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Should I issue a complain in this situation or not?

  • 01-11-2017 10:30pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10


    I would like to thank everyone for your words and opinions. I apologize to those who were offended by this post, this was never my intention. To all, I wish you the best.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    you do need a passport to enter ireland as we arent inside the schengen agreement area
    tesco are british just buy your booze in super valu or dunnes it'll be grand
    be glad you look so toung
    im sorry for your troubles


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,849 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Tesco CS will rattle off the same response as you got from the manager - actually probably worse as they're in the UK and will probably tell you about "Challenge 21" which has no legal basis outside of Scotland. You might, at best, get a €10 gift card from them.

    The legislation in Ireland doesn't specify what ID somewhere has to accept; it only gives them one potential cover for a prosecution for underage selling which is the Age Card. Virtually nobody over the age of 21 has an Age Card. This is clearly a gap in legislation but no politician is bothered enough to fix it.
    Tigger wrote: »
    you do need a passport to enter ireland as we arent inside the schengen agreement area

    They don't. EEA national ID is sufficient.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    L1011 wrote: »
    Tesco CS will rattle off the same response as you got from the manager - actually probably worse as they're in the UK and will probably tell you about "Challenge 21" which has no legal basis outside of Scotland. You might, at best, get a €10 gift card from them.

    The legislation in Ireland doesn't specify what ID somewhere has to accept; it only gives them one potential cover for a prosecution for underage selling which is the Age Card. Virtually nobody over the age of 21 has an Age Card. This is clearly a gap in legislation but no politician is bothered enough to fix it.



    They don't. EEA national ID is sufficient.
    ok
    ive slways needed a passport to fly to the continent


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,731 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    That would be the airline's policy, rather than the country's.

    OP: that's a terrible situation and I doubt you'd get anywhere with a complaint but you can take your business somewhere else, and I'd report it to the immigrant council.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,637 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    I do see a lot of premises advertise that one must have valid garda i.d to purchase alcohol or tobacco.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 66 ✭✭belfe


    Tigger wrote: »
    ok
    ive slways needed a passport to fly to the continent

    Not exactly.

    You need a passport or a national ID card. As far as I know, Ireland doesn't use a national ID card, and that's the reason why you need your passport.

    Returning to the original post, you can send a complain to customer.services@tesco.ie talking about the issue with the ID and the rudeness of the staff. It is understandable that they refuse some IDs if they are not 100% sure that you are the person in the photo, but there is no reason for providing wrong information or being rude to the customer.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Hang on, where has the manager been racist?

    Maybe he's just rude to everyone. I don't see any mention of him bringing up nationality?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    pinkypinky wrote:
    OP: that's a terrible situation and I doubt you'd get anywhere with a complaint but you can take your business somewhere else, and I'd report it to the immigrant council.


    Really? Do you not think the immigrant council has far more to worry about than someone being refused alcohol in Tescos?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭Nickla


    I have no advise but I’m sorry you had this experience ðŸ™ðŸ™. It sounds like both cashier and manager are dicks/pricks/Tits or any nasty insult. If you look older than 21 then there is no reason both cashier or manager could not have served you if you have shown ID. If you both look younger than 21 can you please share your beauty tips


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,476 ✭✭✭neonsofa


    In every tesco I have been to they have insisted on passport rather than drivers licence or other forms of ID i happened to have. I'm irish although have been told by some people that I dont look Irish- but I really dont think its based on your nationality or the type of id you wanted to use- its just their policy, yeah they may have been a bit rude to you in your discussion afterwards but i think sometimes people are just rude when challenged. Doesnt make it right though.

    Maybe im missing something though,the op was a bit text heavy and i did find it hard to follow- my own fault not yours.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,750 ✭✭✭Avatar MIA


    pinkypinky wrote: »
    OP: that's a terrible situation and I doubt you'd get anywhere with a complaint but you can take your business somewhere else, and I'd report it to the immigrant council.

    :pac: What?

    The staff didn't think the person was old enough to purchase alcohol. The onus is on the staff to ensure they ARE old enough. They didn't recognise the personal ID and asked for a passport.

    Could they have handled it better, yes.

    The OP can email a strongly worded complaint to Tesco HQ. They will get a standard response full of platitudes.

