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Body of Alan Hawe to be exhumed

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,221 ✭✭✭✭Nekarsulm


    Muahahaha wrote: »
    Did anyone read something about Hawe steeping his feet in bleach? I think it was said he was suffering somatic pain?

    That was mentioned by his doctor. Hawe seems to have been a hypochondriac for many years.
    It appears that he was imagining illness and that there was also, in fact, no "terrible secret" about to bring his world crashing down.
    At least nobody I've been talking to from the area know of anything. And if there was some scandal, after a years passing, it would be common knowledge/gossip by now.

    And to show how rational people operate, there is a National School teacher not too far away from Ballyjamesduff currently suspended, awaiting trial for embezzlement of 80,000 euro of school funds.
    And no signs of going on a murderous rampage, despite his alleged actions having ruined his career.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    braxen5 wrote: »
    Why didn't he think of all the relations and friends and neighbours left to live with such terrible pain? They have to endure it every single day for the rest of their lives. Heartbreaking.

    Beautiful wife and 3 beautiful children. May they rest in peace.

    Your trying to impose your own rational mindset on a man who wasn’t able to be rational at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,090 ✭✭✭dok_golf


    Asus X540L wrote: »
    Maybe cause he was a deranged, psychotic, evil, butchering c*nt?

    (That’s my take on it anyway.)

    The first 2 adjectives are particularly poignant


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,175 ✭✭✭dense


    Asus X540L wrote: »
    Maybe cause he was a deranged, psychotic, evil, butchering c*nt?

    (That’s my take on it anyway.)

    Born that way, as a baby, or did something happen to him to make him turn out like that?

    The Newstalk link above mentioned that there's been no research into the dozen or so murder suicides over the last decade.

    Is research really needed???

    I'm generalising here but I'd wager that two main reasons account for them without needing a study, namely financial troubles and infidelity issues.

    So, to "save lives" "RSA style" should we be bombarded with public information campaigns urging us to give depressed mates a financial dig out, whilst reminding us all of the dangers of consorting with people whose partners might commit atrocities if they found out?

    And I'm not being flippant.

    For some, who "couldn't cope" I'm sure a few grand could have saved a life.

    For others had their partner not decided to do the dirt, they might still be alive.

    The baby Hawe was surely shaped by society as he grew up.

    What does not seem to have happened is society providing a safe refuge for him to either kill himself alone and with no one else or a means to cope with something that he saw coming down the track.

    There was some tabloid innuendo about something "sexual" posted by someone earlier today, I'm not considering it in this context.

    As I said I'm speaking in general terms of what this thing that "they can't cope" with actually is.

    There will have been a trigger, something that will have set something in train in the mind.

    Too many triggers and the mind gets fried.

    "Mental health" is a handy phrase.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,175 ✭✭✭dense


    Nekarsulm wrote: »
    That was mentioned by his doctor. Hawe seems to have been a hypochondriac for many years.
    It appears that he was imagining illness and that there was also, in fact, no "terrible secret" about to bring his world crashing down.
    At least nobody I've been talking to from the area know of anything. And if there was some scandal, after a years passing, it would be common knowledge/gossip by now.

    There was mention of a conflict with a colleague.

    But it may have been just in his head or tabloid stuff.

    Somatic disorders do come under mental health issues/treatment AFAIK.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭autumnbelle


    The front of the Sun paper says he had been caught looking up porn in work. Could be the reason for councilling and the counsellor stating the fall from grace was blown out of proportion


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,133 ✭✭✭Shurimgreat


    Its a massive jump from having mental health issues to murdering your entire family in a way that involved significant preparation and preplanning. The link between the two are minimal in this case imo.

    Its also possible he tried to make it appear as if he had mental health issues in the weeks and months before the murders. He seemed overly concerned with the loss of his good name.

