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    #2552
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Deleted User wrote:
    And there in lies the crux.

    ???


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    #2553
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Silverman. wrote: »
    ???

    First loves, especially if you still carry a torch for them can be difficult to get past.


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    #2554
    OhHiMark
    Registered Users Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭OhHiMark


    Silverman. wrote: »
    But that wasn't an individual incident.
    They could be suited to each other but they may also not be. Who says he's not a jerk either?

    She does.


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    #2555
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    OhHiMark wrote:
    She does.

    Hahaha


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    #2556
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    Silverman. wrote: »
    No I know that but I was just showing that some guys do actually treat women badly even though a lot seem to be challenging that.

    And women treat men badly. And to answer your next post, yes you do know her better but you do not know the dynamics of her relationship. What you might think is the perfect relationship might not be her perfect relationship


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    #2557
    BlondeMoment
    Closed Accounts Posts: 142 ✭✭BlondeMoment


    OhHiMark wrote: »

    I did not hit her! I did naaaaaat! :D


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    #2558
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Its not a secret relationship yano? Also what I do know is that their has been a number of situations that he has not treated her well and that's what I can see.
    Its constant negativity and confrontations with you Lexie so I'm not interested in going on any further about it.


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    #2559
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Its not a secret relationship yano? Also what I do know is that their has been a number of situations that he has not treated her well and that's what I can see.
    Its constant negativity and confrontations with you Lexie so I'm not interested in going on any further about it.

    Realistically are you looking it objectively as you said yourself you used be in love with her??

    Who's to say she's not as bad...but your glossing over it??



    Either way...it clearly works for them...so fcuk it I say Let them at it


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    #2560
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Its not a secret relationship yano? Also what I do know is that their has been a number of situations that he has not treated her well and that's what I can see.
    Its constant negativity and confrontations with you Lexie so I'm not interested in going on any further about it.

    I think Lexie is trying to get you to see the bigger picture. Of course we don't know the girl from Adam. Don't worry about other people's relationships because regardless of how much you care or what you perceive to be happening it really isn't your concern.


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    #2561
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    tomwaterford wrote:
    Realistically are you looking it objectively as you said yourself you used be in love with her??

    tomwaterford wrote:
    Who's to say she's not as bad...but your glossing over it??

    A few of her friends were the ones that said it first.


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    #2562
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Deleted User wrote:
    I think Lexie is trying to get you to see the bigger picture. Of course we don't know the girl from Adam. Don't worry about other people's relationships because regardless of how much you care or what you perceive to be happening it really isn't your concern.

    But who's says she's not wrong?


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    #2563
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    Silverman. wrote: »
    Its not a secret relationship yano? Also what I do know is that their has been a number of situations that he has not treated her well and that's what I can see.
    Its constant negativity and confrontations with you Lexie so I'm not interested in going on any further about it.


    You are looking on the outside. You're not going to like him because he has the girl you want. I made the comparrison a page back that though your friends see one side (and used my own relationship as an eg) you don't see the intimate, private, special moments that keep them both together or that keeps the love strong. You see what you want to see, why she wasn't going to stay out without her boyfriend even though she didn't want to go home.

    It might well be constant negativity with me, but I'm not your friend and I'm not here to agree your friend has a crap relationship with someone who treats her bad and deserves you to treat her better. That's not how I roll, I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear. Sorry about that.


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    #2564
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Silverman. wrote: »
    A few of her friends were the ones that said it first.

    I really don't think it's their business once they've said it once to her

    She's an adult...let her live her life...no matter how good/bad ye perceive her relationship to be....it's not yours to change


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    #2565
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    LexieOnRale wrote:
    You are looking on the outside. You're not going to like him because he has the girl you want. I made the comparrison a page back that though your friends see one side (and used my own relationship as an eg) you don't see the intimate, private, special moments that keep them both together or that keeps the love strong. You see what you want to see, why she wasn't going to stay out without her boyfriend even though she didn't want to go home.

    LexieOnRale wrote:
    It might well be constant negativity with me, but I'm not your friend and I'm not here to agree your friend has a crap relationship with someone who treats her bad and deserves you to treat her better. That's not how I roll, I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear. Sorry about that.

    Well for your information, her friends say they same and they are thick as thieves.

    Also it genuinely looks like you just love an argument.