    There are some words/phrases used above that may indicate the OP may be going a legal route for compensation, but I don't think this Or any Boards.ie forum would be appropriate to advise on that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,547 ✭✭✭Martina1991


    A friend of mine has been refused from buying alcohol in Tesco as well. She is half French and has a French ID.

    The cashier asked a manager and the manger said they had to accept her ID on grounds that she could sue Tesco for racism.

    My friend was then allowed to buy the alcohol.


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    pinkypinky wrote: »
    and I'd report it to the immigrant council.

    Hang on a second, all they did was refuse alcohol as they weren’t familiar with the ID
    I’m sure they would have preferred to sell the alcohol and let the op leave so they could all get on with their lives
    The cashier made a judgement call and the manager backed them up
    Obviously no need for anyone to be rude, but racism? Immigrant council?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭FizzleSticks


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    The cashier asked a manager and the manger said they had to accept her ID on grounds that she could sue Tesco for racism.


    Yeah the manager said that in front of a customer. Okay....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,397 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    If Tesco want to ask for passports then that's their prerogative. Simply take your business elsewhere. I don't even understand why you went back when it is so far instead of going to your local offie.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 892 ✭✭✭cbreeze


    Hello everyone,

    Today I was involved in a very unpleasant situation at Tesco Santry.
    Me together with my partner went to buy some stuff; among the stuff we wanted to purchase, it was a quantity of alcohol. We were asked for an ID, which, due to the fact that we look very young, happens quite often. This is not a problem for us, I am almost 27 years of age and I always carry an ID with me.
    I showed the lady my driver’s license. She took it, looked at it, and told me this is was not good and that I needed to show her something else (only after she took a good look at it). So, I showed her my Personal ID card, which, since I am originated from Romania, look quite different from what Ireland is used with. The she told me that if I want to purchase alcohol, I must present a passport. I was numbed, because who carries around a passport when going to buy some food and some drinks?
    I told her I didn’t have it on me, and tried to understand why we’ve got this situation in which none of presented ID’s weren’t accepted . She told me very annoyed and very unprofessional that “this is the internal policy of the company” and took off to get the manager. When I asked her why, she pointed out that I must not address her another word (honestly I was a bit annoyed and it could be sensed in my voice, but I didn’t act up or spoken in an ugly matter, as the lady spoken to me).
    After we waited for about 4-5 minutes there, a man came with the lady. He wasn’t very polite, like we bothered him from other tasks, and didn’t even present himself. I walked him through the situation. He listened, and then told me that when buying alcohol, if the cashier thinks you aren’t appropriate of age, can ask for an ID and that they only consider passports as valid ID for purchasing alcohol. When I asked if he could show me this “internal rule”, or if could point where I can find it online, he tried to change the subject, only giving me vague information like “it exists of course” or “our personal is very well trained and they are aware of the rules.” He told me that if I want to buy those things, I must return with my passport.
    So I went home and took my passport (I live 20 minutes from this particular Tesco) and returned to talk with this manager.
    I was pissed, humiliated and treated with so much disrespect; I never thought I could see that in this country. So I’ve decided to record our conversation this time, to be able to prove how this particular manager is talking is talking with a customer. When I say that, I must refer to the fact that I am working for more than 3 years in a customer environment, and I know from personal experience how excellent customer service&care must be provided in any situation. I this case, these 2 Tesco employees showed a big lack of customer services.
    Returning to the story, I arrived there, with my passport, and saw the manager. I asked if we can discuss a bit. I’ve explain the situation, and even asked what should I have done if I only traveled with my personal ID card and if I didn’t owned a passport, which, being a member of European Union, is perfectly legal. He was again very vague, so vague I honestly don’t remember his answer (but we can find it from the voice record I’ve took). Then re-explained the same nonsense he told me before (please note that at this point he still didn’t even looked at my passport, even if I tried to give it to him). Then I kindly asked again, if he could show me where, black on white, is written this “only passport ID-ing” regulation. He started to become pissed, and even raised his voice at me, and told me he is not obligated to show me anything. This is normal, nobody is obliged to anything, but this is not the way to handle things. Then kept trying to end the endless conversation and to take me to buy the things we had. At some point, in our conversation, I’ve opened my passport and kindly ask him to check it, and told me what age am I, so he would be convinced that I was not lying. When I’ve asked where can I issue a complain, his replies were not at all professional, he kept making big eyes at me and told me I can issue a complain to him, with a very superior attitude towards me, like I don’t have what to do further. After that, at my insistence, he told me an e-mail address where I can took my complain further. Also, at some point after my returning with the passport
    Fast forwarding, when I saw I wouldn’t get any understanding, I decided to leave, without purchasing any of the things I wanted to buy, opting for another store in the vicinity.
    This racist situation left me embarrassed, with lots of time lost, humiliated and shocked. And I didn’t even received a “we are sorry about this situation” which, even if I know it’s a standard text (or, in this case, should have been), it would have been comforting.
    I ask again, dear reader: what should I have done if I only traveled with my personal ID card and if I didn’t owned a passport? Because, being a member of European Union, it’s perfectly legal to travel only with the ID card. Was this a racist action against me, because I want to live and work here and because I am an immigrant? What can be done in this kind of situation? Why they spoken to me that way? Because I don't look my age and I look so young, that they think they just can wipe the floor with me? The employers are right and the customer, no matter who he/she is, is left humiliated and broken? Because, from my research and personal experience, this is not the first time this happens within Tesco group.