    Who knows how long he was planning this? It could have been months or years, just waiting for the right time or a situation where he thought his marriage was over.
    The controlling aspect of his character needs to be considered more. Did he not try to prevent his wife having friends or seeing family?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25 BinLiner2


    A vice-principal accessing porn and allegedly masturbating in a primary school setting would be a serious issue to deal with.The Gardai were also involved.

    That doesn't quite tally with Professor Kennedy's description of issues being blown out of proportion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    jackboy wrote: »
    I don't buy it. I don't think he killed them to save them from anything. I think it was all about him.
    Well, it's both. An individual who is this controlling see their family as an extension of themselves. Not individuals in their own right, but arms of the self which do as he wills.

    Thus when they do their own thing, the controller becomes angry; much like you would if your hand or your foot started doing its own thing and not responding to you.

    Hence when the decision is made to end one's own life - or the very fabric of what you thought about the world is unravelling (such a partner threatening to leave) - its incomprehensible to the controller that his family could live on in this state. He is the centre of his world, and in his mind he is the centre of their world too, their lives will be ruined and not worth living, without him.

    What's been revealed in the notes and from the family - especially that his marriage was breaking down - is a textbook story of a domestic abuser.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,972 ✭✭✭captbarnacles


    Sounds like he was obsessed with porn if he couldn't even wait until he was not at work.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Its a massive jump from having mental health issues to murdering your entire family in a way that involved significant preparation and preplanning. The link between the two are minimal in this case

    The expert says that he had a severe depressive illness with elements of psychosis.

    The letter he left was, if any of the papers are to be believed, disjointed, rambling and and even references fears that he may have psychosis himself.

    I think mental illness plays a huge part here and so do the experts that examined the case closely. Not sure why it's still being debated really.

    It's possible to have bad character traits coupled with mental illness. Acknowledging mental illness as a factor doesn't necessarily redeem him from the action.

    Also the "if only they knew" line has being trotted about as evidence that he was a domestic abuser even though the counsellor clearly states that Hawe said that in relation to the anxiety issues he was there to work through. I'm not saying there wasn't abuse, but that's not evidence of it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 296 ✭✭bobsman


    I think the entire "fall from grace" thing was all in his head though. Anything "scandalous" would have come out by now. Conflict with a colleague could have been an off the cuff the remark and if one is depressed, things do get out of proportion (have been there).

    when my own marriage broke up, my ex h behaved very oddly. He is from a strict catholic background. He took it almost as a slight on his manhood and "standing", which really surprised me. He is okay now thankfully but I have seen a lot of men react this way when a marriage breaks down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 540 ✭✭✭Intothesea


    Porn and masturbation in a school... Well, there goes any hope of keeping up the perfect appearance of being a perfect and awesome guy.

    This is likely what Hawe saw as the end of his 'being'. His family, being key signifiers and reflectors of his perfect image, would have to go. Killing himself was a good solution too, to the issue of everyone in Ireland knowing what he was, and what he had done.

    Kill everyone that you can (your closest-range narcissistic supplies), and write up a nice letter to apologise for being in such trouble that you just had to do it... Paint yourself as a man who has lost it, and leave normal people to argue the two sides of the normal explanation of what has caused it.

    Awesome production altogether...

    I hope the recommendations of the parties involved in the inquest relate to mass education about the subtle effects of narcissism in families, and ideas on how to recognize silent victims within these families. Here's hoping :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,972 ✭✭✭captbarnacles


    bobsman wrote: »
    I think the entire "fall from grace" thing was all in his head though. Anything "scandalous" would have come out by now. Conflict with a colleague could have been an off the cuff the remark and if one is depressed, things do get out of proportion (have been there).

    when my own marriage broke up, my ex h behaved very oddly. He is from a strict catholic background. He took it almost as a slight on his manhood and "standing", which really surprised me. He is okay now thankfully but I have seen a lot of men react this way when a marriage breaks down.

    The fall from grace was imminent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    dense wrote: »
    Born that way, as a baby, or did something happen to him to make him turn out like that?

