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lufties wrote: »

his profile, which seems to be solely based around his looks and appeal to women.

This appears to be at the heart of your issue with him. He's a good looking guy who women enjoy looking at. Get over it. There's whole industries based on the premise that many people, of both sexes, enjoy looking at people they find attractive. Bressie's celeb status being contingent on his looks is hardly unusual or particularly noteworthy.

Timmyctc

lufties wrote: »

No, I'm saying bressie loves the sound of his own voice like most celebrities. I know its cynicism on my part and fair dues for his 'coming out', I just think he's milking it to boost his profile, which seems to be solely based around his looks and appeal to women.

Because telling people you're depressed is a sure fire way to do that.

Also I don't get this speaking out thing, and don't need a two bit 'celebrity' to influence my actions.

Stop strawmanning. You know fine rightly what was meant. There is a stigma attached to mental illnesses. High profile members of society addressing this issue is positive as it helps to remove said stigma. Maybe that's a bit too difficult for you to comprehend.

Larianne

lufties wrote: »

No, I'm saying bressie loves the sound of his own voice like most celebrities. I know its cynicism on my part and fair dues for his 'coming out', I just think he's milking it to boost his profile, which seems to be solely based around his looks and appeal to women.

Also I don't get this speaking out thing, and don't need a two bit 'celebrity' to influence my actions.

You don't, but maybe others do? Also, it's not just about people who have mental illness. By giving an insight into what life is like for him, it allows others to see how mental illness affects them and hopefully, means people will have some sympathy for these people, or might help them see signs and offer help and support.

lufties

Lillianna Vast Quagmire wrote: »

This appears to be at the heart of your issue with him. He's a good looking guy who women enjoy looking at. Get over it. There's whole industries based on the premise that many people, of both sexes, enjoy looking at people they find attractive. Bressie's celeb status being contingent on his looks is hardly unusual or particularly noteworthy.

Believe me, I'm not jealous of this lad in any way, im actually not a bad looking bloke myself.. I was just saying that its annoying that this 'speaking out' thing seems contrived, but sure if people benefit it then what harm.

Who's next, calum best?

Aidric

lufties wrote: »

Believe me, I'm not jealous of this lad in any way, im actually not a bad looking bloke myself..

A bloke is at the supermarket checkout. On the conveyer belt he's got one sausage, one rasher of bacon, one bread roll, one egg, one tomato etc. The bird on the checkout looks at him and says: "Ooh, you must be a single man." Bloke thinks he's in and says: "Why, how can you tell?" "Because you're an ugly kunt.

Bernard Manning :pac:

lufties

Aidric wrote: »

Bernard Manning :pac:

Ah yeah that fairly typical sniping anyway on ah.

Aidric

lufties wrote: »

Ah yeah that fairly typical sniping anyway on ah.

Nah, just a bit of light humour. Your starting to talk shoite tbh and seem to have some grudge against the man. He did an honorable thing in speaking out. Celebrity or not is beside the point.

lufties

Aidric wrote: »

Nah, just a bit of light humour. Your starting to talk shoite tbh and seem to have some grudge against the man. He did an honorable thing in speaking out. Celebrity or not is beside the point.

Talk ****? Really? Is that what they call having a different opinion or discussion is called these days?

Go off now like a good little sheep.

TheBeardedLady

AboutaWeekAgo wrote: »

I know he's a musician but I couldn't name one of his albums or songs if you paid me.

Well, you could always look the name of one up on the sly and take the money off me?

Timmyctc

lufties wrote: »

Talk ****? Really? Is that what they call having a different opinion or discussion is called these days?

Go off now like a good little sheep.

That's adorable. I bet you draw little anarchy symbols in the top of your copy books in school.

professore

My gripe with Bressie is that he's only on the voice based on his looks. All the other judges have had real international success, even Kian Egan. I hate this celebrity as a career thing.

I'd say the same if they had Jessica Alba on there judging music.

Señor Fancy Pants

I'm not much of a fan of celebrities in general. I know very little about this guy but he seems to be talented in many ways. More talented than me, better looking too, so credit where it's due.

I can think of a lot of other Irish "talent" that I'd rather didn't exist.

