Men in women's toilets

Wall1257

What do you think? Yesterday I arrived out if a toilet stall and came face to face withe a MALE... . aggghhhhh the horror. He was with his wife while she was changing her baby's nappy on the changing table. As far as I'm concerned he did not need to be there not should have been there. I did give him dirty looks so that he would know sO disapproved ;-) What do you think, should I have said something to him,

raze_them_all_

Did you just assume this persons gender?

The Specialist

Wall1257 wrote: »

What do you think? Yesterday I arrived out if a toilet stall and came face to face withe a MALE... . aggghhhhh the horror. He was with his wife while she was changing her baby's nappy on the changing table. As far as I'm concerned he did not need to be there not should have been there. I did give him dirty looks so that he would know sO disapproved ;-) What do you think, should I have said something to him,

Get used to it snowflake, it's 2016. If I'm bursting for a piss and suddenly feel like a woman, I'm going to take that piss in the womens bathroom.

BlindBoyRB

I saw a woman driving a car yesterday but you don't hear me complaining.

Armchair Andy

Must've been a right scuttery nappy.

0ph0rce0

Don't you ladies just use cubicles? Or do you walk around with your gees out outside of the cubicles?

Not like there's anything for him to look at.

antodeco

The problem I have is at things like gigs/matches, when women decide they don't want to queue for their own toilets and just use the men's.

BettePorter

0ph0rce0 wrote:

Don't you ladies just use cubicles? Or do you walk around with your gees out outside of the cubicles?

Crudely put but he has a point lol! Unless he was standing there with his lad in his hand I don't really see the issue.

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

I think you need to get over yourself. Lord forbid you ever end up in a unisex toilet in Paris with men using urinals along the wall, as you make your way to and from your stall.

I'm sure he's traumatised by your dirty look.

gifted

Wall1257 wrote: »

What do you think? Yesterday I arrived out if a toilet stall and came face to face withe a MALE... . aggghhhhh the horror. He was with his wife while she was changing her baby's nappy on the changing table. As far as I'm concerned he did not need to be there not should have been there. I did give him dirty looks so that he would know sO disapproved ;-) What do you think, should I have said something to him,

"Her baby".....more than good chance its his baby as well.....it's 2016 ...grow up.

KwackerJack

We all have the same parts.....

Well apart from that father who became a woman but who still looks like a fella.....its parts are mixed and stuff

Fleawuss

I wish posters obsessed with access to toilets would p*ss off. Anywhere.

maudgonner

The Specialist wrote: »

Get used to it snowflake, it's 2016. If I'm bursting for a piss and suddenly feel like a woman, I'm going to take that piss in the womens bathroom.

Good man Shania!

Chris.

Fleawuss wrote: »

I wish posters obsessed with access to toilets would p*ss off. Anywhere.

Into a unisex toilet preferably.

kneemos

I'd say he was a pervert and grabbed the chance to go in the women's toilet with the missus. Most men would wait outside.

Alf Stewart.

I often have to bring my two daughters into the ladies toilets when they need to go.

In saying that, only when there's no disabled/parent bathrooms available.

I could bring them into the mens with me I suppose, but I don't really feel comfortable walking through them with the lads shaking the dew of their tulips and what not in front of a 4 and a 6year old, so I usually head for the ladies, find a stall and let them be little girls in there.

Feel free to have a word with me any time you feel like it.

Didas

kneemos wrote: »

I'd say he was a pervert and grabbed the chance to go in the women's toilet with the missus. Most men would wait outside.

To see what? Women washing their hands?

He was helping his wife change their baby, not wandering in on his own for a snoop.

Roger Mellie Man on the Telly

Nailed on paedophile.

I hope you called the police.

bee06

Unless he was peeping over the stall at you, you should really get over it.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Was he in the stall with you? What's the problem

Armchair Andy

bee06 wrote:

Unless he was peeping over the stall at you, you should really get over it.

No need. The camera will take care of that.

RayM

"I'm sorry sir, this is for ladies"

"So is this, but I need to run some water through it"

myshirt

Armchair Andy wrote: »

Must've been a right scuttery nappy.

