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I was called 'ugly'

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  • #52
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Some people are just assholes, maybe he'd had too much to drink or was just trying to undermine us you, what ever the case **** him, unexpected comments like this have a habit of hurting more, hopefully you never see him again if you do kick his ass.


  • #53
    Yellow pack crisps
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 564 ✭✭✭Yellow pack crisps


    If someone called you a lawnmore would you be a lawmore? No. Forget the guy, regardless of his intentions he is just mean spirited and he will have to live with this. You on the other hand need to work on your self esteem and see yourself as how you want to be seen. If you love yourself you won't care what others say or do.


  • #54
    Starkystark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Starkystark


    Daisy78 wrote: »
    I'm sure if you were to canvas the good ladies of Boards as to whether they have received similar comments on a night out you would be surprised at how many would have a similar tale to tell

    Completely agree. It's absolutely horrendous that this actually happens and has happened to you OP. At 19 I had a boy from Secondary School point me out to his friends then mimic that he was vomiting. I cried every night for about a week after it and felt like I never wanted to go out again not to mention even leave the house. Though I've moved on I'll actually never forget how it made me feel back then. I remember seeing him out again about 4 years later and actually approached him. And I brought it up - didn't say hello or anything. I said do you remember that time you did this about me in front of your friends, he shook his head not remembering; I said well you wouldn't because an idiot never remembers. And I walked away.

    Recently I got from a fully grown 34 year old man stating that my personality doesn't match my face or body. When questioned as to what he meant by that he couldn't answer. Such a generic ruthless statement to make. I could have spent days analysing it and ripping my confidence to pieces but no he was just trying to manipulate me - because he knew I wasn't into him.


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