July 2018 Babies Club

dreamstar

Gee_G wrote: »

You'll be able to do it blindfolded in a few months! ;-)

Ahh thanks. I know we'll be fine. Just feeling a bit defeated today. :rolleyes:
One day you feel able to manage it all and the next it all goes to ****. :D

Goldenlady

had my gestational diabetes test today girls, results back on Monday but hoping it will all be ok! I purposely ate no sugar yesterday ha ha! It was actually fine, I honestly was dreading it from reading some apps! I went off for the two hours, bought some baby clothes, got a manicure, got my eyes tested and new glasses ha!!
Hope everyone feeling ok! I am nearly in week 29 and am HUGE like really big.. didn't get big til about two weeks ago and seem to be just massive now...

smr85

Goldenlady wrote: »

had my gestational diabetes test today girls, results back on Monday but hoping it will all be ok! I purposely ate no sugar yesterday ha ha! It was actually fine, I honestly was dreading it from reading some apps!

I was so worried when I did mine last week after reading some people's experiences about passing out, vomiting, shakes etc. Other than having a sugar crash a few hours later I thought it wasn't too bad, the nurse had put the Rapilose in the fridge so was quite refreshing to drink.

dreamstar

Goldenlady wrote: »

I went off for the two hours, bought some baby clothes, got a manicure, got my eyes tested and new glasses ha!!

Wow that's a productive two hours!

We had another bad night with our little guy last night. I think it's his back teeth coming up. Hubby just told me to go to bed and to be fair he did manage to settle him eventually and he slept from 12 until 6. But man I'm so glad it's Friday! I'm so exhausted so definitely going to get some R&R this weekend.

Cakerbaker

My doctor didn’t charge for the whooping cough vaccine! She said not to worry seeing as i got it at a combined care appointment. She said it’d have been different if I came in separately to the nurse to get it done. I sometimes consider changing doctors as that surgery doesn’t open Saturday mornings and some of the others do. Then I go to see her and think, nope, I’m sticking right here!

dreamstar

I don't really understand why we are charged for the whooping cough and not the flu vaccines? I haven't had mine yet but I remember being charged the last time alright. And I have a medical card and it wasn't covered under that either. Very strange.

Cakerbaker

dreamstar wrote: »

I don't really understand why we are charged for the whooping cough and not the flu vaccines? I haven't had mine yet but I remember being charged the last time alright. And I have a medical card and it wasn't covered under that either. Very strange.

I wonder was the charge for the actual vaccine or the nurses appointment to get it? My surgery has a €35 charge for the nurse to administer a vaccine. That doesn’t come under the combined care scheme. From what my dr said it seemed like it was free for me because I got it at a free combined care appointment and didn’t need a separate nurse appointment.

annoyedgal

My gp wouldn't give it to me at a combined care appointment! Insisted I make an appointment with the nurse, was 30 for admin fee.
Last time the gp gave it to me and was still charged 30! Stick with your doc cakerbaker!

emmaor18

Hi Everyone,
First time mum here looking for some advice due 6th July looking at buggies was thinking Quinny Buzz or Uppababy Vista?
The Uppababy seems to be quiet expensive is it worth paying the extra for that buggy?
Thanks

Cakerbaker

emmaor18 wrote: »

Hi Everyone,
First time mum here looking for some advice due 6th July looking at buggies was thinking Quinny Buzz or Uppababy Vista?
The Uppababy seems to be quiet expensive is it worth paying the extra for that buggy?
Thanks

I have the uppababy since 2015 and I love it. It’s a bit big and awkward but it’s really comfy for my now toddler. The basket is huge, its handy when shopping as you can fit so much in it. The bassinet was great for naps with a small baby, it’s also certified for overnight sleeping which was handy when visiting my parents. Overall it’s a very sturdy smooth buggy, and despite the size is incredibly easy to move around. The inbuilt sun visors are great too.

I’ve bought adapters so I’ll be using it as a double when this baby arrives. It will be big and bulky but it means I haven’t had to buy a second buggy. My son will be in crèche for 3 days when I’m on maternity leave so I like the idea of bejng able to use it as both a single and double as needed rather than having to get a second buggy so I’d have both a single and double.

I’ve never used the Quinny buzz so can’t comment on that one.

Cakerbaker

annoyedgal wrote: »

My gp wouldn't give it to me at a combined care appointment! Insisted I make an appointment with the nurse, was 30 for admin fee.
Last time the gp gave it to me and was still charged 30! Stick with your doc cakerbaker!

Oh that would drive me mad!!!! I wouldn’t mind having to pay if it was the cost of the vaccine but to make you make a separate appointment is ridiculous!

