Dumb/Great Facebook Status {merge} [No Names] - Part II

Big Nasty

[Deleted User] wrote: »

The mum actually died last year and was just being buried today

Wut?

sheep?

Was her name Bernie?

wonski

[Deleted User] wrote: »

"Going home to say goodbye to my Mum".

Followed by dozens of "sorry for your loss" and "RIPs".

The mum actually died last year and was just being buried today,

RIP's are justified.

Deleted User

Deleted User wrote: »

"Going home to say goodbye to my Mum".

Followed by dozens of "sorry for your loss" and "RIPs".

The mum actually died last year and was just being buried today, but the dozens who offered condolences clearly must have forgotten when they faked sympathy a year ago. Some are long standing drinking friends of his.

She is still a loss even if it was a year ago. No issue with this tbh. Nothing wrong with a nice simple condolence. They didn't overdo it either which made it more genuine.

jokettle

Big Nasty wrote: »

Wut?

I'm guessing she donated her body to science? They usually keep them for one year before releasing them for burial.

rawn

jokettle wrote: »

I'm guessing she donated her body to science? They usually keep them for one year before releasing them for burial.

Or there was an investigation or lawsuit pending. In this case the body isn't released until both sides are satisfied with autopsy reports.

PARlance

Captain Flaps wrote: »

"Why is going to work for families so hard....stressfull....and costly sometimes I don't know why I bother work"

Followed by replies of:

"I agree totally"
"ahhh lv u"
"9/10 your financially better off not working! It's absolutely shocking and disgraceful they punish people who want to work"

[Deleted User] wrote: »

"Going home to say goodbye to my Mum".

Followed by dozens of "sorry for your loss" and "RIPs".

The mum actually died last year and was just being buried today, but the dozens who offered condolences clearly must have forgotten when they faked sympathy a year ago. Some are long standing drinking friends of his.

Standard has slipped in here today. The first one is a valid complaint and the RIP's in the second one are spot on, she's finally been put to "rest".

Lady is a tramp

PARlance wrote: »

Standard has slipped in here today. The first one is a valid complaint and the RIP's in the second one are spot on, she's finally been put to "rest".

Where's fussyonion to get things back on track?

Deleted User

Deleted User wrote: »

She is still a loss even if it was a year ago. No issue with this tbh. Nothing wrong with a nice simple condolence. They didn't overdo it either which made it more genuine.

They didn't overdo it because most were just following the generic "sorry for your loss" post to register "meh, I've read your message, I'll fire up a few words so others can see I'm sympathetic".

It was clear that not one of the responders knew that she had died a year ago (she had donated her body to science)...or really cared. Not one of them developed the point, or said fair play to her for donating her body to science, or thought anything other than she had just died. And obviously not one of them had messaged him or done anything other then fire up the bog standard line.

claregal1

Deleted User wrote: »

"Going home to say goodbye to my Mum".

Followed by dozens of "sorry for your loss" and "RIPs".

The mum actually died last year and was just being buried today, but the dozens who offered condolences clearly must have forgotten when they faked sympathy a year ago. Some are long standing drinking friends of his.

Connor - not sure if you are a friend of mine but a similar status also came up on my page .. You do know his Mum passed away a year ago and donated her body to NUIG - Today she is buried .. Have a bit of respect

Ficheall

Deleted User wrote: »

They didn't overdo it because most were just following the generic "sorry for your loss" post to register "meh, I've read your message, I'll fire up a few words so others can see I'm sympathetic".

It was clear that not one of the responders knew that she had died a year ago (she had donated her body to science)...or really cared. Not one of them developed the point, or said fair play to her for donating her body to science, or thought anything other than she had just died. And obviously not one of them had messaged him or done anything other then fire up the bog standard line.

Did you respond with a 'LOL' to put them in their place, then?

claregal1

Ficheall wrote: »

Did you respond with a 'LOL' to put them in their place, then?

No he didn't because he actually doesn't get the genuine humour of this page - He decided instead to be little some one who a year later is finally laying his Mam to rest .

claregal1

claregal1 wrote: »

Connor - not sure if you are a friend of mine but a similar status also came up on my page .. You do know his Mum passed away a year ago and donated her body to NUIG - Today she is buried .. Have a bit of respect

Oh nothing but respect for his mum.

It's all the people who didn't take the time and effort to find out she had passed away a year ago.

If they were my friends, and they had been my friends when she passed away, I think I'd drop them.

claregal1

Deleted User wrote: »

Oh nothing but respect for his mum.

It's all the people who didn't take the time and effort to find out she had passed away a year ago.

If they were my friends, and they had been my friends when she passed away, I think I'd drop them.