    That’s why I’ve decided to writethis, maybe something can be done to avoid such stressful and humiliating situations in the future.

    What should be done in a situation like this? What would you do?

    Thank you for your time into reading this.

    Best regards,
    Nicoleta-Maria

    I think you have been treated very shabbily by the store. You had valid ID, which had your photograph and date of birth on it. The not too strenuous task on the part of the checkout operator was to look at it and compare the picture with the real person.

    You need to get an apology for the behaviour of the staff, and perhaps a letter to the manager should be sent. The person who was rude to you was probably not the person in charge of the store.

    Positive action is also worth considering:
    1. Go shopping again if you need frozen goods for the freezer and some alcohol. If you are refused on the basis of their not liking your ID, politely state the position and wait patiently. Meanwhile the queue of other shoppers will be growing. Should the checkout operator send for a manager and this person refuses you, leave the trolley (remember the frozen goods!), smile politely and move away.
    2. Get another trolley and repeat the activity. Depending on the number of checkouts and the busyness of the store, this should generate a satisfactory level of chaos until 'management' gets the message.
    3. If they really get shirty and have security throw you out, come back with your friends, repeat steps 1 to 2.
    Steps 1 to 3 will only irritate a small number of people who are poorly paid so contacting your local public representative, complaining to the Equality Authority (your ID was treated less favourably than an Irish teenager's) and the Immigrant Council could be worth a try. If writing to the store send a copy to the local representative (TD or Councillor).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,637 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Even if one has I.d shop reserves the right to refuse sale.

    I.D doesn't mean you get what you want.
    Your I.D could look fake or been not an Irish I.D could be totally foreign to staff and not have a clue if valid or not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,476 ✭✭✭neonsofa


    cbreeze wrote: »
    Positive action is also worth considering:
    1. Go shopping again if you need frozen goods for the freezer and some alcohol. If you are refused on the basis of their not liking your ID, politely state the position and wait patiently. Meanwhile the queue of other shoppers will be growing. Should the checkout operator send for a manager and this person refuses you, leave the trolley (remember the frozen goods!), smile politely and move away.
    2. Get another trolley and repeat the activity. Depending on the number of checkouts and the busyness of the store, this should generate a satisfactory level of chaos until 'management' gets the message.
    3. If they really get shirty and have security throw you out, come back with your friends, repeat steps 1 to 2.
    Steps 1 to 3 will only irritate a small number of people who are poorly paid so contacting your local public representative, complaining to the Equality Authority (your ID was treated less favourably than an Irish teenager's) and the Immigrant Council could be worth a try. If writing to the store send a copy to the local representative (TD or Councillor).

    Or just shop in dunnes stores instead.


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    cbreeze wrote: »
    I think you have been treated very shabbily by the store. You had valid ID, which had your photograph and date of birth on it. The not too strenuous task on the part of the checkout operator was to look at it and compare the picture with the real person.