Aidric

lufties wrote: »

Talk ****? Really? Is that what they call having a different opinion or discussion is called these days?

Go off now like a good little sheep.

Sheep?

lufties

Aidric wrote: »

Sheep?

Yes, you seem the type that wouldn't dare go against popular opinion or think critically. Also the type that shouts down or insults anyone with a difference of opinion.

Aidric

lufties wrote: »

Yes, you seem the type that wouldn't dare go against popular opinion or think critically. Also the type that shouts down or insults anyone with a difference of opinion.

Au contraire. Do you honestly believe that he would go public about his battle with depression in an effort to 'inflate his ego' as you put it?

lufties

Aidric wrote: »

Sheep?

Yes, you seem the type that wouldn't dare go against popular opinion or think critically. Also the type that shouts down or insults anyone with a difference of opinion.

lufties

Aidric wrote: »

Au contraire. Do you honestly believe that he would go public about his battle with depression in an effort to 'inflate his ego' as you put it?

Yes of course..maybe not the sole reason but definitely one of the main ones I'd say. He tried to revive his music career a few years ago and it was cringeworthy.

mikom

The lovechild of Desperate Dan and an uncooked chop.

lufties

lufties wrote: »

Yes of course..maybe not the sole reason but definitely one of the main ones I'd say. He tried to revive his music career a few years ago and it was cringeworthy.

Would you say the same if he was battling cancer or motor neurone disease?

lufties

lufties wrote: »

Yes, you seem the type that wouldn't dare go against popular opinion or think critically. Also the type that shouts down or insults anyone with a difference of opinion.

Mod

Don't get personal.

lufties

Deleted User wrote: »

Would you say the same if he was battling cancer or motor neurone disease?

Motor neurones is not treatable and depression is not generally life threatening with proper treatment so they can't really be compared.

Saying that, being a sufferer of depression myself, I'm not making light of his condition. Theslre just smells of something contrived since he's in the media every 2 minutes talking about it.

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Good for him talking about it constantly if it means one less person feels ashamed of having the same feelings

lufties

lufties wrote: »

Motor neurones is not treatable and depression is not generally life threatening with proper treatment so they can't really be compared.

Saying that, being a sufferer of depression myself, I'm not making light of his condition. Theslre just smells of something contrived since he's in the media every 2 minutes talking about it.

Depression can and in too many cases does end in suicide if not treated, so yes, they are comparable. Too many people in this country die because of depression, because the attitudes to mental health are that it is not on par with physical illnesses.

This guy, a man who has been a GAA player, a rugby player, a singer, a musician, a TV personality i.e. Someone who our youth might actually look up to is speaking out and using his fame to normalise this atrocious condition, he should be applauded, not ridiculed.

Meangadh

lufties wrote: »

Saying that, being a sufferer of depression myself, I'm not making light of his condition. Theslre just smells of something contrived since he's in the media every 2 minutes talking about it.

Perhaps you're not making light of it, but you're certainly very against his speaking out about it. As a sufferer (if that's the right word) of depression yourself, I'm sure you would agree that Bressie would switch any publicity he might gain from speaking out with not having to deal with depression at all. You make it sound like he's almost glad to have this issue, because it gives him access to easy publicity.

I honestly can't understand what the problem is. Firstly, it's not like his presence is everywhere, and secondly- every single other issue in society- be it poverty, cancer research, children's welfare etc all use celebrities (whether we deem them to be a celebrity ourselves or not, which is irrelevant) to raise awareness for their cause. Are we to assume the stars that champion these causes are only in it for the publicity too?

yipeeeee

lufties wrote: »

Motor neurones is not treatable and depression is not generally life threatening with proper treatment so they can't really be compared.

Saying that, being a sufferer of depression myself, I'm not making light of his condition. Theslre just smells of something contrived since he's in the media every 2 minutes talking about it.

Please stop digging yourself a massive hole.

Teyla Emmagan

I would ride him.

RDM_83 again

I think you can view it both ways.
He does appear to be using it as a tool for self promotion, that doesn't stop it being a good thing that he is talking about it though if any kids that are effected by it listen.