I hear you. One of those nappies where you didn't change the nappy, but more like the nappy changed you.

Never be right again after that.

tomwaterford

Wall1257 wrote: »

What do you think? Yesterday I arrived out if a toilet stall and came face to face withe a MALE... . aggghhhhh the horror. He was with his wife while she was changing her baby's nappy on the changing table. As far as I'm concerned he did not need to be there not should have been there. I did give him dirty looks so that he would know sO disapproved ;-) What do you think, should I have said something to him,

Afraid he'd identify you as the source if the fathom floaters?

Hammer89

When I was little, my mam used to bring me swimming and she'd bring me into her changing rooms. I wasn't complaining because back then tits were tits. Whether they were attached to 40-something milfs, or 80-year-old grannies with dripping-wet pubic hair, I always got a rise (pun intended) from going in there. The point is....actually, there is no point. This isn't relevant to the topic at hand - it's just something I remembered and felt like sharing.

sister_shama

Do people understand all the "did you just assume my gender" etc. and "if I feel like a woman" is anti-trans propaganda? There's no actual statistics to back up that it's a problem for one. Right now it's scary for a lot of LGBT people due to Trump and the rise of the far right, so it'd be nice if people didn't repeat their rhetoric.

myshirt

Hammer89 wrote: »

When I was little, my mam used to bring me swimming and she'd bring me into her changing rooms. I wasn't complaining because back then tits were tits. Whether they were attached to 40-something milfs, or 80-year-old grannies with dripping-wet pubic hair, I always got a rise (pun intended) from going in there. The point is....actually, there is no point. This isn't relevant to the topic at hand - it's just something I remembered and felt like sharing.

Yeah, all good until you see a 16 stone chick flossing her arse with a towel and 70's bush to bate the band.

PucaMama

sister_shama wrote: »

Do people understand all the "did you just assume my gender" etc. and "if I feel like a woman" is anti-trans propaganda? There's no actual statistics to back up that it's a problem for one. Right now it's scary for a lot of LGBT people due to Trump and the rise of the far right, so it'd be nice if people didn't repeat their rhetoric.

You do realise trump is in America and can't do anything to Irish LGBT?

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

sister_shama wrote: »

Do people understand all the "did you just assume my gender" etc. and "if I feel like a woman" is anti-trans propaganda? There's no actual statistics to back up that it's a problem for one. Right now it's scary for a lot of LGBT people due to Trump and the rise of the far right, so it'd be nice if people didn't repeat their rhetoric.

I have no idea what that really means, nor how it fits here (thread or country). I think we need a variation on Godwin's Law that references Trump.

bazz26

Let's start a thread about all the pervy women who go into the men's toilets in pubs and clubs when it suits them.

eviltwin

Not a big deal. He wasn't being a peeping Tom. What do you think will happen to you?

sister_shama

PucaMama wrote: »

You do realise trump is in America and can't do anything to Irish LGBT?

There are far right & fascist movements across Europe and many LGBTs especially Transgenders do a lot of their socialising online. Anyway, I know well those memes are almost always used in a transphobic context.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

sister_shama wrote: »

There are far right & fascist movements across Europe and many LGBTs especially Transgenders do a lot of their socialising online. Anyway, I know well those memes are almost always used in a transphobic context.

Do you know what happens after you become offended? Nothing.

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

mzungu wrote: »

Scrameen's Law?

That's nearly called after me.

Wall1257

Alf Stewart. wrote: »

I often have to bring my two daughters into the ladies toilets when they need to go.

In saying that, only when there's no disabled/parent bathrooms available.

I could bring them into the mens with me I suppose, but I don't really feel comfortable walking through them with the lads shaking the dew of their tulips and what not in front of a 4 and a 6year old, so I usually head for the ladies, find a stall and let them be little girls in there.

Feel free to have a word with me any time you feel like it.

When possible, it's definately better for an father to bring his children to the men's toilets. However, as a last resort I can understand bringing the children to the women's toilets.

