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Lucy91 · 2018-05-02 06:53:13

Hey just looking for some insight... Was with my boyfriend for 7 years...We are both in our late 20s..Anyhow my boyfriend wanted us to go travelling to Thailand for 6 weeks. Due to recent health issue I told him I wouldn't be able to go and he could go backpacking by himself...He was reluctant and insisted on me going but…

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#52 05-05-2018 10:03am

suicide_circus

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Ursus Horribilis wrote: »

I'm gobsmacked, I really am. You are seriously suggesting that the OP's behaviour on this occasion has absolutely nothing to do with what she has been subjected to over the years?

I don't know the OP so I couldn't make that call. It's possible certainly.

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#53 05-05-2018 11:17am

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Can all posters please keep in mind they are speaking to a person who has come asking for advice because they don't feel able to speak to family or friends. When offering advice please also keep in mind to remain kind. There are numerous ways of offering the same advice. If you can't be kind, maybe sit on it for a while until you can word your advice better.

Thanks,
BBoC

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