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So now we have to be suicide counsellors

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭happywithlife


    Have 2 thoughts on this
    First as a teacher - we cannot be a fixer-upper for every problem in society. I see the merit in upskilling Guidance counsellors etc and as a staff member on the ground knowing what to look out for would be useful. But as a general subject teacher I will never be trained sufficiently to tackle something like this at any great depth and would be fundamentally conscious I could- in innocence/ignorance - do more harm than good.
    Second as a parent- I view this as another soundbite that sounds good in theory but I think I know BS when I see it --
    why not invest the money in psychiatric servives for the teens instead? Teachers can identify all they want in the classroom but where is the follow up support in the ground? Access to psychologists / psychiatrist...in-bed treatments ....etc etc
    My little boy has to wait 2 years to get access to the child psychologist in our area. 2 fu@king years for a 7 year old boy who stress levels are through the roof. We know the root cause. I've been to the gp. Their medical professional opinion was he needed to be seen by a specialist...but 2 bloody years down the line. Needless to say we aren't just sitting on our asses waiting and he has gotten the help he needs and is doing so much better. On a related note his class teacher in primary school is the designated go-to person for this kind of stuff and she "has all the courses done" ....worse than useless was my experience with her. So courses and training do not equal expertise minister


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    I can see exactly now why so many hours have been allocated to wellbeing.
    It's so the minister has an out...every single time it comes up in the media "well they should be dealing with X in schools".. the answer... 'Wellbeing will solve this'

    Meanwhile last Saturday.

    'Linn Dara children's mental health day services in Cherry Orchard Hospital suddenly close'
    https://www.dublinlive.ie/news/dublin-news/parents-protest-linn-dara-childrens-14877357


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,246 ✭✭✭judeboy101


    I firmly believe at some point they'll make us responsible for vaccinating kids., doing the eye tests and developmental check ups.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,962 ✭✭✭r93kaey5p2izun


    I can't believe Linn Dara closed! I know so many young people locally and from school who just would not be here without it! Unbelievable!

    I don't really have a problem with training teachers in the SafeTalk programme as it's aimed at everyone and anyone and simply offers advice on how to react when the topic comes up or if someone speaks to you about being suicidal and how to watch out for people who may be at risk. I did it and found it beneficial for me and would recommend it for everyone quite apart from being a teacher.

    But I absolutely agree with happywithlife that this is just another cynical exercise from the government so they can be seen to do something while actually doing nothing, and that no matter how many courses teachers do it will never be a substitute for real professional mental health support that's sorely lacking.


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,979 ✭✭✭✭listermint


    Why would any teacher think its a good idea to not have the skillset to detect a problem with a child.

    the course is solely about detection and what to do.

    I mean, if someone thinks this is not a decent idea then id question why they want to work with Kids in the first place.

    I whole heartedly agree that Suicide services need vast funding upgrades and proper councillors that are trained. That is a given.

    But to omit the people who speak most the children during the day from any form of professional training is ridiculous.

    Im sure someone surely agrees these things are not mutually exclusive.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 368 ✭✭keoclassic


    listermint wrote: »
    Why would any teacher think its a good idea to not have the skillset to detect a problem with a child.

    the course is solely about detection and what to do.

    I mean, if someone thinks this is not a decent idea then id question why they want to work with Kids in the first place.

    I whole heartedly agree that Suicide services need vast funding upgrades and proper councillors that are trained. That is a given.

    But to omit the people who speak most the children during the day from any form of professional training is ridiculous.

    Im sure someone surely agrees these things are not mutually exclusive.

    Most secondary teachers became teachers to teach a subject that they are passionate about, and while it is very important to have an ear and eye on the mood of individuals, it is nigh on impossible to determine how a child is feeling. All any teacher can do is to try and pick up on any signs that a pupil may exhibit that may be out of character for them, bearing in mind of course that you may only see that student for 3-4periods a week.If teachers wanted to be councillors then I'm sure that they would have pursued it as a career. Sure they have a responsibility to be aware but anything more than that in reality is untangible. The dept are constantly moving the goalposts in the last few years.......the results of this....good or bad.....are yet to be seen.


  • Registered Users Posts: 48,247 ✭✭✭✭km79


    listermint wrote: »
    Why would any teacher think its a good idea to not have the skillset to detect a problem with a child.

    the course is solely about detection and what to do.

    I mean, if someone thinks this is not a decent idea then id question why they want to work with Kids in the first place.

    I whole heartedly agree that Suicide services need vast funding upgrades and proper councillors that are trained. That is a given.

    But to omit the people who speak most the children during the day from any form of professional training is ridiculous.

    Im sure someone surely agrees these things are not mutually exclusive.

    I think this course should be compulsory for all parents . They see their children 12 months a year and know them better than anyone else ?

    If they are not willing to do it I question why they had kids in the first place ......to omit the people who surely speak to their own children every day is ridiculous.........

