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Abortion Discussion, Part Trois

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    I'm not convinced the rules are intended to force posters to answer barrages of questions in the fashion they've been thrown out over the last few pages or be removed from the 'conversation' though. IRL any 'conversation' conducted the way this has been would look more like a McCarthy Hearing, not a debate!

    A debate would involve answering questions, so I'd agree that this has little resemblance. The "barrage" of questions have been pretty much the same questions over and over, constantly side-stepped.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    100cent wrote: »
    You ask a question, I answer, you don't like the answer and threaten me with forum rules.

    Very immature to be honest.

    What threat has been made? The forum rules are there to guide discussions so that we don't end up in the repetitiveness that was in the last few posts. Immaturity is responses such as:
    100cent wrote: »
    Take up a hobby?
    100cent wrote: »
    Thats the answer you're going to get. :)
    100cent wrote: »
    Life gets messy sometimes. If this is causing you upset maybe you should leave the conversation. :)

    And I believe that last one was the first suggestion that someone leave the conversation and it was made by yourself.

    No threat has been made on my part, although one should only find the rules threatening when you intend to break them.

    But I continue to extend the olive branch and hope we can move on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    A debate would involve answering questions, so I'd agree that this has little resemblance.
    A debate would involve discussing points of view, but a review of posts over the last few pages shows they largely amount to firing questions and sneering at responses. It's not unusual on the thread, I know, but it's a tad disingenuous to claim what posters have been doing stimulates debate, or what 100cent has done stifles it.
    robdonn wrote: »
    The "barrage" of questions have been pretty much the same questions over and over, constantly side-stepped.
    That certainly does sound McCarthyish alright (including the allegation of side stepping when 100cent has clearly given quite a number of straightforward answers)! Perhaps you should just demand the names of all the pro-lifers he knows, it would seem to be just as effective a means of 'stimulating debate'. :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    A debate would involve discussing points of view, but a review of posts over the last few pages shows they largely amount to firing questions and sneering at responses. It's not unusual on the thread, I know, but it's a tad disingenuous to claim what posters have been doing stimulates debate, or what 100cent has done stifles it.

    Questions have been fired by both sides, but perhaps the uneven numbers should have given cause to relent slightly on my part. But since the majority at the time landed on one side of the debate, it's understandable that most questions would be aimed at the other.
    Absolam wrote: »
    That certainly does sound McCarthyish alright (including the allegation of side stepping when 100cent has clearly given quite a number of straightforward answers)! Perhaps you should just demand the names of all the pro-lifers he knows, it would seem to be just as effective a means of 'stimulating debate'. :D

    And I have not claimed that all of 100cent's answers have been side steps. But one point was asked about several times and side stepping occurred with regularity, hence the allegation. An allegation which also was accompanied by an offer for 100cent to simply state their intent to answer the question or not and save the hassle of repeated asking, an offer that was met with "Life gets messy sometimes. If this is causing you upset maybe you should leave the conversation". I'm not sure if McCarthy gave that as an option. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    Questions have been fired by both sides, but perhaps the uneven numbers should have given cause to relent slightly on my part. But since the majority at the time landed on one side of the debate, it's understandable that most questions would be aimed at the other.
    How many questions do you think 100cent 'fired'? Say as a percentage of those 'fired' at him? And when you say 'majority', that's a bit of understatement for five on one isn't it? Less of a debate than an attempted beat down I would have said....
    robdonn wrote: »
    And I have not claimed that all of 100cent's answers have been side steps.
    Of course not, and I never said you did, did I? I'm happy to stick with the accusation you did make; 'constantly'.
    robdonn wrote: »
    But one point was asked about several times and side stepping occurred with regularity, hence the allegation. An allegation which also was accompanied by an offer for 100cent to simply state their intent to answer the question or not and save the hassle of repeated asking, an offer that was met with "Life gets messy sometimes. If this is causing you upset maybe you should leave the conversation". I'm not sure if McCarthy gave that as an option. :D
    I think he we more likely to threaten people with sanctions when they opined he wasn't happy with their answers. Hmmm...


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    How many questions do you think 100cent 'fired'? Say as a percentage of those 'fired' at him? And when you say 'majority', that's a bit of understatement for five on one isn't it? Less of a debate than an attempted beat down I would have said....

    I would describe it more as untempered questioning, lacking a throttling influence that perhaps another party on the opposing side would have helped with. Unfortunately you came along a little too late. :P
    Absolam wrote: »
    I think he we more likely to threaten people with sanctions when they opined he wasn't happy with their answers. Hmmm...

