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Irish state now will now accept a trans persons own declaration of their gender

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    Cuban Pete wrote: »
    The argument you're being presented with is (more or less) that it's not a change in circumstance but rectifying a mistake that was made. Nobody becomes transgender, which is what your (and others') argument sounds like.

    No. My argument is that it is a document of historical fact and that it records your sex, not your gender. Many people on these threads have made a huge deal out of distinguishing between sex and gender.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    No. My argument is that it is a document of historical fact and that it records your sex, not your gender.

    And nothing changes with that document. That historical fact remains an historical fact.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    I have a few change of name deeds that need to be presented anytime I need to show a birth cert or change an I.d. The amount of **** I get for having deed polls is unbelievable. Smart remarks about an identity crisis and general confusion over a simple process.

    It's no one else's business, I don't have to explain, just photocopy the cúnting thing and listen to my instructions.

    That's just for a simple name change. If I had to do it for my gender.. !

    and that's an issue of people being arseholes and not minding their own business. It's not an issue of people attempting to get new documents of historical fact issued with makey uppy bits in them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    Daith wrote: »
    And nothing changes with that document. That historical fact remains an historical fact.

    Are you going to address the fact that the birth cert records sex, not gender, or just keep ducking it cause it doesnt suit you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    Are you going to address the fact that the birth cert records sex, not gender, or just keep ducking it cause it doesnt suit you?

    It's not actually relevant no.

    Plenty of people get birth certs changed to correct information. Don't see why you are having a massive problem with this one tbh.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,088 ✭✭✭aaakev


    Daith wrote: »
    And I think the problem is that you think your sex organs determine what gender or sex you are. For most if not all Trans ppl that isn't the case.

    i feel like im being drawn into a row here so im going to duck out because i think we are on the same side! im all for what was in the OP, i fully agree that all people should have the same rights be they gay, straight, transgender. what people do in their lives does not affect me one single bit and as long as they are making themselves happy and not hurting anyone i think its great!

    i wouldnt say im against someone getting issued a new birth cert what i was trying to say was it makes no sense to me and that is all!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    Daith wrote: »
    It's not actually relevant no.

    Plenty of people get birth certs changed to correct information. Don't see why you are having a massive problem with this one tbh.

    so no then, you arent going to address it, youre just going to ignore a fundamental point cause it doesnt suit you. Well i can see there's little point in attempt to have this discussion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    aaakev wrote: »
    i wouldnt say im against someone getting issued a new birth cert what i was trying to say was it makes no sense to me and that is all!

    Me too but ultimately changes to birth certs have happened to reflect correct information. I don't actually see the massive problem here


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    so no then, you arent going to address it, youre just going to ignore a fundamental point cause it doesnt suit you. Well i can see there's little point in attempt to have this discussion

    I said it wasn't relevant. You keep ignoring the fact that no historical document is being changed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    No. My argument is that it is a document of historical fact and that it records your sex, not your gender. Many people on these threads have made a huge deal out of distinguishing between sex and gender.

    Im not sure what is so hard to understand about this - genuinely?

    Your sex is what is recorded on the birthcert, but for identification purposes sex and gender seem to be conflated together (as far as officially producing identity documentation goes). People cannot identify their own gender at birth so best effort is made by the attending doctor and they record the sex on the birthcert.

    Later the person realises they are transgender. They transition. Now their sex matches their gender. So they change the birth cert to reflect this. Otherwise they will produce it and people will be recording that they are male when they are female.

    The old birth cert is not destroyed, the historical fact remains.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 13,018 ✭✭✭✭jank


    Changing your birth cert is like redacting factual history and for what purpose?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    Good stuff



    Grand so



    As it should be



    obviously



    Ah hold on now. There's recognising somebody's decisions and rights and then there is just trying to change fact. If you are now a man/woman I am very happy for you and you should be afforded all such rights and be recognised as such but your birth cert is a document detailing those facts at the time of your birth. This is preposterous

    I'd be in agreement with this post- transitioning should absolutely be made easier for those who want to. New passports/driving licence/Garda Age card etc should be easy to get with your correct gender on them.

