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Back with my ex - partners while we were apart?

  • 02-10-2015 8:37am
    #1
    Drenge
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3 ✭


    Hiya folks

    Wondering if anyone has any similar stories or can relate to getting back with an ex (in my case after 10 months apart) knowing that they've been with other people and so have you.

    From the get go since we got back together, I told her that I wouldn't ask her and didn't want to know and I'd appreciate if she would do likewise.

    Obviously we've both had other partners in the meantime and are completely entitled to do so, but is it odd that I'm feeling a little bit upset, as she probably is?

    What's the best way of putting these thoughts to one side and getting over them?

    I want it to be said we're both ridiculously happy to be back together and I dont want something like this to come between us.

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    So are you having those thoughts? If you are ridiculously happy then it shouldn't matter


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 1,007 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Drenge wrote: »
    is it odd that I'm feeling a little bit upset, as she probably is?

    It's understandable though you've no reason to think she's feeling the same way as you are.

    But unless you can let it go and get over your upset, this is a lose-lose situation. You will either drive yourself crazy wondering about it or you will eventually push her into revealing the details and that's a slippery slope to the end.

    Put it out of your mind and get on with enjoying your relationship. Something like this can only come between you if YOU let it.


  • #4
    Drenge
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3 ✭Drenge


    That's very true - the pushing her into revealing the details bit, found myself thinking of doing it during the week

    I'm gonna work on forgetting about it


  • #5
    Matteroffact
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 457 ✭✭Matteroffact


    Just realize that no matter who she was with she prefers you !!


  • #6
    VisibleGorilla
    Registered Users Posts: 390 ✭✭VisibleGorilla


    In my experience if they are an issue then a person will never get over them and the relationship will not last.


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  • #7
    arayess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭arayess


    In my experience you acknowledge the fact and get on with it or it's not meant to be.
    speaking about it is fine once you don't go into territory likely to upset either you like numbers and names would probably be top of that list


  • #8
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    Closing this thread as the OP is banned.

    dudara


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