Deleted User wrote: »

Depression can and in too many cases does end in suicide if not treated, so yes, they are comparable. Too many people in this country die because of depression, because the attitudes to mental health are that it is not on par with physical illnesses.

true but rates of depression are huge particularly if you look at it over peoples lifetimes the suicide rate is minuscule in comparison (though far too high obviously) and AFAIK it doesn't actually match the demographic groups that are actually most at risk of suicide

Ave Sodalis

I really don't see the appeal of him. Average muscian, less than average DJ... and I don't find him at all good looking, although it sometimes seems like I'm the only female to think so at times.

RDM_83 again

sup_dude wrote: »

I really don't see the appeal of him. Average muscian, less than average DJ... and I don't find him at all good looking, although it sometimes seems like I'm the only female to think so at times.

He's got a guitar and plays rugby, woman what more can you ask for :P

I don't really understand why he inspires such annoyance in people though, and I find him annoying its just undefinable I think

sup_dude

sup_dude wrote: »

I really don't see the appeal of him. Average muscian, less than average DJ... and I don't find him at all good looking, although it sometimes seems like I'm the only female to think so at times.

You're not. I don't find him in the least bit attractive and would have zero interest in his music.

I still think he's brave for standing up and speaking publicly about his own demons though.

Ave Sodalis

RDM_83 again wrote: »

He's got a guitar and plays rugby, woman what more can you ask for :P

I don't really understand why he inspires such annoyance in people though, and I find him annoying its just undefinable I think

So do many other people :P

What annoys me is the worship like way people talk about his appearance. Conversations generally go like "Bressie is coming to this venue" "Oh my god, he's such a ride!". No discussion on whether they want to go see him as a musician. But that's just in my experience. I've no idea what he's like as a person and don't watch shows such as the Voice so don't know anything about him. Just mentioning him now brings annoyance, but that's most likely a learned response. His very presence ensues a torrent of slightly hysterical babble and since I don't see the appeal, I just tend to get irritated as normally rational people become overwhelmed by the idea of him.

lufties

Deleted User wrote: »

Depression can and in too many cases does end in suicide if not treated, so yes, they are comparable. Too many people in this country die because of depression, because the attitudes to mental health are that it is not on par with physical illnesses.

This guy, a man who has been a GAA player, a rugby player, a singer, a musician, a TV personality i.e. Someone who our youth might actually look up to is speaking out and using his fame to normalise this atrocious condition, he should be applauded, not ridiculed.

Ah well thats where we differ, I see a below average musician/singer and 'tv personality' is also stretching it. I also see a bloke who needs to boost his profile and using a subject that, at the moment is one of that is very sensitive in ireland doesn't do him any harm. Also, its a great way to appeal to a male demographic.

Saying all that, I'm sure he is a decent bloke too.

By the way, there's no need to emote to me about depression and suicide.

riffmongous

What's a kerbdog?

Don't Chute!

When you are in a room with someone from westlife someone from the saturdays and someone who used to be in s club 7 and you're STILL the least talented person in that room, you know you're doing something wrong!

As for the depression thing? Lots of people talk about depression all the time. Why do Irish people need "celebrities" to talk down to them about everything. Anyway I'm not surprised he's depressed, listening to his "music".

Larianne

riffmongous wrote: »

What's a kerbdog?

From the internet:
Kerbdog - A grunge band from Kilkenny in southern Ireland who begain writing in 1991.

lufties

lufties wrote: »

Ah well thats where we differ, I see a below average musician/singer and 'tv personality' is also stretching it. I also see a bloke who needs to boost his profile and using a subject that, at the moment is one of that is very sensitive in ireland doesn't do him any harm. Also, its a great way to appeal to a male demographic.

Saying all that, I'm sure he is a decent bloke too.

By the way, there's no need to emote to me about depression and suicide.

How do we differ? He is an ex GAA/Rugby player, singer, musician, and TV personality (he was a gameshow host). They're not my opinions, they're facts.

Are you suggesting he's making up the fact he has suffered from depression? Perhaps he is "using" it to promote himself, I've no idea, I would say though, that if he was fighting cancer that no one would have the balls to come out and say "Ah sure he's only using the Cancer to promote himself". And that's the reason we still face huge difficulty with the attitudes surrounding mental health not being a "real" illness. That attitude needs to change.