Gee_G

I've just developed really uncomfortable cramps/pains in my shoulders/upper arms, very strange!! Anybody else get anything like this?! I was just after sitting down so it's not from lying funny or anything

missy_t

Gee_G wrote: »

I've just developed really uncomfortable cramps/pains in my shoulders/upper arms, very strange!! Anybody else get anything like this?! I was just after sitting down so it's not from lying funny or anything

Me too! Just developed them this week - driving me mad. Started doing some yoga stretches (just looked up prenatal yoga for shoulder pain on Youtube) and it seems to have really helped. Think mine is from sleeping on my side all the time.

Gee_G

missy_t wrote: »

Me too! Just developed them this week - driving me mad. Started doing some yoga stretches (just looked up prenatal yoga for shoulder pain on Youtube) and it seems to have really helped. Think mine is from sleeping on my side all the time.

Ah thank you, good to hear somebody else has them. They've completely passed for now, hopefully that's it.
How are you all finding the heat?
I found it hard to work the last two days with it and my feet puffed up today...oh the joys!!

NotTotallySure

Gee-G , my feet have decided to start swelling a little in the heat. Well at least I hope that's the reason!
I had shoulder and rib pain a few weeks back, stretches definitely helped a bit.

It's getting really weird now, there are definitely times when I can identify a head sticking out of my side... !

I started sorting through my hospital bag list tonight. It looks like I have the baby stuff (vests, nappies,etc) but I have very little for my own bag. Hopefully I can get to the shops and stock up this weekend.

Also, I made a start on some batch cooking/freezing... Well, one lasagne! We'll see how far I get with this "be prepared" plan.

NotTotallySure

Definitely have cankles today :-(
Stood for 5 minutes in the shower and came out with massive ankles.

Mystery Egg

Poor you, NotTotallySure. Get a little plastic shower stool so you can sit in the shower!

Cakerbaker

NotTotallySure wrote: »

Definitely have cankles today :-(
Stood for 5 minutes in the shower and came out with massive ankles.

According to my pregnancy yoga instructor rotating your ankles in both directions and pointing your toes up and down can help with ankle swelling.

annoyedgal

Yep some swelling going on here too...rings a bit tight! Updated wardrobe today with some spring summer tops. Why the hell is all maternity gear striped!!! Or synthetic material dresses and tops!

Drives me nuts! Came away with two more striped tops and some shirts and vests. Cant escape the bloody stripes! Feel really frumpy on this pregnancy, was easier to dress for autumn /winter last time!

NotTotallySure

Yep, Annoyedgal - lots of stripes and black! I found some pretty dresses on H&m online that aren't striped but they are synthetic. Still they were better than nothing.

Gee_G

So I got loads ticked off the hospital bag list today ladies. I'm delighted! Mostly Dunnes. Oh and their baby event is still on, great value on Pampers, bottles, dummies etc too.

NotTotallySure

Gee_G wrote: »

So I got loads ticked off the hospital bag list today ladies. I'm delighted! Mostly Dunnes. Oh and their baby event is still on, great value on Pampers, bottles, dummies etc too.

Well done, it's great to make a start on it.

I did something very similar last night in Dunnes - towels, nightdresses, underwear, baby clothes, slippers etc for the hospital bag. Ended up costing a small fortune but I'm glad thats done. Still missing the kind of stuff u can get in Boots/chemist.

dreamstar

I actually ordered my hospital bag bits at the baby fair and they were delivered last week. They came wrapped gorgeous! And with a really nice bag I'll use for my labour bag. Had all the bits like nappies , wipes, breast pads , maternity pads, shower gel etc, hair band, brush, bobbin the lot. So I just need a few more bits. Have my clothes and baby clothes sorted from last time just need to get it together. Oh and stock up on plenty more maternity pads. Can never have too many!

NotTotallySure

Dreamstar, I've heard lots of people recommend Always Night pads instead of the maternity ones as the size and absorbency is very good. be

As someone who has done this before, would you recommend the proper maternity branded ones instead...

Gee_G

NotTotallySure I'm in two minds whether to bother with the maternity ones at all. Maybe one pack but I know with my son I only used a few maternity ones and changed then to the always night time. The maternity ones are like boats haha

NotTotallySure

Gee_G wrote: »

NotTotallySure I'm in two minds whether to bother with the maternity ones at all. Maybe one pack but I know with my son I only used a few maternity ones and changed then to the always night time. The maternity ones are like boats haha

Ha, that's what I'm also afraid of. I havent used pads in over 20 years as they always creeped me out as a teenager, so the idea of a massive wedge is seriously freaky to me!