    The Newstalk link above mentioned that there's been no research into the dozen or so murder suicides over the last decade.

    Is research really needed???

    Of course it's needed. Proper research into the issue might be of benefit in the future to people who could be potential victims of murder/suicide or family annihilation.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    BinLiner2 wrote: »
    A vice-principal accessing porn and allegedly masturbating in a primary school setting would be a serious issue to deal with.The Gardai were also involved.

    That doesn't quite tally with Professor Kennedy's description of issues being blown out of proportion.

    I would say murdering your entire family for being caught watching porn is the very definition of blowing something out of proportion.

    Murdering your family for any reason is blowing an issue out of proportion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    The expert says that he had a severe depressive illness with elements of psychosis.

    The letter he left was, if any of the papers are to be believed, disjointed, rambling and and even references fears that he may have psychosis himself.

    I think mental illness plays a huge part here and so do the experts that examined the case closely. Not sure why it's still being debated really.

    It's possible to have bad character traits coupled with mental illness. Acknowledging mental illness as a factor doesn't necessarily redeem him from the action.

    Also the "if only they knew" line has being trotted about as evidence that he was a domestic abuser even though the counsellor clearly states that Hawe said that in relation to the anxiety issues he was there to work through. I'm not saying there wasn't abuse, but that's not evidence of it.

    It’s being debated here because 2 or 3 posters refuse to accept either that there’s any such thing as bad mental health , or there actually is but “my mate Anto has depression but he didn’t butcher his family” thus it’s not possible that Hawe had a different more severe mental illness.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,182 ✭✭✭demfad


    The expert says that he had a severe depressive illness with elements of psychosis.

    The letter he left was, if any of the papers are to be believed, disjointed, rambling and and even references fears that he may have psychosis himself.

    I think mental illness plays a huge part here and so do the experts that examined the case closely. Not sure why it's still being debated really.

    It's possible to have bad character traits coupled with mental illness. Acknowledging mental illness as a factor doesn't necessarily redeem him from the action.

    Also the "if only they knew" line has being trotted about as evidence that he was a domestic abuser even though the counsellor clearly states that Hawe said that in relation to the anxiety issues he was there to work through. I'm not saying there wasn't abuse, but that's not evidence of it.

    Only one expert came to that conclusion. His doctor and counsellor came to a completely different conclusion.
    An expert in domestic violence would see it differently also.
    No doubt an expert in family annihilation would have seen this as a text book case. A man has a sense of 'family ownership' and massive ego about his 'masculinity' as reflected by his 'pillar of society' and 'family man' status.
    When this all-precious image is about to be shatterred he decides to check out and take his belongings with him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,508 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    splinter65 wrote: »
    It’s being debated here because 2 or 3 posters refuse to accept either that there’s any such thing as bad mental health , or there actually is but “my mate Anto has depression but he didn’t butcher his family” thus it’s not possible that Hawe had a different more severe mental illness.

    No, that's not what people are objecting to, it's the idea that anyone, no matter how expert, can diagnose with any certainty a mental illness in hindsight and without ever meeting the person, when the people who dealt with him at the time saw nothing untoward.

    Whatever happened to not diagnosing a person without a proper consultation? I though that was the ABC of psychiatry?

    Whereas in this case, the "expert" is obviously using the fact of Hawe's actions to justify a postmortem diagnosis.
    IMO that's dishonest and unprofessional.

    Reem Alsalem UNSR Violence Against Women and Girls: "Very concerned about statements by the IOC at Paris2024 (M)ultiple international treaties and national constitutions specifically refer to women & their fundamental rights, so the world (understands) what women -and men- are. (H)ow can one assess fairness and justice if we do not know who we are being fair and just to?"



