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New Partner and our First Time

  • 25-12-2015 7:58pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    after an abusive relationship I finally found a guy I liked (I'm a guy too). This relationship is very different and I feel like things feel very right or something. I'm attracted to him, I feel comfortable around him and I think the world of him. We have been dating for a few weeks and are coming up to the point where it's time to get physical but I am really nervous. Neither of us drink so we won't be using dutch courage and I'm just a bit nervous that I won't be 'visibly' interested. I doubt we will have full penetration (prob the other stuff) but I'm just kinda nervous.... I suppose it's because it's the first time I've been with someone since the terrible former relationshp I was in.. and it's bringing things back.

    Any tips about this??

    Thanks and Happy Xmas!!!


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  • #2
    bp
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,731 ✭✭✭bp


    I would say relax and make sure that you both read others moods and if either feel uncomfortable just pull back and enjoy.

    Well done moving on for your former relationship


  • #3
    Jenneke87
    Registered Users Posts: 807 ✭✭✭Jenneke87


    Does he know about your former abusive relationship and that you feel nervous about your first time with him? He can't act on what he doesn't know, I think it would be wise to discuss this with him if you havent done so already, so he can put your mind at ease and make it beautiful for the both of you.


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