    Obviously I’m being sarcastic
    But
    Teachers are NOT mental health professionals


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,658 ✭✭✭✭OldMrBrennan83


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭happywithlife


    listermint wrote: »
    Why would any teacher think its a good idea to not have the skillset to detect a problem with a child.

    the course is solely about detection and what to do.

    I mean, if someone thinks this is not a decent idea then id question why they want to work with Kids in the first place.

    I whole heartedly agree that Suicide services need vast funding upgrades and proper councillors that are trained. That is a given.

    But to omit the people who speak most the children during the day from any form of professional training is ridiculous.

    Im sure someone surely agrees these things are not mutually exclusive.

    No teacher here at least - myself included- said its a good idea to Not have the skillset as you describe it

    I'm pointing out that there are dangers involved in this type of politics -- heaping everything onto teachers is not the solution. And I stand by that its a soundbite and what good is it if teachers CAN identify a student at risk (which we are already open to under new child protection Anyway albeit in a more general sense) if we have nowhere to refer onto because those services are overwhemled or non existant.
    Another aspect I'd be wary of is government saying "well we've invested x by doing this so there are no more available funds...." funds for services that COULD actually make a more meaningful difference. They'll have ticked the box at their end so to speak. Such a policy could acfually do way more harm than good and I believe funds could be used / invested far more wisely.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,605 ✭✭✭gctest50


    And what's the headline going to be if you fail to detect after yer little course ?

    " Teacher failed to detect suicidal student who killed his siblings before killing himself "

    Despite training in the detection of ..........

    This has all the looks of good intentions about it - but

    [ ✓] Teachers trained



    They need to go fixup mental health help for young people that is easily accessible


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  • Registered Users Posts: 48,247 ✭✭✭✭km79


    Patww79 wrote: »
    In this country something like this will be for the sole purpose of having someone to hold accountable when it happens - "you were trained, it's your fault".

    Parents should be getting this 'training' and it should be their responsibility first and foremost.
    Absolutely this
    Was warned off getting Trained as a first aider for this reason
    Sad but the reality of the world we now live in


  • Registered Users Posts: 368 ✭✭keoclassic


    Patww79 wrote: »
    In this country something like this will be for the sole purpose of having someone to hold accountable when it happens - "you were trained, it's your fault".

    Parents should be getting this 'training' and it should be their responsibility first and foremost.

    100%. Imagine if a grieving parent tackled you on such an issue.Imagine if they felt that you bore some responsibility for what happened to their child, imagine what that would do to that teacher. It is 100% not a teachers responsibility to council a child.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭irishgrover


    km79 wrote:
    Absolutely this Was warned off getting Trained as a first aider for this reason Sad but the reality of the world we now live in


    Genuine question, would you train on CPR provision, using a defib? Would you object to a defib being put in a school, or being asked to train on how to use one?


  • Registered Users Posts: 48,247 ✭✭✭✭km79


    Genuine question, would you train on CPR provision, using a defib? Would you object to a defib being put in a school, or being asked to train on how to use one?

    There is a defibrillator


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭happywithlife


    km79 wrote: »
    Absolutely this
    Was warned off getting Trained as a first aider for this reason
    Sad but the reality of the world we now live in

    I've done 2 first aid courses. Last one was specific paeds and the guy doing it was adamant in his answer to this question that we do not have the same "good Samaritan " laws as say the U.S. and we could not be prosecuted and he was very firm in saying you do a) what you're comfortable with and b) never more than you're trained to do.


  • Registered Users Posts: 48,247 ✭✭✭✭km79


    I've done 2 first aid courses. Last one was specific paeds and the guy doing it was adamant in his answer to this question that we do not have the same "good Samaritan " laws as say the U.S. and we could not be prosecuted and he was very firm in saying you do a) what you're comfortable with and b) never more than you're trained to do.

    I too have first aid training done outside of school
    But I wouldn’t be comfortable being a designated First Aider in a school as I have seen done
    Probably should have made that a bit clearer

    Prob gone OT now anyway


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,496 ✭✭✭irishgrover


    km79 wrote:
    There is a defibrillator


    And would you be happy to get training on how to use it? Ask is a genuine question, I'm not having a go at you one way or the other regardless of your view, just trying to get an understanding....


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,674 ✭✭✭Mardy Bum


    This is neoliberalism at it's finest. Fine Gael at their most vile. Close actual mental health facilities and then "train" teachers to do the job which people study years to do solely.

    It could fill up some time on the PME!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,857 ✭✭✭TheQuietFella


    My heart genuinely goes out to people in the teaching profession!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,792 ✭✭✭Postgrad10


    Teaching is constantly changing. No longer about the teacher teaching their subject.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,955 ✭✭✭amacca


    Postgrad10 wrote: »
    Teaching is constantly changing. No longer about the teacher teaching their subject.