Unfortunately this father was with the mother of the child and she was changing the nappy... the Father really didn't have an excuse to be there.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Bring two little girls into the men's toilets? Are you serious?

PucaMama

sister_shama wrote: »

There are far right & fascist movements across Europe and many LGBTs especially Transgenders do a lot of their socialising online. Anyway, I know well those memes are almost always used in a transphobic context.

There are fascist left groups as bad as them all over Europe too.

Jimbob1977

LexieOnRale wrote: »

Bring two little girls into the men's toilets? Are you serious?

I would find that more common than a man entering the ladies' bathroom.


Women entering the male toilets in a pub/nightclub..... Acceptable, hilarious

Man entering female toilets in a pub/nightclub..... Call the police. Sex maniac on the loose

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

Wall1257 wrote: »

When possible, it's definately better for an father to bring his children to the men's toilets. However, as a last resort I can understand bringing the children to the women's toilets.

Unfortunately this father was with the mother of the child and she was changing the nappy... the Father really didn't have an excuse to be there.

You can't be serious. It's much better for Dad to accompany daughter to the Ladies than Daughter to use the Gents. What planet are you on? This is nothing abnormal. Would you rather your child's father took her in to the Gents? Honestly?

Perhaps the mother needed some help. You know, that thing that proper Dads do for their wives/partners when they have kids.

What did you find so offensive? What was actually so terribly wrong with him being there? How did it impact on your life?

The Rape of Lucretia

Its the age of equality. We all use whichever. Get over it.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Jimbob1977 wrote: »

I would find that more common than a man entering the ladies' bathroom.


Women entering the male toilets in a pub/nightclub..... Acceptable, hilarious

Man entering female toilets in a pub/nightclub..... Call the police. Sex maniac on the loose

You literally see nothing private in a ladies bathroom. What's the big deal?

empacher

Man being invloved with the caring of his baby. Whats this world coming to.

FortySeven

sister_shama wrote: »

There are far right & fascist movements across Europe and many LGBTs especially Transgenders do a lot of their socialising online. Anyway, I know well those memes are almost always used in a transphobic context.

You realise those people have as much right to feel and say whatever they want, just as trans folk do?

Being trans doesn't give any protection from others views. They have to deal with things they don't like or agree with just as we all have to.

If trans are going to get all het up over words then perhaps they need to grow a pair.

entropi

As if there was something to be seen, other than a dad probably throwing a nappy full of crap into a bin. Boo hoo hoo. Some people are getting far too uptight about something as simple as having a piss or a dump...get over it. Unisex bathrooms are grand to use, whenever I've used them.

Jimbob1977

LexieOnRale wrote: »

You literally see nothing private in a ladies bathroom. What's the big deal?

Precisely, I know..... But any father who crosses the threshold of a woman's bathroom will inevitably get the 'daggers' from some women

whoopsadoodles

OHMIGOD MEN MIGHT SEE ME WASHING MY HANDS.

yeh. trolls used to bother their holes.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Jimbob1977 wrote: »

Precisely, I know..... But any father who crosses the threshold of a woman's bathroom will inevitably get the 'daggers' from some women

Usually the women who the men wouldn't bother looking at anyway

tomwaterford

LexieOnRale wrote: »

You literally see nothing private in a ladies bathroom. What's the big deal?

Tbf..... People don't exactly be walking about the men's bathroom with the lad in hand/hanging about



(not where I'm from anyway!)

DEFTLEFTHAND

Let this be a Warning to all men.

Lackey

tomwaterford wrote: »

Tbf..... People don't exactly be walking about the men's bathroom with the lad in hand/hanging about



(not where I'm from anyway!)

FFS don't ruin my fantasy image of men's loos for me.

Seriously though if a finding a man in the ladies loo is the worst thing to happen to you today OP you're doing well.

uck51js9zml2yt

Well that didn't quiet go as the OP expected..;)


What should my wife do when she has our 2 boys with her and they or she needs to use the toilet.
Can't exactly leave a 6 &3 year old standing outside a ladies toilet!