    But your sex at birth (not gender, as only you can define that) is not really up for debate-either you were XX or XY. What happens down the line is entirely up to you and is nobody else's business.

    But your birth cert is not for editing. It is a historical document of the facts surrounding your birth. My dad doesn't work at the same job he did in 1987, should my BC be reissued to reflect the fact?

    I would be in favour of issuance of a legal certificate that you are NOW male or female. Any authority that deals with genders (passport office/drivers licence/marriage certificate office etc) should be fully educated on both the facts and the sensitivity required. Zero tolerance for BS from any staff member who gives a trans person sh*t when they're getting admin taken care of.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    jank wrote: »
    Changing your birth cert is like redacting factual history and for what purpose?

    Who knows because no one is changing their original birth cert!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,026 ✭✭✭farmchoice


    MrWalsh wrote: »
    Car insurance. Presumably if you declare you are female to avoid higher car insurance and then you have an accident and try to claim you will be exposed as falsifying your details and not be able to claim?

    as someone in the car insurance industry can i just clarify this one.

    following a ruling in the European courts a few years ago you can no longer positively or negatively discriminate on the basis of gender when it comes to the cost of insurance.

    woman no longer get preferential rates, to get around this the discount that went to woman is now usually applied to insured and spouse or insured and partner policies.

    interestingly insurance companies have been allowing this discount to same sex couples for a number of years now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    jank wrote: »
    Changing your birth cert is like redacting factual history and for what purpose?

    the complete answer to your question is contained in the post preceding it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    But your birth cert is not for editing. It is a historical document of the facts surrounding your birth. My dad doesn't work at the same job he did in 1987, should my BC be reissued to reflect the fact?

    If you found out your Dad was not in fact your Dad would you want your birth cert reissued? Or would you want to carry a separate piece of paper to say who your Dad is?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    *post deleted for being a dumb joke*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,292 ✭✭✭Adamocovic


    Seems the only thing people are confused about is the birth cert. I don't know enough but in Ireland can we change the name on our birth cert? Also if yes does it keep the old name there with a note saying it was changed like in the US etc.

    I honestly don't know. I can understand why people would be confused about changing the birthcert. It's just a piece of historical paper detailing you from the moment you were born, I can understand why going back and changing it wouldn't make sense to a lot of people. Not saying they shouldn't be allowed, just saying I can completely understand why people find it confusing, I do a bit too.

    Out of interest is this a major point for trans people? I wouldn't really know and am just curious if this is something that they desperately want (changing the birth cert).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    All of these people in favour of a new "gender identity certificate" type document have clearly never had to deal with the HSE, a government dept, Revenue, social welfare etc...

    All the above places have strict rules re which documentation is acceptable and it would be a major job to change all of that.

    Not to mention it would obviously be an area of discrimination because we would have some people being treated differently by the state than others.

    Its just not workable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    "WHY DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE THE PAST?"

    We don't, we just want to-

    "-CHANGE THE PAST, I KNOW BUT WHY?"

    Actually that's inaccurate, it's just-

    "WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?"


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    Adamocovic wrote: »
    I honestly don't know. I can understand why people would be confused about changing the birthcert.

    I think the confusion stems from the fact that people think the original birth cert is being changed. It's not. It still exists and will continue to exist.

    Now if you'll excuse me I've off to put on a dress so I can house share in a girls only place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    Brendan O Carroll must be delighted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,292 ✭✭✭Adamocovic


    MrWalsh wrote: »
    All of these people in favour of a new "gender identity certificate" type document have clearly never had to deal with the HSE, a government dept, Revenue, social welfare etc...

    All the above places have strict rules re which documentation is acceptable and it would be a major job to change all of that.

    Not to mention it would obviously be an area of discrimination because we would have some people being treated differently by the state than others.

    Its just not workable.