    I'm flattered by your presumption of my powers, but alas I do not have any official capacity on this forum (or any other) to threaten anyone with sanctions. I also did not realise that quoting the forum charter is a threat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    I would describe it more as untempered questioning, lacking a throttling influence that perhaps another party on the opposing side would have helped with. Unfortunately you came along a little too late. :P
    I'm sure you would... it sounds way better than bullying, eh :)
    robdonn wrote: »
    I'm flattered by your presumption of my powers, but alas I do not have any official capacity on this forum (or any other) to threaten anyone with sanctions. I also did not realise that quoting the forum charter is a threat.
    Of course not... I imagine you quote the Charter all the time just to keep the bits you like in mind. There's no way anyone could reasonably think that you were trying to use it to back up your attacks. Is there?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    I'm sure you would... it sounds way better than bullying, eh :)

    Is that an accusation?
    Absolam wrote: »
    Of course not... I imagine you quote the Charter all the time just to keep the bits you like in mind. There's no way anyone could reasonably think that you were trying to use it to back up your attacks. Is there?

    Attacks? When did I attack? There are report buttons attached to every post and I have had no problem using them in the past, I have no reason to threaten. I quoted the charter after I read:
    100cent wrote: »
    You can find any justification you like to dismiss me.

    It takes nothing from my right to openly advocate for life, support our nation's stance against the evils of abortion and my continuing advocacy for life into the future. :)

    I quoted it as a reminder that "soap boxing, i.e constant repetition of a single viewpoint while refusing to entertain discussion on it, is both disruptive and annoying". Particularly the annoying part.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    Is that an accusation?
    It's a statement; "untempered questioning, lacking a throttling influence" sounds better than "bullying"; though it's certainly an accusation that you're preferring a term that attempts to minimise the effect of the last few pages. Would you not agree?
    robdonn wrote: »
    Attacks? When did I attack? There are report buttons attached to every post and I have had no problem using them in the past, I have no reason to threaten.
    I don't think it's unfair to charactise badgering questions rather than discussion as 'attacks'. Perhaps I'm wrong though... maybe you felt there was a equal exchange of views going on :)
    robdonn wrote: »
    I quoted the charter after I read:
    I quoted it as a reminder that "soap boxing, i.e constant repetition of a single viewpoint while refusing to entertain discussion on it, is both disruptive and annoying". Particularly the annoying part.
    Which is to say, it was directed at 100cent? As you say, there's a report button there for when people break the rules; but you chose to make a point of pointing out the rules. What point were you making that you couldn't without quoting the Charter?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    It's a statement; "untempered questioning, lacking a throttling influence" sounds better than "bullying"; though it's certainly an accusation that you're preferring a term that attempts to minimise the effect of the last few pages. Would you not agree?

    As a statement I agree, it does sound much better, although I don't see the relevance as I do not equate the two. As for your accusation, I can't agree without knowing what term you would deem more apt.
    Absolam wrote: »
    I don't think it's unfair to charactise badgering questions rather than discussion as 'attacks'. Perhaps I'm wrong though... maybe you felt there was a equal exchange of views going on :)

    That would rely on your interpretation of the questions being asked as badgering, which I do not agree with. I would say that we were invited to ask questions:
    100cent wrote: »
    Keep the questions coming. I hope the answers aren't too inconvenient for you. :)

    My repeated asking of a question could have been answered with "I respectfully decline to answer that question", which was a response that 100cent was fully capable of providing:
    100cent wrote: »
    I respectfully decline to answer that question.

    But instead, I got a side stepping answer. Was it so horribly unjust for me to call them on it?
    Absolam wrote: »
    Which is to say, it was directed at 100cent? As you say, there's a report button there for when people break the rules; but you chose to make a point of pointing out the rules. What point were you making that you couldn't without quoting the Charter?

    And as I said, quoting the rules is only a threat if one is breaking them. I like to think that quoting them is like putting the bumpers up in a bowling alley.


    As for this discussion, I feel we've gone quite far off the topic so I'll leave it at that. Feel free to have your last word. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    Sure; I think playing nice is more likely to encourage posters to engage with you in a meaningful way than not. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,800 ✭✭✭Lingua Franca


    But then again, your source was this crowd, I'm not surprised that they would want to make sure people were given misleading information.