    You need to get an apology for the behaviour of the staff, and perhaps a letter to the manager should be sent. The person who was rude to you was probably not the person in charge of the store.

    Positive action is also worth considering:
    1. Go shopping again if you need frozen goods for the freezer and some alcohol. If you are refused on the basis of their not liking your ID, politely state the position and wait patiently. Meanwhile the queue of other shoppers will be growing. Should the checkout operator send for a manager and this person refuses you, leave the trolley (remember the frozen goods!), smile politely and move away.
    2. Get another trolley and repeat the activity. Depending on the number of checkouts and the busyness of the store, this should generate a satisfactory level of chaos until 'management' gets the message.
    3. If they really get shirty and have security throw you out, come back with your friends, repeat steps 1 to 2.
    Steps 1 to 3 will only irritate a small number of people who are poorly paid so contacting your local public representative, complaining to the Equality Authority (your ID was treated less favourably than an Irish teenager's) and the Immigrant Council could be worth a try. If writing to the store send a copy to the local representative (TD or Councillor).

    Or, plan b, bring your passport next time you want to buy alcohol there


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,547 ✭✭✭Martina1991


    pilly wrote:
    Yeah the manager said that in front of a customer. Okay....

    They did! Maybe they weren't a manager. She might have been a supervisor. She was young enough and laid back. She just said it was ok to the cashier and that was it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,030 ✭✭✭njs030


    Op you didn't have to go back, why would you even bother collecting your passport and going back to argue with them?

    Complain to the head office if you like but they have a right to ask for recognisable ID - A Romanian driving license and ID card is unfamiliar here whereas a passport is obviously an official proof of age so it's understandable, though they could have explained it better you would have been better off just leaving and forgetting about it.

    There was no racism here IMO.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,833 ✭✭✭✭ThisRegard


    Racist? Contact the immigrant council?

    You need to come down to earth people. Tesco have a think 25 policy, no obligation (no company had) to show you any of their internal company documentation and the OP was the one to make a deal out of it by asking to discuss it.

    Happens to people of all nationalities on a daily basis. Might seem harsh, but get over it.
    The cashier asked a manager and the manger said they had to accept her ID on grounds that she could sue Tesco for racism.

    I'd happily bet money that this didn't happen line they did it did.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 44 hugedinosaur


    cbreeze wrote: »
    I think you have been treated very shabbily by the store. You had valid ID, which had your photograph and date of birth on it. The not too strenuous task on the part of the checkout operator was to look at it and compare the picture with the real person.
    . . .

    It is not as simple as just looking at whatever ID the customer shows and comparing the photograph. If that was the case anyone could laminate a piece of paper to make some kind of ID of another country. It is not clear from the original post what was the problem with the Driving Licence or what country it was from, but there must have been some doubt about it, and the Personal ID Card was unfamiliar. The shops can't be expected to know what genuine IDs from every corner of the world look like. They are entitled to insist on specific requirements. The law is very strict on selling to minors. The guidelines given to shops state that while shops may accept Passports or Driving Licences if they wish, the only acceptable defence in court to a charge of sale of alcohol to an underage person is the Garda National Age Card. There is no mention of National ID Cards. The guidelines also state that it is better to refuse a sale than to mistakenly sell to someone under 18 and end up in court.
    This was not a case of racism. It was a case of the store being very careful. The original poster and their partner know that they both look very young for their age, so they should carry suitable ID on the occasions when they wish to purchase alcohol.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,833 ✭✭✭✭ThisRegard


    cbreeze wrote: »
    I think you have been treated very shabbily by the store. You had valid ID, which had your photograph and date of birth on it. The not too strenuous task on the part of the checkout operator was to look at it and compare the picture with the real person.
    .

    They had an ID but Tesco didn't need to accept it.