    Surely the government could just give the approval of a gender identity certificate document , if they make the documentation acceptable it wouldnt be a major job would it?




    I don't know if I would call it discrimination. People are just highlighting that sex refers to your biological organs at birth, gender obviously is different.

    Could the government release an updated birthcert including both gender and sex, when someone applies?

    Edit: Just saw there will be two birth certificates apologies


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 156 ✭✭Cuban Pete


    Daith wrote: »
    I think the confusion stems from the fact that people think the original birth cert is being changed. It's not. It still exists and will continue to exist.

    Now if you'll excuse me I've off to put on a dress so I can house share in a girls only place.

    It's funny how in all these discussions, no one talks about trans men. I wonder why that is...


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    People on this thread seem to have a remarkable amount of concern for the accuracy, or otherwise, of the 'historical' documents which identify others. I think Genealogy will manage to survive this massive overhaul :rolleyes:. The only people this actually effects are Trans people, and it'll make them happier, so what's the issue?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    Cuban Pete wrote: »
    It's funny how in all these discussions, no one talks about trans men. I wonder why that is...

    I think people still have a hard time believing they exist, the way society was slow to recognise that lesbians existed for a long time even after recognising the existence of gay men.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    Adamocovic wrote: »
    Surely the government could just give the approval of a gender identity certificate document , if they make the documentation acceptable it wouldnt be a major job would it?

    If they did I think they should be issued to all citizens and required for everyone.

    But yes, it would be a major job. I have done work with the HSE (as just one example) and the length of time it takes to even get a one word change on a form approved is horrendous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,292 ✭✭✭Adamocovic


    Daith wrote: »
    I think the confusion stems from the fact that people think the original birth cert is being changed. It's not. It still exists and will continue to exist.

    Now if you'll excuse me I've off to put on a dress so I can house share in a girls only place.

    Fair enough, didnt know it still exists. So will trans people have two birth certificates? Would they not just reisssue the original stating their sex at birth and then also their gender? I don't really mind as it doesnt affect me just wondering why have two certs when they could just merge it into one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,370 ✭✭✭Knasher


    Adamocovic wrote: »
    Fair enough, didnt know it still exists. So will trans people have two birth certificates? Would they not just reisssue the original stating their sex at birth and then also their gender? I don't really mind as it doesnt affect me just wondering why have two certs when they could just merge it into one.
    There aren't many times when you have to give somebody a copy of your birth cert. But when you do, you might not also want to announce to them that you are transgendered. Which is what having the special cert that states both would do.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 781 ✭✭✭Not a NSA agent


    Adamocovic wrote: »
    Fair enough, didnt know it still exists. So will trans people have two birth certificates? Would they not just reisssue the original stating their sex at birth and then also their gender? I don't really mind as it doesnt affect me just wondering why have two certs when they could just merge it into one.

    The original birth cert will just be on file, hidden away for the historical accuracy everyone loves, the person won't be required to keep this one for things like social welfare.

    The person will receive the new updated birth cert and can be used for anything that requires a birth cert. I'm not sure how they link the 2 though. In the end the person just gets a new piece of paper that means they dont have to explain the situation every time but the records still note that they were the opposite gender at birth.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,050 ✭✭✭nokia69


    Cuban Pete wrote: »
    It's funny how in all these discussions, no one talks about trans men. I wonder why that is...

    there seems to be far less of them around


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,292 ✭✭✭Adamocovic


    Knasher wrote: »
    There aren't many times when you have to give somebody a copy of your birth cert. But when you do, you might not also want to announce to them that you are transgendered. Which is what having the special cert that states both would do.
    The original birth cert will just be on file, hidden away for the historical accuracy everyone loves, the person won't be required to keep this one for things like social welfare.

    The person will receive the new updated birth cert and can be used for anything that requires a birth cert. I'm not sure how they link the 2 though. In the end the person just gets a new piece of paper that means they dont have to explain the situation every time but the records still note that they were the opposite gender at birth.