    I know this is a bit late, but I assure you my source was not that crowd. I'm pro choice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,971 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious


    This Daily Mail report on London's Royal College of Midwives calling for the abolishing of the UK legal limits on abortion, combined with the column lines from David Quinn last Friday in the Indo re Sabina Higgins statement and by Una Mullally (on the politicians here) in today's Irish times, along with the Scrap The 8th campaign mean's the country-wide public debate will become more intense. The Sky News midnight discussion last night on what it said in the papers made sure the Mail report made it into the public eye.

    https://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwj58uj58t3MAhVhIMAKHQUBAw8QFggcMAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.dailymail.co.uk%2Fnews%2Farticle-3590774%2FHorror-plan-legalise-terminations-birth-midwives-chief-calls-end-time-limit-abortions.html&usg=AFQjCNEc2bZvJYc_sqQfyR_BvgnsBmKgXA

    http://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/una-mullally-politicians-use-same-sex-marriage-shield-to-deflect-abortion-fire-1.2648737

    Edit... The photo image of the Marriage Equality celebration in Una's piece above was not the image included in the Irish Times printed story so I've downloaded the report's original image separately here. The bold-face type at the top - Scrap the 8th amendment - is referring to the photo image attached and nothing else. During editing to include it here, I had to put a title on the editing to get it on here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    Scrap the 8th isn't exactly headlining it's own Google news search (Repeal The 8th does considerably better), and I can't say I think the Daily Mail is a great motivator of public opinion in Ireland.

    Poor old Una seems to be making the same assumption that a couple of posters here are inclined to; that everyone who supports marriage equality supports liberal abortion because the Catholic Church opposes both. I have a feeling that's not the case. I do think she's right in saying a lot of people are jumping on the bandwagon (or hijacking the narrative as she says) and claiming the marriage equality result as a victory for themselves and their point of view when it's not the case though...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 256 ✭✭100cent


    robdonn wrote: »
    A debate would involve answering questions, so I'd agree that this has little resemblance. The "barrage" of questions have been pretty much the same questions over and over, constantly side-stepped.

    Thats simply untrue.

    In any debate a presence in reality from one side or the other is required.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 256 ✭✭100cent


    Absolam wrote: »
    A debate would involve discussing points of view, but a review of posts over the last few pages shows they largely amount to firing questions and sneering at responses. It's not unusual on the thread, I know, but it's a tad disingenuous to claim what posters have been doing stimulates debate, or what 100cent has done stifles it.

    That certainly does sound McCarthyish alright (including the allegation of side stepping when 100cent has clearly given quite a number of straightforward answers)! Perhaps you should just demand the names of all the pro-lifers he knows, it would seem to be just as effective a means of 'stimulating debate'. :D

    Thank you for the reasoned and mature reflections on last nights discussion. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,247 ✭✭✭pauldla


    100cent wrote: »
    This reminds me of many in today's society who demand their wishes come true. Anything that doesn't match their expectations, the toys come out of the pram.

    You need to learn to appreciate that nuance and different perspectives exist.

    You won't always get what you want.

    I answered all questions tonight as I saw fir, from my perspective.

    You seem offended by my answering style, while I am grossly offended by any viewpoint that advocates for killing unborn babies.


    I have to get over it and move on.

    A lesson some in today's 'want it now' society would do well to consider.

    Oh the irony...


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    Scrap the 8th isn't exactly headlining it's own Google news search (Repeal The 8th does considerably better), and I can't say I think the Daily Mail is a great motivator of public opinion in Ireland.

    Poor old Una seems to be making the same assumption that a couple of posters here are inclined to; that everyone who supports marriage equality supports liberal abortion because the Catholic Church opposes both. I have a feeling that's not the case. I do think she's right in saying a lot of people are jumping on the bandwagon (or hijacking the narrative as she says) and claiming the marriage equality result as a victory for themselves and their point of view when it's not the case though...

    What is "liberal abortion"?

    (Very tempted to ask that several times :P )


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    What is "liberal abortion"?
    (Very tempted to ask that several times :P )
    Well, as a number of posters are at pains to point out given the opportunity, we do have abortion in Ireland, but it's a legislative environment that might reasonably be termed restrictive. A less restrictive environment could be described as more liberal, hence liberal abortion. To be fair, I think I've only used the phrase once... though the phrases 'liberal abortion regime' and 'liberal abortion laws' have been used a couple of times. It's certainly odd that you've been very tempted to ask that several times... maybe you suffer from an odd form of prescience :P


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    Well, as a number of posters are at pains to point out given the opportunity, we do have abortion in Ireland, but it's a legislative environment that might reasonably be termed restrictive. A less restrictive environment could be described as more liberal, hence liberal abortion. To be fair, I think I've only used the phrase once... though the phrases 'liberal abortion regime' and 'liberal abortion laws' have been used a couple of times.

