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Do you have sympathy for male 'incels (involuntary celibates)?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Just to put a little perspective on the severity of mental illness..
    http://imgur.com/xoYbC8x
    https://archive.is/c5v3V/0a693174a181b42c57c5d87b4ed1b9d5bddfa244.png
    http://i.imgur.com/PdyLLB8m.jpg
    http://imgur.com/96nslts

    These are a few of the more well known users on the site 'lookism' which is similar to reddit incels, but more sexist and racist and all round disturbing. they are completely normal looking guys. Admittedly they are more well known on the site because they are quite attractive but still. These guys complain day in day out about being 'incel' and constantly talk about all the dangerous surgeries theyre planning on getting to become more attractive to hot women, and by dangerous i mean seriously dangerous, lefort 3 osteotomies for instance, which is basically getting your entire skull broken and pushed forward. Its only performed on seriously deformed people but in theory could make normal looking people with not great bone structure more attractive too


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    scopper wrote: »
    This is my new fave subculture :)

    Basically a bunch of dudes too lazy to like do the bare minimum to attract women have generated an entire subculture to cover over the fact.

    Grow a beard.

    Work out.

    Smile more.

    Sorted.

    This.

    Reminds me of a thread I read once on Roosh forums.

    A bunch of guys calling women this, that and the other and calling themselves Redpill because they "saw the truth" about women and the feminised society they lived in.

    Until a guy around 35/40 posted and basically called them out on their sh!t. Politely of course.

    He went on to state that they were no more Redpill than the "Betas", "White Knights" and "Cucks" they despised. He admitted he thought the same way they did throughout his late teens and twenties until he had an epiphany one night when he was out.

    Paraphrasing what his vision of what Redpill was, he said it came down to this; Self-improvement to build self-esteem as a man. These guys needed to focus on self-improvement and particularly on improving self-awareness. Focusing on becoming more interesting (hobbies, interests), build expertise at work to get on, get in shape (not necessarily Arnie shape), dress better and be more positive in general. This means that you will exude more confidence and better positive energy to the opposite sex.

    The problem with the guys on Roosh and other Redpill sites or those who are now avowed MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is that they think they "see through the looking glass".

    They don't and they are deluding themselves if they think they do.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 118 ✭✭Resist ZOG


    Only if they have mental issues or extreme social phobia. I can't have any sympathy for men who aren't getting any when their response to the problem is to bitch and moan about women. No better than the third wave feminists who blame men for everything. Tedious and pathetic.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 118 ✭✭Resist ZOG


    Also the redpill delusions are something to behold. No, you aren't going magically turn into George Clooney when you hit 40, you're going to be the bitter old man at the bar, the black hole of negativity that no one wants to talk to.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,330 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    PucaMama wrote: »
    It's almost as if people think fat people aren't as deserving of happy relationships.... seriously I'm not a small woman, and I have preferences, and why not! Do I expect every man to like me?? No! So I shouldn't be expected not to be picky if I was single

    Oh most definitely-even the host was calling out the comment for being rather blinkered. (And for the record-I'm not a skinny guy either-carrying too many pounds tbh).

    I think everyone has preferences-to me, a woman with a genuine smile grabs me. Like, we all know the fake one, but the genuine one is rare, and when you find it, it's really magical. :)
    I don't really go for a size, tbh-I suppose I like a girl who's shorter than me, but that's just normal, I guess.
    And I like a butt, boobs are great and all, but a booty is where my eye will be drawn without getting the 'you're durrrty, you are'.

    I do see a lot of girls who are single, and I think if they are happy, let em be happy. I'd rather be happy single than miserable in a relationship. Also, usually if you radiate happiness, people want to get in on that, whether it be becoming one of your friends, or becoming your partner.
    I think too many are the 'in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship' wheras I make my own discoveries while I'm alone.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭Daisy78


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    Single women in their thirties should take note of this too as I know some unhappy women in their thirties and it's not attractive.

    Ehh you might want to pull back on the generalisations there pal, it's not attractive in a man....


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭greencap


    wakka12 wrote: »
    Just to put a little perspective on the severity of mental illness..
    http://imgur.com/xoYbC8x
    https://archive.is/c5v3V/0a693174a181b42c57c5d87b4ed1b9d5bddfa244.png
    http://i.imgur.com/PdyLLB8m.jpg
    http://imgur.com/96nslts

    These are a few of the more well known users on the site 'lookism' which is similar to reddit incels, but more sexist and racist and all round disturbing. they are completely normal looking guys. Admittedly they are more well known on the site because they are quite attractive but still. These guys complain day in day out about being 'incel' and constantly talk about all the dangerous surgeries theyre planning on getting to become more attractive to hot women, and by dangerous i mean seriously dangerous, lefort 3 osteotomies for instance, which is basically getting your entire skull broken and pushed forward. Its only performed on seriously deformed people but in theory could make normal looking people with not great bone structure more attractive too

    if that 4th dude is an incel ill eat my hat.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,783 Mod ✭✭✭✭riffmongous


    greencap wrote: »
    if that 4th dude is an incel ill eat my hat.

    Remember Elliot Rodgers? If your personality is truly poisonous it won't matter how you look


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