    Fair enough! At the end of the day it doesnt affect me and it's all about what the individual wants, just an interesting process which has me intrigued.

    If you had of suggested the changes in the laws that have happened this year in the past you would have been called crazy. Seems like good progressive times for Ireland.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    Adamocovic wrote: »
    Fair enough! At the end of the day it doesnt affect me and it's all about what the individual wants, just an interesting process which has me intrigued.

    Indeed but for a person who does believe they were born a different gender having the State validate that with a cert would be tremendous and positive I think.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    andrew wrote: »
    so what's the issue?

    I'll go out on a limb and say that maybe some folks might have issues with transgender people, or may not like us as a group on the whole, but want to be a bit on the down low about it and so use this avenue of criticism. Just a guess?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,454 ✭✭✭Clearlier


    I'd be in agreement with this post- transitioning should absolutely be made easier for those who want to. New passports/driving licence/Garda Age card etc should be easy to get with your correct gender on them.

    But your sex at birth (not gender, as only you can define that) is not really up for debate-either you were XX or XY. What happens down the line is entirely up to you and is nobody else's business.

    But your birth cert is not for editing. It is a historical document of the facts surrounding your birth. My dad doesn't work at the same job he did in 1987, should my BC be reissued to reflect the fact?

    I would be in favour of issuance of a legal certificate that you are NOW male or female. Any authority that deals with genders (passport office/drivers licence/marriage certificate office etc) should be fully educated on both the facts and the sensitivity required. Zero tolerance for BS from any staff member who gives a trans person sh*t when they're getting admin taken care of.

    XX and XY isn't a completely reliable guide to sex according to the WHO.

    To avoid discrimination any issuance of a legal certificate should be for the entire population. Training is all well and good but if there's no need for somebody to know that a person is transgender I don't see why it should have to be disclosed.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,292 ✭✭✭Adamocovic


    Links234 wrote: »
    I'll go out on a limb and say that maybe some folks might have issues with transgender people, or may not like us as a group on the whole, but want to be a bit on the down low about it and so use this avenue of criticism. Just a guess?

    From what I have seen on boards I don't think many would keep it on the down low if they don't like someone or a group of people :pac:


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    Links234 wrote: »
    I'll go out on a limb and say that maybe some folks might have issues with transgender people, or may not like us as a group on the whole, but want to be a bit on the down low about it and so use this avenue of criticism. Just a guess?

    Of course you're right there, unfortunately.

    I think a lot of people find it so outside of the realm of their everyday experience, that they don't know what to think and don't take it seriously. At least with homosexuality, people can empathise to the extent that they know what being attracted to someone is like, and can probably tell when a member of the same sex is attractive. But when it comes to sex/gender and being Trans, it's incredibly difficult to imagine what it's like to feel like that way. So that manifests itself in, well, the gamut of responses in this thread, everything from bigotry to ignorance.


  • Administrators Posts: 54,619 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


    andrew wrote: »
    People on this thread seem to have a remarkable amount of concern for the accuracy, or otherwise, of the 'historical' documents which identify others. I think Genealogy will manage to survive this massive overhaul :rolleyes:. The only people this actually effects are Trans people, and it'll make them happier, so what's the issue?

    "Why do you all care?" is a pretty moronic question to ask in a thread posted in After Hours.

    Obviously the OP thought we should all care enough to create the thread, otherwise it would be in the LGBT forum where it wouldn't be questioned at all.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,372 Mod ✭✭✭✭andrew


    awec wrote: »
    "Why do you all care?" is a pretty moronic question to ask in a thread posted in After Hours.

    Obviously the OP thought we should all care enough to create the thread.

    It's obviously not difficult to anticipate that people will care, hence the thread. But I havn't seen people explain well WHY they care though, except for silly appeals to historical accuracy, as though eveyone on the thread was an overworked genealogy researcher or at best, incredibly pedantic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    awec wrote: »
    Obviously the OP thought we should all care enough to create the thread, otherwise it would be in the LGBT forum where it wouldn't be questioned at all.