    The rest of your post is just childish nonsense


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,956 ✭✭✭glenfieldman


    Tigger wrote: »
    you do need a passport to enter ireland as we arent inside the schengen agreement area
    tesco are british just buy your booze in super valu or dunnes it'll be grand
    be glad you look so toung
    im sorry for your troubles

    Great answer, your right they both should be blessed they look so young
    I was buying beer in Lidl, and the guy in front of me was asked for ID, when it was my turn she scanned it, and i asked a a joke, "do you need to see my ID"
    All I got was a smirk

    BTW, Lidl and all there staff are super, I was just disappointed I couldn't pretend anymore


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    I've been asked for my passport as proof of age countless times in Tesco. It only seems to happen there and nowhere else I'm buying alcohol. It's not racist it's just their policy, apparently.
    TBH I barely see how he was even rude to you, never mind racist.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,706 ✭✭✭✭TheDriver


    Retailers crap themselves at risk of under age selling. Still no excuse for rudeness.
    Go to US where u can't step inside a pub without passport, no matter what your age


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,833 ✭✭✭✭ThisRegard


    TheDriver wrote: »
    Retailers crap themselves at risk of under age selling.

    They get test purchases fairly regularly.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 957 ✭✭✭MuffinTop86


    Be very careful calling people racist.
    From years spent working in retail, we were told that the Age Card or Passport were the only acceptable forms of ID.
    If these weren’t sought, the shop could be faced with a large fine and/or temporary closure.
    After that, it was changed to the server at the till ould be faced with a large fine and loss of their job.
    Now usually there are signs in the off licence and around the tills stating valid ID.
    I was sympathetic until you threw in the race card, and to be honest I’m sure you had more than enough attitude.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,685 ✭✭✭✭wonski


    Tigger wrote: »
    ok
    ive slways needed a passport to fly to the continent

    Because you don't have an id card.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,849 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Tigger wrote: »
    ok
    ive slways needed a passport to fly to the continent

    We don't have a national ID.
    pinkypinky wrote: »
    That would be the airline's policy, rather than the country's.

    Its the EEAs policy. You need either national ID or a passport.

    The airline policy thing only comes in to play going to the UK where you don't need either if you are a UK or Irish citizen - except that Ryanair insists on it for everyone. And there's another catch 22 in that how do you prove you are an Irish citizen without one...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10 NicoletaMaria


    Your complaint really lies with how they spoke to and treated you rather than not accepting your ID.

    I do believe they do follow some strange ID policies as a friend of mine a few years back was refused alcohol as her ID card was American and she didn't have her passport on her.
    yes, that is right. I am not bothered that they asked for my ID, I am used to it, but the way they treated me was despicable. And it's not cool, things like this can really hurt someone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 974 ✭✭✭eurokev


    I used to work in a large well known off licence chain and managed one of the busiest independent off licences in Munster for a few years.

    Our company had the policy that the only acceptable forms of ID were a garda age card or a passport.
    I'm not aware if it is law or not but it is standard industry practice.

    Drinkaware also advocate this.

    Due to the area, we had a close relationship with the garda and they also advocated this, remarking that these were the only acceptable form if we ever got caught serving under age.

    As I worked in a college area,a lot of customers would be students around the 18 yr old age, so we had to be stringent.
    There would also have been a large number of foreign students and young foreign workers in the area, and I have refused them service dozens of times based on not being able to assertain if their ID was genuine or not, as it was foreign, and I would not be familiar with it trained to spot a counterfeit.

    Driving licences (the old type) were not accepted under company policy due to the large amount of forgeries.

    Certainly not racist, and you are pretty dispicable for playing that card.
    It is a well established system employed by responsible alcohol retailers to safeguard selling to underage. And rightly so as the consequences are severe.

    You should go back and find the manager and cashier who you challenged and argued with and apologise for accusing them of racism or treating you poorly because of your nationally. Incredibly ignorant and disgusting of you to do so in someone's place of employment while they are working and just doing their jobs correctly.

    Next time someone tells you something you don't like, try and refrain from arguing and accusations until you know the facts


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10 NicoletaMaria


    If Tesco want to ask for passports then that's their prerogative. Simply take your business elsewhere. I don't even understand why you went back when it is so far instead of going to your local offie.

    because I wanted to prove a point and I wanted to record they way that bad man spoked to me. I have proof now, and I showed him he was wrong. And....those stores are the nearest to my place. Don't understand why I need to explain myself to bad people :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10 NicoletaMaria


    eurokev wrote: »
    I used to work in a large well known if licence chain and managed one of the busiest independent of licences in Munster for a few years.

