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The Snapper-debate

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,412 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    It would be difficult for the Gardai to investigate though possibly the Met
    might try it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    I always saw it as they were both fcuk drunk. But he was a creepy old slimey geezer.


    Biff Tannon was attemtping to rape though. He was a brutal and devious as his great granddad Buford 'Mad Dog' Tannon.


    In Horrible Bosses, Jennifer Aniston constantly tries to sexually assault and rape Charlie Day


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,555 ✭✭✭Roger Hassenforder


    have you a link to that I cant remember this

    as good a version I can find. missing a bit at the start though


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    as good a version I can find. missing a bit at the start though

    I've also seen people debate that it highlights cultural appropriation as it is a white kid (Marty) that "teaches" Chuck Berry the new sound of Rock N'Roll that Berry invented......


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 20 Repsulive


    I've also seen people debate that it highlights cultural appropriation as it is a white kid (Marty) that "teaches" Chuck Berry the new sound of Rock N'Roll that Berry invented......

    I bet it was nice to live in pre SJW times.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,570 ✭✭✭Ulysses Gaze


    Repsulive wrote: »
    I bet is was nice to live in pre SJW times.

    :D



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,150 ✭✭✭mr_edge_to_you


    Personally I think Dessie should’ve gone to the airport to pick up the son when he came home from Lebanon.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,265 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    pipelaser wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/rRTEvkOHCOg

    Have just shown The Snapper to an English friend.

    She reffered to the car park Sharon-George Burgess scene as a rape. (See link above)

    I never thought about it in that way while watching it down the years.

    What do you think?

    Yes I went to show it to my nephews and changed my mind because it's way darker than I remembered and she was definitely raped.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Totally different film if she was raped ffs


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,265 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    Totally different film if she was raped ffs

    I remember as a kid finding the a1 Sharon thing hilarious but seeing it in my 40s I see it totally as rape.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    so a mildly drunk woman seeks out a man and initiates sex. consensual sex
    this is now leading to him being acused of rape.

    its not like she was passed out drunk and a rapist forced him self on her.

    it was her idea and see went after it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    Assuming the library version of rape.
    If they were both drunk and she grabbed him onto the car. How is he the rapist?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,150 ✭✭✭mr_edge_to_you


    George Burgess was out of line showing the lads in the pub her knickers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,485 ✭✭✭TheChizler


    cursai wrote: »
    Assuming the library version of rape.
    If they were both drunk and she grabbed him onto the car. How is he the rapist?
    Haven't seen it in a while but didn't she kind of nearly pass out on the bonnet after (AFAIR) just kissing him? He's the only one who put any effort into the sex bit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    George Burgess was out of line showing the lads in the pub her knickers.

    I don't think it in question whether or not he was a sleaze ball


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    TheChizler wrote: »
    Haven't seen it in a while but didn't she kind of nearly pass out on the bonnet after (AFAIR) just kissing him? He's the only one who put any effort into the sex bit.

    No she was awake afaik. And he didn't see her pass out, no evidence to assume he did hypothetically.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,485 ✭✭✭TheChizler


    This is the scene



    It's different to how I remember though, is it edited to make it pg? I remember a fumbling of belts etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    very awake when she is asking if he is squeeking . very sober in fact. fully aware of what is happening .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,710 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    pipelaser wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/rRTEvkOHCOg

    Have just shown The Snapper to an English friend.

    She reffered to the car park Sharon-George Burgess scene as a rape. (See link above)

    I never thought about it in that way while watching it down the years.

    What do you think?

    Impossible to say because the camera doesn't show if she's conscious or not during the penetrative sex act. If she isn't it's rape. If she's conscious, she has instigated the encounter (not a definitive yes or no, but definitely going to harm the prosecution). The "who the **** was tha'?" line would imply probably not.

    The best way of judging consent in a case like that is to consider the girl passing out as a revoking of consent and stop.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,271 ✭✭✭annascott


    Today it is classed as rape because she was so drunk. At the time, it was just someone taking a chance with a drunk person. She did not object so fair game. He is still a despicable person but not a rapist.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    You'd have to be soft in the head and in need of a good kick in the head to redefine that as rape.
    Soft touches walking down the road to the shop falling over cracks in the council pavement. Getting assaulted by passing people's elbows, sexually harrassed by local teenagers dirty minds and being forced into poverty by the local supermarket.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    annascott wrote: »
    Today it is classed as rape because she was so drunk. At the time, it was just someone taking a chance with a drunk person. She did not object so fair game. He is still a despicable person but not a rapist.