I think I'll try the Always Night and if I'm wrong I only have myself to blame

dreamstar

I really do hate pads too. Last time I used the boots own brand. They're not as thick as the hospital ones. I didn't have that much bleeding the last time so I moved onto always quick enough. But if you do bleed heavy after always won't be enough. Just not for the first few days. I'd have some maternity pads there just in case. Boots ones are cheap enough too.

dreamstar

Oh and the hospital shops do sell a lot of stuff too. So if you had no maternity pads and felt you needed some you can buy some there. I just liked having my own there. But it's totally personal preference. Hospital shops will also have nappies / wipes / creams so you'd never be stuck for anything. They're expensive but worth it if you need it.

NotTotallySure

Thanks Dreamstar, I'm making up a Boots online shop of what I need - I'll add in a pack of their own brand pads as well as the Always Night, just in case.

Don't think I'll get much sleep tonight, the babies are lurching around changing position all evening. God I hope they're more restful in their cot(!)

annoyedgal

Your putting the fear in me guys with the talk of hospital bags ! Moving house this week so bag will have to wait for a few weeks. Agree about the boots brand pads, they are not too scary looking and get you through the first few days, then always are grand.
The purple lanishoh nipple cream is fantastic for anyone wanting to breast feed. Also learned last time not to buy huge knickers in three sizes too big as they fall down! A size up in the penny's high waisted granny pants were perfect and didn't droop! Also some plastic bags to send laundry home was very useful.

NotTotallySure

annoyedgal wrote: »

Your putting the fear in me guys with the talk of hospital bags ! Moving house this week so bag will have to wait for a few weeks.

Don't worry! I'm just panicking as I'm more likely to go/be induced by 38wks rather than 40. So thats late June rather than July for me.

And I'm worried what the hospital will say to me on Tues - last time the babies were looking a bit big so I'm afraid they'll keep me in or induce me before I'm even 38wks. Feels like the weeks are shortening around me quickly.

dreamstar

Oh you have PLENTY of time. The only reason I have my stuff is because it was at the baby fair.
Also for breastfeeding - multi mam compresses were my lifesaver. And don't forget to pack some cereal bars and jellies. I took no food last time and would have loved a sugar boost during the night. And I also forgot a shower cap which would have been handy. Don't want to be washing and drying your hair in there.

Anyone else got any tips of things that were handy?

Oh pack baby's first outfit in a little sandwich bag. Put in a vest , babygrow, nappy, hat and gloves. Leave them at the top of your labour bag so your partner/ nurse just has to grab the bag. This was a great tip I got.

Cakerbaker

I actually liked the massive padded maternity pads. I had an episiotomy (not sure if that’s spelt right) and I got some relief from the extra padding! They’re easily available anyway so you don’t need a huge supply.

Dry shampoo was handy for afterwards too for days I didn’t want to wash my hair. Definitely lanolin if planning on breast feeding.

Bring painkillers too (paracetamol and ibuprofen are fine if breast feeding). A few friends have found the staff to be a bit stingy with them in different hospitals though i had no issues in Holles St.

NotTotallySure

Everyone is saying how warm the hospital wards are so I'm going to bring a can of this:

http://www.boots.ie/magicool-body-and-face-cooler-spray-200ml-10008319

It doesn't feel sticky on your skin, and it's the only thing keeps me sane on muggy nights during the summer, so hopefully it might be useful if the ward is too warm.

Gee_G

I found my hot water bottle a godsend for early labour back pains and also after my son was born just for any little cramps!
Not sure if any of you have mentioned this but I found this out thanks to the boards thread when my son was born....tea tree oil, it will be your best friend. Get a sports cap water bottle and full with water and add tea tree oil to it, bout 10 drops should be lots id say. When you're in the bathroom or feeling a bit sore down there, spray yourself with it. Even when I got home I used to just go step into the shower and do it. It is great relief and a natural disinfectant. Also great to put a few drops on to pad that you're wearing. The relief it gives is unreal!!!

NotTotallySure

Is using tea tree oil the same as using witch hazel? Witch hazel was on the list I was using, but it doesnt tell me what to do with it!

Gee_G

NotTotallySure wrote: »

Is using tea tree oil the same as using witch hazel? Witch hazel was on the list I was using, but it doesnt tell me what to do with it!

I'd imagine (and this is only a guess!!) That witch hazel is cooling/soothing but wouldn't be as strong of an antibacterial effect from it?

dreamstar

Hmmm good tip GeeG. I didn't need this last time but something tells me the second time could be harder afterwards.