    Our company had the policy that the only acceptable forms of ID were a garda age card or a passport.
    I'm not aware of it is law or not but it is standard industry practice.

    Drinkaware also advocate this.

    Due to the area, we had a close relationship with the garda and they also advocated this, remarking that these were the only acceptable form if we ever got caught serving under age.

    As I worked in a college area,a lot of customers would be students around the 18 yr old age, so we had to be stringent.
    There would also have been a large number of foreign students and young foreign workers in the area, and I have refused them service dozens of times based on not being able to assertain if their ID was genuine or not, as it was foreign, and I would not be familiar with it trained to spot a counterfeit.

    Driving licences (the old type) were not accepted under company policy due to the large amount of forgeries.

    Certainly not racist, and you are pretty dispicable for playing that card.
    It is a well established system employed by responsible alcohol retailers to safeguard selling to underage. And rightly so as the consequences are severe.

    You should go back and find the manager and cashier who you challenged and argued with and apologise for accusing them of racism or treating you poorly because of your nationally. Incredibly ignorant and disgusting of you to do so in someone's place of employment while they are working and just doing their jobs correctly.

    Next time someone tells you something you don't like, try and refrain from arguing and accusations until you know the facts

    You are those things you called me and you should be ashamed of yourself. My problem was NOT their policy and that they asked for passport, my problem is the way they treated me and talked to me. I have audio records to proof my point, and I honestly believe that only someone who strongly has something against other person is a racist person, you were not there to see what and how it happened. So if there was someone who should apologise, it's these 2 persons who's behaviours were despicable. Note to you, before you judge, READ!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭Cordell


    Everything is racist now. Following the rules is racist. If you look under 25 you need to show ID, which can only be the passport or other Irish issued photo IDs like Irish driving licence. Then question the rules, that's gonna help a lot.
    I wonder, is the weather in Ireland racist towards us Romanians, Nicoleta?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,637 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Oh jaysus the racist card again....

    How can they be racist did they mention your race,colour or accent...

    Did they disrespect you?
    Maybe its how you feel but don't get upset over having to show I.D that falls into the shops terms.

    I would love to be gettingvasked for I.D now but doesn't happen anymore.
    Obviously when asked I would be like sure I'm in my 20's what do I look like 16 but sure its better they are been safe and the way things have gone have to cover themselves from underage and other attacks such as you calling them racist etc.etc.

    We weren't there but I would say for yourselves maybe, maybe not we don't know but your attitude could have been taken up as rude or the manager was up to their eyes and was just being blunt.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10 NicoletaMaria


    cbreeze wrote: »
    I think you have been treated very shabbily by the store. You had valid ID, which had your photograph and date of birth on it. The not too strenuous task on the part of the checkout operator was to look at it and compare the picture with the real person.

    You need to get an apology for the behaviour of the staff, and perhaps a letter to the manager should be sent. The person who was rude to you was probably not the person in charge of the store.

    Positive action is also worth considering:
    1. Go shopping again if you need frozen goods for the freezer and some alcohol. If you are refused on the basis of their not liking your ID, politely state the position and wait patiently. Meanwhile the queue of other shoppers will be growing. Should the checkout operator send for a manager and this person refuses you, leave the trolley (remember the frozen goods!), smile politely and move away.
    2. Get another trolley and repeat the activity. Depending on the number of checkouts and the busyness of the store, this should generate a satisfactory level of chaos until 'management' gets the message.
    3. If they really get shirty and have security throw you out, come back with your friends, repeat steps 1 to 2.
    Steps 1 to 3 will only irritate a small number of people who are poorly paid so contacting your local public representative, complaining to the Equality Authority (your ID was treated less favourably than an Irish teenager's) and the Immigrant Council could be worth a try. If writing to the store send a copy to the local representative (TD or Councillor).

    Your words just made my day, thank you very much for taking time to write this. According to available time, I will definitelly follow the presented steps :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    pinkypinky wrote: »
    That would be the airline's policy, rather than the country's.