    So would liberal abortion constitute anything beyond the current laws, or just when it covers abortion beyond medical needs? What side of liberal abortion would, for example, an abortion on grounds of health land on?
    Absolam wrote: »
    It's certainly odd that you've been very tempted to ask that several times... maybe you suffer from an odd form of prescience :P

    Simply my mild masochistic nature. :D


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 256 ✭✭100cent


    robdonn wrote: »
    So would liberal abortion constitute anything beyond the current laws, or just when it covers abortion beyond medical needs? What side of liberal abortion would, for example, an abortion on grounds of health land on?



    Simply my mild masochistic nature. :D

    Sadly, in the UK, the 'medical need' reason has been abused and has lead to the current rate of over 200,000 babies dying every year.

    What was at first viewed as a restrictive piece of legislation resulted in the current liberal regime.

    Thankfully our X Case legislation is a lot more restrictive, hence the clamour from the elites to repeal the 8th.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    100cent wrote: »
    Thankfully our X Case legislation is a lot more restrictive, hence the clamour from the elites to repeal the 8th.

    There seem to be a lot of elites since 64% of people apparently support repealing the 8th.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    So would liberal abortion constitute anything beyond the current laws, or just when it covers abortion beyond medical needs? What side of liberal abortion would, for example, an abortion on grounds of health land on?
    Well, anything more liberal would qualify strictly I suppose. But to be a liberal abortion regime I suppose it would need to be in the region at least of abortion on demand (or abortion at will, if one prefers). That said, we've seen how abortion on the grounds of health was parlayed into abortion on demand in the UK, so I suppose abortion on grounds of health could fall on the liberal side, don't you think?
    robdonn wrote: »
    Simply my mild masochistic nature. :D
    Shall we put it down to a Catholic upbringing?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 256 ✭✭100cent


    robdonn wrote: »
    There seem to be a lot of elites since 64% of people apparently support repealing the 8th.


    I'm referring to the societal and political elites. The smoked salmon, Trinity, Irish Times, Trotskyite brigade. ho are on a crusade to turn Ireland into an intolerant Liberal utopia.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    Well, anything more liberal would qualify strictly I suppose. But to be a liberal abortion regime I suppose it would need to be in the region at least of abortion on demand (or abortion at will, if one prefers). That said, we've seen how abortion on the grounds of health was parlayed into abortion on demand in the UK, so I suppose abortion on grounds of health could fall on the liberal side, don't you think?

    I suppose the slippery-slope approach is what has worked in Ireland so far, albeit at a glacial pace, but I wouldn't necessarily describe 'medical needs' as liberal abortion based on it's potential alone to become more liberal.
    Absolam wrote: »
    Shall we put it down to a Catholic upbringing?

    lol


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    100cent wrote: »
    I'm referring to the societal and political elites. The smoked salmon, Trinity, Irish Times, Trotskyite brigade. ho are on a crusade to turn Ireland into an intolerant Liberal utopia.

    Can't say I know them. I'm curious how advocating for a woman's bodily autonomy is considered intolerance.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 256 ✭✭100cent


    robdonn wrote: »
    Can't say I know them. I'm curious how advocating for a woman's bodily autonomy is considered intolerance.

    I'll thro a fe names at you. Maybe you've heard of them.

    Ivana Bacik, Clare Daly, Kitty Holland, Colm O'Gorman, Fintan O'Toole, Richard Boyd Barrett.

    Among many others. Its not as if they are hiding their abortion pom poms under a bushel. They are out and proud, so to speak, on the issue.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,420 Mod ✭✭✭✭robindch


    100cent wrote: »
    I'm referring to the societal and political elites. The smoked salmon, Trinity, Irish Times, Trotskyite brigade. ho are on a crusade to turn Ireland into an intolerant Liberal utopia.
    Oops, my cliché detector just red-lined and assploded.

    Have you considered writing for Alive?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,913 ✭✭✭Absolam


    robdonn wrote: »
    I suppose the slippery-slope approach is what has worked in Ireland so far, albeit at a glacial pace, but I wouldn't necessarily describe 'medical needs' as liberal abortion based on it's potential alone to become more liberal.
    Well, I can't speak for what you mean about a slippery-slope approach, but abortion on any health grounds would be a more liberal abortion regime than we currently have, wouldn't it?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭robdonn


    Absolam wrote: »
    Well, I can't speak for what you mean about a slippery-slope approach, but abortion on any health grounds would be a more liberal abortion regime than we currently have, wouldn't it?

    I would suppose so.

    So just to clarify, abortion on any health grounds would not necessarily be a liberal abortion regime, but it would be a more liberal regime?


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