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    demfad wrote: »
    Only one expert came to that conclusion. His doctor and counsellor came to a completely different conclusion.
    An expert in domestic violence would see it differently also.
    No doubt an expert in family annihilation would have seen this as a text book case. A man has a sense of 'family ownership' and massive ego about his 'masculinity' as reflected by his 'pillar of society' and 'family man' status.
    When this all-precious image is about to be shatterred he decides to check out and take his belongings with him.
    His doctor treated him for only physical ailments and said he never disclosed his thoughts.

    His counsellor said he came to him because of anxiety, which is guess what, a mental illness.

    It's clear from your posts that you don't read articles correctly and have a limited understanding of mental illness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,508 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    His doctor treated him for only physical ailments and said he never disclosed his thoughts.

    His counsellor said he came to him because of anxiety, which is guess what, a mental illness.

    It's clear from your posts that you don't read articles correctly and have a limited understanding of mental illness.

    So anyone whose partner suffers from anxiety needs to worry about being murdered in their bed, is that it?

    Reem Alsalem UNSR Violence Against Women and Girls: "Very concerned about statements by the IOC at Paris2024 (M)ultiple international treaties and national constitutions specifically refer to women & their fundamental rights, so the world (understands) what women -and men- are. (H)ow can one assess fairness and justice if we do not know who we are being fair and just to?"



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    volchitsa wrote: »
    So anyone whose partner suffers from anxiety needs to worry about being murdered in their bed, is that it?

    What an moronic post.

    I said he was receiving counselling for anxiety when another poster concluded that his counsellor stated he had no mental issues.

    I've no interest in this type of cynical nonsense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    volchitsa wrote: »
    So anyone whose partner suffers from anxiety needs to worry about being murdered in their bed, is that it?

    Apparently so. i was diagnosed with Generalised Anxiety Disorder in the past. It's not a big deal.

    I certainly wouldn't use it to excuse me committing a crime and neither would i expect anyone else to.

    But then I wouldn't massacre my entire family, you know - not being a scumbag unlike Hawe.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    What an moronic post.

    I said he was receiving counselling for anxiety when another poster concluded that his counsellor stated he had no mental issues.

    I've no interest in this type of cynical nonsense.

    Why must anyone who disagrees with a post immediately go to "you know nothing of the subject" ?

    You could be addressing anyone here with any kind of knowledge on the relevant subjects but no, they disagree with you and so much be thick.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    volchitsa wrote: »
    No, that's not what people are objecting to, it's the idea that anyone, no matter how expert, can diagnose with any certainty a mental illness in hindsight and without ever meeting the person, when the people who dealt with him at the time saw nothing untoward.

    Whatever happened to not diagnosing a person without a proper consultation? I though that was the ABC of psychiatry?

    Whereas in this case, the "expert" is obviously using the fact of Hawe's actions to justify a postmortem diagnosis.
    IMO that's dishonest and unprofessional.

    There's nothing dishonest or unprofessional in what he did. He's a forensic psychiatrist with expertise in this area. He was asked to review the case and give his opinion which is what he did.
    Professor Harry Kennedy is consultant forensic psychiatrist and executive clinical director at the National Forensic Mental Health Service, Central Mental Hospital, Dundrum, Ireland. He is also Clinical Professor of Forensic Psychiatry at Trinity College Dublin. He studied medicine at University College Dublin before training in psychiatry and forensic psychiatry in the UK at Hammersmith Hospital and Maudsley /Institute of Psychiatry, London. He established early prison in-reach services in Pentonville, Holloway, Cloverhill and Mountjoy prisons. His research includes work on the epidemiology of suicide, homicide and violence; prison psychiatric morbidity; international human rights law and mental disabilities.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 540 ✭✭✭Intothesea


    His doctor treated him for only physical ailments and said he never disclosed his thoughts.

    His counsellor said he came to him because of anxiety, which is guess what, a mental illness.

    It's clear from your posts that you don't read articles correctly and have a limited understanding of mental illness.


    Hypochondria and paranoia/anxiety are some common presenting complaints of narcissists facing egotistical destruction, and can be seen as symptoms of how precariously and abnormally the narcissistic personality is constructed. This can be researched online.

