more important to study the Abusing paedophile as opposed to studying the Non-Abusing self-controlled paedophile ........ after all we don't need to worry about your "safe" paedophiles now do we?

    So you do actually think that those that study male sexuality should only bother studying rapists ?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    floggg wrote: »
    While I would largely agree with you, my point is slightly different.

    To call it unacceptable infers there is some choice in the matter. There isn't though

    Nobody chooses to have these attractions. So we can't say it's unacceptable from a moral view point because they aren't doing anything wrong by having these unwanted attractions. They can't help it, and I assume most don't want them.

    They would obviously be extremely wrong to act on them though.

    Even ignoring the moral angle, calling the state of affairs "unacceptable" is a bit absurd because we can't really refuse to accept it as a factual state of being. We may not like it, but we can't do anything about it.

    To call it unacceptable would be akin to calling earthquakes unacceptable. Earthquakes are horrible, undesired and cause great harm and suffering, but they occur whether we describe them as "acceptable" or not.

    It also infers some kind of sanction on those with these 'unacceptable' emotions, which is an appalling vista.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    Piliger wrote: »
    It also infers some kind of sanction on those with these 'unacceptable' emotions, which is an appalling vista.

    Well then, call me appalling so ........... and what shall we call the paedophiles???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    floggg wrote: »
    You seems to think the world to be very black and white.

    Firstly, I imagine their is no clear divide between "dangerous" and "non-dangerous" pedophiles. There are going to be many people who fall into one side or the other, but others will be somewhere in the middle.

    If you only study one extreme, you won't ever have a complete understanding of the picture, or what might choices or circumstances might result in those in the middle committing abuse.

    You likely won't ever got an accurate understanding of causation from studying only offenders - as they may be more likely to also have other personality traits or issues which might lead them to be more prone to abuse or violence than others.

    So to isolate the cause of the attractions, you will to be able to separate attraction from other issues.

    If you can't understand the cause, formulating a treatment will be much more difficult.

    And obviously as nozzferhatoo has said, the fact that non-offenders themselves would also benefit from more research on this is reason enough itself.

    We already study and treat a whole range of mental, sexual and emotional issues which affect people's quality of life but which don't pose a risk to other people. Why should this be any different?

    You can't have it both ways ......... a paedophile is either dangerous or he is not dangerous .......... they don't half abuse a child


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    You can't have it both ways ......... a paedophile is either dangerous or he is not dangerous .......... they don't half abuse a child

    Personally I find that an astonishingly naive world view.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Well then, call me appalling so ........... and what shall we call the paedophiles???

    Please try to apply some kind of accuracy. I never called you appalling.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,491 ✭✭✭looking_around


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    You can't have it both ways ......... a paedophile is either dangerous or he is not dangerous .......... they don't half abuse a child

    every single person in the world has the potential to be dangerous.

    I'll repeat "every. single. person."

    so is every person either dangerous or not dangerous? thats an extremely narrow viewpoint. and impossible. It's not one or the other.

    Paedophiles are human, they aren't a separate entity who are different from the rest of the human population. Humans arent just good or evil.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    every single person in the world has the potential to be dangerous.

    I'll repeat "every. single. person."

    so is every person either dangerous or not dangerous? thats an extremely narrow viewpoint. and impossible. It's not one or the other.

    Paedophiles are human, they aren't a separate entity who are different from the rest of the human population. Humans arent just good or evil.

    I find it distasteful that you would attempt to put paedophiles in the same category as "every single person in the world" ......... they are not the same as the rest of society, they are (potentially) dangerous to children in particular ......... please don't try to say that I am potentially dangerous to children, I'm not.
    If you feel that you are then that's your issue, I am definitely not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭porsche959


    It seems that one of those interviewed on camera in the programme "The Paedophile Next Door" has been reported to police for admitting to viewing child abuse images.

    Which somewhat vindicates me in my view that this was a badly executed programme, even if the idea might have been legitimate.

    The point of the programme, as far as I understand it, seems to have been to make a distinction between paedophilia, as an 'infliction', sexual disorder, abnormality or whatever, as opposed to the actual act of abusing a child - in itself a legitimate distinction, and valid subject to research, but, well, if they've ended in a criminal complaint against their main interviewee, they've just pissed off everyone really and done a really s.hitty job.


  • Registered Users Posts: 535 ✭✭✭ALiasEX


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    I find it distasteful that you would attempt to put paedophiles in the same category as "every single person in the world" ......... they are not the same as the rest of society, they are (potentially) dangerous to children in particular ......... please don't try to say that I am potentially dangerous to children, I'm not.
    If you feel that you are then that's your issue, I am definitely not.
    You are. Child (sexual) abuse is often committed by non-pedophiles.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭porsche959


    Piliger wrote: »
    What you will find it that almost all research has been limited to criminal paedophiles only. That is like studying male sexuality by only studying male rapists.