    He was drunk too. And she grabbed him....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    The camerman was a voyeur pervert!

    He did nothing to stop it so he should be charged with assisted rape and conspiracy to fourball.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,471 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    annascott wrote: »
    Today it is classed as rape because she was so drunk. At the time, it was just someone taking a chance with a drunk person. She did not object so fair game. He is still a despicable person but not a rapist.


    What were the changes in law between then and now?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    The camerman was a voyeur pervert!

    He did nothing to stop it so he should be charged with assisted rape.

    The producer set up the whole sick event. ****ing film should be renamed The Raper. Re-release it in black and white and have an ominous soundtrack added to please the flowers.


  • Registered Users Posts: 539 ✭✭✭bertsmom


    Few years since I have watched it but I always remember it as Sharon being woeful drunk and initiating the sex and afterwards having major regrets. but Burgess being a despicable sleaze bag and going through with the sex knowing full well she only had sex with him because she was drunk. A decent human would have told her to cop on and not be so foolish.
    I believe he definitely took advantage of the situation but not rape in my view.
    I do also remember a scene where Sharon and her friends are harassing a young lounge boy and in today's world that would also be extremely questionable (and rightly so!)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    cursai wrote: »
    The producer set up the whole sick event. ****ing film should be renamed The Raper. Re-release it in black and white and have an ominous soundtrack added to please the flowers.

    I think this was the 'casting bonnet' audition.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,555 ✭✭✭SuperSean11


    Sharon practically raped him and him being a decent gentleman even offered to look after her and the baby. Some heroes don’t wear capes


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It's hardly rape. She initiated it and didn't tell him to stop. Consent was given and not withdrawn. It's an indication of 'poor' judgment for both parties but not rape.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 597 ✭✭✭clfy39tzve8njq


    pipelaser wrote:
    She reffered to the car park Sharon-George Burgess scene as a rape. (See link above)


    Don't show her Love Hate


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,265 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    so a mildly drunk woman seeks out a man and initiates sex. consensual sex
    this is now leading to him being acused of rape.

    its not like she was passed out drunk and a rapist forced him self on her.

    it was her idea and see went after it

    yes but i guess what is being asked is if hypothetically that exact opportunity arose for you would you go with it? or would you think it's ok for one of your mates?

    For me it's a case of feeling old or maybe I'm beginning to get sense but it was funny when i saw it as a kid and everyone was quoting the "a1 shardon" and "are ya all right Shardon " and it was funny...but watching it now the context has changed and it's quite dark.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    yes but i guess what is being asked is if hypothetically that exact opportunity arose for you would you go with it? or would you think it's ok for one of your mates?

    For me it's a case of feeling old or maybe I'm beginning to get sense but it was funny when i saw it as a kid and everyone was quoting the "a1 shardon" and "are ya all right Shardon " and it was funny...but watching it now the context has changed and it's quite dark.

    if I was a dirty old man who was had u for it and some half drunk horny woman threw herself at me I don't see any reason no to look a gift horse in the mouth

    now if it was me now I wouldn't but not for any kind of rape allegation reasons. it would be more to her not being my type or not liking half drunk women. personally I would rather be with a sober woman

    I wouldn't hold my mates responsible if they availed of the offer but they would probably be the but of the joke for a while .


    for what its worth I know a guy that still says its A1 Sharon


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    yes but i guess what is being asked is if hypothetically that exact opportunity arose for you would you go with it? or would you think it's ok for one of your mates?

    For me it's a case of feeling old or maybe I'm beginning to get sense but it was funny when i saw it as a kid and everyone was quoting the "a1 shardon" and "are ya all right Shardon " and it was funny...but watching it now the context has changed and it's quite dark.

    The context only changed for people who are overly influenced by media. Most people have the same common decency as always to realise it's not rape but drunken ugly sex. Only slightly more hideous than most of us have, in a David Attenborough sense.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    It'll soon get to the point where myself and the partner whilst walking home drunk on a sat night, will be warned by a passing squad car, to not be raping each other when we get home.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    cursai wrote: »
    It'll soon get to the point where myself and the partner whilst walking home drunk on a sat night, will be warned by a passing squad car, to not be raping each other when we get home.

    probably get arrested soon just for thinking about having sex with the wrong person


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    probably get arrested soon just for thinking about having sex with the wrong person

    You'll be arrested long before then by looking at a woman since she didn't give consent for you to be looking at her in that manner (the manner being decided by her, of course). ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,789 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    Never ever thought it was rape and I still don't.

