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  • 12-09-2015 4:32pm
    #1
    Dominico Wanderbar
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭


    Last week.


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  • #2
    strandroad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,676 ✭✭✭strandroad


    You called it off first, so it was not a unilateral decision on her side. Perhaps you both had good reasons and you are simply not suited?
    You may give her time and talk again, about all the issues you both experienced.


  • #3
    kylith
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,736 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    It sounds to me like you dumped her in a fit of pique and she decided not to take you back. She didn't finish the relationship, you did. What she did is decide not to put up with you using breaking up as a weapon in arguments.


  • #4
    piperh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 989 ✭✭✭piperh


    I agree with the previous posters you ended things not her. What she did was realise that a relationship with you was bringing back the drama she'd escaped from with her ex and she didn't want to go backwards.

    Your need to be reassured of a partners love would put a strain on most relationships. Work on yourself esteem and the issues you are now dealing with and future relationships will be more fulfilling for both parties.


  • #5
    jimmycrackcorm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,346 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    The relationship doesn't appear workable in any case. You can only physically get together once a week due to distance and I presume also due to kids on both sides.

    Call it a day.


  • #6
    jimmycrackcorm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,346 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    The relationship doesn't appear workable in any case. You can only physically get together once a week due to distance and I presume also due to kids on both sides.

    Call it a day.


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  • #7
    zeffabelli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,516 ✭✭✭zeffabelli


    You broke a massive amount of trust by impulsively breaking it off. No one can feel safe having a disagreement after that because they'll be scared of getting dumped.

    This may have led her to feel better without you and the space may have given her another perspective.


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