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    #2566
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Silverman. wrote: »
    But who's says she's not wrong?

    Yes but the point is regardless of your friend's relationship, regardless of how difficult it is because you care about her, there is nothing for you to do. Not a thing. Live your life.


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    #2567
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    tomwaterford wrote:
    I really don't think it's their business once they've said once to her

    tomwaterford wrote:
    She's an adult...let her live her life...no matter how good/bad ye perceive her relationship to be....it's not yours to change


    But were not saying 'how do we save her'. Nobody is interfering.
    Its the fact that some guys dont treat their women right.


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    #2568
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Deleted User wrote:
    Yes but the point is regardless of your friend's relationship, regardless of how difficult it is because you care about her, there is nothing for you to do. Not a thing. Live your life.


    Come on! I didn't say I wanted to do anything. It was an example if women being treated badly by their BF that Lexie then blew up.


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    #2569
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    Silverman. wrote: »
    Well for your information, her friends say they same and they are thick as thieves.

    Also it genuinely looks like you just love an argument.


    I'm not one to shy away from an arguement, and I've never stated otherwise.
    Her friends are in the same boat. They see the side she wants them to see.
    Bet his friends would have a completely different set of opinions.

    Anyway, I'm done engaging you. Between girls being shallow bitches for finding certain things attractive, and your attitude today about how "nice guys" finish last - I'm jumping off this Pity party express at the next stop.



    What is a "nice guy" anyway?


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    #2570
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Come on! I didn't say I wanted to do anything. It was an example if women being treated badly by their BF that Lexie then blew up.

    My apologies if I misinterpreted you.

    Just always remember that you never ever know the intricacies of another's relationship :)


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    #2571
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    LexieOnRale wrote:
    Anyway, I'm done engaging you. Between girls being shallow bitches for finding certain things attractive, and your attitude today about how "nice guys" finish last - I'm jumping off this Pity party express at the next stop.


    Not once have I said any of those things.
    What a petty petty person you are.


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    #2572
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I think an auld drop of tae and a few chocolate biscuits are in order?

    Come in to my special sitting room. It has stress balls, glass bottles (for throwing, I like that) and hugs.


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    #2573
    PowerToWait
    Registered Users Posts: 1,789 ✭✭✭PowerToWait


    Silverman. wrote: »
    Not once have I said any of those things.
    What a petty petty person you are.

    You don't argue with the straight talking, calling it as it is, no nonsense queens of AH.


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    #2574
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    PowerToWait wrote: »
    You don't argue with the straight talking, calling it as it is, no nonsense queens of AH.

    You. In to my sitting room. Hugs on the left. Gin on the right.

    :p


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    #2575
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,081 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Timberrrrrrrr wrote: »
    I see some lovely lads who are genuinely pleasant people being treated like dirt by their GF'S and often wonder to myself why they stay in that situation.

    Yeah I've actually seen this more often than the other way around tbh. I know some lads who are pricks but the women they're with wouldn't exactly be angels either. There's usually a pair of them in it.


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    #2576
    Silverman.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Silverman.


    Not once did I call women shallow bitches or say nice guys finish last. Shes making things up now.


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    #2577
    Skylinehead
    Registered Users Posts: 11,690 ✭✭✭✭Skylinehead


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I think an auld drop of tae and a few chocolate biscuits are in order?

    Come in to my special sitting room. It has stress balls, glass bottles (for throwing, I like that) and hugs.

    This. Chill out all, and less of the snide comments please!


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    #2578
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    It's obvious that we're discussing a polarising topic. Of course there's going to be robust discussion. Sometimes it can go a bit "he said she said". But really I think that the majority of us on this thread only want to discuss the ins and outs of online dating and offer/be open to advice.


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    #2579
    mickmackmcgoo
    Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 950 ✭✭✭mickmackmcgoo


    Persepoly's beers night could have a nice edge too it now 😉


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    #2580
    [Deleted User]
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    mickmackmcgoo wrote: »
    Persepoly's beers night could have a nice edge too it now 😉

    It will have edges that are covered in a soft padding. :p


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    #2581
    mickmackmcgoo
    Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 950 ✭✭✭mickmackmcgoo


    Deleted User wrote:
    It will have edges that are covered in a soft padding.


    A bouncy castle may be appropriate:)


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