    OP: that's a terrible situation and I doubt you'd get anywhere with a complaint but you can take your business somewhere else, and I'd report it to the immigrant council.
    Immigrant Council of Ireland wouldn’t be dealing with consumer complaints. I can’t see what role they would have in this incident?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,637 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Your words just made my day, thank you very much for taking time to write this. According to available time, I will definitelly follow the presented steps :)

    By the way that's the most stupidest thing you could do I really hope they were been sarcastic as the sarcasm radar ain't great in this one.

    If you feel so hard done by shop elsewhere or bring your passport next time.

    I really can't see why you use the race card over and over.

    We owe you nothing as a nation so I really wish others would cop on and give it a rest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    You are those things you called me and you should be ashamed of yourself. My problem was NOT their policy and that they asked for passport, my problem is the way they treated me and talked to me. I have audio records to proof my point, and I honestly believe that only someone who strongly has something against other person is a racist person, you were not there to see what and how it happened. So if there was someone who should apologise, it's these 2 persons who's behaviours were despicable. Note to you, before you judge, READ!

    Unless some reference was made to your nationality or your culture (I don’t think being Romanian is a race any more than being Spanish or French is a race, anyway unless you mentioned that you were Romanian how the hell would they know?) then I don’t see how this was a racist incident.
    Can you explain how you felt it was racist, instead of just being a rather badly handled customer service incident which we all suffer every day?
    Like what, specifically, was racist about how they treated you?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Your words just made my day, thank you very much for taking time to write this. According to available time, I will definitelly follow the presented steps :)

    So you will go and piss off a number of staff for no reason?

    That's despicable behaviour.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 974 ✭✭✭eurokev


    You are those things you called me and you should be ashamed of yourself. My problem was NOT their policy and that they asked for passport, my problem is the way they treated me and talked to me. I have audio records to proof my point, and I honestly believe that only someone who strongly has something against other person is a racist person, you were not there to see what and how it happened. So if there was someone who should apologise, it's these 2 persons who's behaviours were despicable. Note to you, before you judge, READ!

    Thanks for replying and backing up my point.
    You come across extremely argumentative.
    I'm sure the staff in the store are secretly hoping that you won't come back, and won't have to deal with a person who tries to entice them in to an argument while secretly recording them.
    You really do sound like a nightmare


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭Cordell


    With this entitled and aggressive attitude that's no wonder they were rude to you. Rude, not racist.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,637 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    I have to deal with the public and these are exactly the type of people that are absolutely ruining our country.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,504 ✭✭✭harr


    Simple matter is they did not recognise the ID you gave them just because it was from a particular country does not make it a racial issue ...as mentioned before my paper driving license has been refused many times in Irish shops. ...unless of course the management said very precisely that he wasn’t serving you because you were from a certain country.
    They had no problem giving up the alcohol with a passport..
    All stores have different policies but it’s more than likely the only ID they take is a passport.
    Better off putting it behind you and shop elsewhere because you haven’t a chance of bringing this any further as it’s store policy and they don’t have to serve you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    When did you start the recording?
    Why did you need to record the conversation?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,226 ✭✭✭nikkibikki


    You are those things you called me and you should be ashamed of yourself. My problem was NOT their policy and that they asked for passport, my problem is the way they treated me and talked to me. I have audio records to proof my point, and I honestly believe that only someone who strongly has something against other person is a racist person, you were not there to see what and how it happened. So if there was someone who should apologise, it's these 2 persons who's behaviours were despicable. Note to you, before you judge, READ!

    I've read it and I can see zero racism in how you were treated. The fact that you are pulling the race card just because you don't like how you were treated is disgusting to be honest and people who do this really do no favours for true victims of racism. All 3 of you can across rude, you, the cashier and the manager.

    Your words just made my day, thank you very much for taking time to write this. According to available time, I will definitelly follow the presented steps

    Do not do what was suggested, I guarantee you will be escorted from the store by security and barred from the store. And you will also appear to be deranged behaving like that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭Boater123


    Great answer, your right they both should be blessed they look so young
    I was buying beer in Lidl, and the guy in front of me was asked for ID, when it was my turn she scanned it, and i asked a a joke, "do you need to see my ID"
    All I got was a smirk

    That is pure racism ageism. You should go the immigrant council or something. Or sue, you deserve many tens of thousands of euro. ;)


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