I think you are actually missing the whole point - This person did not get chance tk bury his Mam a year ago and now he can ?
What is your problem ?
Of course he is grieving again !
Have you ever been to a funeral where the coffin has to be closed and can't even have a mortuary part of the funeral ?
Where it all had tk be done extremely quick and the doctors waiting along with the undertakers to trasfer your Mams body within a limited about of time .
Maybe last year he didn't feel ready to say godbye to his Mam and his friends understood ????

rawn

Deleted User wrote: »

Oh nothing but respect for his mum.

It's all the people who didn't take the time and effort to find out she had passed away a year ago.

If they were my friends, and they had been my friends when she passed away, I think I'd drop them.

A real friend would say *RIP 1 year ago mate*

claregal1

claregal1 wrote: »

I think you are actually missing the whole point - This person did not get chance tk bury his Mam a year ago and now he can ?
What is your problem ?
Of course he is grieving again !
Have you ever been to a funeral where the coffin has to be closed and can't even have a mortuary part of the funeral ?
Where it all had tk be done extremely quick and the doctors waiting along with the undertakers to trasfer your Mams body within a limited about of time .
Maybe last year he didn't feel ready to say godbye to his Mam and his friends understood ????

Exactly. The funeral is obviously going to bring up memories and it is the final closure regardless of when she did die

claregal1

claregal1 wrote: »

I think you are actually missing the whole point - This person did not get chance tk bury his Mam a year ago and now he can ?
What is your problem ?
Of course he is grieving again !

Of course he is.

The point is about all those who wrongly assumed it had just happened and not remembering that she passed away last year.

claregal1

rawn wrote: »

A real friend would say *RIP 1 year ago mate*

Go way will you !
His mother was not laid to rest a year ago so why would they say that ???

This is why I haven't been in FB in years ... opinions everyone ! Sad

rawn

claregal1 wrote: »

Go way will you !
His mother was not laid to rest a year ago so why would they say that ???

This is why I haven't been in FB in years ... opinions everyone ! Sad

Because she's being laid to rest now! Hence "Rest in Peace"

claregal1

Deleted User wrote: »

Of course he is.

The point is about all those who wrongly assumed it had just happened and not remembering that she passed away last year.

You are a fool Connor and I truly hope you are never in this situation .. you actually found this amusing?

claregal1

rawn wrote: »

Because she's being laid to rest now! Hence "Rest in Peace"

She is been laid to rest now - what is your problen ?????

Lady is a tramp

claregal1 wrote: »

No he didn't because he actually doesn't get the genuine humour of this page - He decided instead to be little some one who a year later is finally laying his Mam to rest .

Erm ... didn't you post in this thread a few months back about some other girl's mum's funeral?

That girl or anyone in her family may well have seen your post at the time ... just sayin'!

Not really fair if it's OK for you to use a funeral for the "humour of this page" and then completely overreact when it's someone you're obviously close to ...

claregal1

claregal1 wrote: »

You are a fool Connor and I truly hope you are never in this situation .. you actually found this amusing?

No.

More annoying, that people would have forgotten that his mother passed away last year.

I am well aware when it happened, and I wasn't laughing...because I sympathised with him at the time.

rawn

https://scontent.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/13686492_10157823662585377_8778262135252654941_n.jpg?oh=321b5b6b2c2275f4da82630720dad1e3&oe=57F3D4C8

I've seen this shared a few times. I love the irony of posting a Batman meme and talking about being too old for Pokemon

maudgonner

Deleted User wrote: »

No.

More annoying, that people would have forgotten that his mother passed away last year.

I am well aware when it happened, and I wasn't laughing...because I sympathised with him at the time.

Why are you assuming that they think the lady has only just died?

To me, RIP is an appropriate response to his post, even bearing in mind the unusual circumstances. I'm not sure what else someone would say?

claregal1

Deleted User wrote: »

No.

More annoying, that people would have forgotten that his mother passed away last year.

I am well aware when it happened, and I wasn't laughing...because I sympathised with him at the time.

Sorry you said pathetic excuse of a so called friend !
We all symapthised with him at the time AND it's pure obvious you were never EVER a friend of ours that you would find this funny to post on this page .

Lady is a tramp

claregal1 wrote: »

Sorry you said pathetic excuse of a so called friend !
We all symapthised with him at the time AND it's pure obvious you were never EVER a friend of ours that you would find this funny to post on this page .

Read his posts ... it's extremely obvious he didn't find it funny at all.

Gunslinger92

Ye are ruining the thread! Where is fussyonion indeed!

claregal1

Gunslinger92 wrote: »

Ye are ruining the thread! Where is fussyonion indeed!

I so agree !!

Samaris

Mod: Okay, sometimes it'll happen that something hits close to home in a thread like this; it's a small country, or a joke misses it's mark. Let's move on from it now, please, it's not something to spoil what generally is a pretty hilarious thread over.