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Bouncer , Door Security using his job for personal problems??

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,299 ✭✭✭moc moc a moc


    Sorry on mistakes in writing as I am really really med now!

    It's only game, why you heff to be med?


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,008 ✭✭✭not yet


    Bouncer questions?

    Hi there
    i would like to know ye opinions about door security people and they rights?
    I had relationship with bouncer girlfriend 4 years ago , nothing major, but since nothing !
    Recently he got married to that girl and find out about us went mad came into my home threating that he is going to kill me
    if I ever text or talk to her again !
    i went mad as he attacect me and broke doors so I throw him out and said if he comes one more time into my property attacking me I will ' kill' him ( kill as not be as nice as this time ) so he get scared and run away !

    So last Saturday I went out with friends to socialise in club and he was at door , did t let me in and said I am barred for life !
    When I asked why , as I never been barred from anyplace in my whole life as I don t make trouble and 'hate' people who causes trouble when drunk or not he said because you threaten me and if you apologise to me and to my wife??
    I will let you in !
    i was like wtf , did t say nothing as thinking maybe he is trying to provoke me to trouble and went away!
    Now problem here is I live in small place where is only one club and I am 34 years old and like sometimes go out with wife and friends like NewYear , birthdays or occasion like that , (Valentines day) ....but now I can t because he is jealous and he knows I am not afraid of him so pathetically uses his job to hurt me !

    Has he right to do that or not , and what can I do to stop him , I mean is there is other way then taking him to court ?
    Thank you?

    Ps
    I hope this is right thread if not remove
    Thank you
    Is this a script for a movie..?


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,008 ✭✭✭not yet


    Yes She support me , she is brilliant beautiful angel !

    That is good ya...


  • Registered Users Posts: 778 ✭✭✭Big Davey


    What did he say you tried to "stub" him with ?
    Was it a cigarette :-)








    Update !
    Now serious update!
    Last night spoke with owner and he told me Doorman told him that I try to stub him at doors at valentines and that is reason I got banned, I hope they don t destroy all cameras , as what a pathetic lie , omg, lad acting like pussy , but I have cameras (hopefully) and 5 people who will testify ,he is patalogic lier OMG ,He bann me from club because he came to my house broke me door tried to hurt me,but had to retreat and Now he is saying I was band because I want to stab him on Valentine's Day at door!, what a pathetic, lier, and chicken **** , who wanted to beat me up but couldn't , so know feel shame and lie to people but I have 5 witnesses that he is pathetic lier who will get to court for defamation, harassment , and breaking to my primrose with who know what attention !
    From 'you' can go in if you apologise to me and my wife to I tried to stab him ////????????
    And if most of you still think bouncers have right to do whatever they want I don t know .........
    Ps
    Sorry on mistakes in writing as I am really really med now!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭AndonHandon


    Him being a bouncer doesn't allow him barge into your house. Surprised you don't seem to care a lot about this incident.

    He can refuse you for whatever reason he wants without telling you. If he illegally discriminated against you but didn't expressly say anything then good luck proving it.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    He can refuse you for whatever reason he wants without telling you.
    The bouncer can do that but the pub/club they work for are their clients. I don't know what the bouncer industry is like but I'd say it's as saturated as any market in Ireland.

    If the pub/club thinks the security is turning away genuine customers for personal reasons and creating a bad reputation for the business, the business owners can just hire someone else. I'd go to the owners and explain yourself. Although if it's the only club in town they probably don't give a flying fig, they have a monopoly.


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