SomeFool

Always seems like a likeable soul to me, I'd be happy to have a few pints with the man, I'm sure we've all kept worse company.

eternal

Musically he was much better with The Blizzards than his attempted solo career because I saw them and him live. I don't see how a person looks has got to do with anything really.

Meangadh

black and amber wrote: »

When you are in a room with someone from westlife someone from the saturdays and someone who used to be in s club 7 and you're STILL the least talented person in that room, you know you're doing something wrong!

As for the depression thing? Lots of people talk about depression all the time. Why do Irish people need "celebrities" to talk down to them about everything. Anyway I'm not surprised he's depressed, listening to his "music".

To be fair, chart success does not equal talent. I'd rather listen to him than Kian, Una or Rachel any day. And I have no interest in his music or his looks- I just know from what I've heard of him that he's at least as talented as Una and definitely more talented than the other two.

And I don't think he's talking "down" to people, merely raising awareness. And yeah, maybe it does help his image/exposure, but sure what harm if it's helping others emotionally in the meantime.

eternal

The Blizzards were decent live.

lufties

Deleted User wrote: »

How do we differ? He is an ex GAA/Rugby player, singer, musician, and TV personality (he was a gameshow host). They're not my opinions, they're facts.

Are you suggesting he's making up the fact he has suffered from depression? Perhaps he is "using" it to promote himself, I've no idea, I would say though, that if he was fighting cancer that no one would have the balls to come out and say "Ah sure he's only using the Cancer to promote himself". And that's the reason we still face huge difficulty with the attitudes surrounding mental health not being a "real" illness. That attitude needs to change.

You can't compare it to cancer to depression. If you did a survey of each condition untreated to a fatality ratio for each there would be no comparison.

That doesn't mean that i consider depression to be 'mickey mouse' condition either. My brother plays gaa, soccer and is a musician, probably not as well known as bressie, but he's also not as tall or as conventionally good looking as him either.

Timmyctc

black and amber wrote: »

As for the depression thing? Lots of people talk about depression all the time. Why do Irish people need "celebrities" to talk down to them about everything. Anyway I'm not surprised he's depressed, listening to his "music".

Either you're intentionally missing the point, or you're retarded. Either way, no one said they "NEED" celebs to talk about depression, people said its beneficial when role models/popular culture/respectable people talk openly about it to help others feel at ease with it.

As for your last comment there, its fairly pathetic.

Don't Chute!

Timmyctc wrote: »

Either you're intentionally missing the point, or you're retarded. Either way, no one said they "NEED" celebs to talk about depression, people said its beneficial when role models/popular culture/respectable people talk openly about it to help others feel at ease with it.

As for your last comment there, its fairly pathetic.

Don't fall off your high horse.

Timmyctc

black and amber wrote: »

Don't fall off your high horse.

That cliché bears no relevance to what I said. Clearly you're missing the entire content of the conversation. Maybe you are retarded. If so, my apologies.

conorh91

Highflyer13 wrote: »

Really dragging out his depression. Theres an article every week talking about it.

I originally thanked your post because it was funny, then heard Bressie on the radio speaking very eloquently and thoughtfully about mental health, and felt so bad I had to go back and unthank you.

TGJD

lufties wrote: »

Yes, you seem the type that wouldn't dare go against popular opinion or think critically. Also the type that shouts down or insults anyone with a difference of opinion.

Isn't that what you've been doing?

Wilberto

connundrum wrote: »

Recently noted for his speech on depression:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z82uTGTMwY8

I've never seen this before but now that I have my respect for him has increased dramatically.

Before that, I never really paid any attention to him. Not that he wasn't any good at what he does or anything, it's purely just that he never really featured on my radar, ever.

lufties

TGJD wrote: »

Isn't that what you've been doing?

Absolutely not

Diabhal Beag

Fair play for his work with depression but he might be legitimately the least talented musician there has even been.

Magenta

AlanS181824 wrote: »

Who is he?

Heard of his name but haven't a clue who he is.

Is Google down, or are you just too lazy to read the posts above yours?
Oh I get it, you're trying to sound clever.