The Grey Guignol(Lair Thread)

StripedBoxers

Gremlinertia wrote: »

Boxers, night is hard, defences are weakened and it's a long time.. Crying is ok, maybe you'll cry yourself to sleep. Try not to beat yourself up, it takes a while for the worst of the pain to exit your system.. Anger and self-criticism will only delay the healing part.. Be kind to yourself and live in the now as much as possible while you are recovering..

Thanks Grem, yeah the nights are long and lonely. I just hate feeling like this and wish there was some way I could just take the pain away at times to be honest.

Joya wrote: »

if he made you feeling that bad he aint worth you, remember that ; )


morning people of the lair, i run away from this monday morning but ut came nevertheless :d))


coffee required

He honestly never made me feel bad, I just hate when I wake up from dreams because reality always bites and I hate that horrible feeling is all.

The dreams aren't bad dreams or anything, they're quite nice, but then when I wake and reality hits me, I feel sad, low, moody, contrary, miss him (although there's never a time in the day when I don't miss him), and he's my first thought in the morning and last at night, no matter what I do to take my mind off things/him, it always wanders back to him.

The last few mornings I've been waking up between 6.30 and 7, as his alarm always used to go off that time, and a few times I found myself turning over, then reality hits and he's not there obviously.

Just feels at times that I'll never get over him.

Honestly this heartbreak stuff has put me off relationships for life. It's torture.

Grid.

Haaaa......you're keeping the whole South American coffee industry going all by yourself!!! Be proud!!:D

Black Swan

Grid. wrote: »

Fair play.....have you long to wait before you can flake out?? Not leave the bot in charge and retire for the day??:D

Hmmmmmmmm, now that's a grand idea Grid. I can detail SwanBot to take my place. Only problem is her sqqqquuuuaaaaking, and I haven't had time to fix or ungrade her.

Grid.

Sorry ...you're feeling down Stripey!:(

Grid.

Black Swan wrote: »

Hmmmmmmmm, now that's a grand idea Grid. I can detail SwanBot to take my place. Only problem is her sqqqquuuuaaaaking, and I haven't had time to fix or ungrade her.

Awww darn.....could you tape her beak shut....and just get her to nod instead, so much potential going to waste, think of all that precious sleep you could catch up on:p

Black Swan

StripedBoxers wrote: »

...yeah the nights are long and lonely. I just hate feeling like this and wish there was some way I could just take the pain away at times to be honest.

My recommendation Boxers would be to stay busy with work, school, online classes, writing fiction, and especially exercising hard everyday so that you drop off to sleep easily at night. I'm solo now because I don't have time for a relationship commitment.

Black Swan

Grid. wrote: »

Awww darn.....could you tape her beak shut....and just get her to nod instead:P

Sounds like a plan Grid.

addicted to caffeine

StripedBoxers wrote: »

*Hugs*, hope you are okay ATC x

Gremlinertia wrote: »

I get that Atc. It's very frustrating and often about things over which you have no control anyway..

thanks guys, think it's sorted now..I hope

how's everyone?

Fathom

Yo all

addicted to caffeine

hiya fathom how's you?

Fathom

addicted to caffeine wrote: »

hiya fathom how's you?

I'm good. You?

x Purple Pawprints x

I'm making a snowflake.

Ted_YNWA

What's going on in here.

Fathom

x Purple Pawprints x wrote: »

I'm making a snowflake.

Yo Purple. Making?

Fathom

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

What's going on in here.

Laughs! Yo Ted

addicted to caffeine

Fathom wrote: »

I'm good. You?

ah good:) I'm not too bad myself thanks

nice pp

Ted_YNWA

Fathom wrote: »

Laughs! Yo Ted

Good Morning fathom, hows all stateside?

Fathom

addicted to caffeine wrote: »

ah good:) I'm not too bad myself thanks

Still writing?

Fathom

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

Good Morning fathom, hows all stateside?

Windy. Ireland?

Ted_YNWA

Windy & 9/10 C here.

Time for plenty of tea & java

Links234

Hey folksies, how is all?

Fathom

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

Windy & 9/10 C here. Time for plenty of tea & java

76 F. Gusty 10-15 mph

Fathom

Links234 wrote: »

Hey folksies, how is all?

Yo Links. I'm good. You?

x Purple Pawprints x

Fathom wrote: »

Yo Purple. Making?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfFymmg1IDE

Fathom

Cool! :cool:

x Purple Pawprints x

All done. Only took a few minutes too.

Fathom

x Purple Pawprints x wrote: »

All done. Only took a few minutes too.

You're talented

x Purple Pawprints x

Ah not really, I just followed the video.

Fathom

x Purple Pawprints x wrote: »

Ah not really, I just followed the video.

Crocheted never. Future perhaps

Fathom

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