    There's nothing to say demfad doesn't understand mental illness, I think there's plenty to say that s/he doesn't see it as being a key cause of the action.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    There's nothing dishonest or unprofessional in what he did. He's a forensic psychiatrist with expertise in this area. He was asked to review the case and give his opinion which is what he did.

    Prof. Kennedy may well be right, I wouldn't disagree with an expert especially one of his calibre.

    However, this should not preclude debate about Hawe, his crimes and the wider circumstances.

    You can suffer from a mental illness and not kill your entire family, for no other reason than you are a ****!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Why must anyone who disagrees with a post immediately go to "you know nothing of the subject" ?

    You could be addressing anyone here with any kind of knowledge on the relevant subjects but no, they disagree with you and so much be thick.

    Jesus christ.

    He said Hawe had no history of mental illness, yet he was receiving treatment for one. I pointed this out and you and your ilk accuse me of saying all people with anxiety are murderers and that it excuses Alan Hawes actions. Read my posts. In extremely rare cases anxiety or depression coupled with troubling life events can lead to a more serious and dangerous mental state.

    It's not disagreeing with me that makes me think you're thick.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    Jesus christ.

    He said Hawe had no history of mental illness, yet he was receiving treatment for one. I pointed this out and you and your ilk accuse me of saying all people with anxiety are murderers and that it excuses Alan Hawes actions. Read my posts.

    It's not disagreeing with me that makes me think you're thick.

    Not touching that one when there are more appropriate solutions available.


  • Registered Users Posts: 296 ✭✭bobsman


    Where is the watching porn and masturbating at school coming from??

    Is that just another rumour??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Intothesea wrote: »
    Hypochondria and paranoia/anxiety are some common presenting complaints of narcissists facing egotistical destruction, and can be seen as symptoms of how precariously and abnormally the narcissistic personality is constructed. This can be researched online.

    There's nothing to say demfad doesn't understand mental illness, I think there's plenty to say that s/he doesn't see it as being a key cause of the action.

    He said he didn't have mental issues. You just acknowledged he did.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    demfad wrote: »
    Only one expert came to that conclusion. His doctor and counsellor came to a completely different conclusion.

    An expert whose research includes work on the epidemiology of suicide, homicide and violence. I'd be willing to take his opinion over a counsellor and a GP.

    Not saying it's the last word on it and more opinion would be great to hear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,956 ✭✭✭✭Omackeral


    bobsman wrote: »
    Where is the watching porn and masturbating at school coming from??

    Is that just another rumour??

    The Sun newspaper, so yes probably.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,133 ✭✭✭Shurimgreat


    The expert says that he had a severe depressive illness with elements of psychosis.

    The letter he left was, if any of the papers are to be believed, disjointed, rambling and and even references fears that he may have psychosis himself.

    I think mental illness plays a huge part here and so do the experts that examined the case closely. Not sure why it's still being debated really.

    It's possible to have bad character traits coupled with mental illness. Acknowledging mental illness as a factor doesn't necessarily redeem him from the action.

    Also the "if only they knew" line has being trotted about as evidence that he was a domestic abuser even though the counsellor clearly states that Hawe said that in relation to the anxiety issues he was there to work through. I'm not saying there wasn't abuse, but that's not evidence of it.

    And again its a big jump to go from being mentally ill to coolly planning a number of murders.
    I will concede, like everyone else, I don't know his mindset in the months or weeks leading up to the day of his rampage. He could have been a raving lunatic, he could have been perfectly sane.
    His actions however point to someone relatively sane, capable of logical thinking, fearful of a loss of reputation and position in the community. It seems he worked hard to become a pillar of the community and this meant everything to him. His reputation as a family man was also crucial to him. It seemed to be fundamental to his being. Without family and his reputation he was nothing. That seemed to be the way he was thinking.
    The mental health aspect was minimal imo.
    There is no evidence he was hearing voices for example. No evidence he was not functioning properly. Or that he was imagining things. The evidence was he was about to be exposed, suffer a loss of reputation and his reputation as a family man and pillar of society. This happens to many people but they don't choose to kill their entire family. He was a coward at the end of the day who rather than deal with the consequences chose to inflict pain on innocent unarmed people. He knew well what he was doing and the pain he would inflict, he even admitted it in his notes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Prof. Kennedy may well be right, I wouldn't disagree with an expert especially one of his calibre.

