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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,010 ✭✭✭La.de.da


    And everyone loves to walk on the beach.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    I know a lot of posters don't feel looks are as big a deal as some may believe. But people are talking from different age groups. I'm dealing with an age group of 20-25. Now its the same for women. But if ur not the best looking ur f**ked.


  • Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    La.de.da wrote: »
    And everyone loves to walk on the beach.

    WTFF is it with these jumping in front of landmarks pics?


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,637 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Silverman. wrote:
    I know a lot of posters don't feel looks are as big a deal as some may believe. But people are talking from different age groups. I'm dealing with an age group of 20-25. Now its the same for women. But if ur not the best looking ur f**ked.

    Silverman. It's been said a thousand times that it's not all about looks. For any age group.
    If you continue to truly believe this then it seems to me you are choosing to do so because it's then something you feel you can justifiably claim that it's their problem that they behave this way.

    If you were to tell yourself that you were actively going to resist getting in to any relationship but were going to try to meet as many new people as possible and just get to know them while doing something you enjoy, I bet you'd click with someone.

    You ask a lot of questions, (which is fine) but imo you don't seem to listen to the answers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Silverman. It's been said a thousand times that it's not all about looks. For any age group. If you continue to truly believe this then it seems to me you are choosing to do so because it's then something you feel you can justifiably claim that it's their problem that they behave this way.

    If you were to tell yourself that you were actively going to resist getting in to any relationship but were going to try to meet as many new people as possible and just get to know them while doing something you enjoy, I bet you'd click with someone.

    You ask a lot of questions, (which is fine) but imo you don't seem to listen to the answers.

    Its because I disagree and its worth noting that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 21,637 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Silverman. wrote:
    Its because I disagree and its worth noting that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket.

    How do you know?
    Do you think none of us have been in that age group or don't have friends, family, colleagues in that age group?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    How do you know? Do you think none of us have been in that age group or don't have friends, family, colleagues in that age group?

    Cos most of the posters say their age and are you in those peoples' heads?


  • Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    How do you know?
    Do you think none of us have been in that age group or don't have friends, family, colleagues in that age group?

    Or were in that age group ourselves at some point.

    Having said that, I would recommend you do what I didn't do when I was your age; go out, get some of the dutch courage and try to get over the sting of rejection.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,010 ✭✭✭La.de.da


    cantdecide wrote: »

    Hahaha. Deffo wouldn't be me. Couldn't jump that high I'd kneecap myself :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,637 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Silverman. wrote:
    Cos most of the posters say their age and are you in those peoples' heads?

    No but I've been reading what most have already been saying to you.

    And as several others have said, I've no wish to argue with you. I just feel you have a viewpoint which is self perpetuating your experience.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 357 ✭✭makingmecrazy


    In the mountains bordering waterford and tipp there's dozens

    Though this would also depend how you feel on isolation and mild alcoholism to pass the time





    Where do ya fall on a ginger beard

    I was tempted to say something really rather rude :eek::D


  • Registered Users Posts: 22,306 ✭✭✭✭Esel


    Silverman. wrote: »
    But if ur not the best looking ur f**ked.

    Your (and any hetero male's) perception of a
    good-looking guy is probably way different to that of a hetero female.

    And thinking you are fukked is self-defeatist.

    Not your ornery onager



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    No but I've been reading what most have already been saying to you.

    And as several others have said, I've no wish to argue with you. I just feel you have a viewpoint which is self perpetuating your experience.


    I think one poster was in that age bracket.


  • Registered Users Posts: 22,306 ✭✭✭✭Esel


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Its because I disagree and its worth noting that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket.

    Seriously though: why do you slice a quoted reply into multi-quotes? What is up with that?

    Not your ornery onager



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭OhHiMark


    Silverman. wrote: »
    I know so many women that DO NOT like that type.

    Hold the phone, you're telling me that women are like people, and different ones like different things?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,010 ✭✭✭La.de.da


    I was tempted to say something really rather rude :eek::D

    What might that be? :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Esel wrote:
    Seriously though: why do you slice a quoted reply into multi-quotes? What is up with that?
    Hahahaha I'm on the phone app. Only way to do it.
    OhHiMark wrote:
    Hold the phone, you're telling me that women are like people, and different ones like different things?
    Actually not what I'm saying but good effort.


  • Registered Users Posts: 22,306 ✭✭✭✭Esel


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Its because I disagree and its worth noting that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket.
    Do you know what?

    If, as you think, that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket, you should look on that as a positive, because you are getting t benefit of their wisdom and experience.

    Not your ornery onager



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Esel wrote:
    If, as you think, that barely anyone on this thread is in that age bracket, you should look on that as a positive, because you are getting t benefit of their wisdom and experience.

    But old people aren't cool. I want to be cool.


  • Registered Users Posts: 22,306 ✭✭✭✭Esel


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Hahahaha I'm on the phone app. Only way to do it.

    On the touch site?

    Not your ornery onager



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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭OhHiMark


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Hahahaha I'm on the phone app. Only way to do it.


    Actually not what I'm saying but good effort.

    So you're saying that all women want the same thing in a man?


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,637 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Silverman. wrote:
    But old people aren't cool. I want to be cool.

    If you're serious about this then you know what you're right, no one else here is in the 12 - 15 age group.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    OhHiMark wrote:
    So you're saying that all women want the same thing in a man?

    Who said that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    If you're serious about this then you know what you're right, no one else here is in the 12 - 15 age group.


    Hahahaha zing.


  • Registered Users Posts: 22,306 ✭✭✭✭Esel


    Silverman. wrote: »
    But old people aren't cool. I want to be cool.
    Have to say my finger is hovering over Ignore at this stage.

    Were you here before by any chance?

    Not your ornery onager



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Esel wrote:
    Have to say my finger is hovering over Ignore at this stage.
    Ah now, don't be like that.


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,637 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Silverman. wrote:
    Hahahaha zing.

    See, with a lot of the stuff you've come out with, I'm still not convinced you were joking.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Tbh everyone ye are all alright.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,247 ✭✭✭Tigger99


    Phew. I was worried there for a second :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Tigger99 wrote:
    Phew. I was worried there for a second

    Tigger you messer.


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