    In the film she seemed like she wanted a man, any man.

    Bad judgement but hey, that's drink for ya.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,309 Mod ✭✭✭✭mzungu




  • Registered Users Posts: 500 ✭✭✭justfillmein


    that scene never set right with me, even years ago.

    whether it's classed as actual rape or not, it turns my stomach thinking of that film.
    even if someone jokes with the 'are ya all rite Sharon' line, I just can't...


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  • Registered Users Posts: 352 ✭✭Snowfire


    That was A1, good girl Sharon...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,070 ✭✭✭LadyMacBeth_


    I've never watched the film but I watched the clip. I think she was quite drunk and she initiated having sex with him, I'm not sure if he was drunk as well? If that was the case then it certainly isn't rape. If he was sober then I still don't think it was rape but I do think it was taking advantage of a drunk woman, I can see why someone would take her up on her offer but it's bad form really when someone is so drunk and you are sober. The "A1 Sharon, good girl" bit made my skin crawl.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    just remembered a funny story from school
    we watched the snapper that year and It went viral in the school (or what ever the 20 year ago version was) .
    one of the guys in class was always quoting it in other classes , just mild ones mostly.
    he said one to one of the soundest youngest teachers and we all had a laugh. that evening we were queuing up for the bus . the teacher must have planed it or it was a stroke of timing but as he drove out the student walked across to the bus. he rolled down the window and roared out GET OUT OF ME WAY YA BLEEDIN BOLLIX.
    the hole area burst into laughter. brilliant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,700 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    very awake when she is asking if he is squeeking . very sober in fact. fully aware of what is happening .

    Hmmm, I dunno about that.

    Being conscious of a squeaking noise does not equal cold sobriety, especially if a few minutes earlier she couldn't tell the difference between any man shaped shape and any other.

    I don't think it's rape. It's morally murky and fairly sleazy but it isn't rape


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    I'd love to see some people's idea of bladdered drunk if that staggering, slurring woman who asks "who was that?" about the family friend she's just had sex with is mildly tipsy or half drunk.

    AFAIR it's much more rapey in the book but it's been a while.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,537 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    disgusting thing for any man to do to a drunk woman but even worse as a young woman would be very unlikely to go for an old creep like burgess, if sharon was my daughter or sister, burgess would be getting a serious hiding.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    Arghus wrote: »
    Hmmm, I dunno about that.

    Being conscious of a squeaking noise does not equal cold sobriety, especially if a few minutes earlier she couldn't tell the difference between any man shaped shape and any other.

    I don't think it's rape. It's morally murky and fairly sleazy but it isn't rape

    obviously not cold sober but not that drunk. IMO
    she recognised the man its just that any man would do

    there is a difference between noticing a noise near you and asking if the guy on top of you is squeaking. its obvious she knows at the time what he is doing and what she got him to do


  • Site Banned Posts: 1,489 ✭✭✭Ralf and Florian


    BTW has anyone mentioned that Mr Burgess is also Pat Mustard in Fr Ted? "I'm a very careful man".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    BTW has anyone mentioned that Mr Burgess is also Pat Mustard in Fr Ted? "I'm a very careful man".

    That's who it is! Thanks that was annoying me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,700 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    BTW has anyone mentioned that Mr Burgess is also Pat Mustard in Fr Ted? "I'm a very careful man".

    Luckily for him there was a gap during the 90's in the Irish casting market for Middle Aged Hirsute Sex-Pest.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    pgj2015 wrote: »
    but even worse as a young woman would be very unlikely to go for an old creep like burgess,

    I suspect We have all ended up with people we wouldn't normally go for... both while drunk and sober. I know I would rather forget a few memories of women I discovered or remembered the 'following' morning... :rolleyes:

    Frankly... I find it annoying that people can't take responsibility for their own choices. If I'm drunk and do something terrible... I'm responsible as a man. Being drunk is a factor, but I'm still responsible for what happens. If a woman does the same, then there's all manner of excuses being thrown out in her 'defense'.


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