    However, this should not preclude debate about Hawe, his crimes and the wider circumstances.

    You can suffer from a mental illness and not kill your entire family, for no other reason than you are a ****!
    So you disagree that he had a mental illness. But you agree that he had a mental illness. Ok...


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,947 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I said he was receiving counselling for anxiety when another poster concluded that his counsellor stated he had no mental issues.

    It's possible he was all of those things - the domestic abuser, sane in every sense of the word, and still someone who had some mild emerging MH issues. And when all of those things combine it could add up to family annihilation in some cases.

    He may not have been logical, but he did know what he was going to do/ had done was heinous. He may have had MH concerns, but that doesn't fully explain what he did, nor does it exonerate him at whatsoever.

    We could argue that all killers have some sort of MH issue, some are truly delusional when committing their crimes, others are simply very sane and yet still, not normal by ordinary standards. The legal test for an insanity defence I think is whether or not the accused was able to distinguish right from wrong at the time. From the notes it appears that AH did know right from wrong. He just decided that he was justified in doing what he did.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    And again its a big jump to go from being mentally ill to coolly planning a number of murders.
    I will concede, like everyone else, I don't know his mindset in the months or weeks leading up to the day of his rampage. He could have been a raving lunatic, he could have been perfectly sane.
    His actions however point to someone relatively sane, capable of logical thinking, fearful of a loss of reputation and position in the community. It seems he worked hard to become a pillar of the community and this meant everything to him. His reputation as a family man was also crucial to him. It seemed to be fundamental to his being. Without family and his reputation he was nothing. That seemed to be the way he was thinking.
    The mental health aspect was minimal imo.
    There is no evidence he was hearing voices for example. No evidence he was not functioning properly. Or that he was imagining things. The evidence was he was about to be exposed, suffer a loss of reputation and his reputation as a family man and pillar of society. This happens to many people but they don't choose to kill their entire family.
    He doesn't have to hear voices or imagine things. And clear planning isn't evidence of a sound mental state. Plenty of people function well and hold down jobs with severe mental illnesses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 540 ✭✭✭Intothesea


    He said he didn't have mental issues. You just acknowledged he did.

    Is this supposed to prove something?


    I think it's fairly normal for people to look at a range of potential issues when considering a happenstance like this. Mental illness would be the first place most people would go, considering how unusual this act is. It's likely other unexpected-for-the-territory details would make someone move into a more cynical viewpoint.

    For my money, both sides of the argument are correct, but in different ways and places.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Neyite wrote: »
    It's possible he was all of those things - the domestic abuser, sane in every sense of the word, and still someone who had some mild emerging MH issues. And when all of those things combine it could add up to family annihilation in some cases.

    He may not have been logical, but he did know what he was going to do/ had done was heinous. He may have had MH concerns, but that doesn't fully explain what he did, nor does it exonerate him at whatsoever.

    We could argue that all killers have some sort of MH issue, some are truly delusional when committing their crimes, others are simply very sane and yet still, not normal by ordinary standards. The legal test for an insanity defence I think is whether or not the accused was able to distinguish right from wrong at the time. From the notes it appears that AH did know right from wrong. He just decided that he was justified in doing what he did.

    I agree with everything you posted but it has been concluded by and medical expert that looked over the evidence that he was in a severe mental state that started with anxiety and developed into a psychotic episode.

    I'm not sure why people are so quick so dismiss that, I've posted many times that you can be a bad person and mentally ill.