    I wonder if that is necessarily a good thing.....this mantra of change being good..and I think people having to move with the times unquestioningly is leading to worsening quality of life for a significant portion of the population

    Some of the "changes" are questionable in their intent and their effects imo


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,400 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    Teachers see students for one class a day. How in Gods name are they supposed to make an assumption based on a students mental health and mood, while attempting to teach a class of possibly 30 students? I think the onus is being passed incorectly here and the money and training needs to go to the already oversubscribed and underfunded mental health resources in place. Build more units, employ more mental health trained counsellors and staff. Forget about placing the responsibility with the teacher. What a country honestly the mind boggles at how and why these decisions are ever brought to the forefront. Its a shambles.


  • Registered Users Posts: 343 ✭✭emilymemily


    I personally think this is a really good step. Too many kids are committing suicide as a result of bullying and other issues associated with school. Theres allot of feckless parents out there, even the ones who look great from the outside can be very different behind closed doors. You never know whats going on in a childs life and that can drastically effect their education. Sometimes kids have no where else to turn. We shouldn't be expected to be counselors as thats not helpful to ourselves or the students but spotting the signs of depression and suicide can only be a good thing imo.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,118 ✭✭✭TomOnBoard


    If this should be done, then start it in the teacher training before teachers qualify. Build on that for those teachers through continuous education later. Don't do it as a panic reaction to an apparent epidemic that is believed to be happening and just expect that teachers will act as first lines of defense, and blame them if something goes wrong. This whole area is inextricably linked with bullying and other stressors such as social media manipulation, increased adolescent anxieties and many other factors that are assaulting young peoples' lives. If the powers that be are serious then they should make child/adolescent psychology services available to the population, and not try and use teachers to plug the gaps that clearly exist in such service availability across the country.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,685 ✭✭✭✭wonski


    It's a training, at no point it suggests you will do any sort of counselling or anything close to it.

    You will be taught how to deal with certain situations and most importantly what not to do and what you can do.

    If you received first aid training you do not become a doctor ;)

    All of those training sessions do not make you a specialist in the area and you won't be expected to do anything beyond your capabilities.


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,979 ✭✭✭✭listermint


    wonski wrote: »
    It's a training, at no point it suggests you will do any sort of counselling or anything close to it.

    You will be taught how to deal with certain situations and most importantly what not to do and what you can do.

    If you received first aid training you do not become a doctor ;)

    All of those training sessions do not make you a specialist in the area and you won't be expected to do anything beyond your capabilities.

    Exactly!

    common sense


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,979 ✭✭✭✭listermint


    keoclassic wrote: »
    Most secondary teachers became teachers to teach a subject that they are passionate about, and while it is very important to have an ear and eye on the mood of individuals, it is nigh on impossible to determine how a child is feeling. All any teacher can do is to try and pick up on any signs that a pupil may exhibit that may be out of character for them, bearing in mind of course that you may only see that student for 3-4periods a week.If teachers wanted to be councillors then I'm sure that they would have pursued it as a career. Sure they have a responsibility to be aware but anything more than that in reality is untangible. The dept are constantly moving the goalposts in the last few years.......the results of this....good or bad.....are yet to be seen.

    Which would be the point of the training.

    No one is expecting you to be a councillor.

    Christ lads its not mutual exclusive i said that in the post. You dont solve problems by doing 1 thing, its collective small changes that make a large change.

    This really isnt that hard to grasp.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,246 ✭✭✭judeboy101


    wonski wrote: »
    It's a training, at no point it suggests you will do any sort of counselling or anything close to it.

    You will be taught how to deal with certain situations and most importantly what not to do and what you can do.

    If you received first aid training you do not become a doctor ;)

    All of those training sessions do not make you a specialist in the area and you won't be expected to do anything beyond your capabilities.

    5 syllables. Li-A-Bil-a-ty


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,962 ✭✭✭r93kaey5p2izun


    Is there evidence that lots of suicidal school children are going under the radar? I have to say that's the complete opposite of my experience. I have found that they are being identified left right and centre but there's nowhere to send them once they are identified. Unfortunately I have had many experiences of suicide in my life including a few in school and in every case involving teens they had been trying to get help for years but very little was available. Sure, I think the course is good for anyone who may find themselves dealing with a suicidal person but I think it will have zero impact on reducing suicides in teens and given the lack of funding it's either a foolish move or a cynical PR exercise.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,400 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    Is there evidence that lots of suicidal school children are going under the radar? I have to say that's the complete opposite of my experience. I have found that they are being identified left right and centre but there's nowhere to send them once they are identified. Unfortunately I have had many experiences of suicide in my life including a few in school and in every case involving teens they had been trying to get help for years but very little was available. Sure, I think the course is good for anyone who may find themselves dealing with a suicidal person but I think it will have zero impact on reducing suicides in teens and given the lack of funding it's either a foolish move or a cynical PR exercise.


    100% correct


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