    You'd be wrong there.


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  • Administrators Posts: 54,619 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


    andrew wrote: »
    It's obviously not difficult to anticipate that people will care, hence the thread. But I havn't seen people explain well WHY they care though, except for silly appeals to historical accuracy, as though eveyone on the thread was an overworked genealogy researcher or at best, incredibly pedantic.

    People often care about affairs of the state even if they don't have a direct impact on their own lives.

    It's actually impossible to have real debates about these things though, because on one side you have irrational hatred of members of the LGBT community and on the other side you have people who are just absolutely unwilling to have their point of view questioned and anyone who disagrees with them is just intolerant or a bigot.


  • Administrators Posts: 54,619 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


    Daith wrote: »
    You'd be wrong there.

    Yea you're right, I'm sure the point of the thread was to get 10 pages of "we don't care". :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    awec wrote: »
    Yea you're right, I'm sure the point of the thread was to get 10 pages of "we don't care". :rolleyes:

    There isn't any point to any thread in AH


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,253 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    awec wrote: »
    It's actually impossible to have real debates about these things though, because on one side you have irrational hatred of members of the LGBT community and on the other side you have people who are just absolutely unwilling to have their point of view questioned and anyone who disagrees with them is just intolerant or a bigot.
    Pretty much sums it up A.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    awec wrote: »
    It's actually impossible to have real debates about these things though, because on one side you have irrational hatred of members of the LGBT community and on the other side you have people who are just absolutely unwilling to have their point of view questioned and anyone who disagrees with them is just intolerant or a bigot.

    Has anyone being called a bigot here?

    Quite frankly there's being more nonsense about REWRITING HISTORY than anything.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,253 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Daith wrote: »
    Has anyone being called a bigot here?
    Quite a few times in the other thread on the subject along with accusations of phobia and the like. Or the more sideways approach such as this a few posts back.
    Links234 wrote:
    I'll go out on a limb and say that maybe some folks might have issues with transgender people, or may not like us as a group on the whole, but want to be a bit on the down low about it and so use this avenue of criticism. Just a guess?

    Though as Awec reckoned a debate on this kinda thing is near impossible. On one side you'll have those who want to be needlessly insulting and the other who just wants a group hug echo chamber.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Quite a few times in the other thread on the subject along with accusations of phobia and the like. Or the more sideways approach such as this a few posts back.

    That's the other thread. I thought we weren't supposed to be carrying stuff over from other threads. That's probably why you can't have a proper discussion around this. I think a thread about binary nature of gender could be interesting though.

    There's far more talk about changing the original birth cert on this than anything even what said over and over that isn't happening. Talk about a group hug.


  • Administrators Posts: 54,619 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


    Anyway, to go back to the OP and the subject in question I can honestly say I am not bothered either way. If it makes people happier and their lives easier then so be it. I am curious as to how exactly it will work though but I guess we'll see over time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,197 ✭✭✭Daith


    awec wrote: »
    Anyway, to go back to the OP and the subject in question I can honestly say I am not bothered either way. If it makes people happier so be it. I am curious as to how exactly it will work though but I guess we'll see over time.

    Same way it will work if any birth cert has an error I suspect. Birth Cert is private and generally only used in specific cases for ID.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 156 ✭✭Cuban Pete


    awec wrote: »
    People often care about affairs of the state even if they don't have a direct impact on their own lives.

    It's actually impossible to have real debates about these things though, because on one side you have irrational hatred of members of the LGBT community and on the other side you have people who are just absolutely unwilling to have their point of view questioned and anyone who disagrees with them is just intolerant or a bigot.

    You mean trans people who're told by turns that they don't exist, they just have a mental illness, they're doing it to perv on or abuse women, or any other number of things?

    Because personally, I can see how that might lead someone to not really be receptive to being questioned.

    Let's not forget, trans folk aren't just some nebulous group that exist in some faraway land. We've some on this very thread. A little respect and consideration towards them is hardly too much to ask.


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