Singles thread.

Trebor176

Night AS

tomwaterford

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I think Snapchat is largely pointless. It's all dick pics, pointless selfies, and things I couldn't give a Damn about. Same with the "Moments" on Tinder. I've actually seen women put up photos of them in the bath or ones that say, "I'm bored", with such a sour puss. And I'm meant to care/find that attractive?

I've never actually sent a dick pic over any thing date sites etc and ive never taken a selfie in my life!!!

It's kinda lost on me really!!!.....though I do question the point of it aswell at times

tomwaterford

heyday30 wrote: »

Don't use snap chat. I'm Way behind the times !

Your missing out (not really) :P

If I want to talk, I'll text you or call you, I'm not going to have a conversation through pointless photos.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

eternal wrote: »

She dated him and didn't want to be involved afterwards with him.

Point being? Maybe she hadn't got around to deleting him yet. It certainly doesn't mean she led him on. You must be like a bitch in heat if you reckon a Facebook friendship is a come-on!

tomwaterford

[Deleted User] wrote: »

If I want to talk, I'll text you or call you, I'm not going to have a conversation through pointless photos.

What about whatsapp???
Best of both worlds imo

heyday30

tomwaterford wrote: »

Your missing out (not really) :P

Really ? I can't keep up wit all these new technology thingys.

I only started using WhatsApp that's apparently soooo outdated according to my teenage niece.

eternal

The Cunning Linguist wrote: »

Point being? Maybe she hadn't got around to deleting him yet. It certainly doesn't mean she led him on. You must be like a bitch in heat if you reckon a Facebook friendship is a come-on!

I never thought anyone adding me on Facebook meant that ever.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

I never thought anyone adding me on Facebook meant that ever.

If only it did. I'd send Facebook friend requests to EVERYONE.

tomwaterford

heyday30 wrote: »

Really ? I can't keep up wit all these new technology thingys.

I only started using WhatsApp that's apparently soooo outdated according to my teenage niece.

Lock her in the cupboard(dont really)...emm I dunno I kinda like whatsapp though I'm actually awlful for replying in the group....I'm even more of a lurker in real life :rolleyes:


Though if you are msging sonewan off a site in whatsapp turn off your location settings,...you can't ever be too careful

heyday30

tomwaterford wrote: »

Lock her in the cupboard....emm I dunno I kinda like whatsapp though I'm actually awlful for replying in the group....I'm even more of a lurker in real life :rolleyes:

I like WhatsApp too. Great for the aul free texts

Trebor176

I don't quite get the Whatsapp malarkey, nor do I intend on downloading it. I'm behind on the various chat sites as well. I'll stick to what I know

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

eternal wrote: »

I never thought anyone adding me on Facebook meant that ever.

Fair enough. But saying that kinda contradicts this:

eternal wrote: »

Why are you friends with him on Facebook. It sounds like you may have led him on tbh.

eternal

[Deleted User] wrote: »

If only it did. I'd send Facebook friend requests to EVERYONE.

To be fair I get a lot of strange men adding me and I would question it. But it's not like I think there's a specific reason or anything. Usually I'd wait until I've had previous contact with them.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

To be fair I get a lot of strange men adding me and I would question it. But it's not like I think there's a specific reason or anything. Usually I'd wait until I've had previous contact with them.

Is that what people do? How would they know who you are? I'd never think of adding random people!

eternal

The Cunning Linguist wrote: »

Fair enough. But saying that kinda contradicts this:

All I was saying is that going back a bit that poster said the guy was annoying her and wouldn't accept she didn't want to date him so I thought maybe engaging them on Facebook might not be ideal but then what would I know.

eternal

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Is that what people do? How would they know who you are? I'd never think of adding random people!

I ask them how they know me and they don't reply. I post a lot in article comments, maybe that's what it is.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

I ask them how they know me and they don't reply. I post a lot in article comments, maybe that's what it is.

Would you consider beefing up your privacy settings so only friends of friends, which I believe is the deepest you can go, can send you invites?

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

eternal wrote: »

All I was saying is that going back a bit that poster said the guy was annoying her and wouldn't accept she didn't want to date him so I thought maybe engaging them on Facebook might not be ideal but then what would I know.

Victim-blaming. Tut tut.

eternal

The Cunning Linguist wrote: »

Victim-blaming. Tut tut.

Ah yeah. Hope you had a nice Easter anyway.

oceanstreet

Run for the hills, Tom boy, if a person does that it isn't going anywhere!

Tinder is just an extention of our spoiled, choice-laden current existence (if ya know what I mean )

Trebor176

Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

eternal

Trebor176 wrote: »

Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.

That made me laugh quite hard.

oceanstreet

Trebor176 wrote: »

Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

I think they're hard in part because of the forced, almost unnatural aspect of the message. It's like no matter what's said it ends up coming out as sounding kinda shallow. Keep it on the light side is my advice!

Thats my wisdom for day

stop animal cruelty

Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

stop animal cruelty

Tom sorry to hear bout your date! Fingers crossed something might work out!

eternal

stop animal cruelty wrote: »

Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

Alright, I apologise. I obviously got it wrong.

heyday30

Trebor176 wrote: »

Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

Just say sup biatch. I would much like to get it on. Giggidy.

What dating sites/apps are people using, if any?

eternal

eternal wrote: »

Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.

While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!

Karsini

Karsini wrote: »

While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!

Break into many houses, then?

eternal

Just say 'Hello' and something about them being pretty. That's the usual I thought.

Deleted User

Deleted User wrote: »

Break into many houses, then?

I'm from Ballyfermot, what do you think? :pac:

Trebor176

Ah, I just went with the usual taking something from her profile that we have a mutual interest in. I'd like to get to know her, etc.

oceanstreet

eternal wrote: »

Just say 'Hello' and something about them being pretty. That's the usual I thought.

Only if they're a bit of a perv!

heyday30

Karsini wrote: »

While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!

:O :O

eternal

oceanstreet wrote: »

Only if they're a bit of a perv!

How is that pervy? They're just saying what is.

oceanstreet

stop animal cruelty wrote: »

Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

If you want it to stop I suggest you do exactly that.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

How is that pervy? They're just saying what is.

You'd be surprised how many women react to that badly.

eternal

[Deleted User] wrote: »

You'd be surprised how many women react to that badly.

Eternal no longer gives advice tonight I wouldn't mind being told that tbh.

Trebor176

stop animal cruelty wrote: »

Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

You need to block this chap. If you don't, he'll persist with all this. He sounds like a right pest. "Ya gotta be cruel to be kind," to quote the song

eternal

eternal wrote: »

Eternal no longer gives advice tonight I wouldn't mind being told that tbh.

You look really pretty.

eternal

[Deleted User] wrote: »

You look really pretty.

I know you haven't seen me but thanks.

eternal

eternal wrote: »

I know you haven't seen me but thanks.

Send us a photo. Gwan, sure!

heyday30

No more peep shows.

heyday30

heyday30 wrote: »

No more peep shows.

No more? Did I miss the first peep show? Harrumph.

eternal

Is this another PM job. The endless endeavour.

oceanstreet

heyday30 wrote: »

No more peep shows.

Spoilsport

eternal

eternal wrote: »

Is this another PM job. The endless endeavour.

Ara you don't have to show me. Wasn't expecting you to!

Random things on YouTube are the best.