    It's more beneficial for society to look into the psychological element of this than to say "he's a bastard just leave it."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,920 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    His doctor treated him for only physical ailments and said he never disclosed his thoughts.

    And Professor Kennedy never treated him at all.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    So you disagree that he had a mental illness. But you agree that he had a mental illness. Ok...

    Can you refrain from making s**t up and putting words in posters' mouths ?

    Thanks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    And Professor Kennedy never treated him at all.
    So you think he lied?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,133 ✭✭✭Shurimgreat


    Intothesea wrote: »
    Hypochondria and paranoia/anxiety are some common presenting complaints of narcissists facing egotistical destruction, and can be seen as symptoms of how precariously and abnormally the narcissistic personality is constructed. This can be researched online.

    There's nothing to say demfad doesn't understand mental illness, I think there's plenty to say that s/he doesn't see it as being a key cause of the action.

    Great Post!
    The "mental illness" was almost completely self inflicted. The impending loss of control of his family and reputation was going to be very difficult for a narcissist like him to deal with. He chose the easy way out. He decided if he was going down, he was going to bring his entire family down with him. His actions resemble those of a dictator who would rather see his country destroyed than leave power peacefully.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Intothesea wrote: »
    Is this supposed to prove something?


    I think it's fairly normal for people to look at a range of potential issues when considering a happenstance like this. Mental illness would be the first place most people would go, considering how unusual this act is. It's likely other unexpected-for-the-territory details would make someone move into a more cynical viewpoint.

    For my money, both sides of the argument are correct, but in different ways and places.

    You quoted a post that I replied to that stated Alan Hawe was not mentally ill by stating he suffered from mental illness. Perhaps you meant to reply to the person I had responded to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,920 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    So you think he lied?

    Nope, I think Volchsita has hit the nail on the head:
    volchitsa wrote: »
    No, that's not what people are objecting to, it's the idea that anyone, no matter how expert, can diagnose with any certainty a mental illness in hindsight and without ever meeting the person, when the people who dealt with him at the time saw nothing untoward.

    Whatever happened to not diagnosing a person without a proper consultation? I though that was the ABC of psychiatry?

    Whereas in this case, the "expert" is obviously using the fact of Hawe's actions to justify a postmortem diagnosis.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Nope, I think Volchsita has hit the nail on the head:

    But you think the GP that treated him for a fungal infection that acknowledged they never spoke about his feelings is somehow more indicative of his sound mental state?

    That's not to mention his counselling sessions which confirmed he was having anxiety and obviously struggling to deal with life situations.

    Coupled with a bad nature it could very well have led to this.

    But no let's just decide he was piece sh1t because severe mental health issues are too scary to acknowledge.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 540 ✭✭✭Intothesea


    Stuckforcash,

    I generally took demfad to be rubbishing mental illness as a cause of the action as an irrelevance, but in any case, s/he is comparing apparent causes and dropping the losing side, which is what we're all busy doing on this thread :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭Stuckforcash


    Intothesea wrote: »
    Stuckforcash,

    I generally took demfad to be rubbishing mental illness as a cause of the action as an irrelevance, but in any case, s/he is comparing apparent causes and dropping the losing side, which is what we're all busy doing on this thread :)

    I'm not really interested in sides and point scoring in the face of such a tragic event.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,920 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    But you think the GP that treated him for a fungal infection that acknowledged they never spoke about his feelings is somehow more indicative of his sound mental state?

    I think it's probably as sound an opinion as that of a doctor who never treated or even met the man and was diagnosing after the fact based on actions that almost anyone would find it impossible to comprehend.

    You seem determined to treat Kennedy's diagnosis as absolutely infallible. I think it's perfectly understandable to question its validity. We can agree to disagree but you do seem to want to shout down anyone who doesn't take it as gospel.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Nope, I think Volchsita has hit the nail on the head:

    Does an expert become an 'expert' when you disagree with what they're saying?


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