And the hospital wards can get very warm and actually I hadn't factored in that it will be July! I found light pyjamas last time with a short sleeved button down top. Was a lifesaver for feeding. Although most of the time I was just topless with curtain pulled around. Anyone who came in got an eye full but I didn't even care. Light dressing gown for running to bathroom was great too.

annoyedgal

I forgot about the heat and I was in there the depths of winter last time. No one warned me about post natal sweats either !! Remember my in laws visiting me in hospital and I had mini rivers going down my back!
Had the odd night sweat for few weeks after where i would wake up drenched! Didn't last long thankfully but not pleasant !

NotTotallySure

Scan today at 30wks. I was sitting beside someone with a similar size bump... Turns out she was 37wks(!)

Babies seem to be doing well, although both are breech again. 3lbs4 and 3lbs7 today - explains why I feel so crowded in there.

Mystery Egg

Your babies are so big! I had my growth scan today and he is right on track at 2lbs 11oz at 28 weeks.

Had multiple other appointments today including the Glucose Tolerance Test - all good. Now I just hope I don't get the dreaded phone call later.

Still signed off work for a bit but I've had a two week break in bleeding so here's hoping it continues!

Goldenlady

I got my results back, thankfully no Gestational Diabetes! Also had blood done as so tired, but she said my iron was extremely strong! Think I just have to accept tiredness is part of pregnancy and the fact I am an older FTM.
29 Weeks today, time is flying in...
Hope ye are all feeling well. In the last two days I feel like I am stretching more.. its a weird feeling!
Is anyone else feeling breathless at times? I am on innohep due to clots in the past so am a bit anxious that its a Clot but Id say its just pregnancy!

NotTotallySure

Mystery Egg wrote: »

Your babies are so big! I had my growth scan today and he is right on track at 2lbs 11oz at 28 weeks.!

One of mine was 2lb12 at the 28 week scan and I was told that was a good size so you're doing really well. Great to hear you've had a break in the bleeding , hopefully it stays away so you won't have that stress.

My worry last time was the second twin was over 3lb so GDiavbetes was a maybe. Things look more stable growth-wise now.

Finally got to question what happens about delivery - basically I will have the option for natural birth or elective section. Although the natural will involve T1 being head down, which still hasn't happened yet.

Goldenlady

Nottotallysure that's fab weights for your two babies.
Mine was 2lbs 6oz at 27 weeks.. she said that was average so I was happy with that.

NotTotallySure

Thanks Goldenlady. I'm glad they're growing well but at times the pressure from the combined weight makes me want to cry! That's usually when I think how much longer they still have left to go.

Breathlessness is a funny one. If you're worried, mention it at your appt. But it could just be that the baby is positioned up high.

I'd be considered an older FTM too, so I can definitely sympathise with the tiredness too!

Goldenlady

NotTotallySure, I actually feel sorry for you carrying that weight around, but its all good & healthy signs! Another few weeks of it & then you will have muscles in your arms from carrying them around ha!


I mentioned the breathlessness to my consultant, she said its not to be worried about as it only happens when I over exert myself... if it happens outside of that then Ill bring it up again.


Oh we should start an Older Mothers Club ha!! Roll on July & all of it will be worth it.

Gee_G

Goldenlady wrote: »

NotTotallySure, I actually feel sorry for you carrying that weight around, but its all good & healthy signs! Another few weeks of it & then you will have muscles in your arms from carrying them around ha!


I mentioned the breathlessness to my consultant, she said its not to be worried about as it only happens when I over exert myself... if it happens outside of that then Ill bring it up again.


Oh we should start an Older Mothers Club ha!! Roll on July & all of it will be worth it.

I had very bad breathlessness for about a month but I put it all down to baby position and obviously restricting space up that area because I have noticed the baby has moved down again and I'm not noticeably breathless at all thankfully!!

dreamstar

Goldenlady I had the exact same fear. I'm on innohep also as I had a blood clot in my lung before. I also suffer with breathlessness a lot. Sometimes when I'm not even exerting myself. It sometimes happens when I'm eating!
Anyway it's totally normal. Due to all the extra blood your body is working harder and apparently you produce more carbon dioxide. I asked how I'd know if it was a clot again. Consultant said you would get a stabbing pain when you inhale. But that you would know. And when I did have the clot before there was pain with the breathless feeling. So have a chat with them for peace of mind. Made me feel better.

dreamstar

Oh sorry I just read on that you had a chat with them already!

Mystery Egg

My fasting blood came back at 5.2 rather than the ideal of 5, so it's the diabetic diet for me from here on!

Thankfully no meds or insulin needed, but have to test blood five times a day and eat boring food - so a bit of a bummer.