    A moment's consideration shows that this is not a reasonable comparison.

    Under the criminal law, all acts (as opposed to inclinations, fantasies, etc) of peadophilia are de facto criminal, however, clearly all acts of male sexuality are not rape, in fact only a comparatively small subset (one hopes) of them are.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    ALiasEX wrote: »
    You are. Child (sexual) abuse is often committed by non-pedophiles.

    Maybe you are ........ I am not


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    Mr.McLovin wrote: »

    I dont think that we need to treat them , if theyre not committing any crimes then its none of your business. We used to think that it was wrong for people to be attracted to the same gender, and so we 'treated' and even killed gay people. Obviously we see that thats wrong now. Its what hes attracted to, he cant help it, as long as he doesnt act on it then nobody has any right to treat him


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    I dont think that we need to treat them , if theyre not committing any crimes then its none of your business. We used to think that it was wrong for people to be attracted to the same gender, and so we 'treated' and even killed gay people. Obviously we see that thats wrong now. Its what hes attracted to, he cant help it, as long as he doesnt act on it then nobody has any right to treat him

    I would agree with this ......... if a paedophile doesn't act out his attractions (although I'm not sure if this is possible?) then he doesn't need any treatment.

    As it happens the paedophile (Eddie) who featured in the documentary has in fact given in to his urges and is now facing criminal prosecution ........


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    porsche959 wrote: »
    A moment's consideration shows that this is not a reasonable comparison.

    Under the criminal law, all acts (as opposed to inclinations, fantasies, etc) of peadophilia are de facto criminal, however, clearly all acts of male sexuality are not rape, in fact only a comparatively small subset (one hopes) of them are.

    But all paedophiles are not completely limited to sexual acts with children. Some live normal lives with active sexual relations with their wives or partners.

    It may not be a direct and parallel comparison, but I think it is a reasonable one. It is seeking to study only those that commit a crime, and not those who have the emotions but do nothing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    I dont think that we need to treat them , if theyre not committing any crimes then its none of your business. We used to think that it was wrong for people to be attracted to the same gender, and so we 'treated' and even killed gay people. Obviously we see that thats wrong now. Its what hes attracted to, he cant help it, as long as he doesnt act on it then nobody has any right to treat him

    I disagree. We do need to offer them treatment if we can develop it.

    And the main point was, I think, was that only by studying them can we learn the origins and real nature of paedophilia.

    I have no direct knowledge naturally, but I suspect that a great number of people with those feelings would like to get rid of them or suppress them or modify them in some way.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭porsche959


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    As it happens the paedophile (Eddie) who featured in the documentary has in fact given in to his urges and is now facing criminal prosecution ........

    Just to point out, my understanding is that Eddie was reported for statements he made during the programme itself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    I find it distasteful that you would attempt to put paedophiles in the same category as "every single person in the world" ......... they are not the same as the rest of society, they are (potentially) dangerous to children in particular ......... please don't try to say that I am potentially dangerous to children, I'm not.
    If you feel that you are then that's your issue, I am definitely not.

    So you say. But how is society to know ? That is the point surely.


  • Registered Users Posts: 535 ✭✭✭ALiasEX


    MadDog76 wrote: »
    Maybe you are ........ I am not
    You have said you would abuse a person for your own needs if necessary, what if you were stranded on an island with only a child?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,162 ✭✭✭MadDog76


    ALiasEX wrote: »
    You have said you would abuse a person for your own needs if necessary, what if you were stranded on an island with only a child?

    Have I said that???
    Please feel free to quote the non-existent post where I said "I would abuse a person for my own needs if necessary" ......... or just admit you're lying, whichever is easier for you :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 499 ✭✭Shep_Dog


    porsche959 wrote: »
    Under the criminal law, all acts (as opposed to inclinations, fantasies, etc) of peadophilia are de facto criminal,
    Inclinations will be too, as under the new Sexual Offenses Bill, an attempt to do something is just as criminal as the potential act. So, clicking on a web page link to 'Hot 17-year-olds' will be an offense (of attempting to gain access to child pornography), punishable by up to 5 years in prison...even if the next page is actually 'jaded 30-year-olds' or the 'Irish Times'.

    As to expressing fantasy, in a recent court case in Ireland a man was convicted of distributing child pornography when he used an instant messaging service to discuss a (very) sick fantasy concerning a child. Oddly, if he had said the same things verbally it would not have been an offense. But if he had said these things to a health professional, the practitioner would have been obliged to report him to the authorities who would have raided his house to find evidence to use against him.

    The unfortunate subject of the documentary has been reported to police for admitting viewing indecent images of children. In the UK, that is classified as 'making' such images. If the police seize his computers and find forensic traces of any images, no matter how long ago deleted, they could charge him.


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